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I bind every snake spirit on Nairaland, in Jesus Name.

Amen

It's not wrong to ask what she did or their reasons for the flogging.

Is it?

SmartPolician:
Lazy Nigerian journalists have run out of ideas.
Coming from Sahara Reporters, I am so disappointed. Even Buhari knows that any move to extend his stay beyond 2023 will facilitate the end of Nigeria. Nigeria is one of the world's most unstable countries.

End of Nigeria indeed

Though, I know he will not go for a third term but the end of Nigeria?

Forget it.

Nothing will happen

signature2012:
What’s the purpose of posting the suppose lady picture here?
You already took her to a hospital and she was diagnosed of having an infection.Isn’t next thing to do is to start treatment?

I am still trying to understand why you opened this thread.To get sympathy or Medical advice?

More of an anti- virgin thread.

Threads about virgins have high traffic on Nairaland

Be careful. This days, humans are becoming too wicked.

There are many people around, with such mindset. You think, they are your friend?

They will trade anyone around them for anything.

bepositive11:
Are all non virgins promiscuous? How many women have you had sex with? Are you not the one who is promiscuous? Will you even be faithful to your virgin wife?

Not everyone one bows to the sex demon.

Whenever you have this consciousness, you would no longer have this opinion you wrote above.

jcross19:
ah can't you read the line virginity is never a yardstick for successful marriage.. Mind you if you are a man looking for a virgin and you are not a virgin, please you are Pharisee!!!

This shouldn't be the mindset. Not everyone bow to the demon of sexual recklessness.

The twist of always trying to ask the man if he's a virgin, is a manipulative attempt to downplay the message.

We are speaking of general chastity.

VERDA:
Please spare me the crap...nobody is trying to trivialise chastity, the question is simple and straightforward but for some reason some of you are being unnecesarily emotional about the whole thing.

You don't need to lecture anybody about sexual morality, keeping yourself till marriage is a good thing, probably one of the top pointers to discipline and strength of character which are very important to keep a marriage, but don't be deluded into thinking that is all you need to sustain a marriage is all people are saying, instead of answering the question, some of you are forming holier than Jesus Christ...

The question remains, is virginity enough for a successful marriage??, Is not being a virgin a guarantee that your marriage is doomed??, because this seems to be ur argument...

Just answer the very direct question and stop acting like a big baby.

Relax... One question for you.

No one single thing is enough for a successful marriage except God's presence.

But note that deliberate and conscious purity is very important and a key ingredients for success for this generation.

The enemy of mankind will keep advocating the contrary.

bepositive11:
First of all, most men who want a virgin wife have low self esteem and are very insecure

2. Most men who want a virgin wife are not virgins themselves

3. Non virgins are not all the same - one category sleeps around and the other category only sleeps with men in committed relationships

4. The notion that virgins are pure while non virgins are unpure is a social construct. The only case where she becomes unpure is if she contracts STDs or does abortions. This is likely with women who sleep around but unlikely with women who only sleep with men in committed relationships

My conclusion.

Your way of thinking is pathetic. As much as you want a virgin wife, are you a virgin yourself? Why did you have sex with many women you have no intention of marrying yet demand that your wife be virgin? The ratio of men to women if 49% to 51%

If you have low self esteem, instead of worrying about her comparing you, why not focus on learning how to please her. That requires open and honest communication which you any way won't be able to have with your low self esteem

Stop judging a woman based on her virginity if you're not a virgin yourself. You have no right to. You're just being pathetic

Go and sit down. You think everyone bows to sexual recklessness? I believe in chastity and I advocate for it.

Those who seek virgins have low self-esteem?

That's too shallow and pathetic.

Those who engage in reckless sexual activities have high esteem?


Sorry , I'm not in your team.

jcross19:
people clamouring for virgin are the people who tied their love base on sex which always backfired.... Marriage is not alla about sex.. When you married you understand..

Those who wallow in the filth of sexual recklessness didn't tie their love to sex?

So if marriage in not all about sex, we should condemn or belittle Chastity?

