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MansoryMX:
I have a little company with 5 employees working for me, a Facebook and Instagram company page. Married, no kids yet and a personal house I live in. All these I achieved on my own without the use of certificate and even before I graduated from school. Don’t get me wrong but we deserved more in this country. All the 4am classes is just a waste of time. I know a lot of my fellow classmates who are security guards, Keke riders, kiosk owners, POS kiosk and hair makers. Is this the kind of life an average graduate with excellent certificates should be living in Nigeria? The only option a jobless graduate can venture into is entrepreneurship and it’s not cheap. Skill acquisition isn’t cheap as well. My comment speaks for thousands of jobless youth who have no means of getting capital even if they intend to go into entrepreneurship. As for skill acquisition through internet, forex, freelancers. You and I know that shiit ain’t easy at all.

necessity is the mother of invention. I worked for 6 yrs approximately building another man's brand before my eyes cleared. Most entrepreneurs were hopeless and left for dead before they suddenly had a life changing experience that gave their finances a boost. Once a man makes up his mind and ventures forward, he will meet with providence someday all things being equal.

MansoryMX:
What are you trying to say now because one minute y’all will say Education is the key? Of what use is going to school if you cannot practice your profession or make use of your certificate. Hellooooooo! Are you okay, Are you normal. Instead of you to fight for your right as a graduate you are here giving reasons why you are poor as a certificate holder? Na your teeth you wan use invest or go into entrepreneurship? Yes you, I am talking to you! Na wa o??

School has made a lot of people rich in overseas. People who just went for 3years courses, just 3 years! My elder sister was a dropout here in Naija. She struggled and traveled to Florida. Did a 3 years course in nursing. Today she has built more than 4 houses here in Nigeria. The Op, The mod who pushed this rubbish to Fp and all of you in support are all mad. You can’t tell me after going to lectures 4am just to secure a sit to enable me avoid standing outside window for 4 good years in school is a waste. God nova punish una reach for this country o! Una go suffer die. I pray my visa is approved so I can leave abeg. Make una continue to dey justify nonsense. Motivational speaking kee u there! Rubbish

you're wrong here. OP is only encouraging you to think outside the box. The Mary Kay cosmetics you hear about is a billionaire in the US and a lady who never used any certificate any day. Look at where you can be and not where you are at the moment. Facebook and WhatsApp cum Instagram, you know the story nah. I'm a graduate with a good certificate but I'm not making use of it at the moment and I've raised money to marry and start a family. Appreciate every advice that come your way and don't be close minded pls. Try listening to many rich men worldwide speak, they will tell you same thing this write up said. Peace...

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.
No
Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

check my siggy and meet me on WhatsApp let's talk.

lucasalves:
of course here comes the chest beating... guess it has worked well enough in the past...

call it sagacity rather

ThinkB4mention:
Glorified China phones.... No matter how careful you're you can't use them for 1 full year, without it having issues....my camon12 is not up to 1 year....it has visited CarlCare more than twice .... for same issue ....if you really want to know how this brands of phones (teachno,infinix,itel) are visit any CarlCare centre in your area! It's always crowded! They keep recycling phones, and using Nigeria as their dumping ground!
It's either Samsung or Hawaii.... Every other ones are
Chinkooo

don't be absolute next time you're making a submission in an area where you're not an expert. I used my hot4 pro for a year and 4 months before changing the battery. I even had to change the battery because of my careless way of using the phone with data on while charging at the same time. Now I changed the battery and stop that act and my phone is still stable. I'm typing this with it. This phone has given me real cash close to a million naira since I bought it and it's still serving me. Check my signature...

Secondly, there are many phones out there you haven't heard of so why conclude that only Samsung and hauwei are the good ones only? What happened to Nokia (I'm porting to this shortly) and Red dragon. What of iphoneX and suchlike? Please correct yourself oo

lucasalves:
well this is an interesting scenario I will like to see... Cos it's igbo's turn to rule doesn't mean they will... trust me you can only if any other region isn't running against you... the north will not in a million years vote east no matter what party they represent.. so if you think the southern vote is enough for you, I have a bridge to sell you in Lagos. You can't beat the drum of division for decades and expect people to trust you as a unifier

well that Igbo man that has the support of northerners will definitely rule in 2023. By this single assertion of mine you will know you're not arguing with a novice. As I told you, mark my words, so shall it be

Singing... On my own, on my own I can't make it I can make it. Lord Jesus I need you more to face life squarely everyday


#SUICIDE HAS NEVER AND CAN NEVER BE THE ANSWER

It's an Arsenal win this season. Trophy to calm them down. If arsenal also fight hard, they will play Europa again

Tflex01:
You can achieve your Presidential ambition in PDP. That is the only thing that make sense.

