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I dont know what church you go to but i have seen a church marry a woman with two kids for another man to a man. I have seen churched marry divorces to another partner.

JUANITA BYNUM got married in church, Joyce Meyer was previously divorced that is all bull where in the bible does it say not to join a pregnant woman in holy matrimony.

So is the sin getting pregnant or having sex then any one that has sex before marriage should not get married in church. We would see how many weddings are conducted

How ever the pregnancy came about the fact is she was pregnant before marriage and her husband to be didnt say she should abort it.

I know the big one for most men would be they pregnancy is not his and not going into that today. if it was he would still have married her if he could accept someone elses that is my point and trust me the leaders of those days were worse

Why didnt Joseph tell Mary to abort the child. (in the bible). atleast they werent married.

As long as they have decided to get married. if they were so religious they shouldnt have had se.x then think about killing an innocent child haba.

Depend indeed! when it is not that the man says he doesnt want. Sometime people in the church can be such hypocrate.

So she will have an abortion and people will think she is a virgin does she not know she is not and have the murder of her child hanging on her as well.

Better still if she wants to keep up this sharade let someone else take the test for her. it is not enough to kill a child. If she is prepared for murder trust me lying wont be her problem.

@ omolola depends on what abeg

i will choose COMPASSION over intelligence any day.

There are some fools that states all the facts in the encyklopedia as intelligent as a professor and some with a traders charisma and have no empathy at all.

Mine will be compassion

Mind your business and your partner if you have one.

He obviously doesnt like you.

Find someone that does

In order to save her face from the church she wants to commit murder cos that is exactly what it is.

The husband to be is okay with it i presumme, she has already committed one sin and want to committ another one to cover it up. She will be surprised when she gets married and she cant have kids and will regret not keeping this one, by then they might not be going to that same church.

If that church will not join them many many churches will and i am sure if the tell the pastor he will not tell them to abort the child and worst he will say he will not join them(then the pastor must have no sin hence he is casting stones)

Most pastors will just tell them to go for delieverance and forgiveness prayers. I know which I will chose; if not bone church and get married. religion is your relationship with your God not face service

what is your own

You must be a little deam for you to ask that question and am very sure that is why you have also had this offer.

Lets assume the lady's offer is genuine; can you do without seeing your own child? Why cant see go to the spermatozoa bank or take the risk of a one night stand why does it have to be someone she knows.

Secondly you are married are you willing to commit adultery; I suggest you change your company of friends this lady doesnt even deserve to be  your friend.

i dont like your mum

Another year MOBO444 is older and yet still remains ignorant.

If I am not married or in a serious relationship I will date him guaranteed. As long as he is single as well and wants a serious relationship.

If you dont date your boss who would you date your driver

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@ MOBO444

Crawl back into the cave you have been hiding from these days. Your statement is made from which research? you ignorant african man.

based on a medical website below are the causes of fribroids nothing at all to do with abortion.


Causes of fibroids
The reasons why women get fibroids aren't known. Although oestrogen seems to make fibroids grow, it's not thought to be responsible for their initial development.

You're more likely to get fibroids if you:

are in your 30s or 40s
are overweight
are African-Caribbean - African-Caribbean women are three times more likely than Caucasian women to get fibroids
have no children
had an early puberty

Sorry o did I miss something, is it a womans job to wash her husband's clothes enlighten me.

I wash my clothes in the washing machine and he does his; same applies to ironing, the issue has never come up once before. Why do men get married and now think they are Gods.

The only exception I will accept is if the woman is a house  wife hence has the time to do all the chores. And for those that it is the woman that works and husband doesnt he must do the chores and cleaning as well.

Certainly, There are some dresses you cant wear knickers underneath them as they are unflattering

Actually it is adultery not fornication if they are married and it is actually your friends business what he does in his marriage he need to weigh his love for her vs the betrayal no on can tell him what to do

This is utter rubbish a marriage whereby both parties are apart for longer than two years will everntually lead to deceit.

I know many stories like this ultimately yoou are just to believe what the other party tells you. The man will cheat and will not tell you a lonely woman too will also cheat. It might work for about two years but neither party should not be heartbroken to realise the other is playing away.

Moreover i cant see the reason why if not for selfishness on one part and greediness on the other

some girls want another girl

Some people here are mind baffling not one of you can come out and say I didn't have intimacy b4 marriage but condem it vigorously God says we should not do so many things but we do and some chose one is a bigger sin than the other to God sin is sin keep the sabath day holy do not lie how dare some one tell me I don't love God far from it I do.

I suggest you read your bible's ten commandment well it say thou shall commit adultery not fornication  I know some other passages refer to fornication. But obviously it would have said fornication if it was meant to be so

@ ndecde did u marry a virgin??

No its something am telling you about the world luckily for me my parents are not self deluded they thought me about sex education and I really benefitted from it I have lots of very good girlfriends you are in much trouble today cos of unwanted pregnancies emotional tromoli cos the didn't get the right advice

Cos I knew it wasn't forbidden I didn't have the great urge to just have intimacy I got disvirgined at 21 though it wasn't my husband who I love so dearly i would not change a thing cos that was part of my past which made me the person my husband fell in love with

Why preach something you did not practice and let anyone going thru the same thing now feel inadequate instead of staying fact as it is the law never changed it was the same when you were younger why sin then and claim self righteousness now this is why youngsters don't listen to some adults advice as all they are full off is condemnation and the end up with diseases and unwanted pregnancies as all they hear is don't do this and that when those telling them did this urge is human and natural unless you want people that are not ready for marriage jumping into it cos of sex youngsters need to know the truth about sex precautions their emotions condoms morning after pill otherwise an evil boyfriend or a friend might be the one teaching them. what will you tell your children realistically?

There are many hypos on this thread living in la la land not the real world

She needs to leave ASAP

Sorry sir Mr Area man did you have intimacy before marriage or not? And there is your answer we all know lying is bad but the average being lies at least three times a day bet we are all going to hell. He without no sin cast the first stone

Hindsight is a good teacher the poster never said she did not have intimacy before marriage the church has always been there since she was born but decided to leave her free will. She dare not condem people who choose to follow this path as the judgement is the Lord

She couldn't resist the temptation then don't condem those that can't now I would like her to tell me she doesn't commit other sins I annoy into crucifying people God Is th judge everyone to there own.

For those self righteous beings I would like those condemning sex before marriage to publicly declear they are virgins.

I am a big advocate of sex before marriage 1) for men so they dont get married just for sex. one day my junior brother 21 came home to tell me that he was getting married cos he didnt want to have intimacy b4 marriage. My father just died and gave him more than half of his wealth.

My advise to my little brother was that just has sex with this girl if you still feel the same way i will atleast know that you are in love. Lo and behold two months later he was going out with another girl. He didnt really want to get married he wanted sex which is only human. For the religious fanatics the bible also says dont lie, dont mas.turbate, do not wear mens clothing, do not wear clothing made from different cottons, do not eat meat, dont look lustfully at a lady the list is endless and we are daily doing this thing only God is the judge.

How ever I think both sexs should wait until they are 18 years old enhance the are emotionally matured enough to decide if they are willing to have intimacy with the other party

it has to be your fiancee someone you are considering spending your life with and you have been with for a while

Not a girl / boy you met two days ago cos 1) you might be naive on the borderline of foolish 2) Y do you want a total stranger or everyone to know how much you are worth.

He is probably banned at last peace can rein; but you have Mr Dr Cork carrying his torch