Kingdray123: Do you reply the text of an ex you WANT back ? YES. The answer is simply YES but the BIGGER question is how do you REPLY?
FIRST tip would be you don't want to jump right back and reply immediately the text of an EX. It shows you are needy, clingy, and this reduces ATTRACTION which might make your EX start thinking that you guys being separated is not so much a bad idea afterall. YOU don't want to give the impression you have no life and have been thinking about HIM/HER. It's never a good idea as it doesn't make you appear as a guy/girl that has a life without them. SO in Other words, Don't Reply their TEXT Immediately. Infact make this a GOLDEN rule of yours not to reply an EX text immediately. It's so important
SECOND tip or rule is always to sound POSITIVE and UPBEAT. You want to give out an energy to him/her that you are doing quite fine without them in your life! Positive energy generally attracts people. especially an EX.(because you guys had some synergy before) You don't want to sound down and low like YOUR life have been miserable AFTER the break up. Don't try to bring up DRAMA and ARGUMENT about the break up or about anything that has to do with the past between you guys. It would only make you more unattractive to him/her. it shows you actually can't do without them. And please don't beg for the RELATIONSHIP just YET.
THIRD tip is to convey to your EX that you are mostly busy. If you immediately answer your EX text each and every time he/she texts you, it would only show that you don't have anything doing and you are always available to them which could be a very HUGE TURNOFF. You could end up loosing your value, and your presence would be under appreciated which is something you don't want because the MOST likely reason your EX texted you in the FIRST place is because your PRESENCE in their life is really being missed! Let him/her think or feel you are busy with other things in life. A busy person is much more attractive and valuable than the one that is always easy to reach. An example is when you chatting with your EX, occasionally stop the chat and tell them a friend just came in and you guys have a project you working on so you gotta go. Convey to them that you are a busy person.
FOURTH tip would be that you keep your messages short . You don't want to start blabbing about all the details and everything happening with you at that moment whenever he/she asks a SIMPLE QUESTION.. if you do that it only means you miss them like CRAZY which is not a good thing for you as this reduces any attraction the EX might still have for you.(ITS NORMAL HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY that we all want what we can't have) when trying to get an EX back, you want to sound as simple, brief and indifferent in your messages or calls as possible.. this puts you in another LEVEL that would make him/her know you aiit too crazy over him/her anymore, but it also gives room for the EX to try and get you back.
The FINAL tip is too always be the one to end the chat. Don't ever let her be the one to end the chat. It might not sound like a big deal, but it's a very important thing because you ending the chat kind of put you in the driver seat(CONTROL).. A useful tips of achieving this is not to let the convo/chat drag too long to reduce the likely hood of her ending the chat.
The above rules should be applied, after the 25 days NO CONTACT RULE.(THIS is a rule or technique you must apply if you want your lover back after a break up. Would talk about that on another post) But in a brief sentence, the No CONTACT rule is the act of not replying any calls or messages or contacting your EX in anyway whether to check up on him/her or to beg for the RELATIONSHIP back for a period of 25 DAYS.
Now after following up the Game up to this point, meaning you done with the NO CONTACT PHASE(Which I would talk about elaborately later on) and you are chatting with the technique above when or if your EX starts messaging, I would give you the next STEP on what to DO below for a GUY / GIRL SCENERIO.
SCENERIO 1(YOUR EX IS A GIRL AND YOU THE GUY)
NOW for the Guy to EX-girlfriend situation, what you do after the NO CONTACT PHASE, and when she probably reach back to you through text, and you have followed my rules on the way you chat with her, after a while, send a message that would make her unconsciously remember some precious moments you guys have shared together, with a little bit of A JEALOUS SUBSTANCE in it. I would give you an example of what I mean below. So let's say for EXAMPLE during the relationship with your EX, you guys do watch movies alot in your house which is always a fun moment for you guys, you could randomly send a message like
"Hey whatsup? I misplaced some of my movie collection, do you remember the name of that movie we watched together where that young boy head was cut off by that Eskimo deranged man and you were screaming.. wanna download now and watch it with a friend tonight so pls do you remember the name!
