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Fraudster. Don't worry, EFCC will soon catch you. I will make sure the German woman you and your group defrauded comes to Nigeria to file her case. Everyone should avoid this fraudster.

Hathor5:
If he is a doctor then I am Buhari.

Imp. I don't expect harlots to understand me.

Rozz:
and if they are harlots? you kill them abi.Go back and read what you wrote,stop behaving anyhow online.Change your mentality

Once more, my patients are not harlots, so their senses are usually in order.

Rozz:
If truly you are a doctor and reason this way, I wonder how you will handle your patient.Maybe you are a herberlist with the doctor tittle.

No, my patients are not harlots. So, I don't expect harlots to understand me.

A woman who says she cannot respect her husband if or because she earns more money than him:

1. Why should your husband not block every means of your growth?

2. Why would you call him an oppressor when he blocks every means of your growth?

I don't want to believe that most of you don't have sense.

Ariza:
Sorry oooo black panther of Nl male users . You go write application to S.eun to become Nairaland Sars last last.

Imp.

Ariza:
Uncle this thread is about MEN who hoard their Exes. If you are so bothered about Women who do same, create your own thread!


Ahhhh why is that so difficult to get?

Imp.

pocohantas:
This topic is about men. Doctor that cannot pay attention to detail. Na your type dey forget scissors inside person belle.

Let it then not turn to men condescending thread.

pocohantas:
Lol. They will try to twist it and tell you it is all to get in between your legs. Lies! There are men who still LOVE their EXes. Not everyone broke-up badly, not everyone broke-up over cheating. So, some people still appreciate and love their EXes.


Thanks for doing that for the sisterhood.

And there are no women who still love their exes? I wonder what both of you are feeling like?

Ariza:
Because that guy can be offended by his own shadow. It's kind of a mental thing, I won't say problem .

Imp.

Mariangeles:
It's not condescending...she was just sharing from her own experience.
But why are you offended though?

Read that her post again with an open mind.

Mariangeles:
No attacking please!
She stated her opinion, you're free to do yours without being disrespectful.
Let us learn to be civilized please!

So, you endorsed her men condescending post?

Hathor5:
From personal experience I can tell you that they keep the numbers. Some will even ring you up years later. My friends keep saying the same thing. One of my friends told me: "Nigerian men will keep coming back again and again as long as you let them." I had to change my number in the past so that someone would let me be. No matter how long or short the relationship or only a date or a few dates, they will contact you again sooner or later. Sometimes they can't get over you, sometimes they have no better option, sometimes to stroke their ego and see if they can still have you.

For your mind it is Nigerian girls who always walkout in a relationship first thereby leaving the Nigerian men confused and making them want to have the relationship to continue. I wonder what you are feeling like. I won't be surprised if it is established that you have never been the one to walkout of a relationship first and if you are the type who cannot afford money to buy panties for yourself but comes to the internet to brag and feel fly. Only low-life men will date an obvious low-life thing like you.

When someone who is nursing emotional wounds writes it is always easy to notice.

Ybaby:
Women are receivers - we are the gatekeepers and must be sellfish - our needs must be met first then we can meet others needs.

Women are selfish! I am selfish! - I put myself first. Was your mum selfish too?

My mother is obviously not a selfish woman because I haven't seen her acts like a selfish person or makes claim that men are selfish. She is a very peaceful woman who believes in live and let live. Only her type has a right to claim and expect equality with men because her fulfilment isn't dependent on her ability to have her way through manipulation, unlike selfish women who always cry murder once they fail to have their way through manipulation. Shame on every woman who finds fulfilment in manipulation or abuse men when resisted.

If a woman must be a receiver, she shouldn't be found wanting in at least good behaviour.

Ybaby:
Why does the man want a badly behaved rich wife?

Why does a man cheat on his wife and expect her to be well behaved?

Women have moved past all this.... if he is not paying all the Bills ofcourse she will behave badly to him, she will gossip about him to everybody, even some women will tear his shirt in public when school fees is due and kids have been sent home during exam, she will not cook and maltreated him then cheat on him join.

Pay the Bill's and donot cheat on your wife.

Next!

At least you're frank enough to admit that the female gender is the selfish gender between the two genders, that is all I needed to hear. So your fellow women who are in the habit of accusing men of selfishness should be ashamed of themselves.

Ybaby:
It is the schools and the meat seller that are inconsiderate! The always insist on school fees and money for meat sha ni.

Then you see those children that are always saying mummy I want this, I want that (very inconsiderate)

Woman too wants to look good, wear nice clothes, lashes, nails skin, shoes, bags, gym membership, spa treatment, Brazilian hair etc (very inconsiderate)

My advise is to find women who use thread to ko iru or shuku (those hairstyles are beautiful, economical and hopeful within your budget- if not cut the hair with razor blade NGN50)

What you should not do is hope to coerce the Brazilian hair loving girl who likes to go to the spa twice a month for body scrub and massage to accept to have your children, feed you, shelter you and respect you. It will not happen.... why? Becaise other men also want her and they have means to provide for her, shelter her and thier kids.

