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Jeddy100:
This all applies to marriages with femals, Juat marry a man, thats the sweetest thing that can happen...

Think again sir.It applies to marriage to both the male and female folk.

Disclaimer: Excuse any typo!

Marriage can be very blissful,with all the romance and all.But it can also be very heartbreaking (ask alot of married women and men).Now,more than ever when divorce and serial infidelity is a norm,you have to think,think,think and think again before you decide to tie the knot.Before you take the step to get married,you need to ask yourself this very simple,yet serious,questions,among others; Am i really ready? Is this person my friend? Does this person make me happy? Is this person capable of being a life partner? Is this person ambitious? (Insert important questions to you). The 4 very wrong excuse to get married are; Money,Love,Sex and Age.These reasons put people into prisons.

Some people get married for money,some for love,some because of good sex and some because they feel they are running out of time.But the truth is this,these are very wrong reasons.Money depletes,many marriages have witnessed this firsthand.Love withers,sadly.Even libido drops.Marriage is way more than you see in the media.Even more than people tell you...waaaaaaay more.Some people who marry for money have had it dawned on them that money really isn't everything.Some people who married for love also have seen that love isn't the best reason for marriage.You have to treat marriage the way you treat business investments.You should put yourself first,yeah,be very selfish.When investing,you don't put only one factor into consideration,rather you put all factors into consideration.Do that in marriage also.Put ALOT of factors into consideration and make sure the factors will be in favor of your marriage,else,don't proceed.

Here are some pointers to help guide you

1. Are you ready-Some people marry based on various flimsy reasons,but the very first question you should ask yourself before you get married is,AM I READY? You certainly can answer that,if you don't indulge in self-deceit.

2. Do you love the person-In as much as love isn't the single best reason to get married,it is very important,don't rule it out.

3. Do you consider the person a friend-Friendship is another very imperative factors in marriage.As i said earlier,love withers,but where there is friendship,there would still be a marriage.

3. Does the person strike you as ready-It is not enough for you to be ready,to love the person or consider the person as a friend,the person has to be ready.Marriage is a very bold and intense step,you have to be psychologically and emotionally ready to go into it,else,you would be stepping into your own unhappiness.

4. Are we sexually compatible-Sex is a veeeeery important aspect of marriage,read some posts on here and you would get the message.It is so important that it should be one of the very important thing you consider before getting into marriage.Are you both sexually compatible? If it you believe in marriage before sex,then you should as yourself if your partner is going to be willing to educate his/herself as regards sex.Will he/she be willing to try new things as you would? There are marriages where the only thing wrong is sex,and it sometimes crumbles the whole system called marriage.

5. Is this person a decision maker or a push over-This is sometimes overlooked,until when you're in the marriage,you would then realize it is one very important attribute.Your man should be able to take sound decisions for the family,and as a man,you woman should be able to take sound decisions for your family in your absence.

6. Is this person ambitious-Ambition tells you whether this person would be supportive when the time comes or not.If your partner is ambitious,you know you have someone to fall to when you hit a rough patch.But if not,your worries increases more than it would have.

7. (Insert your important attributes here)


Finally,don't get cornered into marriage,don't get sweet mouthed into marriage,don't get bought into marriage,don't get f.u.cked into marriage,use your head,except you plan to jump in and jump out,or live in a self-imposed sadness.Marriage is the sweetest thing,but it can get very nasty.God's intention for marriage does not include divorce,that is why they say "till death do you part".The difference between a man who rushes home after work and the one that stays late at work or diverts to a bar,is their decision making process that led to the marriages.The difference between a woman who discourages admirers and the one who encourages them is in their decision making process that led to marriage.Be wise!

This is my two-cents on this matter.

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A very priceless piece @OP,thanks a million.

@OP

How about really talking to your wife about it? She probably doesn't understand where you're coming from,so just make her see it. If you have a sister,use her to "switch shoes" so your wife would get the picture.I bet it she sees how inappropriate it is for you to walk around in your briefs when your sister is around,she get to feel what you feel.

@OP,

I really don't see where you went wrong (except maybe you didn't give us the whole story...like,did u kiss back?).If maybe you're guilty of not telling your cousin about her bf's behavior,then you shouldn't,considering how she takes things.Some things are better kept secrets cos they can be very devastating and destructive.

@OP,
No sir,it's never right for a man to hit a lady for any reason.There are other none physical ways to beat them.

So there are ladies/girls out there who think all men are dirty? Have they not met any neat guy? I just saw a post where a comment suggested that all guys are dirty and it's really ludicrous,don't you think?

sexyseun:
Guys by default are dirty pigs. The day i entered jim iyke's room i almost fainted. Iyanya has good taste with colors in his bedroom but its so rough and tumble.

Never attempt to visit face at festac,he's crib is so untidy.

To be on the safer side,you should've used 'some','most' can even be permitted,but to say 'guys' in general is rather rash and unfair.I know alot of guys who are neat/tidy in every sense,i am one.Also,i know lots of guys who are very dirty.So,you are very wrong apparently.

fm7070:
its normal for most guys, especially if he's busy with some other things.
That is why you have to compliment him. look out for his strength and overlook his weakness
if you can't do that, forget about the relationship because it will soon collapse

Now this is reasonable.I doubt if you should listen to any other advice than this.

deebee13:
This is a really troubling issue for me, and I need mature advices pls.

