₦airaland Forum

Some women don' know how to manage their homes either because they are lazy or they take the running of their homes with levity.There is nothing that irritate men than this non chalant attitude amongst women, women who will wait for their husband before taking their kids to hospital rather than taking their initiative, women who cannot tidy their homes,who allow housemaids to cook for their husbands,who attend parties at the detriment of their familes etc.Infact I know of a man who had to go to the market to buy wedding items needed by the family because the brides's mother was non chalant. Divorce cases would be reduce if only women can do the needful by applying wisdom in running their home.

shaddoww:
I will love to serve my country in dis capacity, especially d DSS, NIA or CID cos it's always been my passion but for naija here, if u are too diligent n truthful, na ur colleagues go arrange u, so make dem hold their job

This is the truth,the police is so corrupt that if you wish to join their organization it won't take long before they infect and infest you with their bad blood. It will take fearless,trustworthy and well principled officers to sanitize and reform the moral decadence caused by the Nigerian police force.

David Mark forming pride at its peak.

Why are some people quoting Daddy G.O out of context.Any way I don't blame Femi Aribisala,he is not a christian and even if he is,he is ignorant hence he is not one of the people I should waste my time on .Christians are their own worst enemies.

Good writeup,that No 21 is very very important a lot of people have sold their birth right( destinies) to their either enemies knowningly or unknowningly.Don't count your chickens before they are hatched.Some people give testimonies in advance thinking they are acting in faith but it is unscriptural. Always let your deal be sealed before you give testimonies. Then it is not everybody you see that you tell your good plans even if they are your families or friends.

This is a well provoked thoughtful insight on how the mind can be deceived thereby becoming dillusional.I always say it that the mainstream media has successfully sold some immoralities subtly to the world.A good example is the Yoruba film industry that has carefully entrenched idolatry and ritualism in the minds of some of its viewers which some people have now believed to be normal just like Hollywood subtly ingrain homosexual and transgender all in the name of right to life in the lives of the viewers. One thing I know if the mind becomes dillusional it will always lead to debasement and total destruction. God in his infinite wisdom gave us sound mind so as not to do those things that fitting.

tpiander:
rate your chances of survival!

Such an enigma or should i call it parable. hmm na wa o.they are everywhere families,friends, neigbhours,church,mosqus and offices. The funniest aspect is that they normally come as friends and you you will be thinking they have your best interest at heart.The lesson from being among wolves like these is to be prayerful at all times,pray for the gift of discerment to know them,ask for God's wisdom to deal with them and don't ever show off in their midst or else with these ravaging wolves they can destroy a man's destiny.

Yeye man, after 28 years you became tired of your wife, you weren't tired 5,10,years ago.na now you come tire.He don see yellow pawpaw, elese tooth pick(fair skinny girls) wey dey massage hin body for outside.Yeye dey smell.Nigeria men!,the wife of their youth will not satisfy them again after they have become rich.

misreal:
even though a ten yr old understands the music,dance and rhythm of war,he will never be allowed to go to war because he will end up being a casualty.what you need is spiritual growth,because a baby christian cannot do warfare with demons..my advice to you is....STOP THE WARFARE PRAYERS.AND DESIRE THE BAPTISM OF THE HOLYGHOST,AFTER WHICH YOU SPEND AT LEAST AN HOUr DAILY PRAYING IN TONGUES..I bet you,all the demons in your family will tremble when you speak..

I partly agree with what you said but, at times the devil who is also good at harrasing the saints,he uses this demonic technique in warying the saints so as to make them loose their balance thereby loosing their faith.To the OP don't give up,Most people who are into spiritual warfare at times pass through what you are passing through. Each time you pray especially at midnight you weaken the power of the enemy. So in other to make you believe he is incharge he weakens your flesh so that it would like didn't pray at all.Remember the devil is a liar.

an apt analysis of a real christian.like what i keep saying christianity is very 'deep' and it is those who are ready to pay the price that go deep with the lord.It entails you allowing Christ to strip you of your pride,selfishness, unforgiveness,bitterness,assertiveness etc in short for you to love unconditionally either to God, to fellow brethren and your neighbour,you must allow to the Holy Spirit to work an incision on you which means you must trust Him enough to break you so that God's character and image can be seen in you.

