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Some women can do anything to subdue a man.

Except God helps the man.

Plz where is the location

She should get inside first...

Nairaland should stop bothering us with Tiwa and Tonto. They are not our role models.

Sex tape people

Jwonder:
They are needed. More by the police.
 
Giving boy cam to our police would solve 90% of their useless behaviour.
A law should be enacted that says any officer (Efcc, Dss, or whatever) going to carry out an arrest or on patrol duty should always put on a body can; failure to do that equals immediate sack. And all their vehicles should have a dashcam.
These useless politicians know the solution to our problems, but they instead loot carelessly and give crumbs to their political dogs to defend them.

They will disconnect it. Collect the bribe and connect it back.

Nonsense.

When people sell evil powers.

Klass99:
A very valid question. I think the truly vile and toxic never really change for good, they may tone it down for a season or reason.

But, the moment that season or reason passes they are right back to their true selves/nature. Imagine 25 years of domestic violence? I would have stopped praying and fasting by the 2nd year if not sooner and taken firm action.

Some situations in life require the use of our capacity to think and action, not prayer and fasting. I like to think even God becomes silent to certain prayers, while wishing we would use our brains to think then act, instead of working his last nerve, with incessant religious regiments.

What firm action will you take.

Sent4rina:
Who has dead Umidigi A3 pro for sale?

Location: Osun, Oyo, Ondo and Ekiti

I have a neat working A3 pro. just like New.

Give me a DM, Lets talk.

DanHaske:
Yes it is.
Address him as Emir of Kano.

Address Bayero as THE Emir of Kano

So "THE" is the difference?

What makes someone an Emir

What then makes a dethroned emir an Emir.

He is respected on his own no need for all this.

If Sanusi and Adobayero are in this same event, will you address both as emir? and put "THE" for one of them?

Penguin2:
In 2021 when Armies are inventing technologies to fight opponent armies remotely without them being in the field of combat, these ones are here using hand to bend iron and break bricks.

North Korea mumu no too much?

You still need physically strong humans.

philipstanley:
Once an Emir always an Emir

Where did you get that from.

DanHaske:
They guy must be from the south, or at least he doesn't understand royalty.
There's no such thing as former King, it's not a political appointment.
Sanusi Lamido is still Amir Kano, that is the simple reason why he has been banished from Kano as there cannot be 2 kings in the kingdom. Or you guys think he still wears the royal robes and turban for fashion.
Another thing is that he cannot stoop low to contest for any political office as a king. Be it the presidency.

Now you know

Are you saying it's right to address him as emir?

I don't think so.

Now this is just politics.

Who is afraid of Obi?

Lexusgs430:
Bison is like a builders phone..........

But it's fine too

Favfables:
The husband asking for a refund is bad, but Like davash said, it's not rocket science to cook a good meal, men were cooking in their single days long before they got married, so stop acting like it one very big deal...

Thank you.

You expect the best from the man and don't want to go the extra mile to please him.

Who told them men can't cook.

I bind every snake spirit on Nairaland, in Jesus Name.

Amen

It's not wrong to ask what she did or their reasons for the flogging.

Is it?

SmartPolician:
Lazy Nigerian journalists have run out of ideas.
Coming from Sahara Reporters, I am so disappointed. Even Buhari knows that any move to extend his stay beyond 2023 will facilitate the end of Nigeria. Nigeria is one of the world's most unstable countries.

End of Nigeria indeed

Though, I know he will not go for a third term but the end of Nigeria?

Forget it.

Nothing will happen

signature2012:
What’s the purpose of posting the suppose lady picture here?
You already took her to a hospital and she was diagnosed of having an infection.Isn’t next thing to do is to start treatment?

I am still trying to understand why you opened this thread.To get sympathy or Medical advice?

More of an anti- virgin thread.

Threads about virgins have high traffic on Nairaland

Be careful. This days, humans are becoming too wicked.

There are many people around, with such mindset. You think, they are your friend?

They will trade anyone around them for anything.

bepositive11:
Are all non virgins promiscuous? How many women have you had sex with? Are you not the one who is promiscuous? Will you even be faithful to your virgin wife?

Not everyone one bows to the sex demon.

Whenever you have this consciousness, you would no longer have this opinion you wrote above.

jcross19:
ah can't you read the line virginity is never a yardstick for successful marriage.. Mind you if you are a man looking for a virgin and you are not a virgin, please you are Pharisee!!!

This shouldn't be the mindset. Not everyone bow to the demon of sexual recklessness.

The twist of always trying to ask the man if he's a virgin, is a manipulative attempt to downplay the message.

We are speaking of general chastity.

VERDA:
Please spare me the crap...nobody is trying to trivialise chastity, the question is simple and straightforward but for some reason some of you are being unnecesarily emotional about the whole thing.

