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Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 9:33pm On May 16, 2022 |
baby124: Seeing the village hunters penis in your mom’s mouth did a number on you eh? You hate your dad because your mum had to do what she had to do to put food on the table. You are no long 10 baby, get over yourself. You didn’t have to practice your mother’s trade, I guess somethings are just passed down from generation to generation. Why are you obsessed about men not wanting to marry? Kamoru, uche Uber and your houseboy turned husband aren’t enough for you? How many husbands would you want to marry in your life time baby? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 8:48pm On May 16, 2022 |
baby124: You have gay friends but gay people hate women and are trying to take their men. You are a bundle of contradictions and confusion. The Uber driver you are cheating on your husband with is in a better position to tell you why men are running from marriage. Go send nudes to kamoru mechanic from Facebook and stop quoting me. |
Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 8:37pm On May 16, 2022 |
baby124: You are making bold statements about gays, are you gay. You just proved my point about your dyslexia. You reason like a 7 year old. Perhaps if you stayed single and got more orgasms this bitterness wouldn’t be in your life. Keep throwing tantrums and tampons. |
Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 7:57pm On May 16, 2022 |
baby124: Yada yada yada, parents, gay bla bla bla. With an attitude like yours even the most patient man in the world would prefer to die single. Calling someone gay would not be an insult to gay people, and you won’t have to continue shouting it if you thought I was one, that’s an antic of a seven year old dyslexic child, no wonder your moniker is baby and your 123 is wrong. Keep arguing like a market woman. Adios 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 7:08pm On May 16, 2022 |
baby124: Twice I have tried to engage you in civil conversations, twice I have regretted it. Is this how you handle conflicts in real life? In every country where data are properly documented, research as shown more people are opting for non traditional families. live - in couples, having kids without getting married and divorce are on the rise. Are all these people opting out of traditional marriages gay? I heard of Kevin Samuel for the first time on nairaland after his death. You know more about him and his teachings than myself his supposed follower? You can’t bully and insult anyone into wanting marriage, no matter how hard you try. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 2:22pm On May 16, 2022 |
JovialJune: The topic was opened to decry marriage specifically. Not marriage to a woman. He’s only talking about a woman because he’s a heterosexual male. When did the solution to not getting married become getting married to a man or inanimate objects? The intent of such comments is to bully. If a woman opened a thread to talk about how she hate men, would you dish out the same advice? You are right, people can comment as they deem fit, I didn’t quote anyone to tell them they couldn’t. My comment was to tell men not to be bullied to silence by people who think anyone against marriage must be gay. |
Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 2:16pm On May 16, 2022 |
cococandy: Lol. It’s your prerogative to give whatever advice you deem fit. I was responding to your earlier comment where you said men didn’t have to tell you they are no longer interested in marriage. Your advice is valid, you are doing God’s work. Male virgins awaits you in paradise ma’am. |
Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 7:40am On May 16, 2022 |
cococandy: The topic of the thread was clear enough, you chose to open it and read it, nobody told you to. He didn’t create the post to tell you. The first paragraph of the post started with brothers lol. Are you a bro now? Why do you post pictures of your food in the food section? You could just eat it and be filled? The same reason anyone posts on the internet, for audience. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 5:00am On May 16, 2022 |
The act of telling a man who complains about the challenges of marriage to go marry a man is an act of blackmail, the intentions of such comments is to bully the man to silence for fear of being called gay. The unmarried straight man has so many options to choose from, he could stay single while fvcking the wife of the man who chose to get married. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by eazzzy1(m): 4:46am On May 16, 2022 |
Most men marry today because there are very few women open to relationships without marriage as the end goal. Except a man wants to change girlfriends every 2 years, he has to bite the bullet. Like it’s generally said, women settle down, men surrender. The progenitors of marriage did not have our generation in mind when they designed marriage. in today’s world where it is almost impossible for anyone to stay faithful, is marriage still worth it? A man gets bullied into marriage, puts up with a woman’s nagging, attitude, mood swings all in a bid to do what’s right by her but she’s fvcking the next guy who would have never sacrificed his ‘freedom’ for her. At the end of the day any body who chooses to go into a marriage union should go in for selfish reasons, for what he stands to gain. He should also plan his exit route before entry. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Closed! Just Gotten Myself A Crunch!. by eazzzy1(m): 12:01pm On May 08, 2022 |
