virginchaser:


No sir. In fearness to him, his friend got me a custom job but my mum forced me to declined it and furthered my education.

Are you happy about the decision at last?

I think in all fairness your Pop should chill and allow you build your self to some certain extent before he starts expecting you to get him a new ride.

It's okay to change his tires or fix up his ride whenever it gets bad. But expecting you to get him a new ride is an "entitlement mentality" to me. It might be borne out of pressure from what his friends are getting tho.

But mehn! No pressure yourself. He who decides to get married and bore children should be able to take care of those children and not expect anything back other than love and the necessary things that's expected of a child when the time comes.

Because as far I'm concerned the child didn't beg to be given birth to. Thank you sir.

NB: I'm not sir from all indications I feel you're older than me.

megamank:


Some people are just too lazy or wealthy to spend time and cook a good meal for them selves with fresh items well processed...
Cooking is stressful but all very helpful...
Most of these food we order are basically junks and processed allot of chemical spices that ends up sending us to the hospital in future...
In a summary ordering for food is not so bad but should be seriously limited to only based on necessities

Yeah true. What pains me much about cooking is you will spend 15-20 minutes or more to prepare a meal then down it within 5-7 minutes why?!

Although I enjoy home cooked meal for ultimate satisfaction.

RenerdLiam:


It's mostly from naira land. I did some work on Fiverr too. But I am not good at sending proposals for work. So I stopped.

You can send a mail to these people. They sometimes need freelancers to take some work.

monika@article-writing.co

Send your best articles, and hope they reply. You will need a Paypal account though.

Ok thank you very much. God bless

RenerdLiam:



Very good point.

I’m an orphan.

My goal is to be a computer programmer.

I ask my uncles for help, but they didn't take me seriously thinking I want to engage in yahoo (effect of illiteracy).

They wanted me to learn one of this artisan skills that looks too simple for me instead (But I will get bored quickly and hate it.)

I know I am alone.

Things I do to achieve my aim.

-Helps in a bread factory for about three months in lagos (not enough sleep, even the little time I had to sleep was infested with mosquitoes. causes of my foolishness. I was severely used. And the man I was working for was supposed to be my uncle)

-Work with people molding blocks for a year (That breaks my weakness and makes me stronger)

-Follow a stranger to Lagos to work as a bricklayer for 6 months. (That gets me wiser a little bit. Left cause I was getting into problems with the wife).

-Work in poultry for about a week (That's when I discovered I can’t withstand smell. Also, the transport cost is more than the salary, so I stopped cause it was not sustainable).

-Went back to Lagos to work as a cleaner/gatekeeper/house help for a family. This is where I learned the most lesson and became wiser. I worked there for a year before an issue developed and I had to leave.

-By this time, I've got a smartphone and one old laptop like that. So, I decided to kickstart my career. Even when I am completely broke and hungry, I refuse to ask anyone for help (I fed on unripe fruits that I picked from the bush most of the time. I was sooo miserable).

-But about 7 months into this misery, I have brushed up my writing skills and begun taking writing gigs.

-About six month more, I have gotten a better laptop, a solar generating set (to beat IBEDC). And focus on acquiring skills as a software developer.

-Today, I am a competent Full-stack developer, although I haven't gotten work yet. Still feeding off my writing skill.

That's my journey in a nutshell. If I have been proud, I will never achieve my aim.

But what do I even have to be proud of? Being an orphan, I was never treated like a complete human growing up. I was always reminded that I am being helped and should be grateful that I am being helped. Something that completely killed my confidence.

A Side note: Please, if you are helping someone, do so in good faith. After gaining my freedom, I have to work on building my confidence and self-esteem, cause I don't fit into the society without them..

But in all, these experiences shape me well.

I'm happy you're able to surmount your problems and come out strong.

God's blessings on you big man.

Please I want to make an appeal; where do you get those writing gigs from?

I would appreciate if you connect me. I'm into Blockchain writing and blog article writing as well.

virginchaser:
This usually happens when some parents realize you have started making your own money. Some well to do parents still have same mentality. I remember when i got my first ride my dad said it was embarrassing for him to be buying car for himself at his age. He said his friend kids usually got surprised cars for them.

Don't let them use emotional weapons on you.

But no vex oh! This is not to taunt you or your Pop.

