₦airaland Forum

Abdul05:
e.g

Zoo
Zombies
Afonja demon
Parasite
Yoruba Muslim
Name them ,so many like that.

True to type. They never learn. Abuse runs in their blood.

DropsMic:
Different countries different cultures.

WhY do you think BANDITRY is now rife in the North?

We must stop the culture of moral decadence. There is no excuse for moral laxity.

DropsMic:
People have mouth, and they must feed

If unemployment and poverty is not eradicated significantly in our society.

More yahoo boys will still be arrested by the EFCC...

Las Las na still them go arrest tire

Stop the nonsense. Poverty is not an excuse. The Somalis and Afghans are poorer than us. Why are they not involved in cyber crimes.

JungleJustice01:
I'll be succinct. I've messed up and I take full responsibility for my actions. All I'm trying to do now is save those close to my heart.

I'm married 2 years with an 8 month baby. I'm a faithful husband at heart but I just lost focus and landed in this deep mess.

My first stinct at adultery was late into my wife's pregnancy when I could not hold body. This situation was further compounded when I relocated due to work and come home every 3 weeks or so. My carefree attitude also contributed to this but I'm not staying them as excuses. I did what I did.

I met this deeper life young girl about a month ago. She was about 23, good looking and has an innocent air around her. Last week thereabout we met up and made out after weeks of chatting. In the process, my contraceptive broke and it happened raw for a minute or two before I replaced it.

Now one week later and I having strong symptoms of HIV exposure. Had I known, I would have gone for Pep. I am 75% sure of infection at this point.

I'm home now and I don't want to touch my wife who is constantly on my neck since I returned. I don't want to infect her or my child....and I can't come to terms with telling her everything right now.

This is someone who is so faithful and she has expressly stated that she will not entertain any hint of infidelity.

I'm so done for, I need advice

You are not serious. How can you say you have symptoms of HIV within 24 hours of sex? You need at least 3 months before you can be tested at all. And symptoms of AIDS can come after 10 years roughly. You are lying, right?

I wonder how two pressure cookers live peacefully together. It’s a ticking time bomb. That’s why gay relationships don’t last in 95% of cases. It’s an aberration, an anomaly.

Xhuntra:
By the time Buhari is done with this country, Our south west brothers go get sense by force. Suffersticated fools

Yes we get sense pass you. That’s why we are voting Tinubu next. Never will IPOB lead Nigeria with their level of hatred and wickedness.

PissfulProtester:
Give an Igbo man an inch, he will take a yard...

All of this is happening because of Buhari's weakness. I think we need Obasanjo for just 1month

Well, our fingers are crossed..

We need a benevolent dictator in Nigeria, not a tyrant like Obasanjo. We need someone like the Khalifa the rulers of Dubai. Dictatorship with brain and vision. That’s what we need. Porn stars like Kanu cannot thrive in such environment.

Izuchukwu Ohaeri is the leader of Miyyeti Allah in IMO State. Fulani Herdsmen again?

JovialJune:
Dan iska, nsidime, fake doctor "puke".

You are in sifiaaa pain
Go and find food jooh and veer off my radar. You nonentity.

JovialJune:
Fake doctor, I'm sure native doctors have sense more than you.

Jobless lazy youth. When you eat perhaps you can read well. Your brain has been used by village people. Lol

JovialJune:
It's like this one forgot all the nonsense comment he has been typing since, so daft....

You are definitely the slowpoke. Read all my comments. Then you will know why you have not moved forward in your academics.

ErnieSmallzz:
by God grace what happened to that girl and every other rape victim out there will happen to your sister and daughter.. Amen!

God will never allow that to happen to me because I obey His commands and safeguard my children against paedophiles. That’s the same standard I am asking about.

JovialJune:
And I will continue to wash my clean mouth on you fake doctor that cannot see beyond your nose,

Take for example, in an advanced country that you hyped, don't they set up drug lords to catch in the act of selling and distributing drugs? In court, will they now say because they were set up just to get physical evidence they shouldn't be prosecuted and jailed? Now use these scenario I painted and compare it to the case on these thread, then think with your head and brain ok,

Baba Ijesha will go to jail for many years and there is nothing you and your potential paedophile goons can do about it.

Who says Baba ijesha should not serve his term in prison? Simple comprehension you can’t grasp. That’s your problem.

ErnieSmallzz:
oh God what are you saying?? So she was supposed to stay?? Will he try that if she was around? Can’t you just use your brain?!! She had to do it, if you want to steal meat from the pot will u do it infront of your mum? Won’t she leave before u do it?? So? Or will baba ijesha touch her in front of her mum and princess? No! Because he definitely knew what he was about to do is very bad!!! Bye... no mention me again abeg... A lot of u guys on this thread are disgusting, including u

Her job is not to set the paedophile up. She has exposed the young girl to even greater danger by doing that. Her job is to report what she suspected to the police. The police can set up CCTV etc to be able to get evidence. That’s how it’s done in sane society.

