Without knowing all the facts it is hard to tell.

But i am leaning towards a no cos you dont know tje huisband and only listening to one side of the story. If she wants to leave the husband let her leave but not on the promise that you will maarry her.

What makes you think she wouldnt do the same to you.?

Singing

# i am a material girl in a material world#

and

switches to # o o o yeah! what have you done for me lately lalalala#

money, sex, companion

Nayah are you for real?

You are obviously not a nigerian girl i have been waiting for u to reply to this thread i know you are the only one that will apperciate flowers

i bet it took her longer than 72 days to choose her wedding dress

Guys no doubt

yes if it is stuck besides the wheel of a new VW Beetle

she wants to rub your nose in it that she has moved on and you havent and she now has a good life.

the only time you should go is if you are married or engaged as well but why not stay away from this sharade

And the award of the dumbest female on NL goes to ,  you got it hegokillme

And you know it he has killed you, i pressume your boyfrend that is 14 years older than u is already married.

Y don t you find a man your own age work and build a home with him and when you have children are satisfied with the growth of your business or career tell him that you no longer have anything to do with money he should start wasting it on a 20 year old outside who you will willing accept as your husband's new wife.

If you were my sister i will beat the hell out of u but obviously you cant be even my housegirl is not this dumb

Dont give her she is just using you cos she knows you have a soft spot for her and probably still want to sleep with her given the opportunity.

Abeg dont give her give her a story too if you keep giving her she ill always come back and never stop.

You be maga; dont be surprised that she is not fighting with her husband at all you are just a meal ticket.

cos the bad girls know how to spot and keep the good guys (remember they are bad)

i am not saying they should absolutely not but my preference will be not to.

If it is an old relationship obviously there is nothing you can about it and also in marriage but if it a new relationship i will enter with caution.

Most men dont like it not to say some cant handle it but am old fashioned like that.

look for another job where he/she is appericated life is too short to be unhappy.

i know some will but i will strongly advise against it. men should be the provider and most time men dont like it anyway.

They see their earning power as a sign of their authority in the house

cos the waste all heir youthful years chassing other women and by the time they have their wives time in their late fifties or early sixities she is used to not having them around and finally brings the poison bottle out

Any information apart from I love you, i can have kids and i dont have aids is the womans business either to keep or to share has nothing to do with the man.

Once she feels confident in you enough she will tell u and her past is her past men go out digging out info they really dont want the answer

I suggest you speak to your wife not NLanders we honestly cannot have enough of the full facts to advice u.

At end of the day, if she is cheating it is up to u want u want to do forgive her leave her its entirely up to u dont jump into conclusions though make sure you do your due delligence to find out what exactly is going on.

Even of she is cheating it is only u that knows how much you love her i suggest you do some soul searching and find out what you want and stick to it

hegokillme:

your right once he buys them stuff they will know he has money,than they will regret if i dump him.

you are the most stupid girl ever

Start dressing well. lose some weight if you have to.

Where lacy sex, y underwear matching ones must i add. Always look good you make-up should always be perfect no dulling. Flirt more with him instead of demanding se, x.

Flirt with other guys and let him see it (i didnt say cheat on him) let him know other men find you attractive. Where highheels most of the time and go on holidays together alone without the kids. Make time for him and stop asking him about se, x

You hair must always be well done do this for a month trust me you will have him back unless he has absolutely falling out of love with you and seeing some one else or he has developed an erecti, on problem

Dont even think of divorce o

Babe I will agree to disagree with you .

The heart wants what it wants and it has nothing to do with age. It is what the heart wants one mans food is another's poison

if being four months older than my husband makes me a cougar then I must be doing something great cos trust me itIS GREAT.

My love has come and I have precious kids for him and we have a good home and atleast one holiday every year and a dog in the garden.

Am am sure haters like you only hate and do nothing for themselves apart from spreading vernom.

I love my life and their aint shi,,,t you can do about it. And he make me feel good might I add

BABE!:

Yes, it does. I hope you know what saying "Age has nothing to do with maturity" implies? It means Age and Maturity have NOTHING to do with each other; no connection whatsoever. Think about it. Does it make sense?


Right. I never said Maturity is totally dependent on Age. It's not. You've seen some old people behave like f[i]oo[/i]ls doesn't mean majority of old people behave like fo[i]o[/i]ls. There are always exemptions to things like this.

At the end of the day, older people are more mature than younger people (in general).

I have thought about it and still disagree with you age has no relativity with maturity i reiterate i have seen many stupid old people and many many clever young people as well maturity is all about exposure, life experience tolerance and endurance nothing at all to do with age.

@ ChineoSA

Apart from your raging madness you must posses the inability to read as well if you look through the thread you will realise that my spouse is four months younger than i am and you also admit in your ranting beloow that 1-5 year is okay.

However i see no reasons why people who chose to date older or younger peole shuld listen to you has you have nothing positive to say apart from pure generlisation and yes I have money dont tell me you hate money as well.

You are just a frustrated young man who is trying to figure his head around the injustice of life am sure you are longing for a cougar and just aint fortunate enough to find one cos of your disgusting attitude.

You need to crawl back into the cave you came out of this morning as life as moved on and left you behind

BABE!:


That ain't right. Age has something, a lot to do with maturity.

No it doesnt it all has to do with exposure and life experiences I know some old people both male and female who behave and talk like absolute fools.

i wouldnt cos once debee always debee and where ever i am my head will be full of imaginations why put myself through all that stress is like guiding a bone with your dog if anything happens people will blame you.

your question is a s silly as will you smoke with the the gas opened. With no back ground info i would has the girl moved on is; the supposed partner still carryin a tourch for her

why would i want o do a silly think like that?

@ chineloSA did someone offend u? which side of the bed did you get off from this morning?

You might want to go and sleep again; who made you judge and jury of other people's life~?

mobf:

If you're married to a guy and you find out he's a two timer, it's up to you to let him go n move on or forgive. It's no use blaming it on the society ( in the guise that the society expects you to forgive him n remain true to him).
Who are you living your life for?

I hear you but the thread isnt discussing what should the woman do it is absolutely up you an individual how they lead their live but my question is why are different gender advised in a different way

BlueBarbie:

It has to do with d way we were created.if a woman keeps mutiple partners her 'thing' will slack. bt a guy can sleep wit all the women in the world,nothing go slack. So thats it.

That is very doubtful i have never heard of a woman's thing slack before it is the lie men have told women and some chose to believe it. is it not the same way people have children how come mothers can still have se, x.

i have never seen a man's rod bigger than a child's head before. If you have any example could you kindly reference them.

iice:

Because it's a man's world
Because its nurture's nature's way that he is polygamous.

But it is not nature tellin the women to be paitent and go and pray and the men to divorce their wives it is humans.  in nature we have other animals and none of their female are loyal like human so it isnt natures way it is an imposed culture

It still baffles me till tomorrow why is it that when a man cheats people asks his wife to be patient or go an pray but when a woman cheats the automatic answer is for the man to leave the woman?