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IslamRe: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by drmuri(m): 9:45pm On Apr 14, 2017
Billyonaire:
Religion is not the basis of marriage. Supremacy of religion above love is a disaster. If you have no love for your husband any longer, then by all means, pack your bag and move out. If Islam permits a man to marry 4 wives, then wives should be permitted to have 4 husbands.

Religion should not be an instrument of bias and inequality. Times have changed. Religion shouldnt be an instrument of Masculine control.
if men are allowed to have 4 wives, women should also be allowed to have 4 husband. this dumbo is so stupid I almost cried reading this crap.
really who did this to you? women having 4 husband who is the child ascribed to out of the four husbands. Allahul mustaan
IslamRe: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by drmuri(m): 10:18am On Apr 14, 2017
ednut1:
cheesy does islam care about women or their feelingshuh
Islam is a practical religion, we face realities on ground.
for instance the male female ratio in US in like 48% 52% respectively. if every man in US marriesva single wife, 15 million ladies will not be married. and believe you me, no lady genuinely wants to remain unmarried. what practical solution is there in this instance? Polygamy.
has it ever occurred to you that every majority christian nation that forbids polygamy allows prostitution? which is really better for the dignity and emotion of ladies polygamy that Islam institutes or prostitution that non Muslim nations permit?
polygamy is not just to satisfy the sexual urge of Muslim men as some erroneously believe but to solve the problem of excess ladies who are prone to being abused or dabased.
IslamRe: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by drmuri(m): 10:07am On Apr 14, 2017
sarahade:
You are welcome my sister. Please do not let anyone bully you or make you feel less my sister.
Only a woman knows where it hurt in this matter
A man will never tell you the truth because of their intention.
What has allah promised them for marrying another wife nothing but even told them not to do it if they can't be just but who can be just.
If a man will be just then there's no need for jealousy look at their reply they will never include the condition of being just in their arguments because they want to twist the words of the prophet.
They will come online to tag me shameless use words to bully you and i because they know nothing is holding you in the marriage except you.
If you have to return bride price no problem I'm sure you are yoruba and bride price is something you can afford pay him if you can't i will gladly support you.
A man that 1 woman cannot satisfy 100 will never satisfy him.
Allah loves us equally. After the divorce my sister dedicate your life to him and see if he will not reward you and bless you.
Its difficult to leave but you will never regret it as long as you are hardworking. Allah will always comfort you.
If you want to know more ask any mother who has been in a polygamous relationship and decide if that's the way you want to live your life. Salaam
salam sister, but after leaving your husband because he married another wife what becomes of you?
you become a divorcée. 80% of divorcée that I know no fit hold body o. so they usually become concubines to rich men, some end up becoming second or third wife , some unfortunately end of becoming what yorubas term " aja adugbo" public dog who is so loose many strange men have sex with her forbs fee or free.
is it therefore not really better for her to be patient and take it in good faith?
IslamRe: Islamically, Is It Permissible To Divorce My Husband Based On Polygamy? by drmuri(m): 9:59am On Apr 14, 2017
sarahade:
Its only a wicked man that will marry another wife when he knows his wife will never be happy with it and such a man does not deserve you.
As a good muslimah i will leave the man so i will not sin against allah by killing both of them.
My sister if he wants to marry he is free and you are free to leave his sorry ass.
so if you leave your husband because he decided to marry second wife what happens to you?
you become a divorcee, who either remains single or becomes a concubine or 2 or 3 wife( nobody really likes marrying divorcee as first wife) is it then not really better for her to be patient and accept his decision in good faith?
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Sent To Prison For Sleeping With Prophetess And Her Daughter (pics) by drmuri(m): 8:47pm On Apr 12, 2017
thought Igbos said only yoruba ladies are promiscuous.
Christianity EtcRe: Stephanie Otobo Shows Money Apostle Suleman Paid Her Via Statement Of Account by drmuri(m): 5:32pm On Apr 08, 2017
coolesmile:
What was he paying so much money for? huh
for pussy I guess
FamilyRe: My Wife Double Dated Before We Got Married by drmuri(m): 9:20am On Apr 08, 2017
sorry but you brought this upon yourself. 3 billion ladies roam the surface of this earth. if one is giving you attitude move on to the next. how can she exhibit all those nasty behaviour during courtship (period when most ladies are extra nice to trap you into marrying them) and you still went ahead to marry her. your calamity is self afflicted
CelebritiesRe: Kcee & Dino Melaye Meet In Lagos (Photos) by drmuri(m): 11:14am On Apr 02, 2017
jimi4us:
I'm saying you people are cowards as usual
How come Igbos regard Yorubas as cowards because Awolowo a civilian abstained from a war That will serve no purpose. But they hail Ojukwu as a warrior despite the fact That the 4 star general ran away like a chicken during battle. In US Army Ojukwu the coward would have be exucuted by firing squad for running away from battle
PoliticsRe: Man Compares Suspension Of Saraki Dad In 80s By Senate & Ali Ndume's Suspension by drmuri(m): 10:33am On Mar 31, 2017
Buharimustgo:
Bukola Saraki obviously knows the game more than his father,even Buhari the Father's age mate is marveled at the guy's dexterity in the game
That is what people like him think just before they meet their waterloo
PoliticsRe: Meet Late Musa Yar'adua's Daughters, All Married To Former State Governors by drmuri(m): 9:06am On Mar 30, 2017
Michellekabod:
Hijab are for the poor
