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May you not destroy your sweet and loving home or relationship with your paternity fraud.

If you like keep sleeping up and down with bad guys, and then look for a responsible guy to tie it to....When he finds out through DNA, your child will likely loose all the love and affection he or she has been enjoying from the responsible Dad... While you go back to locate the original dad who might be an Igbooo smoker and an ogogogoro addict.

Please make sure all your children are from the right father that is really there to cater for them with all his heart.

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It is well

I want to tell you one truth...One of the reasons why many marriages are not having enough love is because many couples wasted their love while dating in their youthful days..

How can you date five people and have 3 breakups and betrayal, then you expect to be so okay in Marriage? By then your eyes would have probably been clear, and then when your spouse come, you may start applying sense because of your past experience..

Imagine if all couples married their first love, and imagine if all first love married their first love....

One of the maddest jazz ever shown in Nigeria was by Bakassi boys of 1998 to 2002

You may wonder why the increase in adultery by married men and women, even those who go to church.

I will tell you deep and normal reasons why adultery has increased.

(1) Unbroken Soul-tie: You may hear people say "it was my past", I am now a changed person. But if you check today, one channel of adultery in marriages today is caused by EX boyfriends, EX girlfriends, former sex mates....
The reason why it is so is because people don't intentionally go to pray and thoroughly break covenants and spiritually separate with those who Deflowered them, whom they slept with etc. So even if they say "I am a changed person", some years later in marriage, they may still go back to their old vomit probably because of the Soul-tie with their former partners.

(2) Social Media Addiction: A married man or woman who roams on the internet chatting with the opposite sex may land into the sin of adultery. The social media has varieties and lots of specs that may be more attractive than your spouse. So if you keep roaming there, you may commit adultery.

(3) Over-confidence: Be careful with stuffs like "he is just a friend", "she is just a friend", "nothing will happen, I know myself"...

Sometimes the bait of adultery may display very slowly. It may start with constant innocent conversations, constant platonic appreciation, constant good concern, constant care etc...But before you know it, you may find yourself stark naked with someone who is not your husband or wife.

(4) Lack of Prayers and Study of the Bible: If you don't pray often and read your Bible often you may fall into the sin of adultery as a married man or woman.

(5) Not dealing with internal lust: As a married man or woman, you need to deal with that weird sexual imagination in your head, else you may fulfill it one day with whom you are lusting after.

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Have a lovely time...

Okay ooh... If you are faithful, fine....

Some exes are..

Do you subscribe to playing worldly music in Christian Wedding ceremony? Anyway me I don't.

Kindly put your contributions here.

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Should I put the pricing?

Will you say?

(1) Virgin: 2 Million.
(2) Non-Virgin: 500k

Whether Virgin or Non-Virgin, if you have the money, you can do something large if you wish, but if you want to cut cost, fine.

Please if you see a woman truly in need, you can help her. Even if she has a boyfriend, you can help her if you can.. Do not translate every help as Simping....We all are humans and we have to do things out of conscience and love sometimes..

You can rescue a lady who has a boyfriend or not. You can save the life of a lady who has a boyfriend or not. Value humans.

I am not saying you help stupidly or on unuseful reasons, but you can help and move on....

Look at how people are addicted to betting, to masturbation, to sleeping around, to smoking, to drinking, to etc...Do you know there is a first time in the process of addiction. Some addicts may have probably wish they never met that first time. That first time could be first smoking, first sex, first masturbation, first betting, first etc.

I encourage you, if you are not an addict to anything, do not try any bad thing, even if you are encourage to try it for the first time. If they call you weakling, bear it.

Addiction to bad things is bondage that are often hardly broken, except God shows mercy.

Are you tempted to prove a point to your colleagues by smoking, by having sex, by drinking, by masturbating, by etc. Be careful because they may not get addicted, but you may get addicted.

Lying down to respect people, bowing down to people, appreciating everyone, greeting respectfully with two hands etc, are good, but are not total signs of Humility. The first sign of Humility is when your heart is not lifted up in pride, but sober, not magnifying self and giving all glory to God.

