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romeo:
i only respond to such insults with my own

as do I. C'est fini.

spoilt:
thunder thighs!

not really.

kingzy:
lipless bitch

Rofl. Harsh.

I like her jacket.

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romeo:
it's called lack of home training!!

Guess that explains your responses to almond joy eh?

Pele

I wouldnt necessarily call it controlling. The girl is obviously worried. If this is the guy she sees herself marrying, she has the right to wonder whether such things will continue if/when they tie the knot. From what she's written, it's people like that, that tend to resent the wife and say she's the one that stole their honeypot from them and start to act up towards her. Girl needs to be careful is all.
Wouldnt you tell your female siblings or friends or whatever to do the same. People always say "shine your eyes" before jumping into marriage, and well I guess that is what she is doing.

I do stand by the fact that she shouldnt question it anymore and just watch. She should also not make plans for marriage with this dude anytime soon either until she is sure of what she is getting into.

Jairzinho:
,I'm just very sensitive to insults,especially when uncalledfor.

Keep in mind, you insulted me first. My other comments had nothing to do with you esp since i was "insulting" the posts and not the person.

I am personally "senstive" to the hypocrisy where people tend to be bothered when females are insulting and don't care when their fellow males say worse things to each other or other women. Unless I see you scolding such people as well, I can't and wont take you seriously.

Truce though. . .for now  Have a nice Saturday.

yea and i'd rather it stay that way than her adding her own share and he does the same with it.

I just hope the OP is working herself and not depending on MR Alanu Samaria (Good Samartian)

You are obviously drunk. on cheap sepe.

I was apparently responding to your

I'm sorry but you don't seem to be well brought up,

So you brought up family first. Now please take your leave and get out of my face. There's nothing more to discuss with you. Thanks.

Btw, it's good to know that you are so jobless that you decided to go through my old posts and quote me. Get a hobby

and if anything you obviously didnt read what Seina wrote about your so called story.

Where did I mention your 'parents" first? By all means where is the quote? Im not into slander so I suggest you stop lying. Oloshi.

and you are obviously new to NL, that's how I roll. slowpoke, idiot, slowpoke, yada yada are words I use for those who the shoe fit and there are ALOT of them on NL so again you have a problem with how I respond, IGNORE MY POSTS

So simple. I dont know you. You dont know me. Your "let me be an African brute and try to control how women respond" thing isnt gonna work on me. I dont see you on the Sports or Poltical threads where people call eachother very VERY horrible things. But I assume, such threads, usually male-orientated, then it's fine abi?

Kuro waju mi jare.

Siena:
That's my girl!

Thanks jare.

I don't have time for that slowpoke. He's talking about people being "insulting and with no respect" yet he's bringing up people's parents in an internet argument. Typical slowpoke.

and Rofl this is the 5th person in the last 2 months who has claimed their posts have just been "stories on how to find out how people would react blah blah blah"

Tell that stories to the birds. No one cares.

Not sure why you even bothered to put yourself in this kind of predictament

Sisters still hounding their brothers despite the fact that they get salaries themselves. Pathetic

If you love yourself, you had better leave. Families can become unbearable especially in Nigeria.

If leaving isnt an option YET, I say stop talking to him about it, gauge the sisters and see how they treat you. If they are demanding and also MEAN towards you, run.

to the Op, are you working?

as for the advice of joint account, please ignore it. Like you need him taking out of the joint account to provide for HIS family. Nonense.

maybe he was banned or you havent been getting his movies?

Dude, if you have a problem with my comments, don't reply. Have you noticed that the lines you placed in bold were insults to the comments and NOT to the people who wrote them. since when is "what the hell" insulting another person?

Btw arent you the same bastard that cheated on his wife with the secretary than had the audacity to ask if "adultery can help your marriage", who the HELL are you to try to give ME a lecture on respect? You must be demented. Obviously iwo ni ko gbeko from either of your parents cos if you did you wouldnt be disrespectul towards your wife

Go fix that sham you call a marriage before you come and face me next time. Thanks.

