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Visited Delta and Rivers - None can touch Fashola - NONE!!

Hmm let me put it like this!!

1) You are dating Girl A. Girl B is Girl A's friend.

2) You and Girl B have never met or never spoken to each other.

3) Girl A and Girl B speak once in a blue moon however Girl A has spoken to you about Girl B.

4) Girl A breaks up with you to get engaged to another Guy.

5) You and Girl B meet up, like each other and start dating.

Is there anything wrong there?

Because I see nothing wrong. Friendships should not deter you from dating your true love. If people want to talk let them talk.

When I was in the world, I woulda chopped her then dumped silly arse. Now my advice is just leave the confused girl alone. She thinks she is playing you!

How old is she?

bye bye baby!!

Apart from the sexual points - agree with the rest , if it is husband/wife then last points apply. Cuddling though is it - sex is overrated!!

Depends on what u mean by love. I think if a man has a woman who loves him unreservedly , Love means understanding him. Some guys like to be crowded, some dont. And vice versa. I think it is shameful that there is this mentality of someone must be on top during the relationship or ahead of the person.

Hope i put it well.

Hmm Yes GOD can forgive you - However it needs repentance and confession to him from your side.

I too sin and i am in no position to judge. However wrong knows wrong - it has been done. Now correct it!

She told me everything , how many guys , what happened - how it stopped ,

And i did same ,

End of story , Trust is something IMHO that you earn , and she is earning it!!

Then she is not the right lady , The one for you will not behave like this.

Move on and I understand the hurt and pain. Kpele!! At least you found out now rather than when the vow had been made.

No it is not right to keep as friend especially if it was a sexual based one.

Keep as acquaintance , think about it - do you want your partner to keep his/her ex-lovers as friends?

Need to know why y'all broke up. That would help answer the question.

Basically it means you shouldnt trust your friend

1) One of them is speaking against you behind your back
2) One of them made moves on him
3) They are laughing at you and dont want you to succeed

It is one or more of the above,

I was more interested in reading the below!

One of the movies I have featured in is Teco Benson’s Explosion. I played the role of the other woman. I am not the first Cameroonian to come to Nollywood. Others before me have complained of discrimination. There is tribalism in the Nigerian movie industry. You find that casting or audition here is a mere ceremony; they would have already chosen those they want. Only minor roles are auditioned. If they throw auditions open and give people chances based on merit, many upcoming actors and actresses would show the stuff they are made of.

If given the chance, I’ll explode. I’m waiting to be discovered. Many actresses would not tell you there is sexual harassment in the industry, but I cannot count on a few dozen fingers the number of funny overtures I have received. I like a guy that treats me like I’m the best thing that ever happened to him. It really trips me. Any guy that resorts to going round in circles is just wasting his time. I certainly won’t help him. And if he thinks that taking me to dinner is asking me a question, he’ll never get an answer.

That Adolf Hitler video is sooooooooooooo played out - It has been done for every club in the EPL - well almost every.

Happy with results so far and Man Utd shud prove a strong test. Heard news that Bassong is injured. Not sure but will verify.

And YEAH!! COME ON YOU SPURS!!

wow - all i can say is there are some pretty encouraging women out there!!

u sure say the pastor no chop the girl? cos that move was fast!!

Maga don pay!! Shout Hallelujah!!

Dude - your chic is not your chic - Get it. If she is coming, make sure you hit it - cum in her face and then walk out on her. Dont BEAT HER!! You hear - DONT EFFING LAY A HAND ON HER. That is juvenile.

From Experience

First Bank and Standard Chartered. Done some stuff with Sterling and had no problems. The others have not been tried - but looks like I should give GTB a shout out , maybe when I have saved enough money!!

I know two people that this has happened to at First Bank. I suggest getting a Savings account that isnt linked to a Current account and doesnt have an atm card. When you need to use money transfer money to the atm account and use it. That is what I have done since 2000. Had my first problem then - luckily I was at Natwest then and they refunded everything after I got a police report.

Most of the time - it is actually insider staff as well. Luckily I keep a very mobile account.

Banking in Nigeria is not as safe as it should be. Sometimes the best method is to store the cash in your house but that has its own pecularities.

What has happened has happened.

1) The guy is using you to satisfy his needs. That is all. Never confuse that he loves you. He lusts after you.

2) The law of Karma is a bad thing. Even if you had gotten him you would never have trusted him and he would never have trusted you.

3) I wish you a better life from now on.

hopefully we can stand through this , just about to enter one ,

Did it and damn it felt good!

i dont blame her - when girl is getting free gifts without droppin anything ,

Well done, One game down 36 to go. Lets keep focused and our feet on the ground!!

you will be a fool if you go for the first love. Stay with the second one. She is worthy. Forget her past , she is worthy.