There is a catholic convent in maryland you can go there (if you are in Lagos)

there are lots of motherless homes in lekki and ajah. one is by thomas estate bus-stop.

If you friend cousin is serious about giving the child up for adoption i know people that r looking for children.


She will need a qualified doctor, contact a licenced adoption provider and the magistrate court once she has done all this contact me back on NL. i will give you my email address. Also i will need an AIDS clearence from both mother and child after the baby is born.

Aids test will be done as well at the point of adoption.

All the best

@sley stop being childish no body can do anything to you unless you let them and orshe kills you physucally are you going to be a coward all your life be a man and tell her how you feel. am sure she will apperciate it.

Mr Cork correction am not looking and if i were i dont date nigerian men in nigeria (no offence)

Correction SOme girls have always been evil depends on who you get. REmember Eve, Sheba, Mary Magdeline

sley4life: if you love her and ready for marriage marry her if you dont love her or not ready for marriage dont

But let her know there is no point wasting her time if you dont have the same intentions for her.

Marriage is not by force but dont waste her time only to go for a younger model in the end

You need to forgive your self and know that you are only human whatever is making you depressed has not just happened to you alone.

It happens to many people on a daily basis accept yourself for who you are surround yourself with good friends and family member who will not critisize you.

Talk it out of your system find someone (frien who will listen to you and talk it out as long as it takes talk it out). excersice to will help you. Mr cork for one you make sense

And give it time, time is a great healer and above all pray

@claremount: thanks Mr english teacher i will contact you when / if i need more lessons

@netghost no she hasnt and probably wouldn't

@ cuddlemii is disregard everything you've said about me with all the bones in my body.

if a man was useful i wouldnt call him useless. And as for ironing things out before marriage this was done like a  million times but if a man chooses to change or not do the things he is meant to what do you call him.

Married men that cheat do not do this while they are dating their partner but as soon as they get married they do. would you blame the wife for not seeing it admittedly some do and those do not deserve any pity from me.

Trust me you cant take a step in my shoes not to talk of walking a mile. I am feed up and seriously considering divorce. i could tell you my story if you want to listen to it but am not one to consititute people together for a pity party.

I have made a mistake with the man I married and will not continue the rest of my life in this mistake. My thread does not say that all men are useless i know neither does it states why are some men useless. But this is the conclusion I have come to and I am entitled to my opinonion.

For people to come here and jugde a persons whole life based on a few paragraphs is beyond ridiculous

WHy what happened to her parents.

You should only pay for your wife's school fees

he probably sees you as a foo.l for tolerating his brother now he wants to have a go on waht he sees as a cluless girl (no offence).

leave both brothers. Also it could be a set up

at a lesbi.an wedding yes

What are you trying in other men tha=ey are all the same.

Moreover se.x is not just a physical act like mechanics there are emotional and spiritual ties involved.

That is why whenever you see someone you have had se.x with before you heart will always skip a bit at least for that first second either you loved them, didnt love them one night stand or not

what do you need all that baggage for unless you dont love your partner

@PERSIDKING: Seems you know what my advice to her was and exactly what you said DIVORCE if the husband cant deal with it and accept the child.

it is the consequece she has to face for her mistake getting rid of the innocent child she really needs to me is madness. For a man who is shooting blanks and will not fully / truly forgive her.

that is the best of this bad situation when one acts must be ready to face the consequence and i think that is the lesser burden as it is.

there is nothing wrong with those kids Mr Cork it just shows that their parents are poor not that they are bastards.

My friend is okay financially (with or without her husband)and if she keeps the baby am sure he/she is not going to be hawking at any point in thier life.

@presidking have you ever heard of the saying 'if you dont have anything constructive to say SHUT UP

This forum is to hear your opinion of certain issues not hunting the poster

phreakabit:

LOL!!!! Husband secretly takes child for a Paternity test -> Husband Rushes home -> Throws wife from the porch upstairs -> Brings her belongings to her downstairs .

@ phreakbit husband has briefly forgotten he is shooting blanks

i think she should forget the marriage and concentrate on her child.

She is gfoing to get the boot anyway as if she remains childless in this marriage

Gain something for herself out of this mess 'the child' .

ABortion is not the answer. Obviously she is not the one with the problem if the man wants her to stay with him impotent then he should meet her half way by accepting another man's child

For people whoo think I am the one i have no reason to lie on this forum as I dont know anyone here from adam (even Mr Corke who has made it his personal agenda to persistently stalk me.)

Having said that personally I think she should tell her husband what has happened and face the consequence either way keep her baby there are lots of single mothers out there.

Mr Obama was raised by a single mother - NO problem

After six years of looking for a child having an abortion to me sounds like madness; if someone was to be pregnant for the husband am sure he wouldnt tell her to have an abortion.

I have been trying to encourage her but she is in pieces just brought it to this forum to let her see it is not the end of world and people can pull them self out of a mess

both party are liars

Thanks for the offer Mr. Cork I reiterate i am not hungry am sure there are lots of hungry girls in Peckham you can take out.

Atleast i have taste enough to know that Peckham guys arent the real mc.coy.

And by the way what planet do you jump off by asking a married woman out are  your balls due for roasting?

@ Mr Corke: Apologies i dont want you am sure you will find someone who does

Why should i behave like a lady on NL Idont need to impress you

i have a man remember am married. I have enough money to buy you and rehouse you from your peckham slums to a plusher side of town.

@ M M M: Good for you am sure your mum is proud. If you have nothing to contribute to the thread why not atay away

When i find someone that is looking for a baby father i will recommend you at the moment you are backing up the wrong tree. I am married thx very much.

If you are suffering from dyslexia and cant read the post probably then that is your loss either go back to school or invest in some adult education

am not hungry and i dont have anything to discuss

@ Mr Corke: hmmmm ,  the last time i check it wasnt. But guess again


@M M M: dont know you , do wanna know you. You must be mixing me up with some of your cheap tarts

One of my friends is in this dilemma.

SHe has been married for six years with no issue hence her marriage has been hitting the rocks. Out of her loneliness kept a companion she could confide in. Someting led to the other and they started an affair.

Now she is pregnant and unable to marry the boyfriend should she:
1) Keep the baby and pass it as her husband's
2) Abort the pregnancy
3) Keep the child and carry her cross (not an option she is thinking about; though this is my advise to her)

or what do you think?