Good write up and apt analysis of the effect of poverty on the average Nigerian.Some of these people don't even know the implication of what they are doing hence they see it as opportunity to take their 'entitlement' from the rich. This is where the media has a role to play in educating the populace especially on the illiterates and semi illiterates who worship money that each time they are offered paltry sums of money for praise singing the politicians, they are selling the destinies of their children for pot of porridge.

This is utter madness, how can a "pastor" say baby factories should be legalise.No matter how this man tries to "polish" something that is this despicable it is still wrong,na small small e day tey start.That was how America subtly introduce gay to the world.Baby factory was borne out of greed, rituals.God is still in the business of giving babies to women who are barren Mr Pastor Reno.

It is like when you deliberately leave the doors of you house open so that thieves can steal your properties.I just can't imagine those two musketeers they are like leeches they will suck Nigeria dry.Greed and corruption has been tattooed all over their bodies.

I was at the camp when it happen It shows God is in the business of miracles and it shows that He loves us so much. People who still doubt God's love and existence have never have relationship with Him.The only way to bask In that euphoria of that Love is through faith in Jesus Christ.

Apostle Paul said something in 1st corinthians 2vs 4" And my speech and my preaching were not with persuasive words of human wisdom but in demostration of Spirit and of power." A good man of God should hate what God hates and loves what God loves. God loves man because he was created in the image of God but, God hates sin with passion.No wonder Jesus said let your yes be yes and your no be no. Pastor TD Jakes wants to sit on the fence forgetting he will give account to God. He is more or less like a motivational speaker.For people to know God's stand on issues like gays, incest,stealing,corruption,polygamy,lies etc which cannot not be repealed or annulled they should study God's words in the Bible and He won't compromise because His word is His bond.

Thank you father because you went through all these because of me and you give your life for me even in abundance.What more can I say but to say blessed be your name, be glorified forevermore.Amen

This goes to show that God is the controller of the world's resouces and wealth(deuteronomy8vs18) and He chooses to give it to whom He wills.God told Solomon that none will be as wealthy as he is before and after his lifetime(1kings3vs8-13). The problem he had was that he misuse the "Grace" that God gave him no wonder he later wrote that being wealthy is vanity. if wealth and riches is not properly harnessed for the right cause it may become a curse. All in all Godliness with contentment is a great gain.

What a stupid carelessness!.Except by sheer miracle will the boy regain his sight, imagine! Poor little boy. Reminds me of a nurse who mistakenly hit a baby's head against the door while carrying the little girl from the delivery room of course the poor girl had dropsy till date. Not too long ago I saw a man telling his one and half year old son to walk faster, the little boy was really sweating until I called the man a murderer,"How can you stress a child like this", he had to carry the child.Parents and guardians should take note that a day old baby to todller age is still fragile they need to be taken care of with uttermost care.

BobUg28:
When we say parent, we mean our Father and Mother, We just use one word to describe our father and mother may be because for a child his father and mother means equal, but can a child be loved by his father as much as his mother?

The role mothers play at home cannot be compared to anything in the world because they listen to the 'heartbeat of everychild'. Do you know that most black fathers are guilty of these, It is like a trait in most black men, It is as if some men have been wired by nature to behave that way.They believe if they dote on a child too much they are over pampering the child. Then some fathers are very busy with their jobs while some are just purely selfish, instead of them to show love to their children at home by playing,having heart to heart talk,taking the family out for a dinner,playing games with their sons, helping out with homework it is girlfriends, friends, clubs, that take their time. Some men do it out of ignorance,though one cannot blame them because that was how their fathers treated their children. I believe a father should love his child like his mother so that the child can live a healthy lifestyle.Thank God that most modern fathers are turning a new leaf. They are showing their kids that they love them.

It is always better if the lady buys the ring,Some men don't know the difference between gold and panda i:e fake.Women know the kind of ring they want or better still both of them should go to the jewelery store together.

Mods do the needful,this requires front page.