Ladies in the age range you want would not date or marry a man of your age for anything other than money sir. For a retired school principal, you may not find what you seek. Maybe you should adjust the age range to 50 and above and also modify to include widows. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: What Could Keep A 40-year-old Man From Getting Married? by eazzzy1(m): 1:45pm On May 07, 2022 |
1. Single rich men have access to a lot of women. Telling a man to leave all the women he’s sleeping with for one of the women he’s sleeping with just doesn’t make sense. It is like telling someone to leave all his cars, houses or money to focus on one house, car or money in one account. 2. Most rich guys sleep with married women. When you have your way with married women easily, marriage loses its appeal to you. Someone’s virtuous wife is another man’s bad bish. Remember there will always be someone richer. 3. Freedom. Marriage is submissiveness on both sides, it’s almost impossible for people who have lived free for too long to want to stay in a situation where they have to seek permission to do things they would just ordinarily do. |
Romance / Re: Why Do You Ladies Broke Shame Guys, When Infact they Are Broke Yourself by eazzzy1(m): 12:31am On Apr 09, 2022 |
The reason is because that’s one of the fastest way to hurt a man’s ego, just like slut shaming a woman is one of the fastest way to hurt her ego. Even when men fight they broke shame themselves and when women fight they slut shame themselves with words like Ashewo, olosho etc. When people fight they want to draw blood, they want to hit where it hurts, even if it’s with lies. |
Family / Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by eazzzy1(m): 6:59pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Klass99: Klassy, This one you are dropping spiritual gems today, you’ve been hanging out with pastor righteousness? . 1 Like |
Family / Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by eazzzy1(m): 5:48pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Klass99: I knew that was the point you were trying to buttress, my comment on that post was about meddling, not spiritual manipulation . This koto aye issue is on a different level. I do agree with you about the evil times we live in today. The OP is trying to go Ijebu. |
Family / Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by eazzzy1(m): 4:16pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Klass99. You believe the mother in-law is really of the marine kingdom? These rent-a-prophet guys will see anything just to extort their victims . They can only see, they can’t break the yoke binding her husband? 8 Likes |
Family / Re: Burnt Out - Any Advice? by eazzzy1(m): 2:33pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
poik: Lol na so o. Women will say I stayed with him when he had nothing, when he became rich he wanted someone else. Just mere existing in close proximity isn’t ‘staying’ with someone. This is the perfect time to prove ride or die chick but I guess she doesn’t believe he can get up anymore. Is it not better if the man was alone? at least the only thing making him sad would be his joblessness not this current situation of being hit on double frontiers. I hope he rises again. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Lesson From The Jada Pinkett And Will Smith Marriage Saga by eazzzy1(m): 1:34pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
She would still have cheated on Tu pac if they lasted long. Obviously, Pac never committed to her. You want to keep someone’s heart? don’t commit. Even if they find commitment elsewhere, you will forever be in their heart. The same way August Alsina loved her so much because she didn’t commit to him. If Will had died 5 years into their marriage she probably would be painting a picture of the perfect love they shared too. I don’t blame her for the Will Smith slap though, that’s all on him. He wasn’t defending her, he was defending his ego. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Lady Gives An Advice To Women In General by eazzzy1(m): 1:47am On Apr 07, 2022 |
So true. Why should you have a problem with your girlfriend staying at a male friends place? A girl who would even conceive such thought should not be called girlfriend in the first place. Who has a problem with a random girl sleeping over at a random boy’s place? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Do Wives' Mothers Dominate Their Daughters' Marital Homes by eazzzy1(m): 4:03pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Klass99: Klassy, ideals and reality are subjective. Why should peoples ideals be different from their reality in the first place? Some things are out of our control but I will like to think of this as not one of those things. I mentioned on another thread where we had a conversation how I was in a live-in relationship, you know why we stopped living together? It was because her mother wasn’t comfortable with the arrangement. They would get into these arguments about living with a guy without being married, her daughter was living rent free but no reason was good enough for her. I was the one who convinced her to get a place of her own even though our arrangement was very convenient for us. At the end of the day, it wasn’t worth it having fight her mother because her mother wanted what was best for her and her family would be the one to stand by her when the chips are down. I also had a friend who almost got