Expecting APC that you guys hate with perfect hatred, APC that you all call Hausa and Yoruba party, APC that is highly demonized in your region to field an Igbo candidate is just insane.


I know if APC zone it to the East you will still not vote that candidate, so what's the point

you don't understand anything about Nigerian political structure. APC is the only party that can achieve Igbo presidency because of Buhari. Pdp for years couldn't do that. It's not about whether SE GZ votes this time around but whether Northern hemisphere uphold the Igbo candidate simple

Mraphel:
We igbos don't want presidency..we want to leave the zoo.

PDP or APC doesn't like us

speak for yourself. I have always known it was Igbo's turn to rule. I predicted it from the day buhari won as a civilian president. The Igbo 2023 presidential flag bearer already knows himself. No long story here.

veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

every damn word spoken here reeks of hypocrisy and gender bias. May God forgive us all in this small life

heendrix:
Ur wrong on this....infact all you wrote sef

You urself giving this advice can't bear up to quarterly of what he's faced so be realistic here madam

don't mind that veave of a girl, a big hypocrite I have always known her to be. If advisers queue, she will also queue. Tueh

Simplyleo:
Igbo amaka

you should be reciting your national anthem to avoid getting lost when school resumes

Thane:
nawao
please can people quote this comment with places on the Lagos mainland with steady power supply. I'm planning to relocate but power is important to my decision. Cost is also a factor
Also, if you are looking for a flat to stay in Ibafo, I have an empty room in a 3-bed. flatmate needed 70k

drop your contact or call me. I currently stay at yaba and power is consistent there

Goldeno:
why don't you just go to the police for a start,

I don't know why women are always so cruel to children of other women

I have got a handful of lawyers and human right activists who will make sure the little girl gets justice

ComeToJesus:
Precise location please....

Michael Ogun street at Lawanson

Naija4love:
and you have started the reporting, God will give you more power and strength to complete the justice

yes the sorry sight broke my heart

lastclaire4:
Are you on Twitter? If no then join send to Deji Adeyanju he has huge followers. In no time you you will find someone withing 24 hours

OK thanks

Mayeldah:
Call Lagos state DSVRT on 0813-796-0048

ok thanks a bunch

david22uu:
are you on twitter lets escalate

yes though the response here is already taking care of the matter

drskyfly007:
Don't wait for human rights activist..Lagos has set up the Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team (DSVRT)

The Lagos owned DSVRT office is in the Secretariat, in Alausa, Ikeja.

Pls go and report that idiot with this picture as an evidence immediately before that child dies.

OK thanks

youngestgrad:
Demons masquerading as women.

some women have lost touch with human feelings

Chiedu4Trump:
Oh boy give details now

I already dropped the area where it's happening in Lagos

changedinchrist:
take it to twitter. Tag @segalink. It would be taken care of asap

OK good one

fkj950ax:
Lagos State DVRST, Ikeja

https://www.dsvrtlagos.org

OK thanks a lot

lullygold18:
...
Call me on 08030430377...Lawyer Akingbade of Falana and co.

OK God bless you so much. I will give you a call

Youngblackbro:
try get help from here it’s closer

OK I will check on them thanks a lot

freshkpomo:
please do you have the full address of the woman... If yes please drop it, she needs to be arrested..


Together we can make Nigeria better


Nigerian youths drop your differences and unite..


God bless Nigeria.

yes she does her business at Michael Ogun street at Lawanson. Thanks a lot for your concern

delpee:
Contact LASG Social Welfare Dept at Alausa.

OK thanks

shoprite:
For the sake of that child contact :

Save the Children
nigeria.feedback@savethechildren.org
Tel: +234 813 353 2186, +234 703 189 3125

OR

Child Rights Awareness Creation Organization

Address: 12 Adegbola Street, Off Awolowo Way, Anifowose, Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria.

Phone: +234-806-7663025

Mobile: +234-8028468268

Email: info@cracong.org

God bless you

I smell kpanla fish. That's a very suspicious act. She is likely to lose a sizeable number of customers henceforth.

Meanwhile I need any human right activist in Lagos to attend to the case of this small girl at Lawanson area of Lagos suffering from abuse by her madam. Look at her face with blood patch. When I confronted the woman, she dared me to report her anywhere. I won't rest till this little girl gets justice.

JAOS:
the stems went out to the direction of the sun,amazing!

that's called phototropism in biology