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@CHARMINME,
I will like to c dat 4 myself.Shudn't b on NL though!

@IICE,
So u're sayin' u trust ur boyfriend completely n he returns d trust?

@STELARTOIS,
I like d way u use words,sassy wit an attitude.But,chill wit d dissin'.

@CHARMINME,
I understand where u're drivin' at,but how 'bout not givin' a freakin' Bleep?Really,i'd luv 2 c how u look!

@WHITELEXI,
man,u don't need wotchu doin.xchangin' words ain't cool,trust me.i know she dissed guys,but she didn't mention names so u shuldn't take it upon urself 2 save d world.easy man,i assure u,she ain't d prettiest dame on NL.and keep it in mind dat alot of NL girls didn't upload their pix cos "them settle down worwor!".

@STELARTOIS,
it ain't all about looks.i know looks matter,but looks without attitude is pure trash.keep lookin,there r ugly guys,but i sure ain't one of them.

@CHARMINME,
Gurl,u don't need dat shit,dissin guys n all.STELARLOIS has already done dat,u don't need to rub in in.DOn't get me wrong,i ain't close to ugly at all,but come on,u're talkin about people.

@Everybody else,
Don't hate,she's only speaking her mind,though she was blunt!And for d guys,d way u carry urself matters a whole lot,u may not be cute but desirable,but ur carriage is d only thin that'll do that for u!

@STELARTOIS ,
Mr.Right is actually around the corner,but he's in Nigeria.

@Thonialism,
Don't u have a boyfriend?If u do,then tell him i said he's an ass cos if i have u,i'd put a ring on that finger immediately.True talk!
@Poster,
Still waiting of the right one.

@Iyoyoworl,
Obviously,ur boyfrind isn't such dat may not use d religion thing to cause trouble for u in d future as he is already sayin his kids will be muslims,rather than allowin them to come & choose where they wanna belong.The fact most people fail to understand is this;if u were born of Christian parents,then u'll definately be a christian and so also,if u were born into a family of muslims,u'd be muslim.So i really don't c d reason y one cannot marry a muslim or christian cos he's of d other religion.But ur boyfriend should be unbiased when it comes to where he's kids will belong or that will make him wrong.Goodluck.

@190,
Man,u fall my hand! U no dey chop?If one babe fit do u dat thin,wetin go happen if u wan do party?Guy,go train ooooo!
@Poster,
Have ever tot of finding d one u love wit every bone,vein,muscle,artery in ur body being pounded by ur "best friend"?Wot can be more nightmare dan that?

Madam,
I understand how u feel! But let me tell u something,if it is ok for a woman to work,then it is ok for her to build her house.Any woman who wants to leave her husband will do it anyway,regardless of whether she has her own house or not.U and ur hubby just need to have an understanding.For someone like me,if i get married and my wife works,it is going to be her business wot she does with her money,all i know is i am responsible for her,so she won't even have to use her money on herself,not on cloths or anything else,cos i'm goin to make provision for that,afterall,i'm her husband!So just try & explain to ur husband that u're not thinkin of leavin him,re-assure him that u're his forever and he'll understand.And one more thing,the house u build,will it not be u & ur husbands property?Didn't they say man & wife r one?

@Poster,
Guy,let me break something down for u!Alot of Nigerians r drab & uninteresting,be it guys or babes!The reason?Simple,we don't read.Wanna hide something away from a nigerian?Then put it in a book!Listen,being interesting or intelligent ain't from heaven,it is from reading,reading anythin,newspaper,magazines,novels,u name it,just read.If u read,u'll be exposed,if u're exposed,u'll be intersting.What do u consider interesting?Is it not talkin n d person u're talking wit flowing?I've met lots of dumb girls,i've equally met lots of dumb guys,and likewise,i've met and dated lots of interestin girls and be friends wit interestin guys.No offence to guys or gurls,but both sexes have there share of uninterestin groups n also interesting groups.I'm outta 'ere!

