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The poster didnt compare well.
The comparison should be which do you prefer between a virgin with bad character and a non virgin with good character?

Obsession4u:
It's over buhari!!!

I personally can't wait for God to call you to glory if you don't end this SARS team

Which Glory

sajmark:
congratulations boss.
CARL-CARE RIGHT NOW...

This is the funniest post / pix i've read and seen in recent times

The question you should ask yourself is... it he has been very successful and rich after leaving you, Whould he have come back?

If you convince yourself that the answer is yes, then take him back. But if NO. Please throw him out. Because if you help him back on his feet? He may still abandoned you again

loneprof:
Propaganda... These pictures aren't reflective of the true state of Lagos. Lagos has become the dirtiest and most polluted state in Nigeria.
All these roads are always dirty and traffic-ridden.

Why don't you show pictures of agberos and danfo drivers fighting on the road or keke napap with bumper guards scratching cars on the daily... Show us the drainages blocked with dirt with no LAWMA staff clearing them for months... Flooding nko?

Show us Ikotun, Iyana Ipaja, Ikeja Along, Agege, Mushin, etc. They represent 80% of the real Lagos!

I totally agree with you. From today I will never believe any picture of other states poster here, if he can say this about Lagos at this time.

Numero9:
Most people mistake me for a introvert. But the fact is I'm ambivert. I enjoy solitude alot and can be much of a talker with the right people.

This is so me.

Stealing money from the south to develop the north is not cool

FluxEmpire:
I'd put things clear as apt as it is... If you say you love the second guy, then you never loved the first... You can't love two people at the same time; it's impossible.

If you wanna go for the second guy, then do so and stop using the first as leverage or collateral to keep whenever the new guy is unavailable.

Furthermore, you'd be doing more good than harm in leaving your first boyfriend because as it is, you clearly don't love him because love goes beyond what you just see physically. It's accepting one's shit and excesses and loving them for who they are.

Give your first boyfriend the respect he deserves by leaving him and stop loving him out of pity. You're only making him a lovelorn. If you actually knew that the new guy had all you needed in a man, courtesy states that you remain single till you get to meet such guy even if it takes 100 years but outta being lonely, you opted to date your first and now the man of your dreams appeared, the first seems to fade in your eyes...

YOU CLEARLY DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

Give the first boyfriend the honor he deserves and let a woman who is worthy of him be with him. You can't eat your cake and have it. Next time, carry a TO-DO-LIST about your expectations with you henceforth because it seems if another guy should sweep you outta your feet better than the second, you might as well put the second in the corners.

I might have been rude but pardon my unfriendliness; the TRUTH hurts.

Best reply so far... you literal wrote my mind

Do unto others the way you want them to do unto you.

I baffles me when the so called educationally backward part of country are the ones heading all key positions in the country.

The day Amadioha wedded longer throat

Obinoscopy:
Who can solve this? It's not as easy as you think.

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PS:

It's interesting how people are getting varying answers. I will post a summary of all the different answers posted by nairalander here:

Simple. It is 15

My brother, these people dont need our votes to win. They simply rig themselves to power

Ladipodeal:
I don't think any VIO fine in Lagos is less than 20k.

I was surprised when I read N550, my first tot was N550k.

HenryDion:
I read an entire epistle and nowhere did I see a mention of "Hospital."

All you said was, you were taken to 'some places' and 'church'

The mind is very powerful, in the sense that it can play according to your fears, what you hear or see.

I want to be very honest with you, what is happening to you is not spiritual, neither is your ex trying to harm you.. Leave that poor boy out of this.

The reason you started dreaming about your ex and having sex in the dream was the moment someone hinted about your ex being the cause of your problem..

Lemme tell you my life's story, so you'll learn about the power of the mind.

I was diagnosed with HIV in 2009 in a heart to heart center and immediately, I start exhibiting all the symptoms of HIV. I got thin overnight, sores started growing in my throat, and some rashes too.

I was told to begin medication immediately.. The hospital they referred me to, for my ART drugs ran another test.

Everything came out negative. They conducted more test to confirm and everything was negative. I got confused.

I went to a more sophisticated private lab here in Abia state. Still, the test was all negative. What happened? What do I have to say about the symptoms?

What am I saying? The mind is powerful, and these churches and pastors will not help you. Instead, they will play on your emotions and heighten your fears..

Dump all of them and go to a reliable hospital. Let them run some tests and know what's really wrong with you.

Hospitals are where you should go when you're sick, not the church. I don't know if this will sink, but for your sake, I hope it does.