JovialJune:
And you call yourself a doctor, you still cannot think with sense, your brain did not tell you they needed evidence to catch him in the act before they can believe the girl that said he raped her 7 years ago,

Fake doctor oshi.

If that foster woman is living in an advanced country, and she is unable to answer those questions I posed, that 14 year old will be taken away from her by social service. That’s why we are trained in safeguarding vulnerable people. But because you live in a backward country in terms of social development that is why you are able to wash your dirty mouth on me.

ErnieSmallzz:
I believe she had to set him up with cctv because she needed evidence!! If she wasn’t able to provide a video I am sure somebody like u will say she is lying even though it was true! Or how else will she backup her claim if there is no evidence?? Common think now!

That is problematic because she deliberately left the girl alone with a wolf. She has a case to answer. She must be protective of the girl, not expose her to danger just because she wanted to prove a point.

El Rufai who wants to contest with Tinubu is being rejected everywhere already. Time to retire from politics for him.

The woman is a terrible foster parent and she also has questions to answer: why did she leave a 14 year old girl alone in the house with this paedophile? Why did she install a CCTV, did she know this was on-going, and still left the poor girl alone with him in a deliberate manner to be molested? If she knew this was going on, why didn’t she prevent it from happening? Was she setting up the guy so as to destroy him for reasons best known to her? Has she been using the girl for something sinister that we don’t know? She has a case to answer as an irresponsible foster mother.

As for the man there is enough evidence for him to face the music and cool off his heels in correctional centre for years to come.

APC will require a master tactician to win the next election. I expect that tactician to tread softly in between the two options by staying in the middle course. Because either way is a minefield. APC cannot survive without Tinubu and that’s the only sure bet they have now. Any other person will lose woefully. And for those who predict Nigeria’s doom will not get it. Things can only get so worse before it starts to get better. PDP is not a better option for Nigeria. They also contributed majorly to the mess we find ourselves in.

Have they done brain scan for pituitary tumor?

Sex before marriage is evil. The girls stand to lose more than the men in form of deflated self worth and insecurity. Many of them are deceived through pre-marital sex for ever. They are always the loser. A wise girl will realise that early enough. Don’t date when you are not ready to marry. Any man that’s not willing to wait is not worth waiting for. Move on and find a ready man.

Rosement:
I'm financially independent

Then you should not be dating men when you are not ready for marriage and sex. Otherwise date a homosexual man.

Mikehot:
But why are fulanis never doing well overseas


All the positions occupied in the north and FCT parasatals are by them, they steal enough money to send their numerous children abroad


But when it comes to exploits in academics, politics, science and all fields of endeavors they are never there

Whoever uses blood money or stolen money to send children to school, those children will never prosper. There will never be success in anything propelled by stolen money.

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

What she told you is the usual pattern in western countries. The girls on many occasions would have had multiple sexual partners even as teenagers. I know a girl with 5 children from 5 different fathers. You can’t find your match over there. Just don’t ask about their past if you don’t want to have a heart attack.

Akanimoh113:
900k is no small money oo
They will even increase it for you fa

That's Approximately a N1M

Bro... Do not hesitate
Move!

He is not going to be spending naira in Germany. Cost of living etc is higher than Nigeria. The only thing cheaper than in Nigeria is probably food. That’s why obesity is problem in the west. €2000 is what a cleaner or carer will earn in U.K., but it’s good to start from somewhere. And the tax is far higher than in Nigeria. So that money is the not the take home pay.

ASUU caused this and they know it. Frequent strikes does not make our degrees acceptable anymore. That’s enough warning to ASUU. Another method must be found to get what they want. Very soon even the Nigerian lectures will not be accepted in foreign lands. They shot themselves in the foot.

Amotolongbo:
Your savior is there now and has perfected the health system

Yes he has prevented stealing of money. That’s why the thieves want to bring down the country.

Amotolongbo:
Jonathan has proven that he isn’t such a politician who needs human blood to remain relevant.

Jonathan has been vindicated

He doesn’t need human blood directly. But he does have it on hands for allowing Dieziani to rob us blue and black under his nose. The money stolen could have revived the health system and prevented maternal deaths and child deaths.

faste:
D u think your zoo has the finance to figh?Nigeria minus oil money cannot function.

When the war starts you will know if there is money or not. Many of you are too daft and innocent, never seen war. That’s why you are beating the drum. Nobody comes out alive and remain the same for ever. A word is enough for the wise, not for foolish idiots.

Why did Buhari not allow these people to ignite this tinder of war. We need the war and let’s see who will be alive to go to court. The foolish people want war, give it to them and let’s see who will regret it.

saphiere:
Men and sex. They use sex swear for una? RIP baby girl.

My FUTURE
Your FUTURE
Lalastilala's FUTURE
Everyone's FUTURE

is

FEMALE

If lalasticlal says the FUTURE is FEMALE, who am I to say otherwise?

There is no acceptable excuse for any crime including this one. Any woman that thinks there is a sexless relationship is deluding herself. Waking up to reality will do her a lot of good.

Christianity has no direct and certain answer to your question. The answer is in Islam.