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Politics / Re: Senator Pius Ewherido is Dead by dukesmith(m): 9:26pm On Jun 30, 2013 |
36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Mark 8: 36 KJV. |
Politics / Re: Buhari Asks Jonathan To Resign Over Insecurity by dukesmith(m): 2:16pm On May 22, 2013 |
Iykopee: and the septugenerian who has been scheming to become the president of this con3 cudnt differentiate between BH and niger delta militant, in action and quest.. It has been proven beyond reasonable doubt dat, decline in age is decline in productivity..buhari has reached the twilight of his career in human endeavours and shud be advised to retire from public enterprise voluntarily...... I love this guy... Thus is the most sensible and suitable words ever use in this argument... Buhari bin Laden must go... By fire by force. |
Politics / Re: Looks Like Jonathan's Approval Ratings Has Hit The Roof? by dukesmith(m): 7:51pm On May 17, 2013 |
Nashville:See this bush man o, na oversabi go kill you... Abeg go sleep.SMH |
Politics / Re: Arrest Me If You Can, Dokubo-Asari Dares IG, Reps, Others by dukesmith(m): 1:38am On May 10, 2013 |
Politics is a game of interest, so whoever has no interest to fight for or protect, I suggest he/she gose home and sleep momentarily . Asari has been a useful instrument in the emancipation of Niger Delta strategically. I don't think any one in Nigeria can dispute this fact. I also would surgest if you are on this thread contribute constructively ... I don't think you would be happy if someone insults your father or call him names., thank you. |
Politics / Re: Exxonmobil To Construct 500MW Power Plant In Akwa Ibom by dukesmith(m): 9:24am On Apr 25, 2013 |
Yeah... Credible moves and a competent company... Thumps up. Nigeria go better... Bleep them haters. |
TV/Movies / Re: NTA Cartoons and programmes Of The 70s, 80s And 90s by dukesmith(m): 12:30pm On Mar 25, 2013 |
Oh, nnwa this tread has made me 20 year youner ... Been a while I had such an inspiring moment in NL. God bless your parents were ever they are. |
Education / Re: 2 FUNAAB Students Killed By Lecturer's Jeep by dukesmith(m): 1:44pm On Mar 16, 2013 |
♚ƒԐLis-c∆tus:so funny... |
Science/Technology / Re: Pygmy Sperm Whale Butchered On Lekki Beach by dukesmith(m): 2:07pm On Mar 15, 2013 |
causewahala: Ahahaha, na to go report all of them 2 oga @ top naa! Can't stop laughing any time I come across "oga at the top"... But Naija na wa o... See choppings. ;p |
Politics / Re: Babangida’s Endorsement Of APC Rattles PDP by dukesmith(m): 11:03pm On Mar 02, 2013 |
IBB is on his way down finally... Itz time to treat IBB's fuckup ... GEJ will sure open a case file on him, The rest of them looter will flee 9ja untill 2015 election is over, whatch out!... If you may look closely: GEJ is still the only creditable candidate, untill otherwise.. Well, my bed is call *diving in* bye! |
Car Talk / Re: Benz vs BMW vs Audi: Pure German Machines! by dukesmith(m): 8:41am On Feb 25, 2013 |
Mercedes benz S-class 2012, Horse power = 1150(can drag a trailer load of gari) lol, Speed = 6gear/560kph.,thereby declared the fastest executive saloon on earth. Therefore on performance, Durability, speed and strength, I give it to MB. Check other specifications at web. I own it, feel it and belived their advert that says "we are not overspeeding, but we are flying too low" I have tryied stuffz on BMW and Audi but the best is MB anytime. |
Business / If You Are In Nigeria Or Abroad, We Have Properties For You In Lagos. by dukesmith(m): 7:58pm On Jan 29, 2013 |
1 acre of land on Akin Adesola,VI & on it are: block of 13 two bedroom flats,one 3 bedroom bungalow,7 room's self- contain,1 lawn tennis court. Title is C of O lagos state of 99 yrs with 60yrs still remaining. Immediate possession. Asking price is 1.2 billion. Direct Link to owner. New Brief: 5Bedroom Terrace Duplex with 3Rooms BQ for Lease @ Chevy Vies Estate for N5.0M per annum & 2years minimum wanted! It is fully furnished with 7Split Unit Air conditioners,66KVA Mikano Generator,8Fridges,Beds in all rooms,TV in all rooms etc |
Phones / Re: Nokia Introduces Solar Phone Charger In Nigeria by dukesmith(m): 12:05pm On Oct 17, 2012 |
berem: What of BlackBerry? Abi dem sef no go follow make solar charger? Ayam tired of carrying my charger about looking for where to charge my phone!Add ♏ε sweety ℓ got solution for you need. :-) 20de9447 thatz my pin sHowdy. |