VERDA:
He asked a simple question based on what you said, instead of answering your being smart...so those that are not virgins are doomed to unsuccessful marriages abi?? because that seems to be ur argument.

Those that deliberately chosen to be and remain virgins, even with all the pressures, are not doomed too. However, they are better choices.

We all can't shamelessly throw in marriage success into the narrative, because we want to validate our sexual recklessness. At the same time, trivialize Chastity. NO!!!!

The ORGANIC character traits for a successful marriage, is embedded in the ability to keep yourself pure, against all odds.

Other house hold skills can be learned by anyone.

The CHARACTER TO KEEP YOURSELF PURE, cant be bought in the open market.

SIRTee15:
As u can see, the priority is good character and not virginity.
There's more to marriage than virginity. Marriage is hard work from both couples.
I'm not really sure how virginity helps sustain and keeps the marriage going, but if it helps in anyway...then good.
But I'm sure good character, sacrifice, understanding, healthy compromise, excellent management skills, emotional intelligence are established keys that holds the foundation of a long lasting marriage.

How do you even define good character or integrity.

What you call good character, are part of the ingredients to deliberately live in chastity. Particularly in our present world.

henrybomb:
There is no negativity in being open minded which still stands that being a virgin or non virgin doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage.
Or does that mean that people with virgins have the best marriages?
In life the grass is truly greener from the other side.

In your life, will you advocate chastity and cleanness even if you're not measuring up?

henrybomb:
So if you were to choose between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with a calm and amazing character which will you choose?

Why not this way...

If you were to choose between a virgin with good character and a non virgin with bad character. Which will you choose.

There's something in most people that makes them accentuate the negative to justify their stance

They will tell you not to be afraid.. or they'll laugh and say fear fear.

Huum it's good to gate dogs.

Any body can design anything and post online.

Don't be fooled.

Kobojunkie:

So, you want to ruin your 15-year old marriage for the sake of your ego?
■ You go to market
■ Cook
■ clean the house
■ wash the children uniform
....
So you do these things in your own home and you expect what, a medal? The person that used to do them before, I am guessing your wife, she no be human being like you?

So your wife is interested in her career, and you are what? Against your "friend" doing well in her career or what? And let me guess, communication has degraded between you two and probably between your egos are butting heads at this point and rather than working on that, you are instead thinking of ways to end your relationship?

Look, no two marriages are created the same and no two individuals in a marriage are exact copies of themselves. You and your wife are meant to design your own marriage in a way that works for you, not go around comparing yourselves to others out there.
Die to your ego if you must and learn to grow rather than destroy your marriage over petty things such as what you listed here.

Do you ever advise ladies?

Your pattern reveals so much about you.

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Threads like this goes against Nairaland rule 16.

Anyway, Nairaland rules, are for Nairaland masses. Not for lalasticlala and their team

Is Bitcoin a legal tender?

99% buy Bitcoin, with the hope of it appreciating. Nothing more.
From what I can observe, some persons are manipulating this thing.

Also, we now have too many cryptocurrency. That's code red.

TonyeBarcanista:
2023: Debunking The Propaganda That Southern Candidate Will Lose In The North Under PDP Platform

By Tonye Barcanista

Nigeria is made of 36 states with the north and south each having 19 and 17 states respectively. The north also has FCT as added advantage in the equation.

In 2015, there was shift in power to the north when President Goodluck Jonathan (as then was) from Bayelsa state of Peoples Democratic Party suffered a historic defeat to General Muhammadu Buhari RTD of All Progressive Congress from Katsina state. Buhari assumed office as President on 29th May, 2015.

By May 2023, President Muhammadu Buhari is expected to conclude his 8 year presidential double terms, and the popular expectation, especially of southern extraction, is that the next president of the country in 2023 should come from the region.

Should the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, accede the popular demand for the southern part of the country to produce the next President of Nigeria in 2023, the party will be one leg into the Presidential Villa in 2023 even before the election day because the south, which is the party's stronghold is guaranteed of giving block votes to their "son".

