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SenseBoy:
I disagree sir there are plenty good hardworking single girls in Lagos. abeg no generalize my oga

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lagdmark:
Good day good people!
Please i need urgent advice from experienced ladies and gentlemen in the house.
My girlfriend only treat me with love and understanding when i upgrade her financially standards, or she scolded me harshly when i don't.
I met her when i visited Lagos 5 years ago and two months later after my departure she broke the news of her pregnancy. To make tory short, I accepted the pregnancy and started sending her 100k monthly upkeep after the child birth.
I also rented a flat for her and the baby with all bills paid just to move her away from her family palaver. After my boy's 3 years birthday i increased her monthly maintenance to #160k because of nursery school.
Frankly, her beauty was appealing, i didn't ask for much, but I wanted her to take good care of the baby.
I was always honest in the relationship, so i didn't promise her marriage.

Our Wahala started after my boy became 5 years, she wanted me to upgrade to 250k monthly upkeep for her and the baby which I refused. For the fact that I paid the house rent, school fees and utility bills separately. She went crazy reported me to my family members that I'm a stingy man that I don't know how difficult cost of living is in Nigeria.
Perhaps i feel i was just brainwashed in our relationship because of her beauty.
Should i upgrade her or ignore it, i want my boy to be well taking care of in Nigeria.

Continue my brother till high bp kill u one day, ,, sha drop her number make I dey look after am Incas of incasity

igen2:
Assurance cover u
No worry will send it as soon as I start dishing today's data

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Interestd

Stephenmoka4:
Things are happening o. This your story just messing with my head

Lol na so we see am bro...


I Neva can understand how men find it comfortable to rape 4,7,8 year olds,rape and sleep with their daughters or sleep with their fellow men

But it happens plenty

Stephenmoka4:
Messed up. The son must be traumatized knowing his sister and Dad have an affair. As for the niece, God help him the parents don't find out.

The man got plenty cash and family members dey fear am....the girls mother knows, cousins know,,the son no traumatize oooo..it only confirmed his fears say him papa no clean, , ..d gist plenty

Stephenmoka4:
What, hard to believe.

It's true bro..It's an open secret

I knew bout d nieces but the son told me last year about his daughter too..

Macron332:
Good morning nairalanders...how was your night??I hope you’re all good..I really need your help..I know I have my own fault but I’m just scared she’s gonna take advantage of me now and I feel like I’ll be badly ruined..,yesterday an issue happened between me and my fiancée..I know I’m at fault too...she caught my conversation with a girl...and I don’t even mean that conversation...she assumed immediately I was cheating on her...and I have to leave the house cuz she was infringed on my privacy by checking my phone...so i just have to come in the next morning and go to the bank cuz I have an issue with my bank....so she texted me that she’s leaving already and she has dropped the key in the backyard..so I was just really mad and ask her to just go....when I get back home she already call my mom and tell her alot of things that I didn’t sleep home last night that I’m just coming in...all the blame was on me....my pastor have to call me and tell me a lot of things about what’s happening...she overheard everything that I should take care of her and beg her cuz she stayed with me in times of good times and bad times...now she have being taking advantage of me since then asking me different kind of money...and I feel if I don’t do it..it will get in another trouble...I know it’s cuz of what she heard...nairalanders please I need your help...�couldn’t even eat last night....I’m sorry for my bad Grammars..

Stop giving her money, just ignore her, , go out more and flex...u will c the beauty of having time for ursrlf

Anoymus4u:
Baba easy naa

...u be slackd poossi ..

I shock d day I heard my uncle was sleeping with his daughter and nieces...

Some men sha

Rgade:
Them dey mad. No one regrets the Endsars protests one bit. Did the protest happen for no reason?
As a matter of fact those goats are already even back to their old ways, just that people now stand up to them more than before.
They are claiming that Endsars demoralized them; it demoralized them from fighting crime but not from their old habits.
The Nigerian police force is a cursed institution.
As if they were fighting crime before the protests.

They can rot in hell if they like

xProfx:
What laws? Majority of Lagos roads are bribe traps. So many missing signs and they can arrest you at will... Please I don't think you reside in Lagos, or maybe you're a Lastma official. How many danfo have they arrested? It's private vehicle owners they like to harass...

I was dropped off at Oshodi, in front of a commercial vehicle that stopped at the same spot, task force chose to leave the commercial bus and took our own vehicle to Ikorodu where I coughed out 20k unplanned money. That's not law please...

.....don't mind them ,let them keep running mouth till they encounter those beasts

Gideons708:
From what I have read. If it is true that they were told to follow a route and immediately they did so they were stopped; she has every right to display whatever madness is necessary to stand by her right.

Na so madam v .....lastma officials na crooks

Springboot:
If only you know how wrong this can be but for the fact you seem anonymous online it's easy to post pictures of people online because they owe as little as 1500, the day a rider decides to take this up, unfortunately it is only the driver that will suffer for it. You can take her number and call her but I think posting the pictures online tagging him or her fraud is wrong, even the police or effc. Are cautioned by lawyers when they do that before they have their day in court. I will advice you guys stick to disturbing the person with calls, posting pictures is a no no. Even loan defaulters, banks don't put their pictures online for obvious reasons except they get a warrant. Be careful guys.

This one na grammar ..na riders dey like disgrace themselves...Fare is one k 5...why not pay d money,until drivers post them pixs then they start telling u cos of ordinary one k 5;u post their pix....

Nickelodeon93:
I run 60k for am yesterday.. I Don comot hand for any extra money.. He dey even vex for loan wey na me go still pay.. My problem now na how to repay am.. The process and procedures

Alright,,,
If time for payment come,solution go dey

Nickelodeon93:
you mean am.. Omo but I just dey on my own when the guy call me.. Even though I receive 300k or 400 I no mind just give am 50k

If na fifty k dey ur mind to give am,then give am...if him no apply for u,money for no com out...

