rickleye:


I have 2 Plots of land available for farming at Oko-Ireke. somewhere in OgunState. You could farm and remit 10% of proceeds to me if you are interested.

It takes 5 years plus before it starts yielding fruits oh!

So beware, make you no begin rush the baba for your 10% or after 2 years you go say you want use or sell the land.

MadarasBlade:


Why not, they swear an oath of allegiance at all clubs, this is done during induction.

But what's the intent (idea) of the club?

MadarasBlade:


And what's bad about forming a club? Aren't ikoyi club and lagos polo club made up of billionaires?

"Polo" you said. And I know of other clubs like Gulf course club et al... Which is the aim is for Sport.

But these guys didn't exactly state what their main aim is other than fostering brotherhood and developing the society.

By swearing oath of allegiance or is it member ship self. I don't know.

Them dey swear oath of allegiance or membership for Ikoyi club?

naijablood:
I started observing this pattern since 2018
I was posted away from my then girlfriend to another state for NYSC hence couldn’t engage in serious relationship through out my service … but seriously that year was one of my favorite in terms of financial success.
As a serving corper I was also working freelance for two different companies in Lagos … coupled with other gigs … I was in money
After service met a lady and we kick off a relationship, within 2months of us into the love affair, I lost the two jobs as a freelance was done with service so had to start some money making venture, but was tough , well the relationship lasted four months.
After three months of us breaking up I had a business idea, year 2020, got into it and within two months I made my first million was single for a year
2021 I met a lady and started meeting … and within a space of 6 months, i was back to square one…
Early this year was tough and depressing, and by June, we were already having relationship problem, hence some space between us, but from September I notice some positivity, business took off I started saving up and by November I had to buy a property to compensate myself for a hardworking year ..
Now my problem is I’m disturbed , this lady been asking for us making the relationship official .. but I’m scared loosing it all … I keep getting back to the ground when I’m in relationship… but will I be single for life … I’m just lost

Please which gig were you doing?

coputa:
Dog does not eat dog, they don't harm their members.You have to be very observant, especially those you work with,your boss,even your wealthy friends and family members,always look out for red flags,when you see one, confirm and distance yourself from them to avoid had i know

Please can you drop some of these red flags? I will gladly appreciate please.

coputa:
Now you are talking,these guys are Igbo billionaires,oat of allegiance means keeping top secrecy.shine ya eye's,they are everywhere,be content with what you have, remember,there are lot of prices to be paid,if you are close to them,you will know

Sometimes you might not know. My concern is how do one stay on guard make them no use you? If something like that dey possible.

Because I've read somewhere that most of all these social clubs are occult group In disguise and if you're a new recruit and your head is not strong you'll be the one they'll use for renewal and more advancement.

brandsoncharlie:

This man am talking about is already rich man, he wants to be a politician so he joined pdp, he wants to follow the ranks of wike group so they told him to join ogboni, he joined.
This man he's from my local government area.
Me I was thinking you can be neutral in nigeria politics and rise through the ranks, don't know you must join Occultism whether you like it or not even if you are rich.

Ok cool. That means you can be rich and clean but just avoid politics right?

izikgiren:
Nigeria Customs Service
Jos command
Plateau State

What did you study?

coputa:
You be small pikin,you nor no say wen money too plenty, many stain dey in body.

No be everybody money go dirty nah. What I find fishy is the forming of a club thing and reading oath of allegiance. Seems more like a fraternity thingy.

brandsoncharlie:

They are not clean, there is this man from my state, he has aluminum company, pure water company, large fish farm etc hold a top post in one university in my state.
He has only one child, a male who in UK as medical doctor, he joined pdp recently as politician, they told him to bring human as sacrifice it falled on his only child in UK, he refused he died instead.
He was sick all of sudden, he traveled to UK gave his son every property had and died.
This is true life story, I don't want to mention his name just for security reasons.

If he successfully passed his wealth to his son? Don't you think it will further drive more adoption?

Like just do ritual or join an occult group make money, enjoy your life and then pass the wealth to your son the die?

So many Igbo people are into this, that I know of but the thing is you will hardly know because they front good profitable business that you'd hardly doubt their source of wealth.

shortIGBOman:


Emeka, nobody money pure for EAST.

Lol.. abeg as an Igbo man you should know better that the narrative is not same for everyone.

If you have facts bring it up I'm open for discussions.

brandsoncharlie:

Occultic people money, not pure.

Don't always think negative. Even though it might be but it might also be that these guys are clean business men.

etcetc:

What are you trying to say?