hmm, how come the rich people of the middle east adorn hijab? it is good to keep kwayet and let ppl assume you get sense than speak and confirm your stupidity
PoliticsRe: Meet Late Musa Yar'adua's Daughters, All Married To Former State Governors by drmuri(m): 9:06am On Mar 30, 2017
Michellekabod:
Hijab are for the poor
hmm, how come the rich people of the middle east adorn hijab? it is good to keep kwayet and let ppl assume you get sense than speak and confirm your stupidity
PoliticsRe: Meet Late Musa Yar'adua's Daughters, All Married To Former State Governors by drmuri(m): 9:03am On Mar 30, 2017
TINALETC3:
grin broda, maka y did u decide 2 gbaa wukedii grin
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could you please stop commenting on what you don't know? your so called Muslims who don't wear big hijabs, who party and shake hands with opposite sex are largely children of elite who are totally ignorant of the basic tenetsbof Islam.
RomanceRe: He 'made Love To Me' And Ran Away - Nigerian Gay Man Burst Into Tears by drmuri(m): 8:52pm On Mar 28, 2017
dyze:
grin
the guy realized nothing(definately not the hairy ass of a man) compares to the sweetness of tight, cosy vagina. if it is not pussy, can't be as sweet as pusy!
CrimeRe: Number Of Un-sentenced Detainees And Overall Prison Population By State And Year by drmuri(m): 9:21am On Mar 28, 2017
fuckboys:
y'all can see south east has the lowest compared to South west, later them go dey raise mouth for crime section angry
90% if criminals in south western jails are Igbos from biafrad republic. they troop to the south west to commit crime the way they troop to Asia to peddle hard drugs
CrimeRe: Man Commits Suicide On Third Mainland Bridge, Jumps inside Lagos Lagoon (Photos) by drmuri(m): 5:13pm On Mar 21, 2017
Freewoman:
If you have witness failed marriage, you will understand easily, you see somebody i know too well dies just like this, in fact the woman still fight the husband even in death, that is to say, she used court injunction to keep the husband body for four years in morgue as we speak, it is still counting , not buried yet
So if ones marriage fails, next thing is to take the cowardly option and commit suicide? Dear, thousands of marriages fail yearly and ppl move on with their lives getting happiness in the bossom of another person. To me nothing justifies suicide
CrimeRe: Man Commits Suicide On Third Mainland Bridge, Jumps inside Lagos Lagoon (Photos) by drmuri(m):
Freewoman:
If you have witness failed marriage, you will understand easily, you see somebody i know too well dies just like this, in fact the woman still fight the husband even in death, that is to say, she used court injunction to keep the husband body for four years in morgue as we speak, it is still counting , not buried yet
So if ones marriage fails, next thing is to take the cowardly option and commit suicide? Dear, thousands of marriages fail yearly and ppl move on with their lives getting happiness in the bossom of another person. To me nothing justifies suicide
CrimeRe: Man Commits Suicide On Third Mainland Bridge, Jumps inside Lagos Lagoon (Photos) by drmuri(m): 6:40am On Mar 20, 2017
cruchenuti:
I can die for a girl i luv, so everyone is not like you.
Sorry bro, but you just announced to the world you are a dimwit. Dying for a girl you love? After your death some other nigger will be shinning her puna while maggots feed on your decaying carcass. Does that portray you as a wise fella? Believe me only very stupid man will kill himself because of a woman.
Yoruba adage says : if you kill yourself because of a man or woman, countless more beautiful men and woman will pass by your grave.
CrimeRe: Man Commits Suicide On Third Mainland Bridge, Jumps inside Lagos Lagoon (Photos) by drmuri(m): 6:31am On Mar 20, 2017
Reference:
It is good to be a Bible believing Christian. These things just donot happen.
Shut up jare.he was said to be coming back from church when he took the fatal plunge. Some men of God have committed suicide in the past
CrimeRe: Man Commits Suicide On Third Mainland Bridge, Jumps inside Lagos Lagoon (Photos) by drmuri(m): 8:19pm On Mar 19, 2017
Freewoman:
Failed Marriage and Business may be the cause.......................
failed marriage? any man that commits suicide because of a woman is foolish. over 3 billion ladies are out there for taking why kill yourself because of one? as for business failure no be him go fail for business first now.
CelebritiesRe: Flavour Welcomed To Liberia By His Enugu Brothers by drmuri(m): 5:13pm On Mar 19, 2017
pepemendy:
I most get this money by fire by force
just make sure say you no carry cocaine go Malaysia. otherwise na your bullet riddled body dem go send come home
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boy Sentenced To 6 Years In Jail For N7.8m Love Scam by drmuri(m): 6:52pm On Mar 18, 2017
InvestinOwerri:
NCAN Owerri branch reporting to duty. Verdict; Not surprised at all. He is an afonja, many of them are into such practices and we have several who are in power today. People like Kashamus, Tinubus, Oluyoles etc. Ritualism, Incest, Witchcraft, Internet Fraud, Agberoism, Omo Onileism are some of the vices common among them. Smh.
slowpoke, it is better than armed robbery, hard drug peddling, sale of counterfeit drugs your Igbo Igbo brothers engage in.
CrimeRe: 50-year-old Grandmother Sells Three-year-old Girl To Pay Rent - Punch (photo) by drmuri(m): 11:34am On Mar 15, 2017
Igbos doing one of the things dey do best apart from drug trafficking---- kidnapping
CrimeRe: 20 Suspected Prostitutes Aged 13 To 14 Arrested In Kano State by drmuri(m): 2:25pm On Mar 14, 2017
Oyind18:
God help the North
so prostutution and drug addiction is only limitr ed to north.
Christianity EtcRe: 5 Ways Apostle Suleman Can Prove His Innocence In Stephanie Otobo’s Sex Mess by drmuri(m): 2:22pm On Mar 12, 2017
Anybody who understands psychology only needs to watch the rebuttal of Johnson to know he is guilty. watch his face throughout the discourse, he is so uneasy. he is not even good at lying(can't keep a straight face) said to be good in bed though
Christianity EtcRe: "Apostle Suleman's Manhood Not Very Small & He's Very Good In Bed" - Stephanie by drmuri(m): 10:02am On Mar 11, 2017
DirewolfofStark:
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Three common sense questions about Apostle Suleiman’s alleged indiscretion with Stephanie Otobo

