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rockhaven - kindly state why you respect her.

mods kindly check IP address - dont want to be talking to a D-ID

sad - this is sad,  engaged? - wow? i wonder how you gonna live with this. You wont trust your guy with any female friends after this because you will be afraid of what you did happening.

What I can see - that guy in your office is playing you. As someone said he will never marry you - simple reason - he has chopped you before you committed to him - he has chopped you whilst you were engaged to someone else - he will never trust you and if he marries you, he will treat you like a piece of shit.

Wut you should do - first thing is to forgive yourself - second is to stay away from that bastard who is knowingly wrecking the good thing you had - thirdly is to refocus on your relationship - fourthly - dont do it again.

Another option is to break up with your engaged guy so you can refocus ,

What is sad is this is common in Nigeria - Innocent guys get gals like you who do this stuff to them. I pray all goes well but I wont lie it is hard for me to respect you after this - Hardly anyone here would - even ashewos wont respect you.

Engaged,  chei!

Dont do it again and dont tell her - believe me , she will never trust you.

But why cheat tho - oh well na medicine after death be this one.

I hate driving in Nigeria because of the factors involved - bad roads, bad drivers, bad policemen. I do it once in a while. I will not blame any guy for not sending driving.

That is a parasite not a wife!

Iranoladun has said all I need to say and I agree with her. Your friend has not acted wisely. She has brought the bank and herself into disrepute!

Report her. She has acted unprofessionally and is a thief.

I make a rule that as soon as my female friends get a boyfriend - i immediately reduce the calls , Because I dont like guys talking to my babe.

i need to see sideways first before making my mind up!!

Wow, this is very hypocritical and one-sided. The women you said shouldn't give in to sex, who asks for it in the first place
Your post is extremely unrelenting towards the female, yet, it pays no heed to the fact that men instigate these things in the first place. Why don't you ask stop men to stop pressuring girls into sex? Why don't you ask rich men to not marry poor women? Why don't you also ask them to stop 'falling for' these apparent devil marketers? Look, I'm in the banking industry, and I can honestly tell you this whole banks employ chicks to go tempt guys for money is exaggerated, I don't say it doen't happen but if those girls go out and do it, it's on their own idea. Girls who feel they can't meet their targets goign to extreme measures to get what they want. At the same time, the men (mostly married) who are loose enough to fall for a babe in a skirt and let go fo his money?? Please.

Your no6 post tripped me the most though. You are yet to give the scientific proof that happens. I agree with birdman. Somebody told you a lot of bollocks, and you believed it because it proves your point. It doesn't happen. Too much sex will not turn you into a walking baby. It's so RIDICULOUS, i can't beleieve how many women on this post believed it! Don't you even undersatnd your own bodies? What are the diapers supposed to hold anyway? Urine? Cos if that's the case, it OBVIOUSLY has nothing to do with sex, because those parts are not related. God is not stupid. If he wanted married people to have sex, why would he then put a limit on it? Listen to yourself, abeg.

Please go and re-examine your post. A man thinks about sex every 6 seconds. He's not blameless. And stop generalising. I know too many women who have had long, meanigful relationships WITHOUT sex, so that imagined 99% u made up is very annoying.

Just another chauvijistic male running amok under the guise of the Bible. Spare me.

She has said what I wanted to say.

ask the commercial sex workers and the most sincere ones will tell you that they now use diapers like babies.

You were doing averagely well till you came here. This is bullshit. This only occurs to those who poke girls or guys up the ass. Pardon my English. GOD didnt design the vagina to lose control if you are doing what he actually designed your dick for. Stop using fear factor. I hate it when people do that. You wrecked a perfectly good post with the above line!

LOL at starstruck

A woman will respect you if you love her - BULLSHIT!! Your post reeks of you trying to find ways to blame the guy. See some mumus on this thread saying a man will never let a woman hit them!! Continue choosing what a man is instead of looking between your legs and seeing the proof there. The guy has acted responsibly IMHO. He is more man than you insecure prats yabbing him!

Good choice - Slapping indicates she has no respect for you. I would do the same in your shoes. Never date a woman who has no respect for you - Never.

Not driving = what? He can get a driver cant he?

If it is against the law - demolish it - Jesus said give to Ceasar what is Ceaser!!

shakes head at Yets post , you have neva cum or neva known and you have had 'sex' , chei ,

my only advice is to have a strong belief in yourself - they are countless women who have poor self image cos of this.

Then I shall finish the Craig David song

'Rain outside my window falling down,
Feeling like a fool cos you let me down'

Berra get another woman - that is a cheat right there. I frown when my girl even eyes another guy ,

what is her number - lemme try talking to her , i can check if she is born again ,

ma'am kindly calm down - then come back and type this ish in ,

A fine ass is a beautiful thing. I saw one today and couldnt resist using my phone to snap it , All wrapped up in dem jeans.

**I am reminded of Ginuwine's song - In those jeans - Can you see that I like it - Tell me is there any more room for me - in those jeans **

at sara - j , ahh so you dont know then. Plenty of young boys get introduced to their first sexual experience at a very young age , mine was when i was same age as poster. By 9 yrs I had copied all the styles I had watched in my older cousin's blue films.

**shakes head in memory**

When I think about it now - I laff , how the hell did my stuff satisfy her?

It is kinda sad that you married such a woman , she isnt ready for marriage!

**looks into trousers**

I still have my ballz , wut else do I need to be a man?

real man ko gay ni

she should have been treated more harsher ,

Good Wife!!

let me tell you something , did you behave like a nice guy in front of her. As in were you open about intentions when you originally met her?