VeryWickedGoat:
I always see married men as simps.

This guy! You dey ment lol

By-product of inferiority complex and utter show of classism.

Is that not Olisa Metuh?

My Igwe sighted. Ogilisi 1

Finneseguy1:
Me I had to cut off from my friend and brother I have known since secondary school, he is not in Nigeria, he has been outside the country for almost 15yrs now, as a matter of fact he is a citizen in obodo oyinbo land.
What happened was this my so called friend bought a land in Nigeria, and was about to start a project , I just finished my nysc in 2017, and I was looking for work then , could you believe my friend wanted me to work in his site as a bricklayer so that I can be monitoring the engineer , not even as a supervisor or buying materials. I was so desperate then, and I accepted the job, only for the engineer in the site to tell me that this work is not for graduate, that I should leave the work, which I listened to the engineer.

Fast forward, the engineer in the site started eating my friend, though the project was moving but it was slow, the engineer always hyped the prices of almost everything, to the extent of eating the money. My friend became frustrated and he called me, asking me to always be at the site, that once the project is completed he will settle me, I agreed.
I started supervising the project and I was going to market to buy materials, sometimes I do go to the market 3-4times a day, I was sincere to my friend, I never added any price, I was straight forward, I made the project faster.
The engineer wasn’t happy, because I was spoiling his means of livelihood, so he started spoiling my name to gain favor from my friend.

Fast forward, the project was completed, mind you this is a big project worth 50-70million.
I ask my friend for the money he promised me after completion of the project, he said once he rent the house he will settle me, which is understandable, could you believe my friend rented the house without telling me, I found out from someone that stays around the site, up to today he as refused to pay me.

I wanted to buy my first car , I asked him to borrow me 500k to add up, he said he doesn’t have the money, I bought the car , could you believe when he came back it was my car he used to travel to the east for introduction of his wife, it was my father that drove us, we spent a day there, only to come back and gave me 10,000naira for me and my dad, tears almost came out my eyes.

I did my introduction, my friend didn’t call or support me.

I started my first project, and I must say God has been faithful so far, I never expected I will buy a car and build a house.

Be careful who you call your friends, some are frienemies

You tolerated his excesses that much that was why he treated you that way.

Semaj77:
I would say he cut me off instead. Was so close to my guy Ibrahim K*k*n*a J*b*I* in the uni that year , we were inseparable and I actually thought I'd met my best friend. Eventually he graduated and I had an extra year ( we were both supposed to graduate together because we were both doing five courses ) and my extra year turned to almost 2 years because schools were on strike just as I was about to start my extra year. He on the other hand got it lucky as he graduated just before the strike started and promptly went for service. He finished service and got a job immediately at Julius Berger. One day while I was still doing my extra year , he calls me up and says , "My guy since we aren't moving at the same place I don't think we can be friends again , you are still trying to finish up and I'm already working" , I promptly said thank and cut the call. Years later he tries to reach out to me on Facebook and I didn't respond. The crazy thing is while we were in school I accomodated him in my aunt's house ( my aunt lives in the same city as our school ) and she fed both of us for almost a year when we couldn't get hostel accommodation , my cousin's who were small then always ask after him up till now but I don't have the heart to tell them what happened , I just tell them he's okay and sends his regards. If you're reading this Ibromakanaki , Bleep you once more!

That was really sad. But how would people say such? Instead of encouraging you he's rubbing off his success on your face to to bad.

rickleye:
Yes, 2 stories.
Quite Painful which almost threatened my current relationship and caused havoc for my sister.

This childhood friend and I had a quite good relationship . I gave him a soft loan, so he paid off just the low interest every month. This occurred over 2 years with no incident. He however needed an increase. I told him nope, he again solicited me and said it could be short loan. I informed him my sister wants to buy a house in 3 month and that I had reserved the money to loan her.
He swore on all known deities dead and alive that he would not fail. So i transferred 8Million. Come July 15 when payment was due.. instead of chats, I am getting voice notes, excuses upon excuses. To say, I was hurt was a disappointment I felt betrayed - like a dying a death by a 1000's knives. I had to say et tu brutus ! It was a crushing realization that nobody could be trusted. My heart was black, It had been poisoned.
In addition, the interest of the existing loan stopped nor have I gotten the principal back 5Million . So a total of N13million all gone.

My S.O who was against the initial loan and to whom I showed & boasted that he was different and an exception discovered that the interest payment and principal stopped was Irate as hell. Who could blame her. When you have a hole the size of a vehicle in your finances you tend to react that way.

