@ poster why did you delete your original thread is the fat bloke's wife chasing you already a divorcee who wants to marry another woman's husband better go and beg your ex husband.

Now you have let him go you ar looking for another marriage to spoil

Mr COrk is suffering from slave mentality. I could easily say the same about black guys

@ M M M: She should address us in her mother tougue then 

I am in an unhappy relationship and i thin by now the whole of NL knows it  (not due to domestic violence).

My reasons are it is easy to stay more difficuilt to go. We live in the same house no sex he stys in one room and I stay in another.

I dont cook for him he doesnt give me money we understand each other. If he likes let him come back the following morning if i feel like it i say welcome if i dont i just go to work.

I am not having and affair and couldnt care less if he is atleast i dont know for certain. The thing is no one will know outside that our marriage is on all a front. My friend was talking to me the other day and prayed for my kind of marriage i looked at her and just laughed and said be careful what u wish for.

I think i am kinda waiting for him to start the divorce proceedings i cant be asked to do i think cos am not seeing anyone but will happily sign if he were to process it.

You want to get married so that people wont say you have had a bad day at work. REALLY

You need to see this film 'friends with benefits' it just came out. An alternative will be to marry your driver or gateman

Yes Y not? naija guys are really shallow.

I married my ex's friend

Yes be a responsible man and have lots of money you have had her you dont need juju

You are obviously not a confident man

Da doctor back off go and slap your slave wife at home and leave me alone.

Dont have your time and my home is very good thank u dont see how it is ur business. You are just an insecure miserable man

Woodcock Marriage is not relationship o.

Most married people kinda have sex 3X at most o. You are in for a shock if you think it is going to be happening 17X

THIS IS RIDICULOUS HOW WE INDULGE MEN

if it were a woman we were talking about you would have seen lots of men curse her. He is married let him lump it he didnt say in his vow he wanted a sex slave.

@ifyalways: if you think not all polygamy are bad then you should be able to identify one or be in one yourself dont start advertising something you would not accept. MMMSCHEEEWWWW,

ifyalways: I am not from a polygamous home and currently not in one but ALL the people I know that have exprienced it say the same.

Are you from one or currently in one share your views.

And if it  is a bed of roses please advise your husband to take up a second wife THEN come back and share your views. And my thread did say in worst cases

da doctor: what are you on about or better still what r u smokking you are no making sense. You are definately DAFT. AND YOU NEED A DOCTOR MISERABLE BAS.TARD

@ Sweetnecta: It is a myth that there are more men than women in the would I would like anyone to provide me with some evidence of this. The fact that a man has lots of money doesnt give him the right to sart acquiring wives with is so found wealth.

If he doesnt know what to do with his money he should donate it to charity.

NLanders i have seen polygamy at work o and trust me it is soo not fun. You think it is all about sex and money (maybe), but that is not all it is about jealously, rivality, deviousness, prayers for things that can be avoided, in worst cases juju, poison and all your children must leave in a church abroad o.

mother inlaws telling you how to deal with your husbands wife, children envy, different vissions from lots of pastors. Abeg if he cant calm his intimacy drive and you cant give it to him more abeg divorce o at least the bible allows it on infidelity grounds.

And why cant he just cheat sensibily (with a condom) like every other man does.

'He is a Muslim' - So i take it he is married

My friend stay clear and find your own husband now that you are divorced and leave another woman's husband. This sounds like lust to me and if he was interested he will tell you. He will just sleep with you several times and when he is tired let you really know he is married

Don go spoiling people's home cos you cant keep it in your pants

@ Candyness: does your boyfriend have a brother like him I will swap my husband for him anyday (Joke)

I earn twice more than my husband and he makes me responsible for almost everthing

i second elewedu and agitator

Kodewrita: dont Judge everyone by your own standards have you factor school fees ie BIS 6ook per term; summer holidays (TRUST ME THEY DONT COME CHEAP).

Some people can survive on 50k p/m and some struggle to survive on 5m a month so it is all standards. ie my father inlaw couldnt survive on that a month as he has four kids studying abroad .

It all the standards

They should both meet each other half way. Atleast the woman was satisfying him b4 they got married.

They should make love like 5X a week or he needs to get medical help. A second wife will spoil the home that he wouldnt even be thinking of love making by the time the catacata burst

Because Mr Cork you need to be SLAPPED.

It is too early to tell at the moment you will need to wait for a week or two before it shows up even using a pregnancy test.

If you dont want pregnancy i suggest you look at various methods of contraception ie condoms, pill or coil.

Also why did you use the morning after pill have anyone in Nigeria never heard of this? All this pregnancy threads could have being avoided .

Depends on the man and woman

Tai Solarin married his wife until he died she even live and still lives in Nigeria

No I would might do for my family BUT NOT A STRANGER

Marriage na by force.

Get a fuc/k mate instead am sure no man will say no you r already tyinghim down by marrying him

and your children no strings attached parenting you take care of them today and not tommorow Bull crraaapppp

anywhere in lagos will suffice i know i wouldnt get an affluent area just let me know the ones you have

No, he should get a job first.

He might be a well educated LAZY MAN. Marriage can always wait, i can date one though as long as he doesnt ask me for money

Mr Cork doesnt have paper that is why he cant go to lagos

No babe I love it.

It is the best thing ever. Being a man is boring but women get to enjoy all life's delight.

Women can enjoy all thing men can but men cant enjoy all things woman can - FACT

At Niky4lif you are actually wishing for a miracle u and your cousin want someone to help u look after the child during the tough sleepless nights so that when the child is grown to a stage anyone can have him or her around yu will then turn up and collect the child.

She should look after the child if she wants to keep it at lest mad women have children and she should stop being selfish. if she doesnt want let her give it up for adoption. Stop looking for people to carry your burden. She should go back to the family house they would not kill her.

Eventually they willlet her in. And after she was rap.ed didnt she go to the doctor?  as he would have at the least given her the morning after pill.

Your cousin needs to do an AIDS test ASAP

Yes cos your wife might just earn 750k. Some men's mind are both shallow.

My husband and i earn way more than the stated amount each and trust me we still want more money.

Depends on your aspirations man

babies dont hide in waist a simple urine test would have shown she is pregnant after four weeks.

this she could have bought from a chemist she doesnt even need to go to the hospital

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I personally dont belive this rap.e story the girl is pregnant if she doesnt want it she should give the child a chance