But did your Pop connect or help you land the job or business that aided you in buying your car?

ChybuzzDD:


This archaic mentality needs to die. It is not his call of duty to carry his family's burden on his young shoulders
Parents should stop using their children as retirement benefits

Parents should stop using their children as retirement benefits without leaving anything for their children to leverage on.

Skyview01:
Leave house ASAP before them destroy your destiny. Do not ever succumb to any of their EMOTIONAL blackmail. You will be better off in a one room face-me-i-slap-you, than living with those leeches!.

Its time to get out!

Na person beloveth family you dey call leeches? Nawa oh!

I'm sure they're good people that's why he's still sticking with them and assisting, if them been don do am bad or dey do am bad he no go even come NL at the first place.

All he's complaining about is that the load is too much on him.

McDaav:


I am a freelancer. I write blog articles, design websites and blogs, format and publish books on Amazon KDP, and graphics design and more.

You can relegate some of your jobs to me like the blog article writing. Then you pay me some percentage and take the rest by so doing you're gathering enough funds for yourself.

BlenzTalk:


Thanks man, we the here. Anytime you create the group we go join.

By the way, I registered and uploaded documents for my KYC. Below is the response I got

Which app Is this?

saintruky:


Na me Westlife reason when make dem sing ”I'm all alone the rooms are getting smaller, I wonder how, I wonder why, i wonder where dey are”... Every don cut out leave me... But God dey...

These ur projected countries nor bad sha cos dem get sound economy... My ex dey Hungary abi Netherlands sef...

Anyways i dey queue till God go table my matter...

Yes done wit school... Just dey do one or two to make ends meet as local man no see better job do...

How's ur day going my Chief?

Omoh! You na OG oh!

Sometimes I just feel like evaporating into thin air and bask in the euphoria of nothingness, but they say one has got to be tough and not be a coward so I chin up and keep pushing.

Better days ahead Big man. I salute.
My day was fine, how about yours?

saintruky:


Wish i could use ur trick, but sadly i no get friends again... Maybe 1 or 2... Oh to japa still dey ur doings.. nice..

Na UK or Germany i dey reason ooo... Like u, i still get long way to paddle except God do miracle

Good morning youngest Billionaire

1 or 2 no really bad. Just make sure you have acquaintances also. It helps.

Omoh! I dey reason where I fit get hope. Aside that I for consider US. But as e be so na Denmark, Norway and Finland dey my mind then from there I fit port to other Jand European countries.

But omoh! E choke because the journey still far and just as you said except God do miracle, which I dey expect and I feel you should expect that also.

Done with school?
Pleasant morning to you too Successful Billionaire.

saintruky:


Yea love of family only... Friends love no too get meaning to me, cos I've been wounded n betrayed many a times for loving friends... Hard to see a trusted friend these days...

Country don hard... Only those when japa dey return to follow due process... But home base like us, e go hard ooooo..

Good evening Chairman!!

Yeah trust is a virtue that only few people posses. The trick I employ is to just be open-minded. I expect anything from any friendship right from the on set.

Omoh! Na that Japa self I dey reason but I still have a long way to go.
Which country dey enter your eye?

Good evening Big man.

saintruky:


Above all LOVE u say, n same love go lead to love making.. see .. that's u confirming too that nothing sweet pass tuatua for this life...

Normally sha i nor dey run my own like omokri (he-goat), I'm a very responsible doer n yes it's very limited cos na blood dey comot d body on every discharge... Due process dey fear me o baba... E get as e dey do me...

Good morning...

No be all love they lead to.... At least you love your family and friends so? Well I'm just saying in General sense.

Yeah almost every body dey fear due process due to some factors but all in all. We all should be guided.

Good afternoon boss.

saintruky:


Better to enjoy to d fullest d one i dey see face to face than to ignore am in wait for d one when i no know where e dey other than folktales...

Baba talk truth, e get anything when sweet pass vagina for this life?

Money, peace and above all love.

Well I no say make you ignore am. Just thread cautiously or better still limit am or follow due process.

saintruky:


Lol.... You know anybody when don go heaven? You know anybody when don go holiday for heaven then return back to give you gist about heaven n e location?

So vagina better pass heaven?

saintruky:


What's the deal?