Hmmm. Food for thought! The scriptures said he that has ear let him hear.Reminds me of the parable of the RICH FOOL that Jesus talks about, One thing that God has made me to understand is your riches and wealth is not for you alone is for those who are poor around you that you might put smile on their faces. For the mere fact that you became rich at a tender age or got a good paying job means that wealth was given to you by God's grace because some of your mates can do better than you if given the chance. I pity those who boast in their riches A.K.A is my money, I work for it.Remember for every wealth God has given you, that you spend lavishly or you hoarded, you will account for it and the smiles you put on people's faces i:e paying a poor child's school fees,giving an hungry man food,paying for an operation in the hospital will always be in the annals of history.

Tjayjosh:
Rapture is imminent!!!

I said this during Sunday school lesson this morning that Mattew24 and luke 21 has already been fufilled except the rebuilding of the temple which would soon take place.Jesus will soon appear on air physically, the question is the church ready to be rapture.The church seems to be engrossed with the business of "Martha" rather than watching out for the bridegroom the "church's oil is burning out" like the foolish virgins.Remember he is coming for a church without spot nor wrinkle.

True talk, I remember when i was watching a telecast of the Pope in Indonesia or Philipines, a girl brought a letter to him asking him why does God allow suffering since He is the creator and a good God. The pope said he himself has no solution to the problem of the world and that is why men's heart are failing them,they are doubting the existence God daily. The HolySpirit now said to me that, "I made some people rich so that they can assist the poor". The problem is that man has a natural tendercy to be greedy, to self aggradisment etc, it is only when man sees his wealth has not his own but a custodian will he see the need to help others.

The man is in serious bondage. The man was taking solace in watching porn all the while they were courting just to control himself so as to not to fornicate but that was were he made a mistake,the more he indulged in it the more porn has dominion over him and it has become a snare to him.The wife needs to pray for her husband so that his spiritual senses will be open.Naturally he needs to know the state he is in and the need to get out of it, then go for a serious deliverance in a HolySpirit filled church.

This is just the beginning of persecution of christians Mattew chapter 24 has just been unfolded before us.what else or proof do we need that Jesus is coming except to watch out for his appearing on air to take the saints.Imagine what will happen after the rapture, the whole world would be turn upside down.If a man can be jailed for being just.The devil in his craftiness has unleash vicious demons to world and that is why you see incest, peodophiles, sodomy and terrorism and baby factories all in the name of materialism and lust for wealth, the devil has totally debased man lower than animal( man's moral values has been reduced to nothing) except man goes back to his creator before he can be save. Any body who is a Holy Spirit filled christian will not be surprise at these events but should fear God the more.

This is an insightful analysis especially for those of us who are looking forward to the coming of Jesus Christ.I once heard this word of knowledge on the six day creation representing six thousand years before the millenial reign of our LORD.Thanks to the HolySpirit, you really dig deep.

This goes to show that both of them were not matured.Yetunde goofed big time as an older lady.She caused the embarrasment to herself, she has forgotten an average black man has no shame when it comes to fidelity. if you are dating a young man and the relationship is heading the rocks just moved on with your life quietly, don't create a scene or else it will lead to scandal.

I don't know why some mothers are like that, some do it out being discipline.I have a friend who told me that because most of her siblings were females the mother would order the younger ones to beat her just to punish her while they were young and she was the first born.Some women probably see their first born daughters as their rivals hence their hatred for them.Some mothers go to the extend of turning the children against one another and that is why we have rivallry, hatred and enemity amongst siblings because of the seed of discord sown by these mothers.

EyeKandy:
This summarizes it. I already know that but i'm not sure how to inteprete her actions given that its a bit too extreme for my liking. She's a very caring person that's always in my house asking about every single detail of my life and cares to know what's up. But, the chronic copy-cat aspect is like identity theft.

If her been caring is what endears her to you its okay but you should take precautions. The identity theft got me laughing especially when you are the originator of your style and somebody is copying and she does it as if she creates it, some ladies are like that, even when you are not familiar with them especially in office and neigbourhood and even in churches I guess she doesn't even know she has the vice ( low self esteem). I will tell you that you have an edge over her because she sees you as a role model now don't lord yourself over her because that would be pride.