Do you know you can act humbly and be proud in the heart? Do you know you can act humbly just to impress people for them to say you are humble?

The question now is: why do you act humbly? If your humility is to intentionally show people or impress people on how humble you are, then you are not humble.... It is beautiful and good to respect people, honour elders, bow down where necessary; but all with a humble heart.

Pray for grace to be humble outwardly and also to be humble in your heart in Jesus name. Amen.

Happy Sunday.

If you like date 10 different guys, if you like be in 20 relationship apps, if you like have guys and rich men flocking around; but ones you do not find the right suitor, you are technically "single"..

Until you meet your right partner, you may just be busy with guys deceiving yourself with suitors and attraction....

May God remember you.

Does your church still preach hard truth such as rapture, restitution, great tribulation etc? Or are they still on motivational speaking?

When the sweetest marriage of a faithful wife is messed up by DNA issue! Do you know that some of these women whose marriages were destroyed by DNA issues may be 100% faithful in marriage? But what messed their marriages up may be the last sex they had with their EX or someone few days to wedding their day, leading to pregnancy....Mind you, when the devil perceives your beautiful Marital future, he may remind your EX to come and assist you in destroying it.

So before you think you are smart, weight the options and the likely future damages you may bring...

Just imagine your beautiful home with lovely kids, loving husband, good prosperity, you all living in a mansion with sufficient things and cars, then all of a sudden something happens and a child is tested for DNA, then the child is not your husband's own but your EX.

Think through!!

If swallows are displayed, which of these will more people go for?

(1) Garri
(2) Semo
(3) Amala
(4) Akpu
(5)Wheat
(6) Starch
(7)Tuwo Chinkafa
( Pounded yam
(9)Tuwo Masara

Hey!

Did you bounce in secondary school and do you bounce now? What kind of person or star do you bounce like?

Repent from prostitution and follow Jesus.

The guy is very strength.

Some so-called Christians still reduce their age to get job. Some may also lie in their CV. Some may inflate prices outside the normal price. Some may not return change to the owner after buying stuffs. Some may put an early time of resumption in their time book when they actually came late to work. Some tell lies.....Some do examination malpractice and may even insult those not doing it.

Can you see that Christianity does not end in praise and worship, fireeeeee, motivational messages, church service? The world and people of other religion will respect you more if you live a honest life than just bragging that "I am a child of God", when you cannot obey the Bible.

I started communicating with this lady. From my conversations, she may be a good girl on many parts. She goes to a very good church. I mean a bible-believing church. We have started chatting and calling already, but while we were gisting via chat, she said she has had sex. I continued gisting with her in a calm way, but I do feel "funny". We are ripe for marriage, but when I think of that sex part, I feel "funny". I can marry a non-virgin. Infact a lady I wanted to marry before was not a virgin and I did not feel bad at all. I even wanted to meet my church head (reverend) as regards marriage with her but she said I should wait.. I cherished her.

Please how can I stop to feel 'funny" for this lady? Guys how do you move past this and enjoy with love.

I am not better than her, she came from a bible-believing home, but please advise me.

Tell us your stories. We may learn from it.

Clingy guys..

Relationship

Some ladies may blunty say "I am not interested". Some may insult, others may reject politely.

How do you see a lady replying this way? "You are created awesome and you will get someone good for you, I am not in for your request. Have a lovely time"

Or

How do you reply yours?

Gadafii:
First u no fit cheat on me, you will cheat with me on your boyfriend

Girls wey no get serious boyfriend no Dey interest me that much, because I no ready for that emotional and financial stress it will bring if she’s single, except we both just agree in just the fun part and nothing more


Girls with boyfriends, they have their emotional and financial issues settled already

If girl cheat on me, I already knew what was up before I get involved with her, I don’t take girls too serious, but a girl that laid with another man behind my back, she don score double own goal be that

Ya way eeh!!

Food for thought.

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