Comeandcollect:
Brethren, I have N5million sitting idle in my bank account, I do not know what to do with it.

Can anyone advise which business I can use it to open for people, I do not need a business myself as I'm ok but I want to empower anyone who can best utilise it.

Any suggestions if not I will use am do giveaway here.

I just need a car to do uber and pay u gradually on HP with interest

Doc is this,doc is that u got d wrong impression

OmoAkin85:
no be new thing.police follow me go atm withdraw my last 10k

When bro?

Sammmyyyy:
Guys, I don't even know where to begin this but i will, somewhere. Truth is, I am tired. I am depressed and something is telling me to end myself.

You ever been in a situation where the whole family spends a lot of money, trains you in school, and expect that you get a good job after and reciprocate their good gestures? That's my position right now. But unfortunately, I have not been a able to.

I am a young man; early twenties, finished school quite early and really smart (that's what people say.) Ever since I finished the University guys, I have been struggling to get a job, but nothing to show. I am really tired of staying at home here. The whole community knows that I have completed my university education and fact is, they are already mocking my family behind our backs. They are not even hiding it anymore. They laugh at me when I pass by too.

What broke the camel's back today was:
I applied for a job with a very big company in Lagos. Myself and family already thrown ourselves into positive expectations. I had sold all my hope into it, thinking something good will come out. I went for the test and was sure I did well. Me and my family even prayed over it. Well, the result came out today and I failed.

Guys, may be God doesn't hear prayers like people claim, or maybe he doesn't just hear mine.

My dad's dead and my mum has been bearing the burden alone.

Tonight, I saw my mum's face clearly again and sincerely, this woman is aging fast. She deserves a better life than she is getting and sadly, I cannot come through for her. I'm loosing it guys. I am going insaneeeee!

Hold. On bro,

..yeah bro those basterds d always use seat belt chop ooooo...no ansa call while driving,,driving in Lagos na scam

TruthSeeker1:
Perhaps you made her believe you had money (so she'll be impressed and like you). If you had told her the truth about your financial situation, she would not disturb you about money or she might have even helped you out (if she truly loves you).
The problem with most men is that they pretentiously present themselves to women to be better, richer, more comfortable and more successful than they really are.

With that,we get into their panties faster

EmekaBlue:
The reason I like this stingy men association thing trending kinda is because some of these ladies you see out there have money more than the guy they are requesting money from,they hide money in their accounts,they save their own money and help u finish yours.

I think it's time for them to bring out those money and spend for themselves and if they like which i doubt spend on the guy too. We all know making this money especially in Nigeria has gone harder for the youths. No matter how you try to impress these women, their eyes are on things trending like bone straight hair, this and that like their own brother or even their father will release such amount to buy something like that but they put stress and strain on their boyfriend meanwhile they offer only their body like the man's body offered too is nothing abi na wood man dey offer?!.

Just like my girlfriend, I always give her but any time i don't respond to her demand because of difficulties around myself she starts giving me attitude, one day she was disturbing me for 20k and refused me to touch her when she visited, she went to pee and an alert came in on her small touchlight phone. To my greatest surprise i saw 434,000naira balance and I've been thinking of who to borrow from to settle a pending bill of 50k.

Nigeria women really are very selfish, self centered and possesses a mentality of only the man have to spend on everything, That's how on valentines day you see them getting the cheapest item for the man but expect something big from the man, a corper will collect the same alawee amount with his corper girlfriend, she will hide her own and join the guy finish his own at mammy market doing camp and still collect maintenance fee from the poor boy.

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The poor boy go soon get brain when time reach

amazing101x:
Trust , for men trust equals love. If any lady can make a man gain his trust , he will love her forever . but you can't fake it. most ladies are naturally not trust worthy. they will even say "don't you trust me". you earn trust. Most guys will go for a trust worthy lady for a virgin he can't trust. We are always watching, you visit a guy, you put your phone on airplane mode, we know. you pick a call and start reducing the volumn of your speaker, we know. you put three password on your phone with finger print on your whatsap , we know.

Haha them Delete their text messages and will want to check our own

jawalis:
Sadly bro. I know of a guy like this OP who tried to impress his babe. Niggga left his room self contained for a 2 bedroom, bought new set of sofas, got generator, bought bigger mattress and exhausted the money he intended to use acquire a space somewhere for a kiosk stuff, just because he wants to start things right with that babe and make her comfortable. Trust me bro; the babe is in another studio compartment now gotten from a married old man. My niggha is left alone in the house stranded. I always told him last year that he needs to be smart. These babes aren’t smiling. They will pretend and make their way out with you if you aren’t careful. Now guy man is heartbroken.

. From frying pan to fire plus gas plant

jawalis:
I tell you bro. I’d love to show you a screenshot just this evening. It’s damn irritating. She said last December and now she told me she can’t visit my home and I knew she doesn’t want room 360 stuffs but the b!tch was asking if I can help recharge her line. I just deleted her contact jejely. Cos I know she’s got a boyfriend. She was just lying to me. I knew within me.

hahahhaa...man got plenty problems to handle

Jojo056:
Bad guy

..I go just put am 4 flash drive,na those holy holy girls go use their hand play am once them c kiss

When Christians no wan get brain,naija pastors help them

jawalis:
Yess boss. I can’t stand the stress of proving some silly love to someone who’ll cheat las las. Those days are gone. No matter how much I like you. She isn’t special or different from the ones I straffed without stress.

Beautiful concept.....but be lik OP just dey start dating , with time him go naturally migrate to urgent 2K style