princemillla:



Yes the show was rented in her name. Just confirmed from her.

UPDATE : the guys mum just sent someone to add padlock to the house and the shop.

If the shop has her name, then no worries. With a good lawyer, they will pay for tampering with the store

princemillla:



They were supposed to officially married this February.

It's sad to say but the only power she has is the child. As per the properties, she has no legal claim over them except if her name is in any of the documents.

princemillla:
Good noon guys pls I need the right input. Pls kindly read carefully and let me know how to best attack the issue.

NB : ignore any form of typos as am tensed while writing this.


I have a Lil sis who got engaged Last year. ThO she was pregnant befor the engagement.

Things were rosy after the engagement but along the line the young guy died last year December (2019).
Befor the guy died the wife delivered a boy.
Just immediately after the guy was pronounced dead, the guys mother collected both the landed property and car key from my sis.

Now she wanted my sis to come drop off a boy of 5months plus every property in their apartment to her (the deceased mothers) place. She also want to pick everything in my sis shop.



How do one tackle this issue house pls.

Did they actually get married or it was just an engagement?

Ehiagwina001:
Keep buying

What's ya location?

ubunja:
not in a million years boss. None of these writeups have ever made it to FP.

That's just sad

ubunja:
Sex On Credit.

PROLOGUE.
Women live under many delusions and illusions, but the greatest of these delusions; the sweetest of these illusions, is that sex for them is free.

WOMEN ARE HAVING SEX ON CREDIT.
There is no such thing as free sex. Only dumb Women believe sex doesn't cost them a thing. That it costs only the man. They mock and laugh when a man is broke but burning with passion for they know he has no hope of getting relief. It feels so good dangling sex before thirsty men, cruelly declaring, "there's nothing for free!"

True, there's nothing for free. But it goes both ways. There's nothing for free for women too. In sex, everyone pays, one way or the other. Sooner or later. And the irony of ironies is that sex is cheaper for men than it is for women. Men pay for sex IMMEDIATELY with money. Money they will make again tomorrow. It may seem like they got the short end of the stick. But as economists will advise, it's always cheaper to pay upfront with cash.

But women, on the other hand, pay for sex much later, with something much more valuable and impossible to make again: THEIR BODIES. If it appears as though women are having sex for free it is because women are having sex on credit. Every round of sex recorded in their Account Books and tagged "To pay later". And they're in for a shock on the day they have to settle their accounts.

THE GENIUS OF THE PATRIARCHY.
The Patriarchy was, is and will always be, the greatest idea of all time. It understood this concept intimately. A woman is given her beauty and fertility early in her life and has to use the beauty to get the best man to marry her for her fertile womb. After serving it's duty in the woman's late 30s and early 40s, the Womb expires, taking the woman's beauty with it. The man who married the woman for her beauty and fertility finds that his wife, after menopause, is no longer attractive and no longer productive. He longs to leave her for some nubile early 20s girl. But the children he has fathered with his wife make him stay.

Thus a woman, gives a man her best years so that the man can be there for her in her wretched years.

A WOMAN WITH NO MAN.
Now, remove a husband from that equation.

Meet Sandra, a pretty, fertile young lass screwing her 20s away receiving cash, gifts and favours for her pussy. She imagines men are unfortunate losers who have to pay for what she gets free. It's like watching a movie free and getting paid to watch! Thank God she was born a girl.

But come mid 30s Sandra makes a startling discovery: she has to use more and more make-up to maintain her good looks. Which means one thing: Her beauty is fading! Five more years even she can't stand her morning face and applying makeup is becoming a two hour exercise. Then more bad news. Male attention starts drying up. Where per day she gave her number to no less than two men, she's now lucky if one man asks for her number a week. It's hurting her, because No male attention means no sex and no sex means no cash and gifts.

She starts going broke. How she wishes she had a man to call and unburden on. Someone to lean on. Then the words of her 20s self come to memory, "marriage is not for everyone" , "Marriage is outdated!". She remembers the young men she rejected with those words when they asked her to build a future with them. Oh if she could have that future now. She sees those guys around town. They are married. They have wives and they look happy. Most of all they look Handsome. Gone are the weird looks the men had. They have matured with age, like wine. Time has been kind to them. Unlike to her.