Teriba:
@ mamaput,

Adetina herself has disclosed that her boyfriend did introduce her to his relatives in the States; why then should we be looking for an interpreter at this stage, mamaput ? And from what we have been reading here, how is this guy suppose to introduce Adetina to the old woman in Nigeria ? Something along the line of ``mum I want you to say hello to my girl-friend, who is not likely to marry me because of my status``, right ? Because I know that even if the two of them are Nigerians residing in Nigeria, the guy is not likely to introduce Adetina to his mum until he`s sure that a relationship that is likely to culminate in marriage exists between them.

Dude, quit it with the idiotic excuses. Dont know what tribe you are from but most Yoruba mothers usually want to speak to the person their children ESPECIALLY their sons are dating. What the hell concerns the mother on whether the girl is accepting status or not. No one is even talking marriage yet. If he wasnt full of crap he'd be like Mama this is the girl im seeing, say Hi, and the mother will say her greetings and most often a prayer.

Seina, thank you jare

are you drunk? Why cant you take YOUR gf out to see a movie and for dinner?

Guys are so bloody idiotic. If your gf said that shit to you, I know you'd be here saying how mcuh of a LovePeddler your gf is and the NL imbeciles would agree.

The was from the NEA Awards in July which I attended Btw 

To think Oluchi gave birth a couple of months before the show and looks better than that Ethopian posing as a Nigerian

Oluchi looks way better than that sag of bones Agbeni. Oluchi was great at the show and treated everyone kindly.

Lmao I bet chi-ine is your bf's real wife

btayo1:
@ Sienna & D-reloaded
You guys need to be careful about the negative perception we create for brothers; we hear about how nigerians are disliked in SA; even Ghana. Imagine meeting adetina @ the US homeland security desk at an airport in the state would you expect her to be welcoming; she is more likely to scrutinize whatever nigerian document you hand to her with suspicion.
Nuff said

I've been an american citizen for over 15 years, i also have a Nigerian passport. No one can do shit.
scrutinize ko, focus ni. If anyone would be scrutinize it'd be her and her yahooze bf.

Think I give a damn about the negative perception YOU people give yourselves?? How many people do you know that have been duped by Nigerian men? I know plenty. As for Ghana and SA, Rofl, I wish I could make myself give a shit alas I cant.

so because one ho did you wrong, that means all women like assholes?

Grow up then come back later.

amala!

how many siblings does your bf have, Zandra?

FactorChic:
I KNOW SOME NIGERIANS WILL OPEN THEIR DIRTY MOUTHS, ESPECIALLY IF You'RE YORUBA, FORGET THAT!

What does this mean?

lol osisi, Republicans are responsible for high taxes.

Now under this lovely Republican regime you have gas at almost $5/ a gallon

You'd think with this unnecessary war they'd at least get something worthwhile out of iot like 99cent gas or something

osisi you want to sit there and tell me that you voted for Bush and Dole?

[quote author=real_demi link=topic=96999.msg1731531#msg1731531 date=1196350895]@ Poster
I understand to a large extent what u are going through. I grew up in a broken home but one thing I thank God for is that my mother was seperated from my father when he began his randy runs. Though my father was never physically abusive, sha. His girlfriend turned wify also squandered all our properties (which was enormous, my father's family is wealthy )

She took to raising us almost single-handedly. BUt the story takes a turn, after 11 years of seperation, my father comes home like the prodigal son. And my ma takes him back and they start building life afresh. I hate my father and would sue him for abandonment but Jesus touched me and i forgave him 4 all he did to us. We are still mending after 16 years. Broken homes tell alot on the children but abuse is more than i can tell.

My mum became a role-model 4 me and it gave me inspiration that I don't have to take s*** from any man just because I'm a woman.[/quote]Thanks for your story. All these delusional morons whining "OMG Divorce kills the family and hurts the children!", yes it will initally hurt the kids but having children watch their mother or even father treated like crap 24/7 is MUCH WORSE.

real_demi, I believe if your mother didnt l;eave your father would have never woken up from his past behavior. Apparentyly he realized that your mom was gonna take his crap anymore and eventually he smartened up.

As long as the reason is reasonable I have no problem with divorce.

I like how people are crying about the western world and blaming it for their so called downfall in marriage. These are the same tarts whining about the president not wearing suits at international functions. You people are pitiful.