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Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by yeyeosoronga: 12:04pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Rockyfancino: You will pick race, but another man has decided not to pick race. She didnt get pregnant 5 months after her husband's death but at least over 1 full year. What more do you world people want? Pregnancy only needs one sexual encounter to occur. This occurrence happened 15months after the death of her spouse. They could have started dating 1 month prior to the sex, and she got pregnant. She could have gotten pregnant the first time she slept with the new father to be. Afterall konji knows no creed.. 3 Likes |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by seguno2: 12:07pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Logobenz1: Is marriage always about love If it was about love at the beginning, do you think that it will be about love forever? 3 Likes |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:07pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
The fact that PEOPLE GRIEF DIFFERENTLY is the major emphasis here. But even if you explain this from now till tomorrow, they wount understand, rather you will see people continue to bring up different explanations to cover up that simple fact. How many Nigerian men ''will'' properties to their ''wives''? I ask because often times men ''will'' properties to their children, (tho he may give his wife a portion). In most cases where a man Wills properties to his wife, you will see it clearly stated how she should utilize such resources, and the children are usually the focus in such cases. So even if this ladies dead husband willed properties to her, the family can still be getting in touch to ensure that she uses it properly. Besides, a widow who remarries is still more capable to take care of her dead husband's children, better than greedy uncle's/relatives who clamor around like they care. There is nothing wrong with the woman remarrying after a year. I would have criticized her if it was 6months or less. How long does it take to meet the opposite sex for a relationship? I want people who are accusing her of killing her husband to answer that question. Imargine people claiming she must have been cheating while her husband was alive, all in a bid to rubbish the woman. If the opposite was the case, and a man had remarried, this same people will say a different thing. I see this as the mentality of most Nigerian men, and it is the truth. Ryan03: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by KhadLokun: 12:08pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Those against her moving on with her life are surely ignorant and only judging from societal influence. I was once in this scenario, I lost a dear one few weeks to our wedding and remarried few months after, infact everything falls in that same year and my new wife happens to be who I have never met before. Many years after our wedding and even with grown up kids, there is no day, i mean no day I don't remember my late wife. She was my first love. Thank God I took that decision, I would not have got no joy after she left. The woman should follow her instinct and count herself even lucky to have someone to love her again. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by Skmoda(m): 12:10pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
SocialJustice:When will people stop using dogs as a yardstick to label men....dogs is the most loyal living animal ever ok...please stop...dog is even more loyal than you. 2 Likes |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by Carlmax(m): 12:10pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Ryan03: Listen, even though I view myself as Liberal, I am really not in support of this. Barely 1 year after the death of her husband, she was already having unprotected sex with another man. She had stopped loving her husband long before he died. 1 Like |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by Carlmax(m): 12:12pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
How long has she known this dude she is fucking with... @OP, please answer |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:16pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Your fourth paragraph is the major reason for their sentimental and partial way of reasoning. Ayotemide: 1 Like |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by SocialJustice: 12:16pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Skmoda:Dogs are loyal when it comes to sex? Please stick to the point. I never said anything about dogs loyalty to man. |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by yeyeosoronga: 12:21pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
oglalasioux: Who told you the late husband left her any wealth? The OP stated he died in a commercial vehicle while travelling to Lagos. He didn't die in a plane crash, he didn't die in his personal car yet you naturally assumed he had some wealth the wife was after. Who told you she wasn't richer than the late husband? They are only against her because they want her to mourn forever. Since their brother died, didnt any of his sister and brothers give birth, or get married , or build new houses? Afterall is blood not thicker than water? Why didn't they stop living their own lives? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by Reelmii: 12:22pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
op, are u sure u are not the new husband this one wey u carry the matter for head like gala why are u crying more than the bereaved? if u were the late man,, how would u feel if this is happening 1 Like |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:24pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
