₦airaland Forum

yuping:
Nothing I no hear for this place, SMH and you are even thinking about it.

Am not thinking of anything,, i wanted to know if anyone has come across such tradition before

ibechris:
That statement from such a lady is grossly irresponsible and this goes to show how irresponsible the father is for not marrying her mum properly and for u,u had better leave the road u walkng on.

Na bush u dey go so.

I guess I will have to talk to her people i no fit pay mother n daughter price abeg

GooodHardDick:
OP, I'll kindly advise you to dump that girl asap and move on with ur life.

That girl and her mother are looking for a way to suck you dry! i'm sure her mother was a single mother when she gave birth to her.

Alaye dump that girl sharp sharp and move on abeg. There are girls everywhere!

She is the best girl have come across so far, it will be difficult leaving her

shantti:
I don't think u r the one to pay the bride price. The girls father has to pay his wife's bride price so he can be eligible to collect his daughter's bride price

I guess you didn't digest the write-up, here dad is late. The mum is a widow

Medianna:
You for mention the state at least, if not the local govt.

It will help you get a more appropriate response, now even people who don't know anything about it, like us will put mouth

Ok. Modified

Shalommy:
It's normal, the mother bride price must be paid before hers. As a man, if you don't pay your wife bride price and you can't collect your daughter's bride price.

Party will follow the payment?

Datboredberry:
Trust me, Africa has some of the most stupid, useless traditions...

I love Africa though...

Where I'm from, a widow must shave her head and sleep on her husband's grave for a week after his death...

There are many...

Even the bride price thing doesn't make sense to me...

Mumu traditions

Akinzola:
This one don enter 1 chance,
...... well if you have the money and you love the babe, continue, but if the other way round, advice yourself.

One chance i tell you my brother

McEphiks:
It is like that where I come from as well. Its nothing like double bride price... its just little things most times less than 10 percent of what you'd spend paying your wife to be bride's price

A daughter can't be married when the mom is not according to out tradition.

Modified: the bride price can be paid by anybody in the family either her brothers or her son if she have a grown son.

Then any of her family members should do the needful and not disturb me, haba.
Let's assume i should pay, what's next after that? I go come dea lash her too ni?

Zonefree:
Late 30s could be 38.
Say the girl is 20. Her mum gave birth to her at 18.

Why asking her age? Is 20 not old enough for marriage? Or giving birth at 18 is a sacrilege in your village?

She's 21

Datboredberry:
Lol...

Many things we do in Africa don't make sense...

You're not getting married to her mother, why should you pay the woman's bride price?

A way for the family to cashout?

The whole stuff is just looks funny to me.

The other option is for me to wait till someone else gets married and pays her mum's price, for how long i won wait

Candidlady:


Her mum is in her late 30s...

How old is the girl ? _______

21

Zonefree:
Ask her, after paying her mum's bride price, will her mum be your wife?

O men, i ws speechless. Am certain my parents no go agree at all

Good morning nairaladers, pls pardon my errors.

I met this girl late last year, she's nice, godly and has most of the qualities i want in a wife. i love her, though her dad is late and her mum should be in her late thirties.

Yesterday we were chatting and she was like her dad didn't do the necessary rites on her mum and hence according to tradition i will have to pay her mum's bride price to her family before i will be allowed to start her own (my babe) marriage rites. I just weak cos have never heard of such. Where i won see the money for double bride price?

Pls nairaladers, have any of you come across such ridiculous tradition or she's making it up herself cos i feel like quiting the whole thing.
I just tire. Your opinions are welcomed

Modified: she's from obiaruku in ukuwani local government area of Delta State.

All thos amount to nothing if 1 naira is equal to 4 rupees.
Lol

Kingsmm55:
Pls kindly direct me on how to apply for Ukrainian visa...I have my international passport...

Anything to leave this shit hole is welcome

Someone with data share make i still watch the video

Raspberries:
I agree... She could ride him...

you fit allow this kind plus sized lady lay on top of your son?

What affects the eyes must surely affect the nose.

Issorite

Kelvinhunta:
Ur ancestors need to mention names and not embarrassing their own ancestors

Issorite

Kelvinhunta:
Dr trash collector in public forum,
U just mentioned 2 Ukrainian soldiers without authenticating their names and other identification.
Civil war u did not witness but u choose to be myopic and believe one side of the story.
I stand to be proved wrong, no white will die in blacks matter.
Mention the names of the 2 Ukrainians and their identification so others can authenticate

Google is your friend bro
Read and be enlightened.
Or you go to YouTube and see things for yourself instead of embarrassing your anssestors

Godispeace:
senseless, who is ur accepted candidate in Jesus name ?? mumu

See this fo.ol.
I no get your time.
If they check you squarely na you dea complain about the present economy pass.
Id.iot

heniford2:
Russia has sent only 15% of military Capacity when it hit 30% we will understand better.

What will now be left to fend for her citizens if they should send in 30% of their military for odinary Ukraine?

fatree:
What's with all this news of raping. Has the cost of nackin prostitute increased now. Last time I checked, it was 500 naira per round

Na 1k now o

BluntTheApostle:
As volunteers or mercenaries?

Does it matter?

Unbroken:
May God protect our children in Jesus name, amen

Unbroken indeed
When different di.ck don sama your punna you still dea claim unbroken.
Issorite

Kelvinhunta:
Overdo de worry is Africans!
See their yeye teeth, them no go call am black monkey now because they r desperate to win the war, after that they will remember our colour is different from theirs. In as much as I support Ukraine in this war, Ukraine and Russia are the most deadly racists ever known so let them war their war and die their die. If this is African war do u think Ukraine can volunteer?

During Nigeria civil war, two Ukrainian soldiers joined biafrans army, get your fact b4 spewing trash on a public forum

Marimart:
Smiles ,I still dey the town o,drop your digits make I call you na

Issorite
Zero 8 zero six 8 six 7 six 1nine six

Tjis is getting serious

Marimart:
confirmed!
Where you come dey like this?

I dea town, for opposite council. You nko

Tinubu comes to mind
Affliction shall not arise the second time.. God forbid bad thing

Godispeace:
igbo ediots full here , tell us una candidate ooooooooo

Na so una hype buhari till he turn disaster.. now una won bring this grandpa weh suppose dea rest.. we reject am in Jesus name amen