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Angelfrost:
Arsenal will not be denied!

That United escaped doesn't mean Liverpool will!

How did United escape Arsenal?
The same Arsenal wey dem put for lockdown?

zubito:
I means it's a well established theory in genetics that character traits can be inherited by offsprings from the parents.

Oh boy, the mendelian laws (i.e the law segregation of genes and the law of independent assortment) has nothing to do with social vices bro, the word "character/traits" has nothing to do with the type of behaviour you'll turn out to have in your adulthood. Yahoo Yahoo, armed robbery, becoming a ritualist etc, are not the inheritable characters/traits the mendelian laws was referring to.

Kazim88:
US is run by Deep State. President come and go but this people are long term government employees and contractors. The control US president, Media and Culture. Trump was not expected to win.

Who are those people bro, expose their identity if what you're saying is true.
You want to peddle the propaganda that CNN is state controlled all in favour of painting the Russians as saint. Your agenda is already dead on arrival, cos the Russians are one of the examples of a "state gagging the media". News media in the west have more freedom to post news whether it supports the government or not. Trump is a very good example, please give us an example of a state that will allow such in the alliance of countries (Russia, China, North Korea etc) that you seem to adore.

wiseone28:
He didn't say all but majority

So you and the OP believe that majority of the bad people we have on Earth are adopted right?
Where and how did you collate this data sir?
You seemed to be privy to an info others don't know about, enlighten us and table your argument please.

For the record, I'm only teasing you o. What you're basically doing is called fallacy and it's against science o. You don't state something that only occurs in few cases out of many as a law/principle.

wiseone28:
Till you witness one then you will

Oh, so you believe in that statement that only adopted kids end up becoming hired killers, Yahoo Yahoo boys/girls, ritualists, kidnappers, terrorists etc, abi?
And that all and many more of those vices are inheritable via genes?
So according to you and the OP, there's genetic Yahoo Yahoo and so on?
Have a lovely day sir, whatever works for you.

Kazim88:
The western elite believes they can control the world with Mainstream Media. CNN lies and distort fact intentionally to push a preferred Narative and they think there will be no consequence.

Europeans are currently angry with the US, they knew US was vicious but assume that the US will only target Russia and not Europe. They encourage the US vs Russia shuffle believing when US dismantle Russia they will get their share but alas they were wrong. The US has no allies only subordinates.

The US will eventually self destruct from within. The Liberals will most likely unleash terror on half hearted conservative and centrist.

Is CNN a state owned media?
CNN and Trump were at loggerheads while the later was the POTUS, that shows you that to a large extent the media is still independent in the U.S
Can you say the same about Russia, where the government controls every single output done by their media? Abeg use another example not this one.

wiseone28:
I have seen such before..
Went to abroad came back with nothing.

You're in support of the OP right? Well, I have a different opinion to OP' o.

Johnn78:
That example of 2years ago too far sef just Tuesday August 30th 2022 inthe headlines.,
Mr. Peter Orji, a native of Uruagu in Nnewi North Anambra State shot dead his own biological elder brother, Mr. Godwin Orji for disconnecting his light over non-payment of his electricity tariff/NEPA Bill.
Ordinary argument over Nepa bill one biological brother ended the life of another.
If na adopted siblings now, we for not hear word again.

Sept 3rd 2022 Ahmadu Munkaila and a father of five children in Gagarawa local government of Jigawa State made the headlines for killing his parents and was not in any way regretting killing them!!!
September 22nd 2022 an undergraduate boy from Anambra Also made headlines for murdering his own biological parents !!!.

Sadly, social vices, yahoo, armed robbery, are not exclusive to non bilological adopted children and their surrogate families alone!!

A biological child can kill his or her parents too and siblings sharing the same blood can kill each other is vice versa
It’s the sad reality of today’s decadent society!!. .Even some pastor children turn out wayward!!!.
One of President Shehu Shahari's biological sons was caught as a drug dealer and a user and also imprisoned.Even some kids of pastors, imams, professors etc have been known to turn into hoodlums. We pray for grace, patience , long life and strength to train our children the right way in todays secular world!

Amen to this prayer o. Lot of things are happening in this life.

PoliteActivist:
Here's what I wrote b4:

How many countless times have children of the same parents turned out polar opposites. In almost all the cases it is because the parents spoilt one child for whatever reason (maybe only son out of many girls, or last born) and they grow up wayward, while their siblings turned out hard-working, upright pillars of society!

