₦airaland Forum

swag queen: It means i have to start life afresh. 30 years with no money in the bank,with two children and no job! God!

swag queen: His sister keeps saying that if i leave,I'll be the one to lose.(which is true in a sense) but cuming from a divorcee whose husband battered until she ran for her life,i wonder what this world's turning into. She says many women want to be married to him and that as I'm the "lucky one",i should stay and still show him love. Till the day i die?

Chillisauce: Wetin concern concern trado. I no rubbish anything. Did the best in the situation .

Hubby paid his respect seeing Popsi and better elders secretly. As per the main event, me i no wan hear story abeg.

Dr young: Igbos value their traditions as other tribes do. Umunna and umuada who happens to be your relations are supposed to be there. Is not about me and my immediate family and circle of friends, there is this close ties Igbos have with their relations that they keep on trying to reinforce irrespective of whereever they live. problem arises when you view people in the village as witches and city people as saints.
Personally, I will always acknowledge my far and distant relations cos they contributed in making me what I am today.
There is no law that says it is suppose to be in the village but let's not forget our roots.

jidegirl12: Chilli Chilli you don kolo!

Even me wey be Yoruba still went to my grandfather's compound in the village to pay my respect for my trado. Lets not rubbish our heritage oh. Nigerian women change oooooo

Chillisauce: Our tradition states I be with my husband. To love and cherish ....

I can do the traditional any where I want. In my dictionary, safety first! Am very uncomfortable with security men with guns posing as a body guards for such occasion, the main thing is the church wedding.

Tradition ko, tradition ni....
As long as my present famile came for my wedding..I couldn't careless about fvck tradition.

Chillisauce: My burial will be in my darling husbands place. Fresh flowers will be changed for me every week.

The flowers no dey die....Naija no go see my dead body sef, unless dey kidnap me, kill , bury.

Even that.....my darlllling husband and kids will send French troops to destroy any village wey hide my body...insurance wey cover me no be small.

Like I said, no time for umunna

stillwater: I won't do mine in the village though.

yellowpawpaw: If I were the guy, I will back off. Love will not make me to marry a gal that hates her root. That's how we will give birth to children that will equaly hate mine eventually.
Mcheeew to Abuja marriage. So fake.

Chillisauce: It's not compulsory ! My traditional marriage was done online sef! No time for kidnap victim. ...

Wired the money for umunna and umunne dem...

Any umunna wey no like am, fvck off!

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Exponental: Not posible! What can make 2 ex lovers lay together is reconciliation which will be celebrated with sex!
Imposicant!

egift: OP, I want to beg you to stop insulting our senses with those photocopies/booklets of yours. The whole Nigeria will keep praying for the good people of Abia State not to make such mistake again.

Kairoseki77: ^^^^^

Why? I don't think he cares what you think.

odiman: When is time to fight gun to gun they can't fight but if it to flog civilian can will beating the person and be calling him bloody civilian, if na rioters they for know how to shot. F..K nigerian soldiers

Okeikpu: I hate to see soldiers from other parts of d country dying for dis modaphucking north useless set of pple how i wish 4them to pack their stuffs & join niger republic (-,-)