Romance / Re: Reasons Why Guys Avoid Commitment by dukesmith(m): 7:04pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
ferdiii: Naaa boy! Been married for 7yrs and still very happy... Grow up boy |
Politics / Re: JTF Arrests Immigration Officer Boko-Haram Member by dukesmith(m): 5:49pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
GARRI~ WARLORD: Any leader that thinks military engagement should be the first option in tackling violence is not wise enough a leader. GEJ as an educated President that he is, sampled loads of options which dialog was one of them as we all know. JTF became an option when dialog failed "JTF will only act at the command of the commander in chief of the arm forces which is your most hated homo-sapient in the entire world(GEJ). The only option letf was to gun them Boko boyz down, that is what Jonathan is at... Better run! If you are one of them lol. Bros, GEJ try wella... I think we should give him a chance, no body holy pass. |
Politics / Re: JTF Arrests Immigration Officer Boko-Haram Member by dukesmith(m): 5:27pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
Dr Sadik Magaji: sharap fool... He is the commander in chief of the arm forces... Grow up! |
Religion / Re: Is Science More Accurate Than The Bible? by dukesmith(m): 7:33pm On Sep 17, 2012 |
do not be deceived (by sience or any other teachings), for one day we will all stand before God in judgement and give account of our lives. 1 Like |
Family / Re: He Sells His Wife's Chin-chin In The Office by dukesmith(m): 2:47pm On Jul 25, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill: bros, no try this chick, me sef I dey fear am o... sisi hot! I dey hail o. |
Romance / Re: She Dumped Me Over A Picture by dukesmith(m): 10:24am On Jul 20, 2012 |
mu2sa2: Yea, where promiscuity is the order of the day hugging just anybody "wuold be no big deal" you better look homeward too, you cant be sure that your uncivilized village is better... than to condemn others, no body holy pass... |
Romance / Re: Whats Your Idea Of A Good Relationship? by dukesmith(m): 11:09pm On Jul 18, 2012 |
AJJ: if you fear God there are certain things you won't do... eg. cheat, insult... etc things like forgiveness, self denial... etc will be the cardinal point of such relationship, I think that is what he meant?... |
Romance / How To Be A Good Husband: Ten Reasonable Tips by dukesmith(m): 10:24pm On Jul 18, 2012 |
Most people who get married, truly want their marriage to succeed; unfortunately, not everyone does the things necessary to make sure it does. This article with ten reasonable tips on how to be a good husband, is for the male half of a marriage. 1 - Be true. Being true to your spouse means more than simply being faithful, it also means keeping her as the number one person or thing in your life. It means backing her up when she needs it and being the one person she can truly count on no matter what. 2 - Be there. Be with her in mind, body and spirit. Be around. Come home after work, do things with her in the evenings and on weekends. Be her friend. Jut be there to be with her. 3 - Share. Sometimes as time passes, couples begin to drift apart. This is because they stop sharing with one another. Share your life with her, your stories. Share you love of things and your heart. Share your time and your problems. In short, share everything with her. 4 - Be respectful. Don't yell at her. Don't call her names. Don't demean her. Say please and thank you. Open the door for her. Get things for her without asking. These are things guys do to show they love someone. If you don't do them, she's likely to think you don't. 5 - Care. If you want to be a good husband, you have to care about your marriage, and your wife. You have to remind yourself you care when angry or depressed. Show her you care by doing things like holding her when she's down, or buying her a small special gift for no reason. Look at her like you care about her. Tell her. 6 - Go out of your way. Like any good relationship, sometimes you have to go out of your way to do things for the other. Like pick something up at the store without complaining; or talking to her mother, just because it would make her happy. Sometimes you have to keep your mouth closed when you'd rather not. Or say things to back her up you really don't mean. The point is, being a good husband means that sometimes you'll have to go out of your way simply because you love the girl. 7 - Be patient and understanding. Surely everyone could be more patient and understanding, especially with people they love. This is doubly so for people who are married, if for no better reason than because you'll still be there after whatever caused the stress in your household blows over. And well, because you love her, right? 