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No 5...... why can't he understand that I just want to stay home and watch movies, browse the net or something..... I don't feel like hanging out.

If you dey folo mgbeketoto dey argue..... sorry na your name.

Afam4eva: I no just understand this woman sha. I think some water has passed under the bridge that has made you hate Igbos will so much passion. Do you mind sharing?

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My girl: The little problem i have is about money i am part of my sis bridal train and i need like 6k for the cloth and 2k for the shoe will we use but mum is paying part of it for me and they ask me to get some also but with no avail i dont want to bother you but no body to assist me and i also wants to get some material for my training and my cousin is also doing her weddng this saturday i have to get what i will put on myself so thats what my prob is all about thanks for listening love u
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Guitarlife: I need to buy 5pieces of suit for my resumption. One cost 19500naira I have just 30K on me cos I bought fone.what do you think I should do?
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My girl: I think you should do it stepwisely one by one but dont worry if mine will affect you i will get solution elsewhere thanks.
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I will give you the advice I gave to one of my male cousins and also what I did when I was doing my MBA.....
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I will advice that you release this babe (but stay friends). Why, because of the bolded..... If you don't give her, another guy will give her (now this implies to both money and Dic.kson). So since you cannot meet her demands now, because of the starin on ur own finances (of course you must look out for urself first), let her be. If she wants to keep being your GF fine.... if not no wahala...
2) When I was doing my masters, I knew it was going to cost money and I wasn't willing to turn to a beggar or a burden to family and friends ( I hate begging).... I shunned any form of intimate relationship with the opposite sex... (except some free givers and no strings attached girls).... Today, I have my second degree and I also have choices in who becomes my GF.......... Guy, have patience..... Good things will never finish in this world.

aniffy4eva: @ OP
Just ignore all the posts that don't make sense. There are a lot of loose canons/little kids here on NL.

About your question, your fears are not unfounded. It can be really worrisome, particularly if you want to be logical/analytical based on the facts. I have friends who got married >30 and have kids today. I equally have friends who got married >30 and don't have kids. C'est la vie!

Trust me, she's has probably also questioned her ability to conceive "after 30" and is building up all her faith, so i understand if you don't want to puncture that with probing questions.

My advice: If BOTH of you can handle it, BOTH of you should go for a medical check-up. You can tell her that you want BOTH of you to know for sure. Although it is not a guarantee that babies will come immediately after the wedding, it just gives BOTH of you some level of assurance that there's nothing wrong with either of you. And that knowledge will help your faith (BOTH of you), and will develop the thick skin in her. Please note my emphasis on "BOTH of you".

All the best man!

Best advice so far.

berem: You see something wrong in Jonathan being intimidated not to contest in 2015,but you see nothing wrong in your man Amaechi being intimidated by Jonathan and his wife not to contest in 2015?

smh for you!

Fair is Foul; Foul is Fair.......all na politics. Don't lose sleep over this unless you are gaining in some ways......

33BILLION........ABEG MEN & WOMEN SHOULD FEAR GOD OHH....

Anyone who have seen this guys should type www.nairaland.com
or call the nearest nairalander.
End of Public Service Announcement.