Now this kind of message would definitely make her remember old times with you, it also suggest to her that you hold no GRUDGE against her and you probably belong to some else.. Like I said before, in NATURAL HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY, we all want what we can't have. And it also applies here, only it's gonna be stronger for her because she once had YOU before. So the IDEA that someone else have you now would make her jealous which is what you want. It's just like a little kid that throws a toy away he no longer needs. If the kid sees someone else pickup the toy and starts having fun with it, it would drive the kid crazy and the kid would CRY to get it back.. that's just the way it works!
Now after this, depending on how it goes because everyone have their own unique scenerio, what you should do next would be to subtly set up a date and build some physical attraction to spark things up again. What I mean by subtly setting up a date is not just telling her you wanna take her out! That's a NO No.. as at now you don't want to make it too obvious you want her back. Remember the plan is to make her know you are doing fine and living your best life without her. Now that being said, how do you fix the date,. You could call or text her something like
"Hey cutie how are you? I want to start a particular business that deals on female based accessories but it's much more complicated than just that, and I have always known you to be a smart a$$.. lol. Any chance we could meet up at that bar around 21st Street tomorrow lemme get some advice from you."
Now you have subtly set up a date with her, now she knows you are really moving on with your life which is a good thing. So what you do after meeting up with her is to apply PHYSICAL ATTRACTION TECHNIQUES(Would write about that on another post) that would make her starts drooling over you and remembering you guys were once together.. but a little technique of physical attraction I would drop here is immediately you reach the place of the DATE, when she arrives, before she sits, walk up to her, HUG her warmly and give her a friendly warm kiss on her neck then tell her she smells good. IT WORKS like magic anytime, anyday..
After the whole date and application of the physical attraction techniques, usually her behavior and body language subsequently when she is around you would make you know the exact time to finally ask her if you guys should give the relationship a trial.
The main point of all the processes above and game plan is to show your EX you are a different person. Your EX won't wanna come back to the same person. They find it boring. We all hear people say things like they can't go back to their EX because it's like going to their vomit or stuffs like that. But REALLY the main reason they can't seem to go back to their EX is because we all subconsciously crave for a new ADVENTURE, a new CHALLENGE, a new CONTROVERSY, etc. Hence one of the reasons for the 25-40 days no CONTACT rule in the first place. To kinda of format the memory they have of you and subconsciously set fresh grounds for a better beginning.
MimiBiggs: Igbo Lady Laments After Being Sold Fake Organic Cream. The lady who speaks in igbo complains bitterly that one Chisom sold her fake organic cream. She then goes to reveal the dark patches around her face caused by the cream.
Tbe black patches around her eyes make her look like a panda
mespusinglez: Let's reflect on the bad experience we've ever had with a room during ou staying with them
My room mate will always disappear whenever there is bill to pay, no maintenance...always buying clothes and shoes but can't bring money for us to cook a good meal...it was a terrible experience jare
Onyeigbo10000: I met this girl few months ago, we exchange contacts and become friends. she smiles at me whenever she saw me and was fond of holding my hands when we hang out. At times goes on I begin to like her so I decided to ask her out to be my girlfriend which she accepted without thinking twice. My heart was full of joy because I have gotten the type of girl I,ve been searching for. But the problem here now is that for the past few weeks now this same girl has refused to pick my calls or reply my chats. But she picked up when I called with another line and ask her why she has been ignoring my calls she just cut the call on me.
Guys, what's is really her problem? I just use vex delete her number from phone.
some girls are interested in bed mate not girl friend but it takes to be a smart guy to know that....and mind you KESH is involve
Hashabiah: Israel has just started fighting a war they cannot win. The best solution is to broker peace because Muslims are more suicidal than any other religious group out there
What do you know about Israel, tell me and I'll tell you more about them...
Dubaiguy: Happy Eid-El-Fitr guys. A lot of Nigerians willing to come to UAE have been asking me these questions in my YouTube Videos' comment section and I decided to make an explanatory video plus a thread here about the answer.