Contrary to concern of some stakeholders, which is fuelled by sections of the media, that the "north" will not vote for any candidate from the south under PDP, facts on ground show that a candidate from southern extraction is guaranteed to enjoy support in the entire Northcentral except Niger state, some parts of Northeast and Southern Kaduna part of Northwest. This is because the north, which is made of 19 states and FCT, is neither politically homogenous nor do they vote in same direction in any President contest.

NORTHCENTRAL
Since the return of democracy in 1999, all the six the states in the north central except Niger state have always voted in similar political direction. Specifically, Kwara, Kogi, Benue, Plateau, and Nasarawa states alongside FCT have always been aligned with candidates of PDP in Presidential elections.

In fact, in the 2003 and 2011 elections, these states resisted General Muhammadu Buhari movement and preferred southerners Chief Olusegun Obasanjo and Dr Goodluck Jonathan from Ogun and Bayelsa states respectively. In 2007 these states, like other states in the south, supported Umaru Musa Yar'adua against Muhammadu Buhari to actualise shift of power to the north after Obasanjo's term.

The 2015 election was the first time since 1999 that these Northcentral states voted against a PDP candidate due to the Boko Haram insurgency and propaganda that General Buhari of All Progressive Congress was coming with his military might to nip it to the bud. Sadly, Buhari, as president, only succeeded in worsening the woes of Northcentral people with rising spate of terrorism (banditry), Fulani herdsmen brigandage and ethnic cleansing of Indigenous tribes.

In 2023, I see no reason these Northcentral states (save Niger state) will not vote en-mass for Southern candidate under PDP platform going by their electoral tradition.

NORTHEAST:
The voting pattern of the six (6) states of Northeast, like other parts of the north, is heavily influenced by religious bias.

Areas like Taraba state, 60% Adamawa, Southern Gombe, Southern Bauchi and Southern Borno areas usually align with choices of electorates from the southern part of the country in any presidential election due to religion. In fact, they display strong preference for someone of Christian religion.

In Adamawa state, PDP has only lost Adamawa state on two occasions in any Presidential election since 1999, and that was when Musa Yar'adua (2007) and Goodluck Jonathan (2015) were flag bearers. Furthermore, Demsa, Ganye, Gayuk, Jada, Mayo-Belwa, Numan, Sheleng, Tungo, Lamurde LGAs in Adamawa south, Yola North, Yola South, Fufore, Girei and Gombi LGAs in Adamawa central, and Madagali and Michika in Adamawa North have always shown preference for Christian candidates from the southern part of Nigeria as witnessed in 2003, 2011 and even 2015 Presidential election. In 2011, Jonathan, without the support of Alhaji Atiku Abubakar, gave Buhari a resounding defeat in Adamawa state with 508,314 votes over 344,526 gotten by Buhari.

In Taraba state, not even the "Sai Baba" wave of 2015 could swing the state away from Goodluck Jonathan of PDP despite the Boko Haram insurgency. Taraba is one state that any candidate from Southern extraction is guaranteed of popular votes in any Presidential election.

In Gombe state, Katunga, Shungum, Billiri and Banaga local government areas are solid PDP stronghold and sure bet for a southern Christian candidate due to religious factor. This is in addition to other seven (7) local government areas where 30-35% are almost guaranteed for the southern PDP candidate. In this state, PDP is guaranteed a minimum 35-40% votes in Gombe state.

While states like Yobe, Bauchi and Borno may not be favorable to southern candidate of Christian religion due to religious influence, PDP is almost guaranteed of 25% valid votes.

NORTHWEST
Northwest Nigeria is likely the only geopolitical zone that may not be favorable to voting for candidate of the south.

Traditionally, all seven states in the Northwest usually tilt towards Muhammadu Buhari direction. Chief Obasanjo and Dr Goodluck Jonathan as incumbent Presidents fall short in this zone.

However there is respite for the PDP in Kaduna state. This is because areas such as Sanga, Zangon Kataf, Kaura, Kauru, Kachia, Jaba, Jema'a, Kajuru, Chikun and Kaduna South local government areas are sure bankers for PDP due to the predominant Christians in these areas. Historically, these areas have strong bias for Christian candidates. In 2015, despite the APC wave in the entire northwest, these areas massively supported President Jonathan, and gave PDP its only Senator in the entire zone. The areas make up about 49-52% votes of Kaduna state.