8 - Demonstrate. It's not enough to tell your wife you love her, or to buy her a card now and then. If you truly love your wife, and want to be a good husband, you have to do things periodically to show it. Things like surprise her with stuff she likes. Or things like hugging and kissing her even if it won't lead to sex. Do things that mean something to just the two of you. And remember, once in a blue moon is not enough. You need to do something demonstrative pretty much every day. 9 - Listen. When she talks, listen. It's not that hard. Hear her voice, pay attention to the words. Follow what she is saying. This is what she needs. Also, watch and listen for subtle stuff. She may need or want something but is hesitant to speak about it. Or she may not understand it herself. Listen anyway. 10 - Be open. She may have ideas or opinions you might not want to hear. Try to be open anyway. This doesn't mean you have to agree with everything she says, but it does mean you don't have to argue with her. These ten reasonable tips on how to be a good husband can and probably should be considered by any man who is married or is likely to be any time soon. If you are in this group, I hope some of these tips can help you be a better husband. Good luck. |
Romance / Re: Most People Who Get Married, Truly Want Their Marriage To Succeed; Unfortunately by dukesmith(m): 9:46pm On Jul 18, 2012 |
seriuisly this are Ten reasonable tips on How to Be a Good Husband. |
Romance / Most People Who Get Married, Truly Want Their Marriage To Succeed; Unfortunately by dukesmith(m): 9:43pm On Jul 18, 2012 |
Most people who get married, truly want their marriage to succeed; unfortunately, not everyone does the things necessary to make sure it does. This article with ten reasonable tips on how to be a good husband, is for the male half of a marriage. 1 - Be true. Being true to your spouse means more than simply being faithful, it also means keeping her as the number one person or thing in your life. It means backing her up when she needs it and being the one person she can truly count on no matter what. 2 - Be there. Be with her in mind, body and spirit. Be around. Come home after work, do things with her in the evenings and on weekends. Be her friend. Jut be there to be with her. 3 - Share. Sometimes as time passes, couples begin to drift apart. This is because they stop sharing with one another. Share your life with her, your stories. Share you love of things and your heart. Share your time and your problems. In short, share everything with her. 4 - Be respectful. Don't yell at her. Don't call her names. Don't demean her. Say please and thank you. Open the door for her. Get things for her without asking. These are things guys do to show they love someone. If you don't do them, she's likely to think you don't. 5 - Care. If you want to be a good husband, you have to care about your marriage, and your wife. You have to remind yourself you care when angry or depressed. Show her you care by doing things like holding her when she's down, or buying her a small special gift for no reason. Look at her like you care about her. Tell her. 6 - Go out of your way. Like any good relationship, sometimes you have to go out of your way to do things for the other. Like pick something up at the store without complaining; or talking to her mother, just because it would make her happy. Sometimes you have to keep your mouth closed when you'd rather not. Or say things to back her up you really don't mean. The point is, being a good husband means that sometimes you'll have to go out of your way simply because you love the girl. 7 - Be patient and understanding. Surely everyone could be more patient and understanding, especially with people they love. This is doubly so for people who are married, if for no better reason than because you'll still be there after whatever caused the stress in your household blows over. And well, because you love her, right? 