Then Sandra sees the men who used to fvck her giving her cash and gifts. These men have similarly aged nicely and are easy on the eye. And what pierces her heart like a burning sword is this: THE MEN STILL HAVE MONEY. Despite spending on her over the years, they made more. She looks at her body. Years of sex have left their toll. Saggy breasts. Saggy ass. Loose thighs. The dead look in her eyes. The slut face that gives away the hedonistic life she has lived for so long. The dozens of babies aborted that have left her womb more cemetery than life-giver. The dozens of STI cured that have left their mark on her pussy. Envy fills her heart. She approaches those men offering her body like old times, but they reject her. They are running with fresh young ones. Her time is past. Her body is spent.

Envy turns to anger as she realizes she will never again get these men to spend on her.

THE END OF ILLUSIONS.
The illusion finally lifts from Sandra's eyes: The sex all those years was not free. She has paid for it in perhaps the worst possible way: with her body. The only thing of value we all have in this world. The men she fvcked had paid in cash. But cash is recyclable. The men have made more cash to continue fvcking. But she has paid with her body and her body isn't recyclable. It is gone now and it can't make her money because no man will want it. Sandra is hurt.

# MeToo.
But fvck it!! They are still making money aren't they? Those men? She will get them to spend on her whether they want to or not. Even if she has to force them to. There are men who are always ready to help a woman out in these situations. She knows where to find them. Those men are the Police.

And so, one fine morning Sandra walks into a Police Station and lays a rape charge.

Her story begins something like this, "15 years ago some men raped me... "

By next day her story is trending on Social Media with the hashtag MeToo. A few more innocent men ruined. One more whôré saved from starvation by the TV appearances and book deals she'll get relating her story for the world to sympathize over.
#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

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emmy2807
SOFTDRINK
justiniyke29
RipMorosini
reservd
Aiziko
Avedonn
kkins25

I hope this makes it way to FP. A lot of persons will learn a thing from this story.

Nice write-up

RisenPhoenix:
Lol. All these inner secrets being exposed are going to give NL women headaches o. When they go nuclear on Ubunja now eh.

The funny thing is...women cant help it. Even if they know that you know this things, they will still fall for it

ubunja:
the avarage guy worships women like some angel straight from heaven who has no weaknesses and can do no wrong.Players however know what women are like deep deep down and know things that if most men knew also they would never marry.

that is why women control discussions across all media and are quick to complain to those in power if they feel the least bit concerned that essential truths about them are about to be revealed which will hurt their reputations and value.

players become players coz their learn that women reward the bad and punish the good.here are 4 things players know about the women u worship,the same things that have made players vow never to get married:

1.a woman always has a Plan B ready in the wings.

thats why all her exes are still in her phonebook.thats why she has so many guys in her friendzone.to a woman being single and desperate is infinite humiliation.so while u delete all those gals in your phone to focus on her,she has a guy she sometimes acts like she loves sometimes acts like she doesnt love.she is doing this to keep him warm for herself in case of emergency.this can go on for a lifetime.and the flipside is that she doesnt want u doing the same.she will insist u delete all exes in your fone.its a master move.

2.a woman will forgive sexual infidelity under 2 circumstances

i)if u cheat with a MUCH HOTTER gal than her. she will get angry and get over it quick. some even view it as a compliment.but to cheat with a much uglier gal is gross disrespect for her.

ii)if u assure her IT WAS JUST SEX.sex doesnt mean anything to women.its like how breathing underwater doesnt mean anything to fish,but to humans its a miracle to go scuba-diving.sex is like tap water and air to women.they can get it ANYTIME ANYWHERE. whats hard to for them to get is friendship.coZ every guy that talks kindly to her secretly wanna fvck her. thats why when u cheat the first question a gal asks is "do u love her?" not "did u sleep with her". coz sex is nothing.its the emotions that count to her. thats why women are greatly offended when u discuss the secrets of your relationship with another gal. its emotional. but sex is physical. physical things are not deep and dont last. women know this.