Demiladey361

I agree with you 100%

JimohMomoh:
True that's their real name but the Nigerian media has been threatened by DSS not to mention fulani herdsmen.

The way people from Plateau state voted massively for Buhari during election, you will think he used jazz on them.

Mr brother, nobody voted for this govt, atleast not this second term. These demons rigged themselves into power.

GermanMelania:
The masks they have a just dust mask sef. Thry are modt likely not N95.
But why is the speaker fingering his own nipples

I was wondering the same

healthserve:
Riding on the tide of popularity to appear legitimate.

Unfortunately, We now know shamans are not prophets now no matter how well they disguise or how accurately they might fit the right scripture in.

Sadly, if it's not of God, it's not lf God, no matter how a shaman portrays himself.


Cc: Do your research using this search phrases

Shaman

Shamanism

Mahanta

Messenger of the devil

Occultic healer



Satanists disguising themselves as prophets disguising occultic healing as prophetic work to conduct nonsense and magic disguised as miracle. But are mere magic

This is case of "if you do, you are doomed, if you dont, you are doomed."
In your opinion how should he have responded to the list?

24SEVEN:
Tinubu sorry.

Really sorry

Awol1:
They've played pin pom with Oshiomole's destiny.

Politics is a dirty game.

Where is Tinubu when you need him?

His mouth odour was supposed to salvage something na.

Hahahahahahaha
Buhari sense of smell don die

This Asari....What does he actually do for a living?

I laugh in French

mrbenjame:
I think I need matured minds to advice me because I’m very confused right now. Please take pains to read my story.

I dated a lady called Susan (not her real name ). For 4 years. I loved her so much and she did too. I met her when She was preparing to enter the university. 6 months into the relationship I went for service. Came back and it was already clocking 2 years. Whenever she visits I always try to make her comfortable. So she took advantage of my care and always wanted me to serve her all the time. Even when she visits from school she would be operating her phone and watch me do what on a normal terrain she should assist me do. As a young guy I try as much as I can to let her know that at least once in a while it would be nice to get my meal served by my woman even if I prepared it (since she doesn’t like entering the kitchen). Most time I overlook it because probably she’s very tired and all that. Sometimes I thought I was just being selfish but I really wanted to feel that woman attributes but I wasn’t seeing it.

Each time we fix time for a date she comes very late and that piss me off to my bone marrow. She never keeps to time. I endured this for a long time because she never turned up early in any appointment. She calls me at late hours and when I try to explain to her that it’s late she gets angry ( I’m talking of 12 am or there about) and I’ll go to work the next day. Anytime she offends me she would want to be romantic so I’d forget her wrongs just to calm me down. But I was suffering inside.

I felt very weak emotionally and decided to take things easy.

Until I met this lady called Benita (not her real name). I liked her. I admired everything about her. So I approached her while we were going back home from work. We had good conversations and I was happy because she was fun to be with. We exchanged contact and we started chatting. Forgive me because I became happy again just talking to her. Whenever we say goodbye when she gets off the bus she times when I’d get home and immediately I step my foot in my house she calls.( already I’ve told her when I’d be home). I invited her to a date in an eatery and she turned up 10 minutes to the time. I was shocked.

I became more involved with her. I invited her home. She went to my kitchen and she said “ your plates are not washed why? I just smiled and told her I’ll take care of that. Before I knew what was happening she’s started washing the plates. I begged her to stop because I didn’t send her to do that and besides it’s her first time in my house. But she refused. I let her (though the plates were not much but I was happy). She started visiting often with food items to cook. And I obliged to assist her. She refused again. We argued until she had her way. I just sit with her in the kitchen and gist while she cooks. To me I felt I was punishing her because all I wanted is that things of such can be done by her once in a while. (I sabi pity person o. Lols!). And secondly I’m not used to a woman doing things for me for a very long time now.

She calls all the time. Talks so lively and very funny. She’s not the miss romantic type but very smart and reserved.

After a while, you can’t cheat karma. Susan found out. She came to know about Benita. And since then it wasn’t easy settling between two of them. But Susan won’t just give up and I think I’m cool with Benita.

Today Benita is in her 100 level while Susan is about going for her service.

Now I’m trying to be responsible to settle down. I talked with my mum and some close friends of mine but they’re tipping Susan for me because she’s out of school and it would make things much easier for me than settling with Benita. But I love Benita now. She makes me happy. What do I do?

From Ur write up, u know who to choose