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Celebrities › Re: Dwayne Johnson The Rock Plays Davido’s Song At 2am, Singer Reacts (Video) by ecolime(m): 11:49am On May 26, 2020
ensamy:
WELL NIGERIA IS A BIG MARKET, DWAYNE JUST USED THAT STUNT OF DAVIDO SONG TO MARKET THE TERQULA TO NIGERIANS AND AFRICA AS A WHOLE. HE GOT 'EM. shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
You are wise. Dwayne is using Davido to market the drink to Africa's largest market. Advert 101
Romance › Re: I She Just Playing Hard To Get,or Is There Something Else? by ecolime(m): 7:30am On May 25, 2020
Weak men like this disgusts me. What a sissy!
Family › Re: Cheating Husband Receives Hot Soup And 'Promise Of Hell At Home', From Wife by ecolime(m): 7:06am On May 25, 2020
shocked

OP, I'm interested in how he exited the restaurant with the side chic. Did he order for another soup? Lol
Travel › Re: Nigeria Fines Uk-based Flairjet For Violating Aviation Regulations by ecolime(m): 9:39pm On May 24, 2020
Just 1M shocked


That's a pat on the back. I'm not surprised. They have their loots hidden there and will still go for treatment after lock down has been fully eased.
Celebrities › Re: May D: While Living With P'square, I Slept On TV Carton In Their Boys Quarters by ecolime(m): 7:27pm On May 24, 2020
fulaniHERDSman:
Good part is that you were lucky to have been opportuned to work with them at all. Not everyone that wished to was given the chance.
Maybe you are like an orange that needed some good squeezing to produce juice. Probably you would have been unproductive if pampered.
I owe everybody that I encountered while on my way up the ladder.
Bad guys made me work harder while the good guys held the light.
Be grateful to God for everything.
People who keep looking back always fall flat. Ask Blackface.
This is deep. You are a wise man.
Celebrities › Re: Video: Cynthia Morgan And Burna Boy's Mysterious Kiss That Caused Her Downfall by ecolime(m): 6:59pm On May 24, 2020
Karemarealty288:
Help connect her to your Oga of 5Star....cos her star has been deflected through that kiss ..
Him Oga like several others no dey help oo. They live for show off.
Celebrities › Re: Video: Cynthia Morgan And Burna Boy's Mysterious Kiss That Caused Her Downfall by ecolime(m): 5:20pm On May 24, 2020
Una don start again

Family › Re: Did I Say Anything Wrong To Her? She Stopped Talking by ecolime(m): 2:05pm On May 24, 2020
FisifunKododada:
Rules to dating a married woman:

Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Is Depressed, Here Is Her New Look by ecolime(m): 8:16am On May 24, 2020
She lost her bleaching cream too?
Family › Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by ecolime(m): 10:45pm On May 23, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
so, who does the housework?

Cos if she does all the housework, then she is being productive.
I really wonder why people under rate house work. It's serious work trust me
Family › Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by ecolime(m): 10:42pm On May 23, 2020
tyup:
Man what yr saying is totally off sense....she's doing all that cuz of too much comfort and OP's situation will never change till he reduce that amount buy enough food n other necessary things needed at home so she doesn't starve n doesn't complain sososo is not available

If she doesn't get this money for some months she will have sense by force. The only person i pity now is OP (tho i'm not praying things change) but if it does that he's not having enough money then he'll know what real problems and wahala is frm a nagging wife

Damnit God made wives helpmates an not some lazy ass pocket dryers sad
So you are suggesting he reduces what he has been giving her for over 3 years? This is not possible.

The best he can do is not to increase this figure for the next 7-10 years. Trust me
Family › Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by ecolime(m): 10:22pm On May 23, 2020
deji85:
It's for our feeding I also know her siblings ask for help and I don't want her asking me for money to send all the time.
90k for feeding is on the high side for 2 adults. Don't reduce the amount to avoid issues.

She can make hair and also sew, these 2 skills will come handy when the kids start coming. Trust me, you will be glad she learnt them especially if you have girls.

My wife learnt hair making during her pre-NYSC days and my baby girl is enjoying it now. She's an offshore worker but we all enjoy the fruits of the various skills she learnt whenever she's around.

Anyway, I have a solution to your dilemma. That's if you are free lancer since you said you work from home. It's very simple. TEACH HER YOUR WORK. If it's not too technical, teach her what you do. Win the projects (Be the sole face of your project) but assign work to her. With these, you will get more jobs done, your productivity will increase, you earn more dollars and your client will keep giving you jobs. Don't forget you gonna be less burdened with work.

Let her know that's the only way she can contribute to the family. It's a win win situation for everyone. You have a complete woman- a wife, personal staff, partner, hair dresser for your girls (if you later have), tailor for the kids, a contributor to the home finance and an home teacher for the kids.

Please engage your wife, she's just blank business wise and bored.
Family › Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by ecolime(m): 9:43pm On May 23, 2020
[quote author=deji85 post=89888177][/quote]I really feel for you dude. Just have a heart to heart talk with your wife.

Honestly, 3 years is more than enough to come up with a business/trade plan but you've still gotta encourage her and please don't give up on her.

BTW, my actual interest is the 90k upkeep expenses. What exactly does it cater for? Only feeding?
Politics › Re: Obaseki Runs To Tinubu Ahead Of Edo Governorship Primaries - Dailytimes by ecolime(m): 7:30pm On May 23, 2020
DanseMacabre:
Lol.

It's obvious. cheesy


Tinubu is faaaar more powerful than the Oba of Benin. grin

Business › Re: Have Fraudsters Invaded The BVN System? by ecolime(m):
Hmmm..