Even females are saying

Nomski0: #end time things

I knew it! Someone must say it...........
Again

samilo88: End time things

The parallel Peoples Democratic Party led by Abubakar Baraje has said the faction of the party led by Dr. Bamanga Tukur should be deregistered by the Independent National Electoral Commission. It hinged its position on what it described as the failure of the faction to complying with Section 222(D) of the 1999 Constitution which requires a political party to notify INEC of any alteration of its constitution. The PUNCH learnt of this on Tuesday shortly after the Chairman, Board of Trustees of the PDP, Chief Tony Anenh, said the seven governors who aligned with a former Vice- President, Alhaji Atiku Abubakar, and others to form the Baraje -led faction had genuine grievances. The position of the faction known as the 'New PDP' is part of the statement of claims before the Lagos High Court,Ikeja . The faction is also seeking the declaration of Tukur as illegal chairman of the PDP on the grounds that he was not properly accepted as a member of the PDP after his expulsion by the National Executive Council of the party in 2001. According to the statement of claims, "It will be recalled that the 2009 PDP Constitution was amended which brought about the 2012 PDP constitution. "Evidence has surfaced to prove that strange clauses which were not part of the proposed amendment to the 2009 Constitution was inserted into the originally produced version of the 2012 Constitution and those alterations were not approved by the party's convention and the NEC, thereby making the document a forged document which is invalid. "The forged 2012 Constitution was not equally filed before INEC as required by the 1999 Constitution, thereby making the PDP constitution upon which the 2013 convention was held an invalid document and the outcome of that convention invalid, as it was held with no valid constitution. "The proof of these evidences can be seen in the approved memo by the PDP NEC upon which the amendment was done in the 2012 and the original version of the PDP constitution filed with INEC will as well prove these violations." On why Tukur was not capable of presiding over the PDP convention, the statement of claims noted that, "exactly on May 31, 2001, the PDP NEC, after its meeting in Abuja, expelled eight members of the PDP in accordance with the PDP constitution which gives the NEC the powers to discipline NEC members who breach the constitution. "They were expelled after NEC considered and adopted the report of the Iro Dan Musa-led PDP Disciplinary Committee. Alhaji Tukur, Chief Don Etiebet, Asheik Jarma, Edwin Ume- Ezeoke (late), Emmanuel Ibeshi, Harry Marshal and Gbenga Olawepo, were the ones expelled from the PDP. "Note that Article 10(b) iii of the PDP 2009 constitution and Article 8(17) of the 2012 amended constitution which holds that any member of the party who loses his membership by expulsion can only return to the party with the approval of the party executive at his ward, state and national levels, who shall give him a waiver. "Since the expulsion of Tukur in 2001, he has not complied with the above requirement , meaning that his purported participation at the 2012 convention where he was elected was a fraud and invalid, as he is not yet a member of the party." The Baraje's faction is also asking the court to declare the August 2013 convention as illegal based on the participation of "illegal delegates;" the disqualification of duly elected delegates; and the failure of the party to comply with the provision of Section 85(1) of the Electoral Act. Section 85(1) of the Act states, "a registered political party shall give INEC at least 21 days notice of any convention, congress, conference or meeting convened for the purpose of electing members of its executive committees, and other governing bodies." Also on Tuesday, a group, the PDP Stakeholders Forum, filed a fresh law suit at the Federal High Court in Abuja, seeking the nullification of PDP mini- convention and the sacking of Tukur. In the suit, the forum also asked INEC to deregister the Tukur-led PDP faction for allegedly using a forged 2012 constitution to hold the convention. The Chairman of the forum, Chief Ikenga Ugochinyere, said, "We insist that this act of brazen criminality must not go unpunished. The perpetrators of this heinous crime against the party and the law of the land should be arrested and charged to court. "Tukur is ab-initio not a bonafide member of the PDP that is capable of being elected into the office he currently occupies. Alhaji Tukur was expelled by the National Executive Committee of the party after being indicted for "high level anti-party activities" alongside five others in May 31, 2001." Tukur however denied the allegation that he was not a member of the party. Speaking through his aide, Mr. Oliver Okpala, he asked for evidence that he was no longer a member of the party. "Tukur is among the founding fathers of the PDP. He has paid his dues and the allegation that he has been suspended should be ignored. Let those making the allegation show evidence that he is no longer a member of the party," he said. Meanwhile, the PDP BoT Chairman, Anenih, has said the seven aggrieved PDP governors had genuine grievances. Anenih, in a statement in Abuja on Tuesday, also said that the Tuesday (yesterday) peace talks between President Goodluck Jonathan and the PDP governors, including the aggrieved ones, had been postponed till next Tuesday. He explained that the shift was at the instance of the aggrieved governors, adding that the peace talks would continue next Tuesday after selected party leaders of the party would have met with former President Olusegun Obasanjo on Friday as part of the wider consultations demanded by parties to the crisis. He said, "I believe some of them have genuine grievances; but I have hope that, once the grievances are addressed, they will come back. I am happy that the PDP has an internal mechanism for effective conflict resolution. At the end of the day, the problems will be addressed and the PDP will come out of the crisis stronger. "Part of the wider consultations is the meeting of selected party leaders with Chief Obasanjo on Friday morning and thereafter, we will meet with the governors on Tuesday, next week." He disclosed that the aggrieved governors told the Presidency and the PDP leadership that they needed more time to make wider consultations. Anenih explained that the Presidency and the PDP leadership were taking advantage of the postponement to also consult widely on how to amicably resolve the crisis. The BoT chairman, who read out the resolution of the marathon meeting that held in the Presidential Villa from Sunday night till the early hours of Monday, expressed optimism that the problems would be resolved. Anenih had at the end of the meeting read a short resolution to the hearing of the PDP governors.

chukwudi44: Atiku's faction stronger? OBJ forgive GEJ?You guys really make me laugh!! You underestimate the power of the office of the president because the current president is from a minority tribe.