Your write up is quite valid. I know a pastor in my village, he initially had 4 children three of which were girls. His wife pampered the male child so much that it became evident that the future might be bleak for him. Right now he's nothing to write home about, and to make matters worst years ago they gave birth to another male child and the mother calmed down small. The wife is always fond of calling the guy "my first born SON" even in the presence of his elder sisters and the so called first born son is struggling with a lot of social vices while the sisters are doing far better right now. There's still hope for him anyway.

zubito:
This is a very insightful analysis from the sociological viewpoint. I'd like to think that genetics can't be ruled from character formation.

How does genetics affect character formation?

Gotam:
a biological child can kill his or her parents too and siblings sharing the same blood can kill each other is vice versa

An incident was shared on this forum probably last year or in 2 years ago. A man used a Cutlass to decapitate and kill his biological brother because they had an argument over the ownership of a mango tree. Biological brothers brought up by their parents o. May God help us all.

JackDaAlienz:
And you foolishly believed that I'm gay

See how your stupidity prevent you from realizing how stupid you sound

Are you gay or not?
Except, maybe you didn't say that and others are telling lies against you.

No need to drag issues with you again. If you have agreed to read like you were told to while in high school, then you won't be here shouting out of ignorance since morning. Humble yourself and learn mate, that's if you're open to correction and wants to go far in life.
Just try to do a quick research via the Internet on the subject of discussion and get enlightened.
Madness, Yahoo Yahoo, becoming a ritualist/armed robber etc are not inheritable at all. Even bad parents have been known to have children who later turn out to become good people. I really don't know how much emphasis I have to lay on this for it to enter that your thick, empty skull.

Germi9:
I read people say bad parenting LOL i have seen parents who were so bad In bringing up children yet non of the children were bad, am talking about marrying more than 5 different wives or women,beating them,not even providing,smoking and carrying small small girls to the house and lots of nasty things.
What will be, will be ..as a child you chose whom you want to be cos no be your parents go follow you go school
Even the children of pastors,police and professors are worse quote me

Of course it is not about parenting alone, the exposure/environment is also important.

JackDaAlienz:
You just spew jargons without making sense
Oga sabinus oya,tell us the difference

Go and learn about this before you start spewing trash here bro. How will you say that Yahoo Yahoo is hereditary, you sure say you go school?
You're not ready to learn, no need to waste my time on you. Even lions have to be taught how to hunt for survival while young by the lioness, before it can become an instinctive behaviour.
Your father's friend failed as a parent, he's still in denial and doesn't want to take the blame for his failure (sorry if you consider this harsh, but it's the truth).
Please just tell us that all bad people on Earth are adopted and bring the end to this discussion.

wiseone28:
This is an eye opener

Oh God, this one has already believed the lies told by OP. Think for yourself guy, think.
What OP listed there are vices and there's no correlation between vices and genetics, vices are not inheritable. Upbringing/parenting and the society/exposure/peer pressure is the key word, not adoption.
Using the OP's logic, are you saying that all/most of the bad people we have in history and on Earth right now became bad because they were adopted?
OP himself is a self professed homosexual/gay and there are lots of individuals here that hate gays and see it as a social vices too, should those people also conclude then that the OP became gay because he was adopted?

Kobojunkie:
If we are to follow your line of reasoning , shouldn't we also conclude that since there are those whose sons also end up yahoo boys and drugs dealers/addicts layer on in life, it isn't worth it having children at all?

The way some of you still dey reason right in this information age wey we don day at least 20 years dey make person wonder if hope dey at all.

It's obvious that the dude is an underage jor, cos how will a sane adult reason like that and peddle falsehood to get cheap likes. We're in an era where people don't reason and are not eager to know facts, they just spew whatever rubbish came to their mind.

JackDaAlienz:
You are still a kid, until you have your own kids you will understand that it takes.
If you take an orphan, feed them, cloth them and care for them for life.
Which type of love is bigger than that
They are not your biological kids but you sacrifice and hurstle everyday to provide for them.
I ask again, which kind love is bigger than that??
This is what that man did for his 2 adopted boys yet they still torment him.

Do you know if the original parents of those those boys are rascal?
A lion doesn't gove birth to an elephant
A lion gives birth to A LION

So if you like treat the lion like a human
If you like dont spoil the lion
If you like discipline the lion
give it cloth. Give it shoes give it car
That lion will always be a wild animal

I know a nurse who her adopted son is in Malaysia doing yahoo. He fights and beats her before he travelled.
He didn't even tell his mother he was travelling

I'm still laughing reading through your comments guy.
So you don't know that animals have something called "INSTINCTS".
You're trying to say that instincts and genetics are the same. They told you to read in high school and you refused, here's the proof of why they told you to do so. Obviously, you won't be here peddling ignorance if you just took your time to read back then.

