sexylassie2:
arent you tired of recycle topics

this topic have been discussed on nairaland like a million times

arent you tired ?

it is a boring topic

Maybe because nobody is saying/doing anything to help those that are innocent.

Personally, I like visiting girls or having them come visit alone because of that shit.

A girl once threatened me to have sex with her or else....

Leezah:
Guys, can you date a girl that has a pretty face but no big boobs or assThinking face

A passport girl u mean?

Yeaa, sure...as along as she can challenge me to always improve myself

Jesus

pazzini:
Pls, I need advise on how to really handle this issue. My girlfriend wants us to be talking every day and I sometimes get bored by that. Even when I try to avoid her at least a day by telling her I don't have airtime, she would call me even if she doesn't have airtime she would borrow. Kindly advise!

She loves you....

For you to reduce this....make plans for dates. Whenever she calls, keep d conversation to the barest minimum and tell her when you guys see, she will tell you everything that's going on.

If you are genuinely occupied, it will be easier. Good luck

This will make her think about you more as she will be in constant anticipation of the date

Jancy606:
Pls I need a good supplement that can clear cataract and restore good sight. Any good advice is welcome too.

Yes, I have one.

Let's talk privately

Petyprincess:

Trust me i dnt need attention on stupidland!!

Wow! "Stupidland" is this your way of saying you want us to go somewhere else?

peacettw:


Like I said, I saw this thread in passing, said my piece and moved on.

My day was splendid by the way, I hope yours was too

But your piece wasn't needed, except maybe there was something you were looking for like attention.

Not saying that a girl like you would be looking for attention...its just that most girls look for attention unknowingly, it's like air to them.

My day was fantabulous do you know that comedian, mr macaroni?

emmaodet:


I don't like this statement - change your circle of girls you hang out with. That statement alone means a lot is wrong with the whole system.
During my dad's time, he never had to change his circle or environment to get a good woman, that shows how bad things have become.
Then, all you had to do is date the average lady in you street, community or town and you are good to go, you are 95% sure you are marrying a good woman but can we try that now? It will be a total disaster.
Now it's all about change your circle, change your friends, change your environment, change you clothings, shape, change your...... Change your...... Change your .......
Only God knows what next to change

ubunja
Martinez39s
Martinez39

Debra, Damon, Cuban....are friends. They are all millionaires.

Ayakata, area piro...are friends. They are both thugs.

The kinda people you spend your time with affects your thinking and invariably they will affect your future.

Think about it....you are the average of the 5 people you spend most of your time with. In other words, their thoughts and ideas are also yours.

sEGXY2:
Over the past few weeks I've noticed that there has been a gross misrepresentation of what a true alpha male is on this forum. I'm not one yet. But I'll be one someday soon.

An Alpha Male is not someone who gets to sleep with the most girls. A true Alpha male is anybody irrespective of gender who is self fulfilled and comfortable in being their own self. They do not conform to standards of other people.

He is not controlled by any external influence. His actions and inactions are propelled by his inner happiness and that's what matters the most to him. He knows what he wants and chases it by any means.

An alpha male identifies his what's really important to him and follows it totally even if it's at his detriment. if he fails, he learns and move on. The essence is following what gives him/her fulfillment.

if love is what will make him happy then he chases it by all means. If having a great career and living lonely will give him fulfillment he will chase this relentlessly. he does not follow the opinion or standard of other people because it will jeopardize his own happiness . That is essentially what being an Alpha is all about.

Gracias

This is almost laughable....happiness pill!!!! Did the commissioner of happiness gave u d name?

Anyway, I agree with most of the things u said until you missed the point by saying, "if love is what you need..." Ogbeni, love in that context is dependent on another human being, hence it's out of your hands.

Everybody wants to teach. The red pill concept did not start on nairaland, and yes the red pill goes beyond women.

Tony Robbins, Corey Wayne etc are successful men with over 30 owned companies, they teach the truth not to men alone but everyone. They talk about relationships, business, life in general.

