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You may have heard "no sex before marriage" from various people, articles, media etc. You may have also heard people encouraging partners not to have sex until they marry. But the question is, what truly is "no sex before marriage?"

Does it mean not having sex with each other before marriage, but having sex with other people your are not dating till you do wedding with the person you are dating? Or does it mean total sexual abstinence from everyone until marriage? The later is correct.

Every ladies past is subject to forgiveness by God, if they sincerely tell God for forgiveness. Also, many guys do not really bother about a lady's past if they are in love and want to marry.

But these are the things that can make your fiance hardly ignore your past.

(1) If you have slept with anyone close to your fiance. Example friend, brother, cousin, father.

So as a lady, if you really love a guy and you are marking him for future marriage, please never you sleep with anyone close to him. In total, avoid pre-marital sex.

Please help. I used my phone today to make calls, but later it was showing no network connection. I removed one of the sim and put in another phone and it worked.

Please what can I do?

If someone gets born again, will the person still be affected by past ancestral Bondages or curses? Please contribute... in situations were you offended someone and the person cursed, you may have to go back to apologize or return what you stole..

Please contribute!

Portugal is out.

I got a new dstv decoder and it has been connected. It is not showing signal yet. I want to know how to activate or register it.

Please help me out. I have started getting closer to someone from a broken home. Please does it have negative effect?

Do you feel guilty when sleeping with someone's girlfriend or boyfriend or fiance or fiancee, or even spouse, and then their partner calls them while in the act? This thing happens, and some people may show no remorse but pleasure in such act.

If you are sleeping around or doing such, change your ways.

One of the deliverance or mercy God has shown to me is that I get food in ceremony, celebration or party. I remembered in the past where I had issues getting food in ceremony, etc.

One major painful encounter was when I went to a child dedication ceremony, and I did not get food. At first, a man wanted me to eat his remaining food, but I did not. I waited for my own food, but the food never came. A woman said that they are bringing it. My people, I left that dedication without food, I only managed to eat the meat my elder sister was already chewing inside her mouth. It took me some time or years before getting over than pain.

If I come for your ceremony and you do not give me food, I may not be happy, except I am not interested. It is not that I cannot afford to buy food outside, but the pain of being bye passed when others are munching, and flexing drinks is not okay.

Please share your experience.

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Why na?

Some married men will love to play games and cheat, and some married women will love to cheat too or may even want to compete in the cheating game..Let me tell you one thing, you are free to do what you want. If you want to sleep around, go ahead. If you want to cheat on your matrimonial bed, go ahead..If you want to sleep with your ex, go ahead. Any thing you wish go ahead. If you want to destroy your marriage, go ahead.

Let's stop begging people not to cheat.. If you feel someone is doing it, and you too must do, go ahead..

But if you wish to be faithful and to keep your marriage, go ahead...It's your choice.

The right advise I will give is to be faithful and keep your marriage, but if you prefer to cheat, go ahead and flex...

Atleast they are now married... God bless their marriage, and may God teach you good character and how not to talk anyhow ..

Whether you marry in Dubai or marry in Paris or marry in deeper life or marry in catholic or marry anywhere, make sure you marry right, else you will likely see pepper ..

Please if you OP have any sister who is not married, begin to pray for her now so that marriage will be easy for her..

Deeper Life is a good church, they won't drain your finances...

Please political analysts, which Governor or governor's truly developed Lagos?

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I have a lady I am communicating with currently. We have not had sex, but have romanced once. She is a working class lady. She has big hips that might "cage" someone, and is also involved in her church...I want to avoid the issue of sex or romance, because the way I am seeing this current move, it may bring me down. How do I respectfully and politely communicate only from afar, or cut off

It is true that "God sees the heart but man looks at the outward appearance", but the same Bible says "let your light so shine before men that they may see your good work and glorify your father which is in heaven".. God still wants you to show outward righteousness so that your light will shine before men and they will see your good works and glorify God.

Men do not have the privilege of seeing our hearts, but God wants you to show them how Godly your heart is by the character you display, and in dressing, in telling the truth, in not collecting bribe, in not duping people, in not fornicating, in not comitting adultery, in not committing evil....

Happy Sunday.

Please do most couples enjoy marriage on the average? If yes, then nowadays marriage is still very hopeful and attractive...

If you know better statistics, you can contribute

I hardly pick sliced bread from the top. I always pick under or inside, leaving the first slice at the top or some few top slices...

What of you?

Do you have any event or scenario that whenever you remember it, you always feel ashamed. You may have gone past the situation, it may not be affecting you currently, but the remembrance of it makes you low.

Yours may be a past display of anger that you now feel does not make any sense, yours could be trying to impress someone in an off point way, yours could be having sexual affair with someone that is far lower than your level..

Which of these soups do you enjoy best with Akpu?

(1) Uha soup
(2) Atama
(3) Egusi
(4) Ewedu
(5) Ofe nsala
(6) Eforiro.
(7) Ogbono soup
( Edikankong
(9)Banga Soup
(10)Black soup
(11) Fisherman soup
(12) Miyan kuka
(13) Bitter leaf soup
(14) Oziz soup
(15) Okra soup

MatrixReloaded:
No one forced her to spread her legs to collect gbola wey no pay bride price, nor matrimony on her head. Na see finish and disregard plus disrespect as per the husband potency.
No man take in a forbidden fruit

The kids are still good.

Yah

Why is it that some Christians go to church very well and still do witchcraft, mammy water, juju and charms...Is it good to serve Jesus and still do evil? No. It is a bad thing to be a church fellow and still do juju for certain processes of life; such as, for businesses, for marriage, for career, for promotion etc.

If you are doing witchcraft, juju, mammy water, charms, and you still attend church regularly, stop those evil and follow Jesus completely. Jesus has the ultimate power.

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They have many nice people

May God give Nigeria His choice president.