My advise is to woske Sikira alagbo and take it from there.

Best of luck.

What meaningful compromise can a badly behaved woman who cannot tolerate a man who does not have money more than her or a man who can cheat on her make for a man who is better than her in all theses aspects?

cooooooks:
It's like this OP is tired of lockdown.

He created a thread to argue even though there's nothing to argue.

You are slow if you truly do not see something important to argue on this thread.

Ariza:
This one Sha want to make his thread continue by force.


Ti opolo eniyan ba ti n yoro , ko kin soro daamo. Alafia fun eh ooo. Wa wa alright.

Dumbo.

Ariza:
Every right thinking being knows that for people to work together not even in marriage, you have to overlook and let go of some things. In any human relationship, there must be compromise because we are all dynamic in nature. For two neighbours to live happily, they must compromise/tolerate, for business partners to work together, they must overlook some things, for friends to be together,they must blend. How much more someone you will probably spend your life with. The level of compromise is different in these relations but it is very important.
Every sensible knows that the longevity of whatever relationship you want to form determines how much or what you compromise. That's very logical.

Some of you have allowed this Men over Women issues you lots drag here turn you to very senseless lots. Nonsense! Please no one should ever mention me in such senseless debate ever again o.

I only pity people like Omar09 and izzou who do not see through you double-faced character. A slow woman who is trying hard to appear smart.

According to a slow woman like you and your type, women of this generation do not need to make good behavior their priority and a man like @GuyInTheMirror who said he has a good character should be abused since he is not ready to make COMPROMISE to choose a badly behaved woman as a wife, because you all believe that for people to work together they must COMPROMISE for each other. Yes, for people to work together they must compromise for each other all things being equal, the thread has never been against compromise.

My question which a slow you and your fellows has failed to answer remains: what meaningful COMPROMISE can a badly behaved woman who cannot tolerate a man who does not have money more than her or a man who can cheat on her make for him? And why should a man who is better than her in all theses aspects compromise for her and consider her for marriage?

Creamychic:
Lol...this is really funny because I don't know why I was tagged here, but let's see.

TheGuyInTheMirror claims to be perfect! What do you think about that? Is there any perfect being on this earth?

Also I think izzou's reply was perfect.

"TheGuyInTheMirror claims to be perfect!" You know that is a lie.

Ariza:
I was right after all, you are only here to cause trouble , to call out monikers and have people at loggerheads. You are the real definition of a small minded Bumpkin. Your profile says it all. Let's see

So because izzou decided to be sensible and be a complete opposite of the nuisance you are here, in your warped mind he is manipulated and broke. I wonder how you and your cohorts think. Very watery brain you've got there. Your thread makes no sense, you couldn't even at least present a debatable submission. But you are very good at throwing trantrums, so shameful for a self acclaimed 'happily" Married Man.

Don't bother to respond to this, I won't read let alone respond. Pathetic thing!

Cry me a river. Manipulation can only work on simp men like your izzou and his type, just like your type, is well known for treachery. I fear who doesn't fear people like you and your izzou who can call black white just to appear good before others.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Can you show me where I said a lady shouldn't compromise when it involves man? Please show me

One reason why I avoid romance sections is because you all think everything is a gender war. The man is heading to 40 and he is worried, yet he shouldn't compromise because if it was women, they wouldn't compromise too abi?

The same compromise I suggested is what you still suggested oh, but I still didn't have to say it abi?

I'm happy you fear men like me. Please don't mention me when you create threads.
You definitely know those who enjoy such threads with you. I am not part of them. Just try as much as you can to mention me, abeg

Abeg

I use God name take beg you[/color]

My original post is still there, refer to it and answer me and stop bleating.

saucecode:
Lol, everybody don dey preach compromise when it involves a guy. If only women can compromise on financial capacity of a man before dating or marrying him, we for take all this compromise sermons serious

Thank you.

izzou:
[color=royalblue] Sincerely, I'm trying to avoid quoting you. Maybe I'll try after this one

The MirrorGuy said he doesn't want to marry a lady above 30. This means that even if this lady is good, great, submissive, independent, and has all you would think of in a woman, Oga does not want

The MirrorGuy said he doesn't want to marry a lady over there, because of cultural differences, and how the law favours ladies should incase egungun enters the express. There are couples married for decades in North America. Not one, not two, not 1 million. Should we say these ones did not know about such laws? How come theirs is working, and Mazi mirror believes his will crash?

Then MirrorGuy said he doesn't trust those he meets on dating apps because they might be all lovey dovey once they know he is in the abroad. He has not even given instances of such. He can't even prove that concerning his own case. But he concluded because of what he read on his thread

Maybe I don't know the meaning of manipulation, but I don't see where anyone has tried to manipulate for 34 years.