divorced because her husband was a mummy’s boy, the straw that almost broke the Carmel’s back for her was when they went on a vacation and as soon as they got to their room he called his mother to inform her they got there safely. Needless to say the vacation didn’t go well. Now would this be an issue for me? Hell no! My partner talks to her parents everyday, she tells them everything, my own parents didn’t even know I lived with a girl. If anything, my relationship has thought me how much of a shitty son I was, now I try my best to speak to my folks atleast once a week. My disposition towards roles and responsibilities hasn’t changed even when it concerns mothers and children. Mothers do not ‘owe’ it to their children to be good mothers. We have children getting raised by grandparents because their mothers are not responsible enough for themselves talkless of being able to care for a child. Who would beat a mother who chooses to be irresponsible? Any mother who makes sacrifices, gives a little of herself for the well-being of her kids deserves commendation and appreciation. I don’t take sacrifices for granted, nobody owes me, I don’t owe anybody. This is my reality. |
Family / Re: Why Do Wives' Mothers Dominate Their Daughters' Marital Homes by eazzzy1(m): 11:36pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
PrimadonnaO: Lol you are absolutely correct. In addition we have the maternal instinct, most mothers are overprotective of their children. Some men stay in marriage for their children too, it doesn’t generally make them meddlesome in-laws. I think Meddling becomes tolerable when spouses understand that a mother usually want what’s best for her child. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Do Wives' Mothers Dominate Their Daughters' Marital Homes by eazzzy1(m): 7:42pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
When women bring their marital issues to other women, they are usually advised to ‘focus on their children’. You see such comments often from female monikers here too. 25 to 30 years of focus will not come to an abrupt end because the object of focus got married. There would need to be a refocus of energy from the children over time. What is an old woman going to channel her focus to? Working out? another man? getting further education? most times it’s always too late to change focus when they need to. So before you get married, check the relationship between your prospective MIL and FIL, if they don’t have a good relationship, the chances of having a meddling mother in law are very high. Personally, a meddling mother in law isn’t so much of a big deal to me. I know a mother loves her children and wants the best for the them, I will not put anyone in a situation where they would have to pick between me and their moms. If I was ever in such situation I will pick my mother. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Any Man That Thinks He Wont Pay Bills Is A Joker by eazzzy1(m): 2:52pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
siofra: This is how it should be. The person doing the inviting picks the bill. My parents stopped paying my bills because I grew up, are they redpillers? 38 Likes |
Romance / Re: Any Man That Thinks He Wont Pay Bills Is A Joker by eazzzy1(m): 2:18pm On Mar 30, 2022 |
Not being able to pay the bills is different from knowing it’s not your duty to pay the bills. Confidence and respect are not bought by paying bills, they come with who you are as a person. If I had a million dollars, would I feel less confident because my wife picks a $39 bill at a restaurant? This is how you set a standard and when you can’t meet up due to unforeseen circumstances, your partner starts cheating on you. You lose so much self esteem because it was all tied up to your ability to pay bills. Nothing bad with a man being generous, but when a woman’s love and respect is bought, there’s always someone else willing to pay more than what you have for it. 195 Likes 13 Shares |
Family / Re: Burnt Out - Any Advice? by eazzzy1(m): 8:07pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
bukatyne: 1. Lol, have you noticed people never leave reviews when they get good services? It’s only when things go wrong they feel the need to write about it. 2. What of his attitude towards chores in his own house? I started living alone at 17. If I didn’t do chores who would I leave it for? 3. Lol good thing you acknowledge men are willing to take on more domestic duties, I think the argument that it’s a woman’s role to do chores as no place in 2022. It’s offensive just thinking of it. 4. I think couples make their own arrangement, it’s good to know who one is going to be with. I don’t know any woman in my life who believes in the traditional roles in 2022. Not my mum, not my sister and definitely not my gf. I don’t even know what is meant by traditional roles or roles in a relationship. My roles are to be happy and do everything within my power to make my family happy. 5. 50 - 50 because she works and has her own money. We didn’t split the mortgage because her name wasn’t on the house and it’s unfair for someone else to pay for the house I am going to own one day. Every other bill was split down the middle. Sometimes I take on all the bills as a good gesture, not because it’s my role but because I stumbled on money I wasn’t expecting. These gestures were met with appreciation not ‘well that’s your duty’. Likewise whenever she cooked or cleaned or made a purchase for us, I tell her thank you for all you do, thank you for taking care of me, you are the bestestest. Not well that’s your role. 6. Exactly. Thank you for your understanding lol. 7. Things we do for family eh! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Burnt Out - Any Advice? by eazzzy1(m): 7:06pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Klass99: klass99, I used acrimony as a reference point to say something good can still come out of someone who has been useless for so long. I am not advising that women aspire to be Taraji. Should he have done better? absolutely. He came through for her when God decided to pick his call, even though she left him. The reason why I initially advised the OP to leave instead of cheating. I think the whole point of my argument is lost, should people who claim to love each other feel burdened by shouldering the responsibilities of their loved ones? Maybe I’m projecting but I will not feel burdened by providing for a loved one especially when I have the wherewithal to do so. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Burnt Out - Any Advice? by eazzzy1(m): 1:34pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
baby124: Did she mention anywhere that her husband wasn’t doing chores? Does it seem a fair exchange to you that a man should work for 40 years of his life in exchange for someone to do the dishes? I grew up in a home where both parents did chores till the kids were old enough to take over. Besides are we going to say the Nigeria of today is the same as the 90’s? Why was there an uproar from women when Buhari said his wife belongs to the kitchen, living room and the other room if that is truly what the typical Nigeria home is? Well it doesn’t look like we will get anywhere with this conversation. Enjoy your day Ms. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Will Smith slaps Chris Rock Over Jada Joke at the Oscars by eazzzy1(m): 5:36am On Mar 28, 2022 |
I hope Chris press charges. Assault on live TV. That’s if Will doesn’t get cancelled. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Burnt Out - Any Advice? by eazzzy1(m): 4:25am On Mar 28, 2022 |
cococandy: I guess it’s different strokes for different folks. Why should someone be living and have a problem with chores? seeing as this chores happen to be there because we are living. Maybe some of the people grew up with maids and they never did anything. Not me. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Burnt Out - Any Advice? by eazzzy1(m): 3:50am On Mar 28, 2022 |
baby124: I don’t know where you people get the notion that men feel a type of way about doing chores. I’m the second to the last born in my family, my mandate and commissioning from the day I was born was to go do chores, plus I come from a family where doing chores was rewarded often. I have no problem at all with doing chores, I do 100% of my chores living alone, why should I want to stop doing chores because I got married? Did I marry a robot? I do not believe in traditional roles, so doing chores isn’t giving up 50% of my roles as a man. My roles as a man is to be happy and have a happy family, any arrangement that makes this possible is fair game to me. I was in a live in relationship and asides cooking, I did pretty much every other thing, it wasn’t demanded of me, I just did it. My gf couldn’t walk from point A to B without acting like she gave Yokozuna a piggy back, so instead of giving massages all day I just did the work, it was also my house so her bills were limited to wifi, groceries, cable (which was shared 50/50). Two people who claim to love themselves should be there for themselves, it’s not supposed to be rocket science in my opinion. If both couples work, they should both contribute financially to their family. If one of them works, the person should take charge of the finances till the other person starts earning. If I had tits that produce milk I would breastfeed without stress and if my wife runs out of milk and I have to be the only one breastfeeding, it wouldn’t be a burden to me. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Burnt Out - Any Advice? by eazzzy1(m): 12:58am On Mar 28, 2022 |
Bukatyne, we have different perspectives on this issue. We can only learn from stories we see here. If every man will treat women the way women treat men no marriage will survive. Nice chat though. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Burnt Out - Any Advice? by eazzzy1(m): 12:25am On Mar 28, 2022 |
bukatyne: I hate to refer you to a work of fiction but how many years did it take the man in Acrimony to get his App to work? Leaving one’s job to focus on his business is drive, dreams and ambition to me. If the business worked we wouldn’t be here now. There’s no way to know the guy isn’t doing everything he can to better his situation. We humans are usually more concerned with the results than the process. A man can do everything right and everything go sideways for him. Remember Joseph’s interpretation of Pharoah’s dream? 7 years season of famine and 7 years season of boom? What if this is his season of famine? It’s not like he’s just sleeping, waking and playing video games. I just feel it’s unfair how a woman can fall back to her man’s money if things go wrong with her, a man has to grapple with his loss of income and then have to worry about his wife’s reaction to the new situation. She makes money, why is sacrificing so difficult? Would she put up her kids for adoption because of the financial burden on her? I think if you love someone, taking care of them would be a privilege not a burden. 1 Like |
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