8 - Demonstrate. It's not enough to tell your wife you love her, or to buy her a card now and then. If you truly love your wife, and want to be a good husband, you have to do things periodically to show it. Things like surprise her with stuff she likes. Or things like hugging and kissing her even if it won't lead to sex. Do things that mean something to just the two of you. And remember, once in a blue moon is not enough. You need to do something demonstrative pretty much every day. 9 - Listen. When she talks, listen. It's not that hard. Hear her voice, pay attention to the words. Follow what she is saying. This is what she needs. Also, watch and listen for subtle stuff. She may need or want something but is hesitant to speak about it. Or she may not understand it herself. Listen anyway. 10 - Be open. She may have ideas or opinions you might not want to hear. Try to be open anyway. This doesn't mean you have to agree with everything she says, but it does mean you don't have to argue with her. These ten reasonable tips on how to be a good husband can and probably should be considered by any man who is married or is likely to be any time soon. If you are in this group, I hope some of these tips can help you be a better husband. Good luck. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Definition Of Marriage To You? by dukesmith(m): 10:03pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
elizabethlee: :-Xnigerian marriage is total crap.an institution set up to enslave women.all d days of yr life is spent massaging d mans ego with nothing to show for it.crap.most women would rather stay on their if not for societal pressure. Mind u being single is not about being prosmicious. Total crap. well, that's your opinion, so deal with it personally... also, there are Nigerians that have awesome marriages filled with bliss, harmony and lots of romance... that'z what we call an ideal marriage. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Definition Of Marriage To You? by dukesmith(m): 5:43pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
ajadek: Mariage is only sweet wen u are dating urself, once you sign that paper called cetificate of mariage,you kill the love that day.its an illution it take only pple with strong heart to beleived in mariage Bro, I have been married for over 6yrs... itz all been a blissful experience believe me... if you are not matured in heart, you cant make it through even for a day. marriage is not for immature minds. itz for grown-ups 1 Like |
Family / Re: Definition Of Marriage To You? by dukesmith(m): 4:53pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
Delafruita: you get what you deserve, God can not be mocked... I think most time we reap what we sow. |
Family / Re: Definition Of Marriage To You? by dukesmith(m): 4:13pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
the all knowing God blessed marriage and said "it is not good for a man to be alone" who are we to say all this rubbish about a divine institution? all I know is "if kids get married, it'z all trouble" so marriage is a union for grown ups. |
Politics / Re: Senator Gyang Datong Killed In Jos by dukesmith(m): 3:30pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
kettykin: this is what I am talking about. |
Family / Re: Definition Of Marriage To You? by dukesmith(m): 3:13pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
marriage is growing up... |
Politics / Re: Akwa Ibom State Politics: How Expectation Of N150b Bond Is Delaying Justice by dukesmith(m): 11:16am On Jul 13, 2012 |
sorry for you bro, use your brain any other time you are posting bro, you are posing for Educated people. |
Politics / Re: Breaking News! Gov. Akpabio On The Run. by dukesmith(m): 10:58am On Jul 13, 2012 |
itocoonlin: More Breaking News!!! Is you are such a fool... may God punish you for this publication... Idiot. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: New Igbo Group Vows To Avenge Killings In The North by dukesmith(m): 10:43am On Jul 13, 2012 |
Jabioro: Group in d west,east,south and north,na only BH get action 4 south east na 4 media,bhind lappy action,paper and computer warrior. this guy is really a clown, I cant stop laughing. |
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