bluespice:

when you hear the word pink
what does it connote?

barbie. ur point is?
It takes a real man to wear pink, if that is wat u want to hear

chiogo:

It's all in the head - you think it's 'ladylike' 'cause the media said so. Nothing more, what's the evidence that it's ladylike?

Shaving has nothing to do with media.
Do you shave your armpits or down there because media said so?
do women only shape their eye brows cuz media said so?

chiogo:

Rooting for her ke? Na fight? If you actually think about it, it does have something to do with gender equality.
How come nobody complains when guys go with bushy armpits but for a woman, it's disgusting? I wouldn't do like mo'nique though since I guess the society has affected me but I still admire her for doing it her way even if it looks 'disgusting' to people.

I dont even like a man with hair all over his armpits, ewwwww
And it shouldnt be about gender BS, somethings are just ladylike.

All thw women rooting for her obviously do the same. so i aint surprised

I dont understand why some girls always have to bring gender equality into everything.

AqRiUs Age:

What makes me feel uneasy, is knowing that if the role was reversed and he was to be rocking shorts, we'd see his hairy legs too, yet it would not be a problem

BTW- awesome pic of them two

Is this another excuse for women to be keeping armpit hair just cuz some men does? na wa oo

Moyola:

9zz hairy legz!
Jeez! watz yur own?!. . .

Awww, hairy legs association.
i see u protecting of your own

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Shave your darn legs

The first time always hurt regardless of lube

y me:

they are diff kind of cleavage flaunting
some you see and say wow
some you see and say hmm i love that
some you see and get a hard on
some you see and say WTF

LMAO

i dont think some people understand what the poster is saying

no1madman:

Nobody. . .don't judge a woman by her words.

did anyone by chance break ur heart recently?

atelast 2 isnt ugly if not 3

and this proves that white chics are cheap and dumb? Werent u the same guy that was preaching on another thread that we shudnt judge people cuz or race or ethnicity? Damn!

when a man is rich, he can get any woman he wants, so does that make the woman he is sleeping with cheap?? Wtf. And why katie price name here, as far as i knw she hasnt slept with any married man, infact she date people are arent to her level moneywise.

I am loving this topic. I think other women shud talk abt their experiences too. Its a real eye opener to us women.

Ebonyeyes:

As if things are not already complicated. God help the sisters in diaspora.

Are you telling me. not all marriage proposals are REAL nowadays. Only God can help us women.

If a man truly loves love and wants to marry, as a lady i guess u will know. The way a man treats u says alot. i broke up with my ex bf because he asked me to marry him but actually wanted to get married because he wanted his papers sorted and i almost fell for it, so even when a nigerian asked you to marry him, make sure its for the rite reasons, now i just lie to guys that ask me out that my paper isnt out yet, if he truly want me, he would stay. My friends have also found themselves in same position, these will start with questions like lets travel and ofcos your answer will determine your status. Women have to be careful nowadays. shine ur eyes wella.

spiderman:

falled ke?
na wao!!!

Rofl

davidylan:

he must understand english language backwards. 

lmao

I disagree with some of the things the poster said but the women screaming 50-50 only say that when they want to lay down the laws but it comes to paying the bills then they knw its the husband job . . . . i mean c'mon
we cant shout 50-50 wheneva it suits us

I dont believe it but then again the nice, easy going ones are usually dangerous

luxoire:

@Ebonyz - thanks choc - think you are right it needs addressing - i know i am not faultless and sometimes i probably get on his nerves but sure it should not be that bad.

Atleast i admit there is a prob that needs addressing

ofcos you are not faultless, we are women
But u need to sit him down and tell him how you feel and if he doesnt change then i suggest u then ask yourself if you can live with him with the rest of your life with that attitude. The answer will decide your future

luxoire:

is that all the perspective you can offer - anyway thanks

Sorry, i knw u are in a dilemma but from reading your story it seem obvious and i think you know too but because you are in love but i can understand.

Your bf is only going to get worse as soon as he knows that he owns you
He came across as someone VERY arrogant and disrespectful esp the way he behaved in your mum's presence, that means even he doesnt have regards for her talkless of you. Even if he was angry he shouldnt have acted like that infront of your mum, it shows he doesnt have respect for you or her.

Then the submission thing, to me its like he wants to make all the decision and you must respect whether you like it or not, any good man would also want to hear his gf's ideas/opinions. the fact that he keeps malice irks the hell outta me, he is a man not a child.

So its either you both sit down and talk about your relationship before jumping into marriage, cuz the way i see it will get worse after marriage.

I see and smell DANGER here

Britney's outfit isnt bold or daring. its a total CRAP

i am so over that stupid beyonce's pose. she always pose like that to put emphasis on her hips.

Pink and fergi looked the best by FAR

Wowwwwwwwww
Food for thought

Kelly hun . . . . .No MORE lace front

If riri shud lose weight, what should beyonce do? Riri has always been curvy so umm
i think the dress made her look as if she has gained a few pound jare.

Keri is too over-dresssed for the grammy, its not the SAGs
Ciara is a hot mess
beyonce - not really wow'd by it
Best i have seen hudson look

Fhemmmy:

Are you married?
Cos if you are single and you wanna give some advice on how to make marriage work, i will surely flip my lid

Lol
easy oo