1. If indeed Otobo’s affair with Suleiman ended 12 months ago, why wait for 12 good months before going to press with your story? Why did you decide to come forward AT THE EXACT TIME that Suleiman is in the eye of the storm for his comments about Fulani Herdsmen? A typical Olosho would be more likely to blackmail her victim than go to press because Money is what an Olosho wants at the end of the day. The evidence which Otobo has released to the press is inconclusive and unreliable. Am I the only one who finds it odd that the only evidence which could have more or less strengthened Otobo’s story (her pregnancy) was destroyed? With a pregnancy, it would have been possible to carry out a DNA test, and yet Otobo conveniently claims that Suleiman “forced” her to abort the pregnancy. How? By holding a gun to her head? I remain unconvinced by this too convenient story.

2. How could a common prostitute like Otobo be able to afford the legal fees of a top rated Lawyer like Festus Keyamo? I know Festus Keyamo and he doesn’t come cheap. He is one of the most money conscious legal practitioners in the profession. Festus Keyamo does not do pro bono Legal Service. It is evident that Otobo is being funded by someone with a LOT of money, someone who can evidently afford to spend large sums of money on a concerted character assassination plot of epic proportions. I’m sure we would all appreciate it if this person starts acting like a real man and reveals himself instead of hiding behind an Olosho to do his dirty work for him.

