₦airaland Forum

obongproff:
wot if u find compatibility and understanding but der is no chemistry, as in u guys are just friends and d chic is like a sista to u. U cant possibly tie d knot with such a chic na?

That where u read the signs wrong. What best person to give u peace of mind than that chick under ur nose who is like she is related but she is not not sista. That the person u should think strongly to wed cos once u can acheive compatibility with someone chemistry can be produced.

classicB:
He should pretend to be the former broke guy he was,

Sometimes that wores but I know a friend of mine who lost his solemate cos she found out he was stinkingly comfortable while he was pretending to be suffering.

obongproff:
na wa oh!

Ur guy should stop looking 4 love cos he won't find it. He should rather be looking 4 who is compatible to him and which of them ladies understand him. Ladies are usually materialistic and this cuts across most women. It's not solely nigerians girls. The way to beat the chase is to look for understanding and compatibility in unusual places and in people u wont necessarily have even considered. The main thing for a guy is that he has peace of mind when he returns home. Ur friend waited too long to delve into this branch and it's now his megaconfusion will start. Unless if he just approaches a wealthy family he knows 4 the hand of one of their daughters in marriage. That's how most wealthy friends of mine finally married acceptable wives.

obongproff:
So ur saying all a man needs for a successful marriage is compatibility and understanding?

^^^^@ bolded #fact.

True love is a myth there nothing like that. Ask any married person. There is compatibility and understanding which can make love grow. Tell that guy to check himself. Most made men I know have the same problem. It's the reason I advice men I meet and my pals who are still tasting all the round town that they should stop and give time to themselves to mature mentality so that when they are ready to make the big break they won't be in confusion. Too much tasting leads a man into confusion, believe me. I was once there.

Who cares. These so called apex group are a band of monkeys.

drjohn365:
Yes we can also do for the abdomen

How much do u people charge to do and interprete. How much does one pay to learn a module. Who interpretes the ultrasound?

bizie:
Please I need your honest comments on this. I was in a relationship for four years with a girl I grown to love so much. We were soulmates. And after all those years we became so close and felt nothing would separate us. But September last year saw the inevitable happen. I broke the relationship because of a major disagreement we have failed to agree on for years. Well I don't wasn't to go into details of that.

But after some months I went into another relationship with a girl I held in high esteem. She had everything I wanted in a woman and I was happy again. I told her everything about my past life, my job, how much I earn, my plans for the future and what I expect from a woman I want to get married to. And from her response I felt we agreed on these points so the relationship began.

But not even a month into the relationship she showed her real color. Meanwhile while I was trying to woo her I heard some things about her that weren't palatable. Her ex had to arrest her cos he felt jilted after he spent about 200k on her in just a year and four months. When the case was resolved, I felt she has changed so I continued with the relationship. But like I said, her true colors began to show again. She started demanding for money subtly. As in she won't ask directly but wud alws tell me things she doest have but wished to have. I got her a tab(25k) some dresses and shoes in the space of two months. Even took her to a beach and the slave trade museum in badagry.

You guys won't believe that just the next day after the beach n museum visit she asked for hair money and I told her am broke! Only for her to rain some insult on me. Saying I am not doing enough for her as a bf. That the reason why her hair is fine n long is cos the people before me took good care of it. Adding that if this is how I took care of my ex, she won't have stayed with me for 4 years. And other miserable statements I can't remember now.

So I broke the relationship on the first of this year. She's been calling to say sorry but I told her there is no going back! Now her family and some of my friends thinks I used her as rebound for my first relationship that ended after 4 years.

Its kind of confusing but am sure it wasn't a rebound or what do u guys think. Please honest comments .........thanks.

U acted appropriately but it's still a rebound. A rebound affair/relationship is when u enter another new sexual commitment shortly after the end of the previous even though u still havent healed from the previous.

Monimatic:
The Catholic Church has washed its hands off the ongoing controversy over the strong criticism of President Goodluck Jonathan by Rev Father Ejike Mbaka of Adoration Ministries in Enugu, accusing him of double-speaking.

The church said it did not authorise Mbaka to speak on its behalf, insisting that it is wrong for Mbaka to endorse the president and later warn the electorate not to vote for him during the February 14 presidential poll.

The church added that it did not have an official position on whose candidate the Catholic faithful should vote for, saying that as the largest Christian group, it is illogical for it to direct members to vote for certain candidates as the voters have the prerogative to exercise their inalienable rights in such a situation.

A catholic faithful, Mr Callistus Ebue, disclosed this during an interview with LEADERSHIP last night in Enugu.

He said, “The Catholic Church did not authorise Rev Father Mbaka to speak on its behalf. There is no way the church, with millions of its members, make a pronouncement on who to vote for during the February 14 presidential election. The church does not have an official position in this regard. The decision to vote for any candidate is the prerogative right of the church faithful just like any other Nigerian.”

While some of the Catholics in Enugu argue that Mbaka might have been led by the Holy Spirit in his pronouncement over Jonathan’s re-election bid, others said that the cleric ought not to have dabbled into the murky waters of politics.