There is no invasion anywhere. These can be gotten by fraudsters from bank registers, loan Apps, Credit bureau, NIMC and several other places.

Never give out your personal details to anybody over the phone or via email and you will be fine.

BTW, nobody on earth can defraud you electronically without you compromising your secret PINs i.e ATM Password, OTP, Mobile password, Online password etc.
Politics › Re: Governor Akeredolu And Ayodele Adigun In 1976 Vs 2020 (Photos) by ecolime(m): 5:56pm On May 23, 2020
seguno2:
Do you have comprehension problem?
Otherwise point to where I said that they are the sole reason. Thanks
Thought I was replying a smart person. Dunce!
Politics › Re: Governor Akeredolu And Ayodele Adigun In 1976 Vs 2020 (Photos) by ecolime(m): 5:48pm On May 23, 2020
seguno2:
Successful at ruining the society that they inherited?
Is that failure or success?
Are the basics of the 1960s and 1970s, when they were growing up, available now?
Think bro please think.
Are both of them the sole reason why Naija is messed up the way it is today? What would you do better if you were either of the two?
Politics › Re: History Of Abacha’s Theft Is Being Rewritten Before Our Eyes By Farooq Kperogi by ecolime(m): 3:12pm On May 23, 2020
Bubu & co can't 'wash' Abacha clean posthumously. He will forever be known as a thief.
Politics › Re: Governor Akeredolu And Ayodele Adigun In 1976 Vs 2020 (Photos) by ecolime(m): 3:10pm On May 23, 2020
Both guys became successful. Like stories like this
Career › Re: Education Or Career: I Need Help by ecolime(m): 12:16pm On May 23, 2020
Second degree is a NO NO because age is not on your side and life goes beyond your 1st degree.

If you have a specific career path under Social statistics that you want to pursue, you can go for your Masters and keep applying for jobs concurrently.

If you don't have a clear cut career path, you can explore the areas of your video editing skills. Do professional courses in it or do apprenticeship under proven professionals. You can stand on your own when you've gained ground.
Business › Re: Oil Price Rises To Two-Month High Of $35 by ecolime(m): 7:06am On May 19, 2020
Congratulations Nigeria undecided
Politics › Re: Zakzaky’s Daughter Orders Members To Fly The Palestinian Flag On Nigerian Street by ecolime(m): 6:09am On May 19, 2020
jidamsel43:
if its for solidarity, there is nothing wrong in this. Moreover, countries should rise up to defend Palestinians rights on their land
Remove the log from your eyes before removing the sticks from others.

I do not get it when poverty stricken Nigerians poke noses into matters of countries that do not know that you exist all because of religion. You better do solidarity with fellow Nigerians against looters and oppressors.

Just so you know, Arabs don't give a damn about black Muslims while Jews also don't give a damn about black Christians.

Poverty dey kill people daily here na Palestinian matter come be our problem. Abeg, make we give ourselves brain.

Politics › Re: Zakzaky’s Daughter Orders Members To Fly The Palestinian Flag On Nigerian Street by ecolime(m):
See this mumu. Chasing international recognition. Better find a way to free your Papa first
Family › Re: Proud Dad Reveals His Daughter Learned To Stand At Eight Weeks (Photos) by ecolime(m): 5:50am On May 19, 2020
Rare gift from above. This baby na old mama oo
Family › Re: Niaralanders!! Help Me Expose This Impostor by ecolime(m): 5:23am On May 18, 2020
linnyx:
Bros ee, his location shows he lives in Dubai while he works at FMC Owerri/Abuja... Wetin again you wan know about the guy?
Me sef dey wonder
Politics › Re: SERAP To Buhari: Copy ‘Namibia Example’, Ban Car Perks For Presidency, Ministers by ecolime(m): 12:05pm On May 17, 2020
Impossible
Family › Re: Should I Relocate? by ecolime(m): 11:26am On May 17, 2020
ikh777:
I gave him simple rare opportunities and little wisdom of how to save his money without loosing it..
This is Nigeria where nothing goes for nothing. Next time post the advice on the thread if truly you have no ulterior motive. Others too can learn. That's why it's called a public forum. Messaging the OP privately when you read 550k is suspicious.
Celebrities › Re: Coronavirus Memes: Funny Pictures That Will Spice Your Day. by ecolime(m): 10:53am On May 17, 2020
falcon01:
I wonder the kind of people that laugh at this lame stuffs, this are for normies
2011, Nigeria was voted the happiest country in the world. Less than a decade down the line, the opposite is the story.

I know things are tough in this country but please don't be too hard on yourself. I can feel your pain because we are all in this together.

May God put a smile on your face bro. Cheer up!
Family › Re: The Tale Of A 17 Y'old Mother by ecolime(m): 10:36am On May 17, 2020
So this man with full beard is just 17? shocked
Romance › Re: What's The Highest Amount You Can Pay For Your Woman's Bride Price? by ecolime(m): 10:12am On May 17, 2020
Don't forget there are still several items to be purchased on the engagement list as well.

Paid 10k when I wedded which was even returned back to my family. If na this 2020, na 30k max.

It's good for men to know what obtains in the family/village of their prospective wife from the onset so you know what you getting into.
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Not Joke With Prophecies! by ecolime(m): 8:56am On May 17, 2020
This covid-19 has definitely reinforced the doubts of many.

How come no single prophet saw It?
Crime › Re: Armed Robbers Invade A Home In Abuja, Captured On CCTV (video) by ecolime(m): 8:14am On May 17, 2020
Hamzatgodfirst:
As their own don finish, they can still pass free. That cctv is not very clear. BTW, how are they going to search for them? With the help of the police? Good luck
Leave that aspect to the police. They will surely be caught.

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