My fiance and I have bin dating for the past two years, and our wedding date is fixed,but there's a problem...He is too attached to his parents,like a little child. it amazes me that he doesn't seem to see what it's doing to our relationship.


I want him to be a man, and stand on his own. I had to talk and talk before he moved out of their house,nd get a place of his own. Now he goes to their place every week, de call him almost everyday, and he does same. I really love him,cos he's a good man, but this is one thing I can't cope with. Pls Wat do I do about this?

Questions you should answer are these; Does his parents influence every or most decisions in his life? Does he have to take permission from them before doing stuffs? Does his parents deter him from engaging in stuffs whether they're present or not? If your answers to that are no,then you didn't give us enough to work with.From the tone of your post,i'd say yes.But then again,assumptions can be b.itchy sometimes.However,if the answers to the questions are in the affirmative,then you might want to hold off the wedding till you're certain you can either live with it or change it.

rokiatu:
I mean why is it so difficult to have a decent normal conversation without it been interpreted? You start talking with them and been all nice and they start flirting a if you are interested... hitting on them. I mean it has just become difficult to have a decent convo without them talking it differently.

Sadly,we're wired that way.Some of us take the wrong hints and start flirting,while some of us don't even need hints at all,a simple hello or hi is hint enough,we just shoot.However,a few of us still start on a decent ground and switch if need be.

@OP, U had something very reasonable u wanted to say,but u spoilt it at some points with various shallowness.Firstly,u were wrong using the word 'broke' on someone u claim to love,that is betrayal of the highest order.Do u think the love would be mutual if he stumbles upon this post? Secondly,u made the mistake of making us know u actually depend on this guy at various points.Thirdly,u've succeeded in making us know,also,that u lack the ability to analyze ur relationship and know if it's worth being in.Now,I'm going to say a few things to the ladies and then to the guys.To the ladies,no one will force u to date a guy who isn't financially balanced,so if u do,do not complain.However,if u somehow find urself dating,u should do urself a favor and ascertain if the guy has prospects.Lots of girls have left their boyfriends only to regret doing so cos he got rich in the shortest of time.For the guys,seriously,if u're not financially balanced,DON'T DATE.This saves u a lot of heartaches,like this post.U'd escape insults,embarrassments,even depression.However,if any opportunity comes to f.uck,by all means do so.Relationship needs a lot of things for it to flourish,MONEY is one very important thing it needs.Goodluck!

Location?

Where's the location of the car?

I need a neat and sound car here in ph.Budget is 350-400k.

@OP
All i can say to you is,whatsoever a man sows,that he'll reap.Even though you tried making a point as to why you started this thread,i still am not sure what the reason for starting this blog is.Plus,you're not sounding remorseful,but then again,remorse doesn't come mostly,until when the fruit of our actions start yielding.

Don't collect the money,just leave and let her conscience deal with her.I was in a similar situation and i didn't even think twice before rejecting the offer.Till today,my ex is living in regret.But if the man is willing to step it up to like 20 or 50 million,then it's a good deal.

tessyade: Recovering files from a formatted hard disk is not possible, don't waste your time.

Sorry to say this,but that's an ignorant answer.You can recover files from a formatted harddrive using some specialized software,e.g Recuva.Recovery,however,might not be 100%,but you can recover up to 70-80%.I do it a lot.

Can I have your contact? I'm interested in the car but I've got questions.

My dear,I'd advice you move on with your life unless you want to put up with his new character,which in reality is his real character.You know what they say "If you want to know a man's real character,give him lots of money or power".

Well,I won't say I blame guys who don't subscribe to their wives/girlfriends having male friends.Women are easilly manipulated,mostly by guys with 'sugar coated' tongues.As a guy,I know how many pants I've gotten into just by using sweet words and lots of the girls were dating.However,I allow my girlfriend keep male friends,it's my own way of testing her.If she messes up,it proves she not the right girl or I'm not what she wants.I believe a woman should be able to descipline herself,but if she can't,she goes!

@Poster,
If you listened to yourself then you'd have ascertained that it's not healthy to still be friends with your ex.She's your ex who still has feelings for you and you also have feelings for her,anything can happen if the friendship still goes on.Control gets lost at some point,forget what you think,feel or know.It's just better to prevent it than to try to resist it!

Dear so so,
You're ex,your friend is next!

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=382325.msg9863460#msg9863460 date=1325252256]OP ABEGIO FOLLOW YOUR HEART, why wouldn't you go for the the girl you love just because she's your sisters friend? come on now you sef check am, thats very trivial,. Or don''t you know how sisters help their brothers press buttons when it comes to their friends please go for her, no wahala, if my bro wanted to date my friend sincerely, then I will help him in every way I can. There's is absolutely nothing wrong in it, [b]why won't I respect my bro because he's dating my friend? that's stup1d and childish and no mature girl would do that. [/b][/quote]Lot's of things gurls do are quite childish.No offense!