@Poster,
I feel u guy,there r a whole lot of ladies that r parasites,believe me,i've met my fair share.Even alot of them r on NL but they'll never admit it.But at thesame time,there r great girls,girls who truly understand & wouldn't bother u 4 money or anythin apart from care n attention,trust me,i've met a few!Bottom line: Not all ladies r parasites!

@lechatte,
Did u listen to urself?

On the flip side, if you are in love with him as you have said, is he also in love with you? If he is, then his arse better go and pay your bride price so he can have you in his bed without breaking all kinds of laws of human nature. If he doesn't pay your bride price and you don't leave that vicinity and stop giving him nyash for free, then you are not only foolish, you are also crazy!

She should get married to her sisters husband who already has a child for him?Gurl,u need to have ur head examined!

@Poster,
I know d new guy is cute & i believe dat's one reason u like him.But d question is,do u really know him very well?Remember d sayin' "all dat glitters r not gold".The one u met first & have known for 5yrs could be d right one cos u know him in n out.Generally,just put everything into consideration & find out whose best.

@iice,
Gurl,u said it like u're different n i do hope u r.But really,do u have trust issues in ur relationship?
@Kingsleyinfo,
If d heart of man is wicked,wickedness ain't d cure!

@Tranngirls,
U did a very good job on dat and i truly hope u have a guy who will appreciate u cos wot u need ain't wot guys cannot afford,unlike those that consider a posh ride,lots of cash and fancy places as wot they want.

As for wot women want,the answer differs from woman to woman.Some like u very romantic,some don't.Some like poems,some don't.Some like outings,some don't.Some like gifts,some don't.Some like u to go down on them,some don't.But the basic thing every woman want are ATTENTION(whenever they need u,just be there),LOTS OF CARE(do things for them not cos they are sick but cos they are jewels),SHOW OF AFFECTION(look into her eyes),LOTS OF AFFIRMATION(tell her "i love u" alot).These are not all,so just take your time to study your woman,study her very closely cos they are very complex! I'm outta 'ere.

Girls accuse guys of not being faithful,guys accuse girls of thesame,and so each goes into relationships suspecting their spouses to be unfaithful hence they become unfaithful too.I've had alot of relationships where the girls never believed i was faithful and it really pissed me off.Question is,if girls don't trust guys and guys don't trust gurls,what then is the essence of being in a relationship?Is it that people do not trust themselves that's why they can't trust others or they are so mistaken the fact that people cheat so their spouses must do thesame

Rachael84,
I think u kinda cute makin a post like dat! Anyway,i like suspense and wouldn't mind knowin' u better.My IM is ebilawitluv@yahoo.com,i've got pix too!

If ur boyfriend says he has feelings for someone else,then u deserve better than what u were getting.Just move on cos there r awesome guys out there,also bad ones(True talk!)

Poster,
I have a FRIEND whose friendship i value and this friend of mine has a sister who wanted me to Bleep her by all means.She made several,i mean SEVERAL passes at me even with word of mouth.What did i do?I simply resisted cos i didn't wanna betry the trust my friend has in me.If i could be like that for just a friend,why couldn't you be like that for your SISTER?It's so unfortunate what you've done.You should really beg God for forgiveness and pls stop saying you're in love with him or you'll be bringing curse to yourself!Shit happens,but don't let them happen to you!

Disney,
Imagine your boyfriend in a very posh ride,nice clothss and reek of sophistry,do u think this other guy would mean anything?Listen girl,it's the money talking,not your senses .What you do not struggle for is not worth having!Use your head!

There are various reasons why people cheat,but make no mistake,it is very voluntary!Getting the right qualities in people doesn't come easy,so most times we just look for various qualities we prefer in various people,but that is when one does not possess all the qualities.

Hi,
First things first,where are you located?I can be ur tutor but then i have to know where u r based!