You don't need to lecture anybody about sexual morality, keeping yourself till marriage is a good thing, probably one of the top pointers to discipline and strength of character which are very important to keep a marriage, but don't be deluded into thinking that is all you need to sustain a marriage is all people are saying, instead of answering the question, some of you are forming holier than Jesus Christ...

The question remains, is virginity enough for a successful marriage??, Is not being a virgin a guarantee that your marriage is doomed??, because this seems to be ur argument...

Just answer the very direct question and stop acting like a big baby.

Relax... One question for you.

No one single thing is enough for a successful marriage except God's presence.

But note that deliberate and conscious purity is very important and a key ingredients for success for this generation.

The enemy of mankind will keep advocating the contrary.

bepositive11:
First of all, most men who want a virgin wife have low self esteem and are very insecure

2. Most men who want a virgin wife are not virgins themselves

3. Non virgins are not all the same - one category sleeps around and the other category only sleeps with men in committed relationships

4. The notion that virgins are pure while non virgins are unpure is a social construct. The only case where she becomes unpure is if she contracts STDs or does abortions. This is likely with women who sleep around but unlikely with women who only sleep with men in committed relationships

My conclusion.

Your way of thinking is pathetic. As much as you want a virgin wife, are you a virgin yourself? Why did you have sex with many women you have no intention of marrying yet demand that your wife be virgin? The ratio of men to women if 49% to 51%

If you have low self esteem, instead of worrying about her comparing you, why not focus on learning how to please her. That requires open and honest communication which you any way won't be able to have with your low self esteem

Stop judging a woman based on her virginity if you're not a virgin yourself. You have no right to. You're just being pathetic

Go and sit down. You think everyone bows to sexual recklessness? I believe in chastity and I advocate for it.

Those who seek virgins have low self-esteem?

That's too shallow and pathetic.

Those who engage in reckless sexual activities have high esteem?


Sorry , I'm not in your team.

jcross19:
people clamouring for virgin are the people who tied their love base on sex which always backfired.... Marriage is not alla about sex.. When you married you understand..

Those who wallow in the filth of sexual recklessness didn't tie their love to sex?

So if marriage in not all about sex, we should condemn or belittle Chastity?

VERDA:
He asked a simple question based on what you said, instead of answering your being smart...so those that are not virgins are doomed to unsuccessful marriages abi?? because that seems to be ur argument.

Those that deliberately chosen to be and remain virgins, even with all the pressures, are not doomed too. However, they are better choices.

We all can't shamelessly throw in marriage success into the narrative, because we want to validate our sexual recklessness. At the same time, trivialize Chastity. NO!!!!

The ORGANIC character traits for a successful marriage, is embedded in the ability to keep yourself pure, against all odds.

Other house hold skills can be learned by anyone.

The CHARACTER TO KEEP YOURSELF PURE, cant be bought in the open market.

SIRTee15:
As u can see, the priority is good character and not virginity.
There's more to marriage than virginity. Marriage is hard work from both couples.
I'm not really sure how virginity helps sustain and keeps the marriage going, but if it helps in anyway...then good.
But I'm sure good character, sacrifice, understanding, healthy compromise, excellent management skills, emotional intelligence are established keys that holds the foundation of a long lasting marriage.

How do you even define good character or integrity.

What you call good character, are part of the ingredients to deliberately live in chastity. Particularly in our present world.

henrybomb:
There is no negativity in being open minded which still stands that being a virgin or non virgin doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage.
Or does that mean that people with virgins have the best marriages?
In life the grass is truly greener from the other side.

In your life, will you advocate chastity and cleanness even if you're not measuring up?

henrybomb:
So if you were to choose between a virgin with bad and annoying character or a non virgin with a calm and amazing character which will you choose?

Why not this way...

If you were to choose between a virgin with good character and a non virgin with bad character. Which will you choose.

There's something in most people that makes them accentuate the negative to justify their stance

They will tell you not to be afraid.. or they'll laugh and say fear fear.

Huum it's good to gate dogs.

Any body can design anything and post online.

Don't be fooled.

Kobojunkie:

So, you want to ruin your 15-year old marriage for the sake of your ego?
■ You go to market
■ Cook
■ clean the house
■ wash the children uniform
....
So you do these things in your own home and you expect what, a medal? The person that used to do them before, I am guessing your wife, she no be human being like you?

So your wife is interested in her career, and you are what? Against your "friend" doing well in her career or what? And let me guess, communication has degraded between you two and probably between your egos are butting heads at this point and rather than working on that, you are instead thinking of ways to end your relationship?

Look, no two marriages are created the same and no two individuals in a marriage are exact copies of themselves. You and your wife are meant to design your own marriage in a way that works for you, not go around comparing yourselves to others out there.
Die to your ego if you must and learn to grow rather than destroy your marriage over petty things such as what you listed here.

Do you ever advise ladies?

Your pattern reveals so much about you.