Bear in mind that UAE have seven Emirates and of these seven Emirates, in my opinion, these two states - UAE and Abu Dhabi are the best options available to Nigerians.
Please whatever you do, do not go to Ajman. Ajman is like the computer village in Lagos. It is the headquarters of dubious people that act as Agents. It is also popular for other atrocities, and that's why the place is prone to constant raiding by the authorities. Avoid Ajman. My video has more information about this.
Now we have two valid options; Abu Dhabi and Dubai. Which should you go for? Let's compare the features of the two states
1) RENT in Abu Dhabi is higher than the rent in Dubai(even with the hype.. surprised?) This is because Abu is the capital city, has a traditional setting, more Emiratis live there and they keep to the culture.
2) GROCERIES are cheaper in Dubai than Abu Dhabi. This is because there are more stores in Dubai than Abu Dhabi; big stores, supermarkets, small stores, grocery stands etc. Though the difference are not alot, a dirham here and there can make a huge difference.
3) TRANSPORTATION is easier in Abudhabi than Dubai.Abu Dhabi has a well planned road network which makes transport easy. Not also as busy as Dubai. Dubai has a lot of people, tourist attractions, fancy life, and busy lifestyle than Abu. So it's somehow congested. A saying goes " Dubai never sleeps, while Abu sleeps in the night"
4) JOBS? There is nowhere you stay in UAE that you can't get jobs. But from experience, Dubai has higher job opportunities than Abu, since it's like the hubbub of the emirate, many organizations and companies abound there.
5) SECURITY Abu Dhabi is more secure than Dubai. In fact, Abu Dhabi for some time now have been ranking as safest or second safest state in the world. Not that Dubai isn't very safe, but Abu ranks higher.
6) ENVIRONMENT FOR RAISING FAMILY Abu is much more quiet than Dubai ; Abu Dhabi is more like Ibadan or Osogbo while Dubai is like Lagos. Abu Dhabi has better greenery and more relaxed. While Dubai has more places to visit, centers of attraction.
7) LAW As expected, Abu Dhabi has stricter laws than Dubai. Before, you got to be 21 years or older before you can buy an alcohol in Abu but just 18 years in DUBAI. Though generally alcohol consumption rules has been relaxed, More Emiratis stay in Abu Dhabi and are more conservative.
For the sake of Nairalanders who don't read much, I will stop here, covered other info like salary, fancy life, beaches and other options in the source.
So where will you like to stay? You just have to compare the options and consider your preferences too. What's your purpose for coming to UAE? Jobs? Tourism? Fancy life or to raise a family? I hope this video helps you make a good choice. Please if you enjoy this, or learnt from it, don't forget to support my ministry (like/subscribe)
Dubai is where you Cruise bro, Abu Dhabi is off town.. @ palm jumahra, Dubai Mall and Emirate Mall... These are top-level places in Dubai... We balling
Futurecrypto1: I just dey enjoy this holiday,watched movies through out yesterday..I plan on doing same today,but I need something serious to munch on and drink. I already secured pop corn yesterday. who knows any supermarket where I can get Habib yoghurt in owerri,almost all the stores I checked didn't have it
manage what you have at home... The state isn't safe to move around as it stands...
MadeINchenzen2: Some may say "u dont know what u have until it's gone or u loose it" ...sometimes we may think a partner is not good enough or does not measure up to our taste or standard or social and financial status... we may observe some contrasting personality traits that does not complement us... so we want something more, we want something close to perfection.
We end the relationship and then find someone else... thinking we have found what we want, only to discover that "EX" was better and even presently still improving.
Now we regret !!!
Have u ever been in such situation?
Kindly share your story in summary
Mine: it happened 2005, I left an 18 months old relationship cause I thought she was damn too ugly and broke, few years later after we parted ways, I discovered she is the owner of a leading cosmetic brand and now looks so beautiful compared to current bae.
Maga-man... She owns a Cosmetic company, abi? And you have been calling her to beg her, abi? You need to own a bank before you get her back, okay,... Mugu man
Originalsly: Bro.... it is foolish to be dashing money at something you don't know if it's on sale. Even if it is.... why dash money and you don't know the price? A guy spends N10K on a babe and expects to sleep with her.... when her price point is N20K? If you're giving and expecting something in return then you're doing business. If you're doing business then you're trading and an agreement must be met. He should know the type of women that exchange sex for money.... they're out there.... everywhere.