Before you come up with your own pill, take d chill pill 1st

Escabado:
Them born you and a man the same year , both of you entered primary school till university and go service and after that you feel unbothered to get a Job or open a business .and you keep calling men broke .are you not ashmed of yourself ? Is it a crime for you to buy a car in your name, build a house and earn your own income as a women . You Nigerian girls are really a disgrace to womanhood. Visit Ghana and other African countries and see your fellow woman working day and night and making a living for themselves. You are here shouting gender equality and feminizm when you sol depend on a man's money after sex for survival. My brother's please why are our girls like this add yours

@ubunja , @lefulefu , @iLegend , @Airforce1

Bros, that's too much. Yes, women are dependent even if they dont want to admit it. Those labels you used on them is too much.

Maybe you should change the circle of girls you hang with or better still stop acting like money is all you have to offer (this is an assumption). If money is all you have to offer, that's all they will take from you.

BotafogoJunior:
no,you shouldnt be tired this is nature mostly if it were not for women we wouldnt be here and if it were not for men women wouldnt be here,so naturally we need each other as per reproduction,even banter like these one and in other imagineable ways. Women are funny and can also be annonying they are word and opposite going together so also men too,you know they are humans too,everybody is human before being male or female

Bros, you get am.... you hit d nail 4 head

peacettw:
Interesting comments. Well, in my next lifteimessssss, I will always opt to remain a woman and I owe noone any explanations. I am here cos apparently one of the persons I am following shared a misogynistic comment which led me here. I now know to be extremely careful of those I associate with.


Have a nice Sunday people.

If you really didnt care, you wouldn't have commented


Hope ya day was splendid?

Petyprincess:
Just take a look at the fools that commented above insulting women including their mothers nd sisters at home, I just wonder hw their mothers will feel seeing this comments!! No one forced you to be with a woman! This life is choice! But welcome to nairaland stupidland where every guy hates woman bt behind closed doors will be begging the same woman to put the tip! #foolishsetofpeople

Hey Petite! it's nice seeing you here.

Back to the topic

Ya 50 shades of wrong. Maybe the guys are generalizing which is wrong but that doesn't mean that what theyare saying is wrong.

What is the meaning of no bra day! If u no wan wear bra, how that one take be news?

You girls are generally attention seekers....if you comment on 5 threads and no guy quotes you, I bet you'll go see your pastor d next sunday, telling him that something is wrong with you.


Hope no qualms? I still have a crush on u

Rich4god:
Greetings...

I can't help but notice the way guys and ladies bash each other here. On several occasions, when a lady open a thread seeking and advise based on her current situation or maybe based on the mistake she made in life/relationship/marriage. More than 70% of the guys that will respond here will bash her personality instead of offering meaningful advice. It seems like guys here don't want ladies to have their freedom always bashing them and calling them names.
There was a thread last week about a lady trying to move out of her parents house to leave alone. It surprised me how most of the guys started calling the lady potential olosho, that she is seeking for freedom to be messing around. I mean how low could some guys think.
On another thread, a lady complained of how she got pregnant and dropped out of sch, next thing, guys started abusing her that she is a loose lady. How will the abuse solve the problem she is in already. Don't get me wrong, it's not like am supporting them in what they did, but there are ways of advising and correcting someone of their mistakes.

Can't we just offer meaningful advise without attacking someone personality.

The ladies too does same, but they do it out of reaction to the bashing they get from the guys. And because the guys are more in number on this forum, the ladies voice gets muzzled out.

Let us be more matured in our dealings here cos our response to issues like this could actually push someone into depression.

WOW! IT IS AMAZING THAT YOUR TOPIC IS GUYS VS GIRLS, YET YOUR EXAMPLES ARE ONE SIDED....ONE WOULD THINK THAT YA A GIRL BUT YA NOT.

YOU SOUND LIKE A SIMP SHA.... NO HARD FEELINGS

Biglittlelois:



Ok I'm huge, happy?

My happiness has nothing to do with ya size. Be big, be little or be lois....it's ya choice

If ya real name is Lois, it's cool that's my favourite niece's name

Petyprincess:

You really smart,you are the only person that got the meaning of my moniker

God is saying something. We should get to know each other

Biglittlelois:
Yeah very true but we like drama

Every girl wants to claim that their petite

Petyprincess:
If your gf is not petite you are missing alot
OP you are totally on point!!

I like your name... it has 'PETY' and princess.

Is the pety another variation of petite?

Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me

It is going to get better.

I had a similar experience but right I am her go to guy. She is now doing everything to win my affection.

I have forgiven her but it's an experience I cant forget.

My dear, God will lift you higher.... It is a phase and it will surely pass.

I'd like to speak with you privately