According to a Catholic knight, Sir Abuchi Anueghiagu, Mbaka was initially inspired by the Holy Spirit to endorse the re-election of Jonathan, saying, however, that whatever Mbaka pronounced during his homily at the Adoration Ministries ground on December 31, 2014, was also a function of the leading of the Holy Spirit.

According to him, as an ordained priest in charge of a parish, Christ the King Parish, and the spiritual director of Adoration Ministries, nobody is qualified to challenge any sermon he delivers from the altar.

But another knight of the Catholic Church who spoke to LEADERSHIP on condition of anonymity condemned Mbaka of speaking from both sides of his mouth.

He said that having previously blessed Jonathan on his re-election bid, he ought not to have made a volte-face. He advised priests to be cautions of their pronouncements from the altar, as whatever they say has a way of affecting their followers either negatively or positively.

The Catholic bishop of Enugu Diocese, Rev Dr Calistus Onaga, could not be reached at the time of filing this report last night.


http://leadership.ng/news/399872/catholic-church-disagrees-father-mbaka

Mr Mbaka be informed that if u thought it necessary to hold someone down in the mud, u should also be prepared to get dirty. Sins against God the father and son is 4giveable but that to the holy spirit can never to 4 given and attracts eternal punishment. The holy spirit is an apolitical entity and doesn't go dabbing into politics.

Tymax:
Hmmm. It's the other way round. She actually said it to me. I was just wondering if she took me for a child? A breakup is never about the person initiating it. It's about the other party or a situation that doesn't favour the relationship.

I just wished she would shut up and abandon that ragged cliché.

The lady that used it on me regretted ever doing such. This was a long time ago and I was too busy so she found someone else and came to tell me the problem was not me but her. I laughed so much at her shame catch am. The sweetest part was when she came back begging that didn't make my day. What made my day was that she begged to sleep over at her place so I knew she wanted to 4k. Anyway we played around all night naked but I no enter her nyash. So the next morning she was as honey as crazy. When she begged me to pls 4k her now I told her "it is not u but me. Pls don't ever call my no again. Bye". She think say na joke. When it finally dawned on her months later she threaten me tire.

Better2014:
Hi mums and dads of Nairaland.My frend called me on fone last 9t,she said after Confronting her husband about some issues in dia marriage,He told her dat he wants them 2 take a blood oath that they will not cheat on each other dat d penalty will b Death.he was serious,he said if dat will make his wife trust him he is willing.D problem now is dat my frend is scared,its unheared off, no man wants 2 b dis commited,d marriage is just 2 yrs now.pls ur advice is needed.am confused as well.

The husband is not well. If they married in church doesn't he know that the oat of matrimony b4 God and men is stronger than any blood oat they take if they both belive in the oat the took when they wedded.

drjohn365:
We can also do for some other parts of body like the neck, finger and other smaller parts of the body.

interesting. U say u can also do the neck. What would u be looking 4 at the neck? U say fingers and other smaller parts what would one look 4 there. U didnt even mention if u can do emergency sonography to the abdomen.

NgeneUkwenu:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-UR5g69sx9E&feature=youtu.be&a

when men of god get involved in politics it pains God.

DancingSkeleton:




Is dat going to stop SHEKAU and his boys

no it will not but it will stop the idea of coup which is a bad smell in many african countries Nigeria included.

drjohn365:
Don't miss this opportunity this November.
Call 08026502345 or 08136645483

Looks like u only do sonography 4 pregnant patients. What other ultrasound can u do?

tpia99:
Do they use different rings or save by using the same one for everybody they propose to.

Or e no dey reach that level

Who knows. I have Ince met a guy who pursed a girl 4 months cos he wanted to 4K her but she didn't burge. So he asked her what her problem was and she said she doesn't date but wants to settle down. So he bought her a car and she agreed be his friend. Few weeks later he started asking 4 sex but she said she will only sleep with her husband so he dangled a ring infront of her and she opened her Nyash fast. After the ordeal he vanished with his ring and car cos his mission was accomplished.

I also heard of another guy who even went as far as doing introduction just to eat the forbidden fruit. Then he called off the wedding.

babs01:
no be me go reply u, but my goons

The post is still bullshit no insults meant.

mumumugu:
are guys cheap?

U'd be surprised at what u hear outside. This was a long time ago b4 I hung my boots. It's only in Nigeria that only girls are called cheap. A girl once called me cheap cos I met her today and nyashed her the same day. It turned out she had her eyes on me and actually made a bet with her friends that she would Nyash me. Anyway when I found out I no vex but kept my cool and continued nyashing her till the kinky crazy blasting I was giving her made her start talking relationship things (u see, ladies never change on that ground). All the while I was nyashing her with annoyance and wickedness hoping she would ask 4 us to start a serious relationship and when she finally did. I just happily locked us both indoors one weekend I was home. We 4ked ourselves silly for 3 straight days and then I kicked her to the curb and changed my number. The girl craze, she won die. She called me a mother 4king Bastard . I still no sabi why? She was the one that called me cheap wasn't she?