am sure i have addressed this topic b4 moderators are you sleeping

Now to answer your question NOOOOOOOO

Money makes you fine anyways i am not going to serve up handsome for dinner. Poor guys are always miserable as well giving you excuses for this and that.

i can kill for love i cant die o am not Jesus christ

Da Doctor:

SHE IS AN INTRUDER AND MAY NOT LET U BE UNTIL U DO THE BELOW;

F-U-C-K THE HELL OUTA HER AZZ AND THEN REMIND HER THAT SHE IS GUILTY OF INTRUSION, THEN YOU STICK TO YOUR TRUE LOVE

GASKIA

Da doctor you are most stupid blogger on NL. Nayah hope you are listening to your b/f heart as out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh

Why havent you left her if you really love her as you wouldnt be able to share her with someone else

Or you want to her her spend sugar daddy's money -- You be toy boy

People dont change character if there is something you dont like about your partner now when you marry it is only going to get magnifed.

if you dont like your partners eating habit for example when you are married you will hate it times five. that applies to other things. if he takes you out once a week now year one it will reduce to once a month year two once in to months year three once in four months year five once in six but year six you dont even want to go out anyway.

a goat dressed in expensive attire is still a goat oooo

How much is the house you will be living in?

It depends on the type of married life u want to lead no one is saying it will be easy o

I will say wait cos now she has her family to support her when u r married her only support would be u and your 45k

It is doable but you will be living below the poverty line does she know how much u earn

do u love ladies with mouth odour

SAFO: This is a question

what a lot of twiddle . My friend it is not enough unless you what to leave in poverty.

do u intend to have kids in a year as all nigerians do after marriage. do you have somewhere to live if you are young dont

if you re old try and do something else? there are lots of children living in poverty than to bring another one in.

i wont what is the point,

am in charge of the family finances both his and mine

That means you are not sure of your manly skills that is why someone can persuade your sweery.

You see my husband i might hate him at times but am not leaving, now that is skills

da doctor you are now becoming a bore and you've lost your glow. that spark just aint their anymore.

dont really care what u say now

dont fall for him Nayah he is one of the men am talking about

cos you have to pay more for their fineness and other men want them tooo so now it is down to who is the bigger man

how much

MzDarkskin: my sister from a different mother .Tell them sis

how much?

ice234: thx atleast you are attempting to tackle the the question.

mr cork: am married dont need another marriage proposal however eekete's number is available. Am very sure should apperciate a PECKHAM boy.

most men on this thread havent atempted to answer the questions just giving me lots of hits for asking a question soo much for freedom of speech

it is not my place to mislead anyone if people are weak enough and cant make their minds up dont blame the adviser.

i stand by my opinon and you dont even address the fact that men can be useless also are you saying i should die in slience and not address issues cos i want to be a good wife.

i am a wife (support) not a slave. as the saying goess if you want me to help u with a tray on your head you would have lifted it to your should first.

Mr Cork it not about £80 it is just under £200.

It is not enough for the average couple anywhere in the world that I know but it depends on the kinda life u and your wife to be want to lead. Afterall conductors have wives.

Is your partner working? how old are u? if you are young try and make more mony first

If you are old let your wife know the situiation o soo u dont end up divorce personally i will say dont

how are you sure the pregnancy wilill be urs? she would cheat after she gives birth or during pregnancy/ so still leave you any way?

deal with your insecuries b4 taking any big step

Da doctor --- you toooo talk


I came online didnt go to divorce court / a took cutlass - (a part on my back) i try naa. it is an equivalent of talking to your friends but this way i dont have to talk to no one just faceless people who i dont know

Womens plea rfor marriage (sorry sir i thot is it he who find a wive not he he who find a husband,)  a woman that pleas to a man to marry her deserves anything she gets

WELCOME TO THE CLUB WOMEN HAVE DONE IT FOR CENTURIES.

But jokes apart you should face it now cos if you dont you r just delaying the evil day that is if its true

actually i retract my statement last week ( and i know i am calling for abuse here - just go easy on me)

men are not all that useless but mainly useless. The issues i was going thru is all solved and there is now happiness in paradise.

Hence those of u that want to divorce that it asy BUT MEN CAN BE USELESS SHA

i am not focusing on the women in this thread even if the wife is loving the best wife ever as soon as she starts earning more the husband is unhappy. why?

i am not talking about women who become big headed and trying to address the insecuries of men. Am talking of a friends marriage which is almost at breaking point cos the man cant stand her earning more than him.

Has nothing to do with her being a bad wive; ever since her promotion her has been coming up with excuses that didnt exist before.

the dress you are wearing is too short , is it cos you are earning more than me,
you cooked rice again, is it cos you are earning more than me,
u bought a new car, is it cos you are earning more than me,
you took the kids to disney world, is cos you are earning more than me,


now she feels she should have told him what she is earning now

you should only marry an independent woman if you are independent yourself and dont intend to be dependent on this woman.

as for single mother or divorcees whatever tickles your fancy if you love her and you can deal with step children go on if not stay back it simple

i agree with all the females on this thread but why dont men go for those type of women initially?

mr cork you might want to start another topic why educated women dont know their place in the home. but this thread is about men's insecurity of thier wives earning more than them.

Could you kindly stick to the topic?

And i am telling you most educated white women cant cook neither hence your white preference. So i guess you are going for mainly uneducated white why not go for uneducated black women as am very sure they can cook.

my ex housemaid in naija ekeete is of a marriagable age, knows her place and can cook? r u interested since you are looking for a wife

Nayah: i second you

Mr Corke : I am not attacking men at the moment o just asking a question.

Cos me want to marry a well educated woman has a good job when they are dating after marriage they want an house wife.

Why didnt they date that typ of woman in the first place ie village women peper sellers. Again its not an attack i just want to know how men's mind work.