So I don't care if he comes back to return the money plus accrued interest . He can keep it . I don't want to ever see him and his family ever again. I have placed him in a coffin , nailed the coffin and buried him.

The same love and care I had for him is now replaced with bitter hatred and disgust.

So I don't care how genuine and pathetic and true you story is ... I am not buying what you are selling.

I'll keep the second story for another time

Someone just closed doors for others.. I feel you should get your money back, even if it's half.

isimmia:
Yes! I totally and completely cut off a long time friend turned twin.
we were seen as twins yet we are from different states.

The reason is as simple as this:
When we were growing, I sustained him because I had enough then
We lived in opposite building but he usually sleeps in my house because,
1. I cook and he doesn't
2. I had PS and he hasn't
3. I stock provisions yet I don't take tea, custard nor cornflakes but he helps me consume them and I never for a day complained

I later traveled to ABJ and was doing building material business at Dei Dei.
Countless times I bought clothes and sent to him anytime I see one that will fit him and send him money too but he appreciates it at that time, honestly

I wanted him to come over to ABJ in 2012 and join me in the business, but he said no with a reason that boko haram is terrorizing that side.

Later on, I had a problem with my business in ABJ and returned to Onitsha in 2013 and discovered that he has started electronics business at Electromart along Onitsha-Enugu express way and he was doing great which was why he refused to come over to ABJ when I called him

He saw my condition and never helped. At first I didn't take it to heart
I later took a shuttle bus on hire purchase, and started from scratch
He started giving me attitude, if he wants to go out and chill, he will lose guard me, if I bump into him, he will give me attitude. I asked him for 5k to fix my motor when it got spoiled and he said market is bad.

As God may have it, I started picking slowly until 2018 February when I bought my own car, he started getting close. Lol

Finally, I scheduled my traditional marriage in November 2018 and he thought I'd chose him as my best man, but I disappointed him and went for they guy that stood by me all those time. I gave him invitation and he agreed to go with me but on that faithful day, he went to the market.

I called him several times and he said he's coming home to get ready, I waited for him until 12 and decided to drive to his shop. On getting there, he was not at the shop and when I called him, he said he is sorry that he went to supply in Asaba, then I left for my traditional marriage.

My brethren, I came back and he didn't call me to know how I went till date, I didn't pick offence then. My lovely wife who happened to like him so much gave birth to my prince charming son. I called him and told him about it but he never showed up. I invited him to our child dedication ceremony and he didn't come and didn't call so I did the needful without regrets.

I cut him off and I will never reverse that.
He is richer than me now though, but I will never in my life have his contact on my phone or have anyone call him with my phone. Not in my life

I like the sincerity in your comment. If it was someone else he would have painted it as if he's richer than the other fellow.

Plus I think he feels you're inviting him because he's got money, you understand; so he can come and spend on your wedding.

busomma:
Yes I did cut off a very close childhood friend cos he lied to me. He immigrated from Nigeria to the United States with his only child & I accommodated them for 7 months not knowing he has been planning to go to Canada to seek for asylum. What pained me so much was that he lied to me that he'll be visiting a family friend in upstate New York ( he was staying with me in Maryland) & will be back in about a week. I dropped him off at the train station but didn't hear from him for 3 days. It was when he mistakenly sent me a whatsapp messages meant for his wife in Nigeria to me ,instructing her not to let me know he had crossed over to Canada, was when I found out.
He later apologized but I can't trust such a person anymore. We've known each other since 1980. I wish him well though.

Too bad that he was trying to save face but got caught in the web.

genkins:
I cut out one of my good friends of 12 years coz dude was a bad influence. Envious and use me as yardstick to his success.

Apart from the fact that he drinks and smokes too much which I don't see how an adult male in his productive age should spend most times drinking and smoking.
If I buy lexus, my guy must buy the higher version of it otherwise he is a failure.
If I dress well, my guy must dress better.
If I have a girlfriend,my guy is constantly calculating how the girl should be his.
He always want to be the star in our gathering especially when babe de involved.
If I decide to buy Suv, my guy sef must change to Suv. If I build Bungalow, my guy must build something that has staircase.. Lol
I noticed all these characteristics but I felt he was just being childish
Then I noticed that if I put in for an international exams, he will do everything to rubbish the exams so I don't write it, then turns around to go attempt it. When we were around marriageable age, he tried to discourage me from serious dating but went behind to propose to his girl so he will marry first.. I can go on and on...