All I see is a man that wants and wants and wants. It is very okay to want, but life is never like that. I wanted today to be Sunny, but it's raining heavily

Doctor, let's leave this matter. Mr Mirror is getting closer to 33. Before we go sleep wake up, him don reach 36. Time won't wait for him, nor me.

He can still decide to remain confused, or get up and see good ladies around that are very different from him.

I'm done. Won't quote you again, I promise

Have a nice life[/color]

Stop the hypocrisy. Since you want me to believe that age does not matter to you, I hope you can marry a 100 years old woman who is good, great, bla bla bla. By the way, you and your crew said that good behavior is not important in this generation.

The fact that the MirrorGuy wants a woman below 30 does not mean that he wants a saint and it does not also mean that he cannot make a compromise.

Once more, for a selfish person, it is compromise when he or she is at a disadvantage and you tolerate him, but when the reserve is the case that same selfish person will see your wish for them to compromise as an act of manipulation from you. I fear who doesn't fear your type of man. You can call white black just to appear good before women. There is nothing wrong being good to women, but don't sell your conscience doing so.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]I did not force him to compromise na

The Mirror guy has spent 32 good years in Nigeria, yet he couldn't find just one girl to marry. I'm not close to that, but I know I can find one or two ladies on my friend list to marry if I want to. But this guy has spent 32 years without compromise, and he no see anybody. We won't be wrong if we bundle him in the evening newspaper category

Oh, lest I forget, he now migrated to North Amelica. ... the land of milk and honey, the land where ladies are not leeches, the land where we men, strongly advise other men to marry from, yet Oga no see any lady to marry

Now he wants to come back to Nigeria and become a regular guy, maybe hawk gala or Ghana buns so he can find a good wife (remember he spent 32 years here as a regular guy oh)

Also note that throughout these years, he didn't compromise.

Well Well Well, I wished him good luck already.

There is no married man on earth (I stand to be corrected), they did not compromise in marriage. The same goes for the ladies.... Everybody get wetin he or she dey tolerate and endure for marriage.

So I'll support you on this. Let him come back home, hawk buns or drive Keke. He will find a lady that truly loves him through this

You're right bro[/color]

You don't have a serious point. The guy didn't say he's looking for a saint, and compromise shouldn't be a one-way thing. Manipulation and compromise are two different things.

For a selfish person, it is compromise when he or she is at a disadvantage and you tolerate him, but when the reserve is the case that same selfish person will see your wish for them to compromise as an act of manipulation from you.

Ariza:
Mtcheeewwwwww

I know you and your type. A manipulated man like @izzou will always be praised by someone like you and your type but cannot tolerate his brokeness and accept his hand in relationship or marriage.

cochtrane:
Good behaviour is relative. You could have a woman of good behaviour who is a feminist. I don't that that features in OP's world. His problem isn't that he wants a woman of good behaviour; I think it is that he has his mind set on an image which does not good to him or to the woman he plans on meeting. More of that has a lot to do with the fact that he was raised in Nigeria and has assumed beliefs and methods that can't make him survived "in the abroad". He would function much better, were he permanently based in Nigeria, but I guess that's out of the question for him now.

"I think" this means you do not even understand him and his need.

.

Righteousness89:
The Truth of Marriage Matters these days is that, People Marry on faulty foundations..

When Cash is the Reason you got married to Him or Her, and that Cash suddenly disappear you see problems..

When the Reason you marry a lady is because of her front or back, when those things relapse you begin to problems.

When you get married because of beauty or handsomeness and suddenly an accident occurs and that beauty suddenly turns ugly, you begin to see problems..


These are faulty foundations that could collapse homes.

My Advice to people is if you are not Divinely led to your Spouse, don't enter!!

Everyman/woman have their Divinely Ordained half, but many Miss it ..

What you said is not related to this thread, even though you made a solid point.

Righteousness89:
I don't agree

Explain in details.

I wonder what meaningful compromise a badly behaved woman who cannot tolerate a man who does not have money more than her or a man who can cheat on her can make for a man, especially a man who is better than her in all theses aspects.

On the male side, it is not a secret that a man will tolerate a woman who does not have money more than him and treats her well and may also tolerate her if she openly cheats on him.

So, will it be out of place to say that generally women are more selfish than men? If no, it will then be stupid and hypocritical for any woman to say that women are more considerate than men.

Those against @GuyInTheMirror wish for a good woman, what do you have to say, since all of you said that a man who insists on having a woman with good behavior is asking for too much.



Open invitation to the compromise crew:


Creamychic
saucecode
pocohantas
GuyInTheMirror
annex1
izzou
Romangalactic
Ariza
cochtrane
Ishilove
cooooooks

Eulalia:
Why the attack? This is uncalled for.

If you must correct, do that politely. Must we always bicker at people for no reasons? Besides, I don't think its a case of not knowing how to use the object pronoun. Prolly a typo or pun. Ishi is not one to make such careless blunder.

Peace.

Shut up and stop defending nonsense. You are trying so hard to appear like well mannered woman, which you are not in reality. It is very easy to see through your charade, so stop your hypocrisy.