3. If Suleiman is really a womaniser, why is Otobo’s story the only one out there? In my experience, chronic womanisers do not just victimise one helpless woman. They usually have a long line of victims. When Bill Cosby was accused by one woman of sexual harassment, many others came forward. When Bill Clinton was accused by Monica Lewinsky of having an affair with her, other women like Jennifer Flowers Kathleen Wiley, Juanita Broaddrick and Paula Jones also stepped forward to accuse him of sexually harassing them. Womanising is a compulsive behavioural disorder. A man who womanises does so serially. If Suleiman was really a womaniser, there ought to have been several stories or rumours of his womanising from even before the time of his alleged affair with Otobo.

To summarise, I’m not arguing that Otobo is a liar and Suleiman is innocent. All I’m asking Nairalanders to do is to use their brains.
U are missing 2 important factors here dearie
Pastor Suleiman arresting the woman 12 months after the saga is what probably enraged the lady. It is one thing to renege on your promise to marry a woman, it is another thing to have her account friendly and her detained in Kirikiri.
The 2 examples you cited happened in America right,? Africans especially Nigerian are conservatives. Sordid details of sexual indescretion are better left undiscussed? How man rape victims have you seen voluntarily testifying against their rapist?? That no others came to corroborate Otobos story dose not mean there are none




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Christianity EtcRe: "Apostle Suleman's Manhood Not Very Small & He's Very Good In Bed" - Stephanie by drmuri(m): 9:49am On Mar 11, 2017
Kunlexxxx:
Though, I'm not a fan of Nigerian Pastors, but I think Ms. Otobo stories seem like constructed lies to tarnish his image. I will only believe all these if she release those explicit photos of him she claims to have. No evidence could be greater than a photo of them in bed.
And you think a married man of God will be stupid enough to allow himself to be snapped with a prostitute he is fornicating with?
Christianity EtcRe: "Apostle Suleman's Manhood Not Very Small & He's Very Good In Bed" - Stephanie by drmuri(m): 9:25am On Mar 11, 2017
expee06:
ubanka Dan giya ne

uwarka kuma itace sarauniyar karuwai
Will both of you shut up and STOP bringing your innocent parents into your madness?
CelebritiesRe: Apostle Suleman Had Threesomes With Daniella Okeke, An Actress - Stephanie Otobo by drmuri(m): 8:47am On Mar 11, 2017
HARDDON:
The extent people go to tarnish the image of others is alarming , sometimes amusing

He gono ride this tide n come out stronger n raw popular , just keep on gurl.

Tarnish ur destiny cos of d peanuts d Kaduna migget paid u.
So you sincerely believe all this is because Johnson spoke against southern kaduna killing?
Christianity EtcRe: Stephanie Otobo Released From Kirikiri Prison. Photos by drmuri(m): 9:47pm On Mar 09, 2017
Biafrawillcome:
zoo news cannot be believed without source.

So the Afonja Zoo pastor locked her up so she will not expose he was fawking her.
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God have expose him. Afonjas... Puah (spitts)
Your knowledge of geography (as with virtually everything is so shallow) johnson is from Edo state. Niger delta part of your Biafra republic
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man In Malaysia Jumps To His Death From 31st Floor Storey Building (Pic by drmuri(m): 4:24pm On Mar 09, 2017
ExcelNG:
What he has achieved in life can change the whole brown roofs in Oshogbo!
The bigotry in u made you type what even you know it is absolutely false. He achieved so much yet was so frustrated as to end his own life like a coward
Christianity EtcRe: “Anal Sex And MouthAction Are Sins Against God” – Nigerian Lady. See Reactions by drmuri(m): 9:54am On Mar 09, 2017
Alhamdulillah, islam is quite clear as to what degree of intimacy is allowed.
Homosexuality, bestiality, lesbianism are all haram(forbidden) infact, Homosexuality and bestiality attract capital punishment.
As for what is allowed amongst married couples,
Sex in the anus and with a menstruating woman is haram. Infact prophet Muhammed said a man who has Sex with a fellow man, or woman in her anus or a menstruating woman is cursed.
As to MouthAction, schorlars defer with majority saying it is forbidden since the sexual organs especially the female is conduit for dirt, eg blood, offensive discharges etc.
Every other thing apart from these, the couples can carry go and exploit each other to the fullest. Thanks.

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