₦airaland Forum

spencekat:
You will see a lot of them at Aba.It is really embarrassing.For example,from Osisioma junction to Brass junction.

Yes, I understand that Aba has bad roads, which Nigerian city doesn't? I'm asking the OP, how exactly that pictures tells us it's Aba or it is because of Aba roads?
For the fun of it, that picture could have been taken anywhere.

And how do we exactly verify that this picture is taking in Aba Abia state? Where is the road? Where exactly in Aba?

Midehi:
...who come beat you ni

I was outside hearing those 'screams' and my heart just cut. I prayed and sang, and confessed all my sins including those of my generations. I just wanted one thing, for God to make those screams to stop.
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I doff my hat to all mothers in the house.

onomeasike:
Please remind me of the cut off marks for education courses and why you chose to embarras yourself with this lie from the pit of hell on this first day of a brand new week?

My Professor once said, "that a 'trained' teacher can never go hungry unless he/she wants to".
Go figure.

Me wey dey outside dey cry. If I enter that place, I go faint.

If you are teaching where you are paid 20k or less, my brother know that your school is a mushroom school or you were never qualified to teach in the first place.
No, B.A(Ed) or B.sc(Ed) will accept to teach with that ridiculous price. Infact an N.C.E or T.C. 11 won't accept it, cos they know they are hot cakes in the educational sector.
So, leave teaching for teachers.

Leave teaching for teachers.

Rich4god:
I been wan reply you, but as I see ur dp, I just gv up...

I follow give up as I check the DP...... I know wan match Ab0ki shit.

hectorswag:
Why do I get the feeling that this revelation was birthed by a blackmail??

Blackmail I doubt it much. Even when he was second in command to Ribadu, Lamorde has been involved in corruption. I am a witness to this, but cannot prove it.

I for one know that Lamorde receives bribe from people detained in EFCC cells before they are bailed. Since no receipts where given in such 'dirty' transactions, I can't prove this allegation. But as far back as 2003, I have witness such happening.

nonebutme:
fashola himself should eat the humble pie. When he was bad talking Tinubu to Buhari immediately after Buhari was declared winner and also undermining him, he didn't know then?

When? and how was he bad mouthing BAT?
And how exactly do you want him to eat the humble pie? Has BRF ever openly disrespected Tinubu?
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I am from Abia, and if BAT had a godson like T.A. Orji, I doubt if he wouldn't have given thanks to the gods for people like Fashola. As far as I am concerned Fashola was a good godson to BAT.

Chai, Money ehhh! Ehh¿ I swear down, money is good.

wheredemdey:
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Fashola should grow some balls and fight dirty too...but guess tinubu has massive dirty on him...if fashola tries rubbish...tinubu will open his book of sin...

BRF, to the best of my knowledge is a Technocrat and not a politician. Moreover BRF is no match for BAT politically.

Who wants BRF down?
Yes, I was one of those who protested when he sent some 'foreigners' out of Lagos. But that one action cannot make me to hate BRF. His developmental projects in Lagos, speaks volume.
Abeg, make una free this man.

ejirede:
but you are happy with the last government that ruin our economy.just wait and see how this country will be turn around by this administration

I guess, you haven't checked my post history. Cos if you have, I doubt you will make this comment.

brainpower:
The other day a report said "Saraki eats the humble pie" today Tinubu lobby's Saraki. It all boils down to what we want to here and believe.

If Fowler has nothing to hide, then what's the need for the lobby?
Personally, I think the man can deliver but PMB should make sure Tinubu doesn't own us just like he owned Lagos through Fowler.

Fowler as a person has little or nothing to lose whether her gets this appointment or not. But BAT needs Fowler there, so that his company Alpha Beta can dip its beak in the national treasury.
Imagine Alpha Beta being contracted to oversee the collection of taxes in Nigeria and getting 10% or 5% of all the IGR of Nigeria. Just close your eyes and imagine the money that will be accrued to one man, through proxy.
I repeat, BAT has a lot to gain if Fowler is approved by Senate.

Realdeals:
Tinubu cannot control Fowler under Buhari administration, if any mago-mago happens, it will be an opportunity for PMB to punish Tinubu by proxy.

Tinubu will control the Reverend Vice President as well as this Fowler. Some of us have already forseen the type of CHANGE Tinubu wants. Change for his pockets alone, not Change because of National interest.

I have from several sources that Ganja is medicinal.

Biko, who was expecting General B. to fulfiill this particular promise? Only the gullible. Definitely not the 5%.

Una no dey tire Lagos as a geographical location belongs to the Yorubas.
As a Cosmopolitan city State, anyone can come there and hustle to achieve the Nigerian Dream.
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Proudly 5% and Nobody Owes me anything.

Those messages are not for our children, but for those whose business is PIRACY. Methinks the publishers put in those messages there in the Water mark, which will not be visible unless when it's pirated.
But unfortunately, the Pirates no send them message. And that is the result.

You know when you are desperate for power, you say anything and everything just to deceive the electorates and be voted into office.
The very day I read that General Buhari was going to abolish the office of the First Lady, I knew it practically impossible. Not when he was married to a woman like Aisha.
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Nigerians like to be deceived that's why we keep recycling this expired human beings.
The more things look as if they are changing the more they remain the same.

adanny01:
i will just bring to your notice that controlling another human other than yourself completely is impossible

Finito!!!! This is the simple explanation to all these arguement.