JackDaAlienz:
Majority of the names you listed where kids raised without their fathers but by their mothers or aunt. Or extended family
which means they were raised by their blood relatives
Compared to those who are raised by totally different familes
For 1 successful adopted kid
There are 1000 more that are not successful

Please where did you see this statistics?
Maybe you collated it in the confines of your room. Stop peddling lies alaye.

JackDaAlienz:
The man that I know and saw for 20 years caring and loving his 2 adopted boys unconditionally.
Bought and spent a lot on them
Yet they decided to torment him and leave him with partial stroke.

Now go and tell that man that the reason why the 2 boys are rascals is because he didn't show them love.
You see how stupid you will look saying that?

If you like pet a snake from now till tomorrow
It will still bite you.

How do we now recon this your statement with children that became bad individuals even though they were brought up by their biological children?
Or are you insinuating that all children that grew up to become bad individuals were brought up by adopted parents?
Make it make sense guy. This Nairaland sef.

FeliciaOja:
I feel no amount of nuture can change your true nature.
If your father is tall his kids inherit tall genes
If you father had hot temper issues and you inherit it. No amount of love can change it.
That is why genetics is stronger

This your comment shows that you don't understand a thing about genetics. How will you liken temperament to inheritable traits like height, this is ment.

FeliciaOja:
I feel no amount of nuture can change your true nature.
If your father is tall his kids inherit tall genes
If you father had hot temper issues and you inherit it. No amount of love can change it.
That is why genetics is stronger

So temper is genetic?

JackDaAlienz:
My father's friend loved those 2 boys with all his heart.
Because his wife couldn't birth a boy for him.
He cherished them and pampered them
Bit look at how they treat him 20 years later.

Man had partial stroke after one of them beat him up for asking him where he is coming back from late at night.

Its not by raising them with perfect love
They will exhibit their ORIGINAL parents behavior
What if their father was a Hardcore killer who raped and pregnanted a Mad woman
Mad woman give birth and they put the baby in orphanage.

That baby has the genetics of his ruthless killer father. No matter how much love you show him that baby will still exhibit his original parents behaviour because he has his genes

My apologies, but you haven't said a meaningful thing in your comments. Are you saying that no child has done this and more to their biological parents?
We've heard of several children that killed their parents for money rituals.
Also, are you saying that all the children that are constituting a nuisance to the society and into vices like Yahoo Yahoo, kidnapping etc, were all brought up by adopted parents?
Your write up is full of fallacies, fallacy of hasty generalization. Use your logic hommie, you said you there that your father's friend pampered those kids to a fault and you're still looking for some of the reasons they became what they are today?
We've seen lots of orphans that lived on the street or was adopted by people becoming great people and having a positive influence on others, you just saw just a single case and you're here making wrong conclusions, you even likened yourself to Jesus sef.

MadamVanessa:



Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know? probably he's among men that do say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across.

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.

But women do this all the time too now?
What the woman did is wrong anyway, professional courtesy over any mumu attachment, don't mix business with pleasure. Maybe he was childish to share the screenshot on social media, who knows.
Both of them deserve each other sha, birds of a feather flock together.

FullBlastLight:
It's now I deduced dt u don't know d distinction btw a Realist & an Idealist!

Trump is too volatile 2 be pocketed, cowed, or suppressed anywhere!

There's a striking difference btw boldness & arrogance, find out, dude!

Don't 4get dis Trump's Punchline:

In Real Eastate & Business, as well as in Politics, Time & Location are of d essence!

Go & learn what dt means!

It might take u many yrs sha, bt learn anyway!

You're still a learner mate. Please give the correlation between this statement and sitting at a funeral mass.
That gathering is not a show of ego/power. Only an narcissist will think that the world revolves around him alone. Narcissism is a very nasty behaviour.

INTEGRITYA1:
Trump na guy Man, if not for his Twitter ban, we would have heard more from him.

Diplomacy is not in his dictionary.

There's a time to be diplomatic, also there's a time to take the initiative and be aggressive.

INTEGRITYA1:
Haaaa, if you noticed my text you will notice I don't even talk about burial ceremony whatever.

I'm just relating to location in terms of buying landed properties.

Ok. But then sir, what does real estate have to do with burial mass? I'm trying to understand it from Trump's perspective o. I consider it weird.