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Tell your partner she will soon put her in her place

Why is it that Nigerian Men do not like their wives earning more than them.

You will see a loving husband turn into a beast as soon as his wife start earning more than him.

Sincere answers please,

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Mr King

I don't think I know you hence I have u down as a fortune teller, all your assumptions about me could not be far from the truth.

I didn't marry late, I married at 23 actually and my hubby was 25 then. I didn't not charm him with anything infact his family r much more richer than mine .

He just chooses to be a bum the next time u chose to predict someones life online u can aleast get it right

It has nothing to do with God you men try to fool us women that it is Gods will it is a womans job you didn't even admit u do house work in all your random rants

@ MrsChima: I second every word you said

@SAFO: The typical man I am talking about

@ MR. Dickle: U make some good points am not angry just feed  up

@ Mr Cork: You can just crawl back to the cave you came from am married and if it were to turn out am not any more marriage will be the last thing on my mind. So go look for your wife else where and enough about my nyansh

Point taken from all ur post not all men are entirely useless but all men think the chores are for women and not 50-50

Mr Martin: I guess all those things you mentioned are not on your wife's mind as they are certainly on mine and am not waiting on my husband to get those things done for me.

Still I share them and he doesnt want to share the chores , mscheww. and you complain when you end up with gold diggers as wives

Yes he does - he lives in number 17 Ajayi street in my home toww (Joke )

Yes he does as people are different and the ideal man for you wont be the ideal man for me.

You just need to find him

that is a typical misogynistic point of view to keep men in their USELENESS ways.

I work and most women I jnow work as much as their husband does; hence you have no point.

Less I forget I have no sympaty for women that do nothing and rely on their men for everything. Many of those women dont love the man they just NEED him.

And that is why most African women tolerate rubbish in the olden day and till now. Which is why if the men cease to have the money many many women will work as they would realise how USELESS the man really is.

Mr Martin

I chose my words right, i would have used some if i meant some.

But all men dont work once they are married I dont meant a job I mean helping out in the house or with the kids

Only if it is a grand gesture read my earlier posts

Actually am not interested anymore

What type of an agent do i have to pay to take me to the land he is selling?  Normally its free as his cut is included in the price.

it sounds dorgy anyway good luck with the sale.

Nigerians will never stopp SCAMMING THIS IS WHY THE COUNTRY IS BAD. You want me to pay the 5K placement hence you start siphoning money off of me.

I am not a maga mate. Told you I will do my due diligence

U see this is how you freeking african men condescend women now a woman can not express her feelings even though she is in a forum unknown to no one one. With out you bombarding her with insults. And you say men are useful. mscheww

@dem dem: presciely my point.

@xskillz: nobody NEEDS anybody we tolorate each other and when one runs out of favour you kick them out and move on.

Many married women have kicked their husband out not out of thier homes but of their minds long long time

Alone you came to earth alone you would go. so if you talk about needing God wont make you need anybody apart from him cos if the person dies that is it for you

@ MrsChima: how can you apperciate a USELESS man if you keep it and keep it and keep it at some point you need to tell them they are USELESS.

You might try the friendly friendly approach but if they refuse to hear you gotta tell them

@nayah: i havent seen any like that only in the movies of cos are you talking reality or hollywood's next chick flick

@XKILLZ: I actually find you extremely funny

DaDoctor is truly FEARFULLY MADE

@Nanay: I respect your culture but it is not necessary for everyone but appericate those that want to stick with it

@Da Doctor: which part of your rants is good advice the one that expects a woman to roll over and be threded on by men only to say more please sir.

@DaDoctor: you are actually the one i refer to as giving random rants

@WhyAWhy : you are not married hence your opionion doesnt count. Bet whe you become married you will join the useless men's club at the moment there is no one to do it for you so u got no choice and you have a mum that is keeping you or has kept you in the straight and narrow

I repeat to the deaf ones MEN ARE USELESS

Most of you refuse you deal with the issues just giving up random rants.

men dont really do much and i repeat when they do its like a grant gesture or the demand an applause.

Personally i think men are only good for sex cos i am heterosexual but you dont really need them to give birth. There are Fluid banks and before you say who donates them. I can do with ga.ys 's sp.erm. And IVF to implement the process.

Give children names why do u need a man to do that?

@ Realiity: I am not 39 years old SIR. Actually am far from it. My husband isnt older than me we are age mates.

I dont speak only on behalf of my husband but all the men I know, brothers, uncles, friends, family friends- All of them the freeking same.

Men are useless by nature the only thing that wakes them up is se.x and money anything else bore them to tears. the only time they clean (if married or in a relationship) is if their wife / partner is sick or as a grand gesture (like an apology).

And those that do it see it as am helping my wife out not as our duty. Tell me one chore you actually take as your responsiblity in the house.

And by the way am not in africa (men every where are the same when it comes to uselessness)

i intentionally did not use most or some cos all u men will if given the opportunity.

you probaly have a strong woman who doesnt accept rubbish or dont have one but all men deep down are. I think its in your dna

cos UK/US guys can broaden their horizon.

Than mainly broke unexposed men who havent left nigeria. Sorry guys but its true

Men expect you to clean the house, wash the plates(yours and theirs), cook their food.

Look after the kids, go to work even though he might not be working, contribuite to the expenses of the house. All pay all if you are the only one working.


Help with the children's home work, be good in bed (not that am complaining about that). While he goes out with his friend 99% of the time.

Someone remind me why do we need them?

Do you buy right hand cars

Could you kindly give me the agents number.

What is the 5k for?

I will of course do my due diligence, I pressume if you are selling something to someone you have to so it to the person. Hence why am I to pay the agent 5K to take me to the land?

yes i am do u have pics

please contact me with areas and pictures (if applicable)

Take your child and look after the both of you.

Call your husband and ask him why? not to change his mind but to understand why. Now look after yourself it will be hard but you need to concentrate on yourself now.

It is only God and your husband that can change his mind now but even at that do you want him back. You dont have in laws o forget them just dont even go to them at all.

@Mrbrown Jay this woman does not deserve insults she deserve compassion though i dont agree with what she has done but clearly she is having a break down dont tip her over the edge. If you find out a man is fuc.king your wife will your first instinct not be you want to kill him. People deal with stress differently

Muslims wear white, she can wear her white it doesnt have to be in church.

My friend got married on a beach in Australia and she wore white. no probs.

At the end of the day it is their life no one is going to live it for them when they can have kids the church can only pray for them not have the daily heartache