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bigpicture001:
You say this cuz you haven't met hardworking ladies....

Trust me many are richer than you through just very hard work like men

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bigpicture001:
Many women are successful through their own hard work.....

Not necessarily through their spouses....av met many

U mean through their poooossys

Container fall on top one red corolla on top bridge for suru,,heard it affectd the drivers Legs,,if u get driver or brother wey dey drive red coro,,try check on them

Prussian:
You keep praying for God's intervention in matters that he has given you your brain to use.
That's why you keep praying for God's intervention but your religious leaders from the Sultan to the Bishops have their kids abroad. The joke is on you fools.

Bro leave that religious fanatic,him brain is not for thinking

OMOJOHN001:
Bro I'm a graduate, not in that school.

Abi I won't marry again ni bayii.

Good luck bro...just carry for mind say another guy man dey chook prick their and know peace
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JordanMichael:
With all sincerity, momey is the reason am still not married. If any lady can offer me Job that'll fetch me stable income I'll marry her. Age no problem. 08063943708

U Don Get woman ?

OMOJOHN001:
He has been disturbing my babe in school for some weeks now, that he wants them to be dating.

She told me about him, Now he message her on WhatsApp tonight and I am really upset with such act.

Please how do deal or treat his Bleep up,

I was planning of setting him up, or use his words and chats against him.

The problem is that I am not a student of that institution.

what should I do guys,

Ur still doing lover boy wit a Nigerian female student
...ttoto wey boys and lecturers go vandalize sooner or later.betta focus on ur studies

Cerebrocrust:
How Do I Overcome This As A Lady?

I'm a newbie here but, I'll like to drop this issue as it is getting me quite depressed lately.

I'm quite cute (average maybe) and I'm quite bashful as well. Whenever I go for an event, I developed this habit of frowning or squeezing my face to the dislike of the audience. On several occasions, I've seen guys pull over their car while trying to call my attention and I just snub or ignore them.

Even at a wedding party, most of the grooms men would want to approach me but, will back down really scared cause of my serious look.

I really don't know what to do as this is taking a toll on me.

Is there any possible way wherein I can practice to get my smiley face back or perhaps overcome this issue??


Please help.

Continue ooo till u reach 40..na so una d always frown like say na only una buhari brutalized

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

Haaaaaa plenty jew men full all over d place

orohbiro:
Good day guys, I met this girl 2019 July on my way back from work I approach her ask her out and the rest was history. we began dating I fell in love with her though I never demand for sex until October last year wish she refuse telling me she loves me that this is not the right time to do it. this is the same girl I have spend almost 47thousand naira on her head even her pant I haven't seen since we have been dating, so yesterday she came to my place we were talking from there I touch her breast rub her lap i was really excited she was about to let me in but this girl told me it was not the right time, I plead with this girl almost on my kneels this girl still turn me down and worst still the idiot is not a virgin she told me she has had it just once. she left my house am thinking of putting drug in her drink so that I can have my way because my money I have spent on her can't go like that please I need your advise please. am loosing patient

Lock up for her side,no call am ,no text am.
Ghost mode bro

excel001:
You will be surprised is not more than 3 people that are rebranding and hyping him since someone claims to have more than 10 accounts. the truth is that this government has failed and VP Osibanjo failed with it. you initiated program that does that does not have a direct impact on the life of the masses. All this for 2023 election. RUBBISH

God bless u..don't know people like hyping failure ...

[quote author=James4358 post=100344499]No one seems to understand my story. I was practicaly far away from them. I was working in calabar at the time when she was at abuja. But nt for respect for the dead, i would have uploaded her pics. This girl was jst too big for her age. She was 21yrs old this january. I was the one who approached her parents for her services, that's why the blame is upon me. As am typing, my boss is stil abroad & planning to return to nigeria this week. She was never used or forced. [/quot

Use diplomacy and put money for pocket ooo...na u her family know ooo not ur oga

dannyrhymes600:
watin you done see, In area just dress neat and have a steady bike man, everyone will say you are a Yahoo boy

Walai..no be lie,, if u dey like stay indoors,ur own Don finish...

