₦airaland Forum

johnmartus:
Nigeria finally have 3 terrorists group.
Boko haram
Ipob
IMN.

next should be fulani herdsmen

Ayotemide:
A family friend who is a widower remarried in 6months, the bride was already pregnant.

His family urged him to do that despite being in his 50's and having grown children who can take care of themselves.

Nobody accused him of not being 'loyal' to her memory or killing the dead wife.

Hypocrisy and double standards some of you were raised with make you horrible human beings. The lady in this post has been raised a 'submissive' Nigerian woman.

I would be damning all of those opinions to hell and moving on with my life, had she been the dead one he would be married in a month.

these commenters are horrible humans raised in a sentimental society. I actually know of a man that got someone pregnant two months after his wife's death. No one said a thing, all i kept hearing was, its good so she can help take care of the kids and help him grief faster. Lol

Anyone who has a problem with this is nothing but a sentimental idiot soaked in misogyny

I don't have a twitter account, whoever is on twitter please help me tell kenyans that their only mineral resources is marathon gold medals.

BuikemWillz:
How does the person contact you?

DM

BuikemWillz:
How does someone apply?
Any specific qualifications?

must be 32 years and above , must not be a Muslim, must not be a northerner,must have a source of livelihood that can two people can comfortably live on.

TheTourist:
Hon Ibezi represents the good people of Idemili North & South in Anambra state not any Owan or whatever the OP wrote there

i cant find where the OP wrote thst hon ibezi was representing own, please point it out as the only person i saw there is hon Julius ihonvbere.

NnaaGuy:
Yes nah. Wife job.

lol

Vested:
I can relate.
I was only giving an opinion based on my experience especially when it pertains to our search for a compatible partner.

very true. I very much agree with you on that.

stanliwise:
No you don't. I am talking about something else.

ok

DeeMain:
For a self confessed introvert you are impressively mouthed

lol,i am not mouthed o. I just don't like mean and mannerless oafs. Imagine in this time where suicide is rampant and someone thought it was OK to type that. That person is evil.

Pattypatt:
My dear, you will be depressed if you continue staying with your parents. I will be going to service by next month and I have already told them I will be staying alone after my service camp, I'm not even sure I will be back for Xmas. Parents are good at putting unnecessary pressure on their kids, though mine are not like that, just my aunties and uncle putting the pressure, I will advise you to stay on your own and be far from them.

Don't worry about husband, when its your time, husband will come, I'm not bothered.

I am not bothered either,people think i have refused to move on from my failed long term relationship,so they probably think mounting pressure will do the trick.

Pattypatt:
Get a job and pack out of your family house, that should do.

i have a job sis. Used to live alone too, was convinced ladies staying alone were seen as wayward was even discouraged from traveling out as singles ladies past a certain age abroad dont get husbands so i was told.

Vested:
The bolded is SO TRUE!!!
Unfortunately, I learnt this the hard way.

I lost a girl whom I felt didn't meet my standards of beauty as well as that of my peers around me. Till date, i miss that lady so much even though she's married now.
It has taught me one thing - always to look deeper than the eye depicts. I have learnt to way values, attitude and upbringing now in women. I also advise my friends same because that's what matters

I hope OP can learn from my experience cos even though it's years for me, I'm still hurting from missing that girl.

Thank for your contribution. But it was the other way round for me,i was jilted.

Apination:
Sit down ontop your ancestors head

go rot in hell with your ancestors and take a gallon of fuel with you

Apination:
Flog all your family members put dem inside gutter

your ancestors both on your mother and your father's side

ednut1:
Another baseless confused list. In nigeria instablog9ja makes the most money

i think they are talking of personal accounts ,if not theshadroom should make that list .

stanliwise:
There is something about you I can't place my fingers. I just know it.

i sound familiar?