Going by the aforementioned facts, it will be foolhardy for anyone to continue to hold that presidential candidate from the south will not deliver victory to PDP in any part of northern Nigeria. On the contrary, PDP will find it challenging in 2023 should it present a candidate from the north to succeed incumbent President Buhari, a northerner himself.

Conclusively, the demand for the National Zoning Committee of PDP to zone the Presidential ticket of PDP to the south is a right step in the right direction.

Written by Tonye Barcanista Inioribo

Any election analysis that doesn't factor Rigging, is a waste of time.


Now go back , think and write another piece.

It doesn't matter. After the election, positiobs can be renegotiated.

justt:
It's also an honor since that is the last time she's going to known and called by her family name (under ideal situation).

This is not too much considering that a woman is practically giving up herself to be under a man. She's giving up her name to take yours. Give her the honor of bearing that name for the last time on they great day by coming first!

Is it not what she fasted and prayed for?

IJOBA11:
I SUPPORT THEM WHOLEHEARTEDLY

SOUTHERN NIGERIAN POLITICIANS MUST RECEIVE SENSE BY FORCE



CC

SEUNMSG

And do what?

Actually, heaven will not Fall.

Eriokanmi:
It's not the truth. How many bdcs have time to visit abokifx before fixing rates, do the majority of them even understand what it means? FYI, I visit abokifx.com just to update myself too. By the time I visit the bdcs in Ikeja, the rates aren't always the same. Always a diff of up to 3 usd higher than abokifx rates. Yet, go to the CBN and check their rates.They'd tell you that autonomous rates are 505naira to 1 usd for instance whereas, bdcs are fixing their rate at between 510naira and 515 naira. Instead of bscs going to abokifx, it's the other way round. Abokifx gets their rates by sampling opinions from bdcs around. The CBN is just jittery because they know the rates they post on their website aren't realistic. They're just deceiving themselves.

I expect them to go after terror sponsors instead if chasing shadows. They know them. What is the CBN governor afraid of ?

This is not the issue of "terror sponsors"

The forex market is being manipulated by unscrupulous elements to the detriment of or economy.

Eriokanmi:
Useless fool.After UAE government did his job for him, he came out chasing shadows. I wish I was the founder of abokifx, I'd have sued them for 20bn naira for the unfounded and baseless allegations. They felt jittery the way aboki fx is exposing them to the outside world. CBN would post a particular but unrealistic autonimous rates on their website meanwhile when you go to ikeja to trade in forex at aboki offices, what you get is totally different and that's place where aboki fx gets his facts from , before posting them on his website .

I was expecting emefeile to name those buying amunitions with forex who are mainly members of the apc , just same way the UAE govt assisted him to do what he has refused to do out of fear , he was rather chasing shadows. I'd have become billions richer today, if I were aboki fx founder. My lawyers too would have been smiling by now. Iranu

Don't you think it's the other way?

The BDCs change prices based on what is on Aboki fx.

That's the truth.

Ade3131:
You guys need to know that BDCs are licensed operators and not just some scaliwag dealers. Some banks have BDC registered as subsidiaries....

I need to understand the rationale for the ban of AbokiFX b'cuz we're yet to hear his real offence. Was it that he now buys and sells FX illegally?

Or his offence is that he owns a platform that reports the value of Naira against foreign currencies on the parallel market?

I know the government will be sued again and as usual, the government will be made to pay for damages.

How does he get those figures he posts online. This has formed the basis of forex trading.

So if Aboki fx says it's 600nsira, everyone will sell at that price.

Any report that doesn't talk about the source of COVID-19 and how to strongly and decisively deal with the source, so that it doesn't happen again, its just delusions.


So they will release delta variant and then gamma or beta variant.


Tell the world what happened. If a virus could cause such devastation in the world and the source is not questioned, then it's a shame.

Naughtysex:
House agents are bastard, they intentionally help the house owner to increase the house rent just for them to increase their own fees

@ OP, is this not the same way people have been doing it?

Gbam!