If u like true life movies. ..watch

Judas and the black Messiah...
THE Mauritania

ClassicMan202:
I've read this thread from beginning to this point and all I can say is that the gullibility of Nigerians need to be studied as a course... Haba, even the supposed educated ones.

I have come to understand y it is very easy for pastors to scam them...some humans have goat brain

Printerscanner:
A 23 years old girl went to birthday party overnight, to do what is not for sex? Irresponsible prostitute. Useless girl fuccked by cursed boys. Thunder fire the three of you

ifekon:
Armed Robbers broke into my phone shop at 3rd gate abata Nsugbe Anambra state and made away with all the phones and accessories worth millions of Naira. Oh Lord, all l have suffered for are gone in a twinkle of an eye, where will l start from again? Pls come to my rescue Lord! I am tired of this country.

So sorry brother

Anigreat:







I feel your pains bro, i know how it feels to lose all you laboured for in years in a twinkle of an eye. Nobody can come to your aid or console you except God.



The Same thing happened to me , two weeks ago . This thieves entered my house and cart away with everything including my clothes. It was such a painful experience.. but I am not losing hope as i know that the future is bright.

Cheer up man, it's well.

Damn ,sorry bro,,which state u dey?

Rolandleggett86:
Active fb acct needed asap. Whatsapp. 08126048972

How much u d buy am?

Delpeiro:
I know it might seem too early to start nursing this feeling but each day the signs keep coming.

I dated my wife for like 3 years before we marry. All this time she base in another city with her family while I based in another city but she do visits like twice each year.
While we were dating there is so many things that I saw in her or will I say she made me saw her that am not seeing again.

One, am this guy that love to help. Like am this type that have this dreams of helping the whole world(women and kids) if it is possible. While we are dating she made me see her like like mind , she share her dreams two of running NGOs for women and children, adopt and train orphans e.t.c. but to my greatest surprise now she is very very opposite. Most annoying is her dislike for kids coming close.
We share dreams of having large house with families always around but now she kick against every idea of anybody coming around, her family included.

Two, She made me see her like this ambitious and industrious lady, running couple of businesses then.
I remember having a fight with her because I said she will finish giving birth before talking about business or work when we marry. To make greatest surprise now that we are finally married she don't have this push nor the zeal to do anything, infact she kills every move to started up something for her.
In less than 18months of our marriage I have started two businesses for her she run it down .
Infact the first one never even start, I gave
her money to go buy her machines, she dn't buy them and money I didn't see.
Her excuse was that she is not interested in what she was doing before that she want to go into business.
Late last year I started for her another business myself, order the goods myself. That business did not see 31 Dec .
Is so painful because I planned of starting couple of businesses with her help and care in 2 or 3 years so that I can resign my work and come back home fully (My work take me away for most part of the year) , but it seems I dnt watch before jumping.
Right now am in the middle of the road not knowing what to do.
I don't know if this is sign of laziness/her style , fear of failing or just that she needs time.

Three, Sex life . She is totally a diffrent person now, like it is just too boring to make love to her now unlike before.
I have discussed it with her to know what changed she said nothing . Though she seems happy in and out because I make sure I treat her like a queen even though am just trying to survive
It doesn't look like she is lacking anything or not happy with the marriage
Less than 18 months into the marriage making love to her is just for purpose of procreation.

Last but not the least her money management is scaring.
You give her money to keep next time you ask about the money she can't give account of the money nor point what she did with it.
I don't know what to think , though I trust her very much.
But my confusion now is I came across two transfers she made to this particular guy in just Feb while trying to use her phone.
I check her call log and notice that she is in constant communication with this guy. I check out the number on my whatapp and Facebook.
It happens that this guy, which she saved with one funny name in her phone, is a guy I knw his name becus it always come up . Infact in one of her visits while we are dating one day she spent close to 1hour plus with this guy on phone with me right there, I confronted her she told me that the guy is her ex friend but her good friend and colleague and that he is married with kids.
I don't know if it is a good idea to confront her again with the alert and constant communications with this guy or lay low, play along and monitor things.