One day, I decided that these character cannot be my friend again. I just blocked and blanked him... Now for 2yrs.And I have been a better person since in terms of foresight and achievement.

I feel you stayed for too long sir.

Those characteristics you mentioned up there are so so bad and unhealthy. Such person can kill you.

PaAdu02:
I completely cut off a close frd that acts like mr know-it-all. and very selfish completely without leaving any % to doubt.I ve had to deal with his ways for years and we have both done favors for each other,but he can’t ever help u but like to oppress one,at some points he started making good contacts unknowingly to him,I started to make good money at that time ,him thinking I’m still that broke nigga,distanced himself from me completely for 2years,I changed country and finally decided to exit him for life from my life.and so shall it be .

Lol. That was so smooth. I'm sure he didn't see that coming.

Yoshiyuki:
Not all stories like massages have a happy ending....My friends circle is so small, it's now a dot. Had this friend that was a serial complainer and ultra sensitive like toothpaste. Whenever I pressed him (not literally, perv), he'll get all wound up and stop talking to me. I reached out to him and apologised a couple of times but after the last one, blanked the n*** He sent me a message almost 1 year after but ignored his sensitive ass

" Whenever you press him" please explain.

So apparently the school's administration (VC) had planned for it to be 150k but after meetings with the Students Affairs Department it was reduce to 115k.

But still yet students protested that it's high.

From speculations it's alleged that the school wanted a 50% increase but made it 100% so when the students protest it will now be reduced to the initial 50%.

robinso01:


You're right, that's why I avoided orphan.

Bro! Why? This Is too much.

Cooolme:

Well, maybe why I lost interest was just because I have too many engagements as at now.
I did more of arbitrage with Crypto, coupled with holding few crypto projects that boomed as of 2020.
Currently I'm a web(Frontend) /app dev, graphics, learning data science I do currency arbitrage even though it's not really profitable now with all these cbn restrictions. Bruh I have many hustle sha, I still dey run family business too. Lol

That's cool. I was looking towards this arbitrage business but with all these CBN shit mehn! But which bank can one get like $20 USDT at the moment without any wahala?

Lucky you G. Mehn! I didn't really make much out of the 2020 bull market probably it's because that was the year I started Crypto and didn't invest much.

I'm a Blockchain and Web blog article writer. If you have any gig or know anyone that can employ please point out bro.

Hi

Cooolme:

My G, thanks for ur advice, really appreciate.
I have many hustle bruh, but Crypto made me, although I'm no longer interested in that, I have several digital skills that keeps my afloat.

You're welcome G.
Omoh! I'm still waiting for that crypto to make me. Although I know what's the problem. I'm not investing enough.

I want to know why you're not interested in crypto any more.

Plus do you care to share some of the digital skills that you have?

Cooolme:

Maybe, cos I just can't imagine being a father already before 23.

I wish I have advice for you but I'm of the same age with you. So I might not be in the right position to advice you.

But if you care; I would say you query her. Why does she want to get a baby when she's intending to go abroad for her Masters. I don't think it's logical considering how stressful it will be to take care of a baby and study at the same time.

Except if she truly just want to have a baby and live her life not bothering about getting married, as they do abroad.

Or she might want to use it to tie you later on when she's ready to settle down after studies.

As for you mehn! I feel you shouldn't do it. If you rate her enough to bear your future child then marry her.

Bros wetin i want to know is; what's giving you money in school. Please help a G like you.

ecolime:
Chaiii

Few months ago, our 19 year old live-in maid ran off with a 20 years old boy. She packed and moved to a ghetto here in PH because of love

Thank God we were able to track her, got her arrested and bundled her back to her family in Ijora, Lagos where we took her from.

Once they turn teenagers, it's very easy for boys to deceive them.

This is a girl that had a big room, A.C, quality clothes and latest gadgets to herself. She wrote WAEC last year and was only awaiting admission.

My wife loved her so much and took her like a daughter. You will never know she isn't our blood. She flew and travelled everywhere with us but Penis derailed her life.

I was so grateful she didn't get pregnant else it would have been a different case.

Now, we don't do live-in maids again. It's cash and carry. Our new maid comes to clean up the house once we are back from work at 4pm.. (she works 5pm to 7pm). Then work on Saturdays too (8am to 5pm) Once you are done, go back to your house. While she's fully off on Sunday.

You always want the best of life for them but they don't love their lives enough.

It is well with you bro

It's a thing of the mind.

Reason why he said we should
"Emancipate ourselves from mental slavery".