Vikky014:
hahahahahahahahaha. dont mind dt guy jare. bt the funniest thing is dt if his wife shld confess to hv cheated for two years while they were dating he wunt forgive her ooooo
hypocrisy at its peak.

You will be amazed at some things I have gisted with my wife. The past is past. Why bring it to the present.
She didn't owe me Fidelity while we were dating. And I didn't owe her either. But we have both taking our vows, and I can tell you that I take my Vows of Fidelity very serious.
On that last day, I will stand and give account of MY LIFE. Not account of My wife's life, nor that of my son when he will be of age.


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My past is my past, and I am willing to take responsibility for my actions. Equally willing to Suffer on account of it, if and when it comes. I have had my heart broken, and have equally broken other peoples heart. That is Life.

freecocoa:
Na wa o, so all the listed amounts to cheating? This is serious.

My dear, Life is not black and white. Its all shades of gray. Cheating/Love are all subjective.
If a guy ever toasted the OP within the two years and she never made 'full disclosure' for whatever reason. That means she is hiding something. (It's debatable). And to some could be termed cheating.
If she ever had a male admirer that she loves chatting with, and she didn't disclose all the nitty gritty of their chat. Then she could be tagged double dating (subjective and debatable).
If she has accepted gifts from a guy, cash or kind, and she didn't let her ex know about it in that two years. She is planning to cheat or already cheating (subjective and debatable).











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I am playing the devils advocate.

francizy:
Odikwa egwu! Haputa na iro, ha na eme na ha afuka nwoke na anya, mana owere ike obu na owere nwoke ozo na akolobi the bebe.

Soso OP ma nke na aya ya na ahu. Ya mara kwa amara na acid du real and owere ike oburu na the other bebe bu udi nmadu na awu acid.

Omara ihe, okwa yere onwe ya ugwu, hapu ndi nugoro di na nwuye, ga choba di nke ya.

You two are very funny.

jemimaa01:
women in naija have to step up their game o! we take alot of BS just to get married or stay married...I totally get your point tho,but still she ahld tell d other lady,if she decides to go ahead with the marriage,good for her and her future,if she doesn't, better for her...in all sha,I hope I never have to face this kind of situation, it's not easy at alllll..

that aside,I know u from the B15 thread

And I say a big Amen at the bolded.

jemimaa01:
that's not true,exposing him wld do the relationship every bit of harm except the girl isn't normal,pls tell me you won't react.in a bad way if u find out that your bae of 7years has been seeing another dude for the past 2years,and you're even a guy.

like I said earlier,call me wicked,but exposing him wld be the only way I wld heal..you need to look at it.from a woman's perspective if you're to understand my view on this issue..

From personal experience, I will tell you that the fiancee will hurt for sometime and shrug it off. It won't break that relationship or make her call it off.
Last last, the guy go just cry and beg his fiancee saying
"she is the one who seduced me and even when I wanted to leave her she threatened to tell you. I couldn't bear seeing you hurt. That is why I succumbed to her emotional blackmail. It was all a mistake. I should have told you myself from the beginning. I promise it won't happen again".
If fiancee still dey do shakara, you will remind her of all the years she has put in into the relationship, and that both families are now involved. Tell me how that one wan take break the Engagement abi introduction?

freecocoa:
You clearly have, by saying that fidelity only counts in marriage.

Yes it is cheating, cheating isn't just about sex, how can you not know that?

So this OP, didn't laugh at the joke of another man in those two years? She didn't hang out with another man in those two years (even if it was just to hear him out)? This lady didn't recieve a call, text or chat with another man in those two years?
Or did she tell her 'lover' now ex everythig that happened in her life within those two years?
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How then am I justifying CHEATING if she ever did any of these? That is why am saying the head and not the heart.
Love is Subjective.

freecocoa:
We all have our tales but that shouldn't be justification for cheating .

I'm just not of the opinion that it can be justified.

My dear, I havn't justified cheating. Ok. Assuming the lady has not lost her virginity to this man and she dated the man for two years without the man seeing her pants. Yet the man moved on to marry his fiancee of 7 years, will it be tagged CHEATING?.
Or are you saying the lady never heard a 'friendly' conversation with another man within those two years?

freecocoa:
Ofcourse I understood you the first time, it's okay to be a liar and a cheat so long as one isn't married, I'm just a little confused on how someone with such mindset can be claiming to be a child of God, talking about his grace and all, oh! Wait, I gerrit, hypocrisy at its finest.

hahaha. Freecocoa, I have known you on NL for a long time. I ran away from Family and Romance section, when I found out that most advice given there are more from the heart than the head.
Life and reality is what it is. I begin to narrate how many heart breaks tales I have heard from guys and some ladies and even some I have experienced and equally dished out. You may start feeling sorry for me and my guys woes.
Morality is one thing and real life experiences and decisions are another. Call me a hypocrite, if you must. But we humans are selfish in nature. And we make those decisions we think favors us most.
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"If man wants to be good all the time, he will come to ruin against the multitude of men who are not good"
N. Machiavelli.

At the risk of sounding sanctimonious, What is LOVE? Why are most ladies and some guys bringing emotions into this?
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If this girl had not lost her 'innocence' to this guy and she were still a Virgin, won't the advice given here been different?
She consciously decided to give the guy her self for two years, just like the other lady (fiancee) has dated the guy for seven years. I didn't read anywhere that the guy Rap'ed her.
She should be responsible for her actions. Cos if Karma starts visiting every fornicating couple, I wonder how many will still remain. Abegi make we dey reason with head and not heart.