Go hire Robert d niro and Joe pesci to pay d guy a visit,trust me d guy no go near ur wife again

Advision:
You came asking for advice, but you seem bent on opposing every advice that goes contrary to your plan of action.

Be careful though, when you exchange blows with another man, you are only sure of what is within your clenched fist, you cannot be sure of what is within his clenched fist.

If there is a path of peace, you have been well advised to follow it.

Don't mind him

essay007:
The question is lost on me. Are you gonna make sense or just be silly?

Check ur Guantanamo dictionary, just maybe u can comprehend

essay007:
It's just pitiful the number of people who are unwilling to pay back the covid19 loan. Corruption everywhere but it's the politicians that you all point fingers to all the time.

I for one hope some kind of punishment is meted on any defaulter. Some don't pay tax sef and they want to complain about govt not doing anything for them, what have you done for the government?
Paying back the loan will allow you build good credit history and keep applying for loans in the future.

Have u come to play Jesus ?or have you come to walk on Water?

[quote author=JOSCO7720 post=100091732]Good evening to all my wonderful people. Pls, i want someone who can help me out with how to go about it. My wife went to Abuja since on the 6th over a government appointment but all of a sudden changed immediately when she got to Abuja. However, She raised an issue over my past mistake to file for divorce which her parents really supported. I hv done my best to bring peace with my families but all my plea proved abbortive even up till now ; as in i'm being depressed now�. I"m dying but i want help in this regard; before she left me, she normally used my phone to log in on facebook but the password was not saved but showing notificatns when i do try to log in which i knew she was communicating with some men but really wanna kn what she is up to via her inbox. Can someone with internet wizardry help me to get access to her facebook account without hacking account? Pls, mind u, im staying in lagos. Thanks[/quote


How much u go paymind u what u will c,hope say u go fit take am.]

Nobody called anybody,na hunger make niggaz turn pastors,na foolishness make Nigerians no got brains once it comes to religion

[quote author=godsplan123 post=100263939]recently lost a 3years old daughter due to lack of job.

I failed my family, no kind of dirty jobs I don't do to meet up but am a failure, my son is not in good condition but I have nothing to do about it I just wish someone could adopt him. as for my wife I am no longer man enough because I can't bring food to the table worst is my daughter died because I couldn't pay her bills. so I begin to wonder what is the purpose of my living? [/quote


Hold on bro.ur not alone, , I don't even know to come out of the shit am in....it's all good..

EmekaBlue:
1day

Slow clowns

Haaaaaa hunger go kill me today ;DFYI

How long withdrawal dey take for bet9ja?

So that if u reach, u go begin open eyes and frustrate d man back to naija homeless

Amormivida:
Yes he does

He should look for a car and start doing uber,,,or get a driving job...

Amormivida:
Good morning everyone,pls overlook my typing errors, I really need help on what to do, there's this guy I really like, he's everything I wished for, he's been there for me in everything apart from monetary matters, I am the one actually helping him with money and accommodation, he has tried looking for work but it's not forthcoming, the thing is my parents says they won't allow us marry because he doesn't have money, that he can't be staying with me and then later we come and say we want to marry, this guy does everything my dad wants, like cooking for my dad sometimes and runs some little errands for him, we have been to church to pray, tried everything possible for him to get work yet nothing is moving, he cries all the time because my parents says it's an already made man they want asin a man that has money and can sort my bills and take care of me, I don't know what else to do, I have begged my dad, spoken to him to find work for him but still my dad hasn't done anything, I just dont know what else to do, I tried finding work too for him but it's not forthcoming.... I have been so sad because he's the only person I really wish to spend the rest of my life with, he's very sincere too... Pls I need your advice on what to do or how to get work for him or any kind of help pls... Thank you

Him get driving license?