Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.
He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.
When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.
Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.
Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.
Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.
We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.
If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)
Know this and know peace.
P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.
Because you keep spending without returns...who does that
Yomi4reel: In everything, give thank to God.The disable man came out openly without caring what people will say or look at him to gives thank to God in church for his wife given birth. This man can perform a martial role in the house with his wife.Some said their penis is stronger than many men who have two legs.They last on the bed with a women and they enjoy sex.
My girlfriend of two years just informed me that she got pregnant with another man. That she has just done a test and it's positive. This is a woman I have gone to her family with my people and have collected and argued list. I have started buying marriage stuff on this list and now, this happened. I am confused.
gfon: Swears man,really liked my best female friend to the point of considering marriage(didn't let her know though).Omo i weak wen i knew she had an abortion,can't marry her again,though we still fvck once in a while sha.
Shot up and stop being silly. What is wrong with you guys
DemonInvoker: Yeah,As long as one or two Persons don read am...I'm okay. Today,na Sunday,na every Sunday I dey go out for altar call so tey dem don know me for the church say this man no well.
DemonInvoker: My Story. Very Long ohh But well Summarized. I met two women at a function(It was a Trad)..I was familiar with one,I knew her from my neighborhood then the other was just looking fresh and attractive though they were both looking older but were those kind of what's up women...Nice looking,Fair Skin With Dridlocks hairstyle...One always calls me my sweetheart when she See's me,I knew her husband very well we lived in the same neighborhood and Gisted once in a while.On this occasion they were both alone so I went and sat with them since I already knew one...We were gisting generally,I was mainly cracking jokes and making them laugh..I noticed,the other lady was just laughing any how at any thing I said,wether it was even funny or not...Like I told her"You wey dey shine like when NEPA just bring light" She go laugh any how,I go still tease her say"You be full current naw,Today Bread"She go just laugh any how....Na so I take collect her contact...I later told the friend the one that lives on my street that I like her friend ohh,say na what's up woman...She told me at first "That she was a married woman ohh"And asked if I wasn't seeing the wedding ring...I say,I see am but na correct lady Sha...She finally said try your luck na,I no know Sha...That Talk alone motivated me....After some days,I decided to call the lady but she didn't pick after two missed calls. Later she called back and after greeting and the normal so where are you?! I Started teasing her again...That I was just thinking about her and didn't know what to do...She then asked me what I wanted,I told her I wanted to show her my world of Wonders...She laughed hard and Told me she was going to call me later...She later drove to my street that night and asked me to come out..We talked for more than an hour inside her car...She Told me she was married with 2Kids....Her eldest daughter was 15yrs and the other was 5yrs. To cut the long story short that was the beginning of my sleeping with a married woman...First,We started Sleeping in Hotels and later graduated to my family house...my elder sis would ask me if this woman no too old for me?!I would tell her to mind her Bizness...It became so bad that some times she would drive down to my school to see me...When her friend found out we were seeing each other she told me something...That This her friends husband did Traditional,White and Court for her but I just dey chop her any how...I felt sad,really bad...I started getting tired of the whole thing but hey,this is a lady that will give me 10K for Airtime to be texting her....50K to go back to School,15K to Flex...Her husband was an offshore worker with Agrip so most times he was not around....She once took me to a Strip club and paid a Stripper 5k to give me Special lap dance. She once sent me 120k to go buy new clothes and Shoes..She has this perfumery where she sells designer perfumes,I went there once and collected Perfumes worth 50k...She was really light handed and Nice and I was just 24yrs at the time, really catching Cruise. What prompted me to share this story was the sad turn of events later...I remembered,I was in School one day when the lady called me to come over to her house sharperly,That she needed the Lamba so badly that she can't wait..She later sent me 5k for transport because I told her I was in school I needed money to come. This was the first time I was entering her house,she once took me there to show me the place but we didn't go inside....This time I entered inside,it was on a Sunday,the husband was even around but went to church with the children,she told them she was sick that morning and couldn't follow them to church...When I got to the compound no security so she was the one that opened the gates, Immediately, I entered the house she grab my belt and was trying to off my jeans trousers but I resisted and told her I was hungry and needed food first...She sha said okay,that let her enter the Kitchen and Prepare Chicken and Chips for me...I followed her to the Kitchen while she was cooking and gisting me how she told her people she was sick,I was just standing by her corner watching as she cooked. She didn't miss every opportunity to kisss and stroke my Penis while cooking... Finally,As I was eating we heard a car honk and she said it was her husband...She went and came in with the Husband and her children...The husband was a very tall big Pot belle man... This was the first time I was seeing the man in person besides his pictures and photos......
way too long, one might have heacha reading all this
Yes. Sleeping with a married woman/man can bring bad luck.
My Story:
She came to my office seeking to be a vendor for the company I use to work for. Black beauty, busty and good ass. After coming to meet me for about 3 times, I decided to make her a vendor with little supply; low PO(purchase order) value. After some days, I wooed her and invited her over to my place. I had asked ab initio, if she was married and she said No! No ring on her finger.
We had sex and after the sex I discovered she wasn't happy. I asked and she said nothing. Later, I increased the value of the PO and even directed her to a bank where she could get loan for the supply. Bank marketers usually come to my office asking me to send down my vendors to their office for PO financing.
After some few months I was transferred to another state. She came to my new office with a bulgy pregnancy and I got so shocked. I immediately took her outside for questioning. She said she was sorry for not telling me she was married. She said she did it cos she wanted the PO badly. Her husband lost his job and she wanted to do something to help out. She said she was pregnant the day we had sex and she was sad cos she cheated on her husband. I prepared a PO for her to supply, with a very high value. After some months she called that she lost her babies(twins) while giving birth. I felt so bad for her.
Not quite long after the incident, I lost my job. Came to Lagos. Stayed few years at home, got another job in Delta......lost it within 6 months. Came back to Lagos again. Stayed some years jobless. Got another job, lost it within 2 years. While all these were going, all the relationships I ventured into, crashed. I got another job in Lagos and lost it within a year. I had lost so many job opportunities....I mean jobs that I had almost gotten would just slip away! Nothing has really been working in my life since then.
I tried calling the lady but for years her number has been switched off. I guess she doesn't use the number anymore. I have prayed and prayed for forgiveness.
It is really not my fault cos she lied, but then I should have been more careful. I should have paid attention to little detail about her.
Maybe the sex wasn't the cause of my misfortune.....I really don't know, all I know is that my life was going on smoothly before the sex with her.
Please, you all should desist from sleeping with married men/women.
That it didn't affect Mr/Mrs A, doesn't mean it can't affect you, if you try it.
Married women are not in my league, pretty single girls full everywhere why married women. Guys, pls abstain from married women, it sets hustling back, don't bring that shit upon yourself
Yemi, i know you like bad guys and that you have a good heart, but calm down we go settle the matter, okay, i will tell him to gdola you well I know that's just all you want
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