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No, never.

If he has a child without being married before, why doesnt he marry the mother of the child?

considering she's a MARRIED woman with a kid, i dont see why she would need to post her pics on her profile.

Besides she's just looking for NL people to see while she's on vacation, not a date.

I think he was implying that his dad felt Yoruba women were "bad" for him cos they are allowed to inherit property.

Creepy

Allcorrect:
, issue of yoruba ladies having inheritance,

Explain this one to me o, Osisi.

I never knew women having inheritance is seen as a bad thing in the eyes of other tribes

The mildly controlling ones have been tutored by someone

Send me those ones for trial and we shall see

Osisi you don mad. 

I refuse to be part of a family that hates me because I get inheritance from my family. Why wouldnt I when I'm not a bastard?

I really don't have a problem with 'em as I know quite a number of Igbo guys whom I'm actually quite attracted to HOWEVER I've noticed that some have this controlling thing about them, very sexist in their thinking which I for one can NOT stand. Of course there's uber controlling Yoruba guy here and there who'll probably expect you to call their 3 yr old sister with the title "auntie" like some demented idiot but they are mostly the ones with Muslim ties and since I don't intend on marrying a Muslim ever, I'm sure I'll be fine

Seriously if the some of the males on Nairaland are any indiction of how they reason while they are in relationships, I'll definitely pass on the trial. No offence to the ones that are sane though  

Allcorrect:
Had a yoruba i dated for like 2yrs and had plans to marry her but lo and behold my folks said a big NO. even afetr all my plea and threats, my dad said he will not go with me and i should go hire a father, so amy reasons were given, culture, divorce rate, cooking, issue of yoruba ladies having inheritance,

Rofl I didnt know you people were this jealous of us sha. Why the hell wouldnt we have inheritance when we are indeed daughters of our fathers or are women not children too? We thank God sha that we don't bathe in ignorance nor are we caged like christmas fowl.

Siena dear, can you speak your tongue?

perhaps Seun and ADICK can share the prize

faketan:
I will wear sucks and plastic sandals, N20, 000 red lace pants, N25,000 yellow suit with N10000 green shirt to go with it. I will cap it with Face cap and designer sun shades for christmas party at 8 pm.

Here's hoping you're joking.

Maybe the guys have better things to worry about some girl putting a ring on her own tongue.

where's your cultural belief when it comes to Nigerian guys now getting tattoos?

tundewoods:

I want to believe that you are not actually judging these late musicians by insisting that they are in Hell,I guess you wouldn't find it funny if someone also made a similar statement about late relative of your as insisting that we have to get to hell to see them.

I leave you to conclude if they are also in hell.

lmao

marley - adultry
lennon - pagan
hendrix - he was very into the occult

In the christian sense of things, one could say that they are in hell

Even then who ever said that was a bad thing?

degubi:
Whether a woman tells man her past or not is not the issue, the issue is if the man would be mature enough to handle it appropriately or would use it to get back at her when she falls short of his expectation. Some women keep secrets of their past out of a concern that the man may not be able to handle such revelations and some men fail to realise that we all make mistakes,so there is always need to over look the past. But a woman should not be forced to reveal her past unless she wants to. And a woman should ensure that her man is aware of any scandal of the past,so that if he hears it from a third party he would know how to handle it.

The Arabs havent affected you yet. We thank God

I take it lobotomy is on the raise in Nigeria

tundewoods:
@ D-reloaded
Shame on you,so John Lennon is still very much alive in your own world.If i may ask are you still living in the year 1980.

I actually saw the first name as John LEGEND and not Lennon. My mistake. So yea guess you're gonna have to go to hell to see them

The last two are dead so I assume you'd have to wait and see them in hell.

define "allow"

does this imply that she is to ask for your permission?

If by "all people", he needs to get over it

If by his family then THAT one I understand and like I said discussing this with her rationally is enough so she'll know how he feels in regards to his family so she wont wear it around them.

If he's only paranoid cos of what "friends" or "strangers" think, then he has control issues and should find someone else. Like I said it's obvious that she's had this for a while now, she's not bothered by what others think and like YOU said she's responsible so why is still bothered. As long as HE knows she's not a a "freak" nor does she act like one, his fears are irrational.

No one is dumber than you, my friend. Not even someone who's been lobotomized.

Before you decided to change the title, olojoro, the title impled that it was your girl, so quit trying to be a smartass.

anyway now that you've changed the story around, if your "friend" just has a problem with his parents seeing it, if he talks to her like a fellow human being and not like a controlling brute, im sure she'll make the compromise of taking it out anytime his family is around. Btw your "friend" must have been blind cos the fact that she can take it out and put it in anytime means she's had this for a long time now.

all these akata people just dey run their mouths sha\

Madam Akata, BigSis, if an elderly person needs to sit and some brat is just looking there, you better believe he will be pushed so the elderly person can sit down. Uusally you dont have to tell them as they know what to do but some children need it knocked into their heads.

Get over it

What has she done that is bad? Too be honest she is not really different than most Nigerian mothers

Bree is the best. Shame her children suck although Andrew is better now.
Lynette is cool too sometimes

Susan is the worst

Rofl.

kojeiwa:
@D-Reloaded

I think you are an under age girl, because you are so so immature.

Again you are the one embarrassing yourself in this thread.

Whose girl is she now, yours or "your friend"?

yemivictor:
@ D-reloaded,

Will you please stop addressing Nigerian guys in derogatory terms, _{trying really hard to contain my anger!} WTF is wrong with you?

If u've had issues with any naija guy in the past, you should be intelligent and broad-minded enough to know that AL[b]L NAIJA GUYS ARE NOT THE SAME![/b]

It beats me, but you can't just come on nairaland and drag naija guys in the mud with impunity!

And just so you know, just as you have engraved in your heart, sexist male pigs and arab oriented men (as you call it), we also have UNREPENTANT FEMINIST WHORES!!! Get it?

o je bi to fi "contain anger", o de wa lu mi ni gba naa? like your arab breathen?

Dude I said "Alot" not "All", if it were "All" I wouldnt be in a relationship with one.

Learn the difference between most and all, then get back to me

As for your last comment, that has nothing to do with me.

Thanks and Ciao!

voghor12:
the past is the key to the future. it will help the man to know those things that are capable of bringing out the best in the woman. .

so only the man should know the woman's past right?