Vega100:
Evening newspaper still dey select. No wonder u never marry. Mtcheeew!!!

let me drop these words of Wisdom for you;
-if you wan chop fish ,chop the one wey don mature


I cannot settle for my younger brother's agemate,even if its my only option.lion nor dey because of hunger chop grass.lol

Apination:
Stupid hoe

your real mama

Meanwhile even foreigners evade tax in Nigeria and no one bats an eye lid,just settle the right people.

Apination:
It's no surprise that you are where you are. You were talking about late marriages running in some families as though your family or village people were responsible but you are actually your own problem, no matter how many rants you put out, it wouldn't change nothing. Work on yourself first and then people would take interest in you, your response says it all

lol mr advicer ,. I have come across your type in the real world,i have heard, . ,it is my rant, i don't have to ass lick anyone so i can be seen as wife material,my response is very much on point ,Lol ,now move along.

Nmezor:
Hmmm, no part 4... OP has Mr RiGHT located you? or have you located him instead?

lol, part 4 is still in the pipe line.

Apination:
If you don't see how it relates,then I'm sorry you can't be helped

i cant remember asking you for help?

Truthsbitter:
They might probably be right.

I am possibly a male version of you, I don't like girls I have find myself dating... it's either they match my physical taste and they have good intellect but amiss in character, or they are of good character, high intellect and not sexually or physically attractive, or they are sexually, physically attractive and they also have good character but of low intellect ( mostly they can't hold a logical and meaningful discussion ).

until I realised that i myself might be the problem, that I should be more understanding to the perspective of others. then I realised that compatibility to a complex mind is making effort to understand the less complex mind.

I am not accusing you of being faulty I am only saying; live a life more freely and make effort to understand all situation from a more beautiful aspect and from the standpoint of both yourself and the other persons involve.

unsentimental love most times is a sacrifice .

Thanks.

Apination:
Did you see the part where she said he must be a pastor? How many pastors are there who are urhobos in the first place? Then fall within that age bracket? No wife? No kids? Listening to that program at that time? Within a radio coverage of less than 100k? What's the possibility? That's like looking for a grain of sand in a bag of rice.

Yes, nothing is cast on iron but don't go around looking for a lion in an Ocean, you wouldn't just find it

To each his own. You are not to tell people what to desire. Yes it might be less probable,but its not your call to make. By the way, thats not the issue here,so i don't see how that relates to me.

Apination:
As you said, perhaps it's something you are not doing or perhaps doing. Are you willing to work with a guy and build together or you are waiting for a particular unreasonable standard to be fulfilled. I sometimes listen to those radio programs on hookups and what I hear from most women as what they need from a man is just stupid. Imagine a woman saying she needs a man, who's a pastor, between 50-55, urhobo, does not have children etc What's the possibility of finding such a man? So you have to look within and start making changes to either your set mindset or your outward disposition

50-55 no children might be impossible but then again that is why they probably when to the hook up because they have a larger audience.

I know of a 45 year old lawyer who got married for the first time. Another man lost his wife and two kids and got married ten years later at 49. Everything is not black and white .

daddytime:
Every Tina, Pussay and bald head is now a slay queen according to our Nigerian bloggerizers.

the thing tire me o

chiagozien:
Nigeria police and army are only good in killing unarmed people.


My advice to shiite group is,you guys need to step up your game.
The only language nigeria understands is the language of war.

i hope while you are advicing them to go to war you will also tell them to face only their sunni rivals and leave,Christians ,athiest,pagans and traditionalist out of their war.

Beautiful, i sure will rock all of them. Kudos to the designers.

Caleycash:
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This is the last reply you will get from me, so i am going to leave you with two words * ipob miscreant* Have a nice day my osu friend.lol you seem to be too upset to mention me just once ,lol

Nmezor:
Looking forward to the part 2...

i have part three sef, check my topics.

xtrim1:
Canadians and intending Canadians, let's gather here for a group selfie.

lol, your passport still identifies you as a Nigerian tho,so we all have no choice than to build this country ,or our respective countries if the greedy leaders decide to do the right thing and divide this country.