You have said it all! texazzpete: |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by kazyhm(m): 12:25pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga: Yeah I agree with you on this....it all about more children and more abandon children the world need to cater for and worry about.......because one wants to enjoy the five minutes strength of a standing dicck till it erupt a molten milk.......its note worthy how you miraculously knew the late husband would have impregnated an imaginary girlfriend(s)........ The right for more children is only in the book of the poor and idea less citizens Losing a child is a probability not a certainty........ Why make the world complicated based on assumptions ? |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by srclark: 12:26pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Ferdinandu:Bros some action we take might be right but the way we go about it can make you totally wrong .It is not a bad thing if she is dating the new man codedly but getting pregnant so soon is a no no for me (3 months for that matter) a little patience would have made everything okay now she wants to complicate her life cause of rush rush |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by agrovick(m): 12:34pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Ryan03: Someone who is acting irrationally, mariage is till death do us part. 18 months is a long time to mourn. The husband's family should even support her 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by apokan200(m): 12:36pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
I swear the bitch ain’t loyal and I wonder if the same man haven’t been fucking her before the death of her husband |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Getting pregnant within 18months is too early. Hian. |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by apokan200(m): 12:41pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
This shit isn’t up to 18 months self because 18-3 months of pregnancy=15 months.imagine the time he might be fucking this so called man who she wanna marry now..this woman is a bitch and a betrayal,she is fucking the dude even before her husband died 1 Like |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by Duggedised12(f): 12:42pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Ayotemide:these commenters are horrible humans raised in a sentimental society. I actually know of a man that got someone pregnant two months after his wife's death. No one said a thing, all i kept hearing was, its good so she can help take care of the kids and help him grief faster. Lol Anyone who has a problem with this is nothing but a sentimental idiot soaked in misogyny 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by lexy2014: 12:44pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
nerorex01: That means Kumuyi didn't love his first wife cos he remarried a year after her death 2 Likes |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by mofeireoluwa(f): 12:45pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
[color=#006600][/color] Jfyzee:What a woman indeed. That is why Africa will always remain backward. In a sane society , every body will encourage the woman or man to start dating again and keep herself busy and happy. But I guess this is Africa where a woman can only show her virtue by being sad and lonely. I know a man that is wife died at childbirth, he did not even wait for 3 months. Let the woman be, it is her life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by yeyeosoronga: 12:45pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
kazyhm: If you want to cater for the world's children, please don't have any of your own and adopt enough to look after. There are many orphan children who need decent homes. That's very noble of you. But remember not everyone is you, and not everyone can be as noble. The woman in question wants more children, and wants to remarry. She is well within her rights to do so. The dead is long gone and she needs to find happiness elsewhere. The earlier, the better as time waits for nobody. If she spends the most productive, young and active part of her life grieving, and not moving on, what has she gained? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by REDDEVILS1(m): 12:46pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Ryan03: See eh lets all be realistic. If you love someone, you don't move on that easily. A year and few months and she is already 3months pregnant. Its her life so she can do what she likes with it. The New man should know that God forbids he goes to meet his maker. This time around she will be pregnant 4 months after 1 Like |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by lexy2014: 12:50pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
prizequest: And this was d reason 4 my question: "if our mothers keep remarrying, that means we wouldnt have the priviledge of having mothers in our paternal homes until they're dead in a husbands house." |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by lorhema(f): 12:53pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Ryan03: The fact that she had a son for her late husband means that she should seek to maintain relations with her in-laws, I believe. The boy should have a link to his father's people especially in this season when some step parents have been shown to be mean to their step children and their partners say or do nothing. It's her life and since she's pregnant, she's made her decision. She should just seek to give the child some access to his father's family. ' |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by simplesearch: 12:55pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Graduateacher: And what stops her from getting married in a properly way to the man before getting pregnant for him, with what has happened whatever respect she has left has been completely eroded and her image and stand in the family badly damaged., just wondering why she can't exercise some patient to see things to a reasonable conclusion before undertaking this unnecessary long jump. If only she knew it was her own cross to carry in this life she probably would have caution herself and exercise some restraint. It is also likely her in-laws are unaware of this pregnancy, which is why her quest to quickly get this relationship sealed before the pregnancy becomes visible is to her a task that must be accomplished on time & at all cost. However with the in-laws refusal to grant her request trouble & shame may just be lurking around the corner for her, and if she aborts the pregnancy this may further complicate her matter. 1 Like |
Re: She's Pregnant 18 Months After Her Husband’s Death by Apination(m): 12:57pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
Very bold and foolish step on her part. No one is saying she shouldn't have moved on but getting pregnant so soon does not tell good of her at all, it's not a case of love now, it's a matter of common sense and dignity. Who would take her side if the family accuses her of conspiring with her lover to kill their son? |
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