Make heaven.

gonkin:


Yep. That's me last year

That's nice. Looks somehow real and funny. I mean the stuff you did right there.

gonkin:
I can fix almost anything without being taught. Best part is technical ideas and solutions to technical challenges are revealed in dreams.

My technical knowledge has not limitations. Once i see u fix something once, then i can do it. I even evolve to be better.

I used to rap alot i believe everyone does but mine was always silly.


Im also an impressionist. I imitate voices from cartoon characters. I can act like theres 4 people in a room when its just me. From low pitch to deep tone voices. I do it all. Used to be able to do up to 9 different voice patterns now its lesser cuz voice got deeper. Probably 5 voices now. U DARE NOT GET ME HIGH ON ALCOHOL cuz thats where the entertainment begins. People say i talk childish and immature well its true. Im mostly excited all the time.

Other minors are i can finish 12 wraps of fufu in 1 sitting.

Is that you?

saintruky:
Super talented lasher

You for like change.

[quote author=Ajay7411 post=117599791]Content writing

I never learnt about it throughout my years in school but now, it feeds me 24/7 :I

Where do you source for jobs?

inspirator1:


Same here. Yesterday I begin to suspect myself, reason being how I found out that my married neighbour, is a gay while wife is bisexual without even being close to them.

Yes, I do play chess and scrabble very well but my psycho analysis is top-notch, sometimes I doubt myself.

If talking for a long time without revealing my secret and people's secret is a talent, then I got one.


On this, most days are like I have lived it before. Can't recall if it is a dream or not but surely I can't predict the next thing to happen or remember the previous events that it had happened earlier.

Me no dey pray make dem commot anything from me, I wan know who I be.

This is prolong Deja vu.

placeofallure:
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Now, this is a bit spiritual. Whenever I dream and I remember the dream, it will come to pass.
Also, there are things I see before they happen but I don't like this so I seriously prayed against it. It stopped but not completely.

I have fashion designing talents even as I never learned anywhere.

I do experience this also. I take it as a blessing.

I think you should also.

michlins:
Na social media dey deceive you.

At 20, you don't have to figure it all out. But social media is making you feel you should have known it all. That is a big lie.

Hmmm. The pressure is intense.

God bless the person who helped.

I think they don't have any option at this moment but to trust the FG. Because if after this NEC meeting they don't call of this strike.

Nigerians will be on their neck. No one would want to sympathize with them anymore.

Worst come to worse they will postpone their decision to a latter date to buy time and see if FG is really truthful or just trying to play games.

tesppidd:
This is one of the many reasons why the average Nigerian citizen is perpetually a slave to their leader.

You talk about keeping your word over nonsense politics.

What about governance?

Wike promised to employ 5000 people, did he keep his word?

Wike promised to employ 10000 teachers, did he keep his word?

Wike promised to pay minimum wage to Rivers workers, did he keep his word.?

And so many more failed promises!

What will Wike teach the next generation about keeping your word

Two wrongs don't make right.

Graceunlimitedd:
thanks so much for this

You're welcome.

The decision has been made by majority of the schools in favour of the strike been called off.

The only standing block now is the agreement which the Federal Government and ASUU are to draft so the both parties will sign. Before that ASUU NEC will now deliberate on what's drafted then decide to sign it before calling off the strike.

Mind you if FG does not pay them full or half of their salary ASUU will still drag this on.

He's spoken well.

I just hope he does not turn out like that young guy (his colleague)

Hate this man for all you can. But you can never deny that he's a true party man; fearless and dogged.

Ayu should have something to teach the next generation that, "your words should always be your wings, and you should never say what you don't mean" and resign.

FalseProphet1:
I see all the girls in UNN sleeping in his house, I see him having up to 15 baby mamas, I see these hungry girls fighting each other for his attention, I see him abandoning his studies to go into music, I see him making a name with some of his hits.

This I have seen.

Lol.. Nig' is gay.

Candidlady:



First picture .... trash... editing and the fact you had to hold your breathe just to flaunt abs

Breath my niccccca better breath!!!




Second picture. .. why so many veins for your hand...

You're a pro! With this tactics you're sure to get his attention. Smart girl.

First picture: didn't you see that he's leaning on his hands?

Second picture: I don't even know what to call you. Why so many veins on his hand? Is he supposed to cut it off? Is that not part of what keeps him alive?

Witchcraft don dey popular oh!