It it comes to the worst he will use his powers to fight dirty!! There is madness in everyone .That the man just decides to play gentleman for the tiome being should not be misconstrued.

It is your likes that keep goading this President and he keeps stepping on toes and making mistakes.

I hope Alfa Belgore is not right..

chai...... sometimes I dey pity GEJ, sometimes I dey blame am for allowing i,diots in the name of praise singers abi special advisers to ruin things for him....... above all shepopo follow make this matter serious so.

Sincere 9gerian: GEJ has full control of PDP structures and would win the primary election any day, any time.

Aboki make your master no try that one ohh..... consensus candidate na him sure pass. Standing in to be elected as the flag bearer may turn to another governor's forum election brouhaha.........abeg no take that risk ohh.

I thought by now PDP would have suspended them alll....... well they may still suspend/expel them from the party.

Definitely

J12: END TIMES.

I am sure I will never write the quoted part.

IamAthens: #end time tinz

chukwudi44: Obasanjo Invites Ekwueme, Lar, IBB, Atiku, Others over PDP Crisis



03 Sep 2013


Former President Olusegun Obasanjo



Former President Olusegun Obasanjo has summoned a meeting of some of the founding members of the ruling Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) to brainstorm on the festering crisis in the party, eventually culminating in its breakup on Saturday.

Among those expected at the meeting slated for Thursday in Abuja, are former Vice-President Alex Ekwueme; a former national chairman of the party, Chief Solomon Lar; former military president, General Ibrahim Babangida; and former Vice-President Atiku Abubakar, who is the rallying point of the breakaway group, known as New PDP.



According to a source, “Those invited to attend the meeting are a former Chairman of the PDP Board of Trustees (BoT), former Vice-President Alex Ekwueme; former military president, General Ibrahim Babangida; a former national chairman of the party, Chief Solomon Lar; former Vice-President Atiku Abubakar, former National Security Adviser, General Aliyu Gusau (rtd); and other elders of the party.”



http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/obasanjo-invites-ekwueme-lar-ibb-atiku-others-over-pdp-crisis/158021/

After using these ones now, PDP will dump them untill another election time.

alaoeri: Op is trying to tell us that come 2015 his master (GEJ) gonna rig big time.

Again in Buhari's word:
Dogs and Baboons will be sooked in Blood...

Ochu Nwa okuko nwe ada, nwa okuku nwe, oso........
I am waiting for those ETT people.... to come and help derail this thread.

obicentlis: mecedonia:emindu: these two persons are paid agent of the state govt. Imagine the picture he posted here is what a gov achieved for 6 years. ClueleSs people, why do you sell your conscience and your children future for mere few naira.

The curses of Aba people will follow those two even to their 3rd and 4th generations.
Like you said before, only the Revenue collection organ of the government of T.A Orji that works. I fear driving out some times, even though I have all complete papers and have not committed any infractions...... I just fear seeing all those touts along Aba-Owerri road up to Factory road continuing from Park, up to Portharcourt road.
Moreover these revenue collected move around with police and Army, so any form of resistance will get you some serious beatings.

ckkris: Amechi has the right to join Boko Haram people to falsify Census, & ensure that nothing works in Nigeria, except pilgrimage to Mecca, of course based on oil money, whereas Egbeda town with 13 oil wells has nothing to show for it.
The minister may be very familiar with the 5 billion naira, Rivers state money, that was paid into private account in a bank on Azikiwe street, for which EFCC interrogated some officials. President Jonathan is not as soft as presume.

Stop sounding emotional. GEJ turned a blind eye when Amaechi was openly being disrespected. This was a guy that gave GEJ over 90% of Rivers State Vote, but GEJ is too weak or to proud to call his wife and wike to order.
If you were in Amaechi's Shoes what will you do?

why is everyone shouting ethnic this, ethnic that.........
when Asari and Clark were threatening the rest of us, did anybody shout ethnicity?
GEJ, and his boys thought that it is only the Ijaws and Igbos that will take him back to Aso Rock come 2015...... well he still has time for Horse Trading and making amends.