Be a wise guy don't be a love-vendor. Every woman do exchage sex for money even as a wife...
kings38: Thanks a lot for your advice.. Attracting and dating beautiful ladies has never been a problem for me, We are talking about a wife material here, she may be gorgeous but has some Issues you can't handle
Boy, tell yourself the truth and stop being shady... Aside from gorgeous what other qualities does she have that kept you dummy... Boy, get yourself a woman that loves you more than you do wen it comes to marriage... How to know if she truly loves you...by the words she uses on you and the way she talks to you... Talking about gorgeous it's a class and you know where she belongs
Alexgman1: Men out there should be super careful when it comes to love making especially the WOMANIZERS in the building. Below are lists of girls who u must use protection on before having sex with them or else you are at high risk of contacting STDs or HIV/AIDs & digging ur grave early.
1} If shes has tatoos on her body.
2} If she drinks acohol alot.
3} If she always switch off her phone whenever shes with you.
4} If shes the first to make a move. (Kissing or removing ur clothes first & fast)
5} If she has short dyed or sprayed hair
6} If shes the type that never asks u to use a condom or doesnt want it
You can add your own to the list if you have any.
Real niggaz ain't bang with out rubbers... It's the responsibility of the man to wear his rubber... girls always loseguard wen you get them in mood
OtemAtum: Hmm Sex is sweet and pleasurable while Pregnancy demands a high level of commitment and responsibilities.
This reminds me of one of the histories in the BOOK OF UNIVERSAL HISTORY when Jehovah, Allah and some few early gods were trying to deny the first pregnancy that ever happened on earth but ended up claiming responsibility of the pregnancy of a beautiful baby called Waldis some years later. Adspiramen 7: 21- 32
21. Faulkin(Yeshua) was of great stature as he grew. Soon we began to see Mother Earthus' womb rise again after a while.
22. We had no idea who impregnated her this time around but Murmoh said he had no idea who did this at this time.
23. Mother Earthus herself testified that she did not know who slept with her because she was probably drunk with wine from Chimides' vineyard.
24. It went down thus until Earthus gave birth to a female of her kind. She looked fair and beautiful enough that we were all tempted to claim it as ours.
25. Yahweh and Ephradite claimed they own it. Chimides claimed it too but I and Murmoh kept silent about it.
26. A great conflict ensued between Ephradite and Yahweh over the ownership of baby Waldis, according to the name she was called by Mother Earthus herself.
27. Yeshua himself loved baby Waldis so much that he fell in love with her.
28. Ephradite and Yahweh fought over the ownership of Waldis for over a decade.
29. Yahweh fought with fire, thunder and lightnings while Ephradite fought majorly with his reptiles--serpents and worms.
30. In the fight, Yahweh set his fire on Ephradite's serpents and worms but only the serpents died while the worms survived.
31. Ephradite began to think that the same thing which killed his beasts in space must have been responsible for the death of the serpents in the fire, but his worms did not die again in the fire too.
32. Their fights ended after Yeshua and Waldis were suddenly discovered missing.
SanctifiedSista: lie of the devil. Paul was a Boko Haran terrorist..God changed him and today half of the new testament was written by him. HE is still d same today
Then women has values not like the jet age ladies that roams around in Nigeria with no destination...
Charisec: A pastor known as Rev Emeka Evans of Goodnews City Church, Abuja was brutally murdered in his church while having a lone vigil on Tuesday.
The attack wasn't discovered until morning when the assailants had disappeared. He was barely alive when help came but gave up the ghost on the way to the hospital.
This has thrown the entire environment into mourning as he was a popular pastor in the Nyanya Jikwoyi axis of Abuja.
The matter has been reported to the police but no clue yet.
Romance › Re: How To Reply The Text Of An EX And Get Him/her Back by Eastcaostboy: 7:07pm On May 16, 2021