3.a woman will choose to sleep with a total stranger than a man she knows.

this is because of 2 reasons. i)a stranger will keep the secret. and even if there is no guarantee of that,chances are she will never meet that stranger again in this life. ii)a stranger wont judge her.unlike that guy she knows who will forever give her that dirty look coz she licked his an_us , a stranger will brush it off as something of no consequence.to a stranger a gal can open up her dirtiest most secret most disguisting and shocking fantasies without fear of reprisals.her reputation wont suffer. thats why women do an_al sex, 3sumz, and org_ies mostly with strangers.

4.women care more about reputation than actual good behaviour.

if u can keep a secret and let women know that, u will never go hungry for sex.most gals dont give sex coz men just cant keep their mouths closed.always bragging.always sharing.and that ruins a gal's reputation in society.never kiss and tell. never even tell your best friend the things u do with women. THATS WHY MOST PLAYERS ARE LONE -WOLVES.no friends.no crew. only on good books with women.can u live like that?


(c) ubunja. copy & paste allowed. additions & subtractions not allowed

You are actually correct.

placeofallure:
Wow! When I was younger, I used to hate the fact that I have it. Used to think it's some kinda deformity. Even now, I've only learned to live with it. Dunno other people have it too. Weird, if you ask me . Don't even know what they call it

Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...right! Sure you did

Blu03:


A butt dimple? I got it too
Why?

Show us or we don't believe you

jamesxay:
Hello everyone, I'm kinda puzzled and feel I could pour my heart on this thread concerning what I've been facing.

I met this girl whom I have been avoiding to bleep for a while despite her crushing on me and initiating everything since I didn't really want to date her for some proximity/space principle issues although I was developing feelings for her. My feelings escalated the first time I tried to be intimate with her when she had pushed me to the brim and I could no longer be nice. This girl halted the intimacy and I wondered why but I just thought she was only forming bad and was not ready. I apologized and kept my distance sexually.

Weeks passed only for her to come pushing the sexual tension thing more intense and then the shocking discovery I made that this girl wasn't as innocent as I thought, she's had several guys and was a chronic flirt although she told me it was just for the money. Anyways I cooled off my anger towards the discovery as I had come to appreciate her for her character and love she had shown me. I told her to stop living such a life and If i wasn't satisfying her I'd adjust which she hastily obliged to and I started making moves to show her all kinds of love. The second time I tried to be intimate she still resisted and it begins to look embarrassing to me. I feel as if this girl is toying with me for some reasons I can't figure out.

Just recently I find she still hangs out with the guys and is even intimate with some of which I have found in her home. I feel so insulted.

[Note: This is an updated/modified post due to misunderstanding/suggestions]

She is saving you for marriage. Be proud!

Foodqueen:
I actually opened this thread thinking you were sharing your story

Everybody don turn motivational speaker

I have a dream.... one day we wil be

blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?

That guy wont get married to you after sex. He is not even ready to get married this year.

One of two things will happen...

1. You love and dont wanna lose so you will give him your body. After several rounds of sex, you guys will start having issues and you will be the one to keep begging until he dumps you.

2. You love him but you also love yourself. You will deny him sex, he will continue to press you for it until he gets tired and move on from you. He will blame you for everything going wrong in the relationship, he will constantly tell you that you dont love him, if you do love him you wont deny him your body.

Anyway, goodluck. I have a feeling you are going to give in to his demands. Pls do come back and tell us how the relationship ended.

Bervelyhillz:
This is a bit long but please bear with me.

I’ve been married to my amazingly beautiful wife for 3 years. The problem is she is very shy around me but at the same time seems to try to secretly please me constantly. It leaves me feeling guilty and I’m not sure of what to do next.

Backstory:

I met her through my mom. My MIL and my mom are childhood friends who grew up together. I never met her at the time since I lived in the US while She was in Nigeria. When I was 20 I saw her in a family friend’s wedding album. I was floored and my eyes were watering. She was the most attractive girl I had ever seen.

I figured out her FB and messaged her since I didn't want to initiate contact through our moms. I struck up a conversation. I soon realized that my mom fed info about me to my MIL which in turn got fed to her , so she already knew a fair bit about me. We chatted constantly, met up on my vacation to Nigeria , and hung out together every day. I learn she is still a virgin saving herself for marriage. I was still one too, mostly because A) I was chubby most of my life and didn't dare go near girls in that state and B) when I did start getting more fit, I already fell in love with her and it felt wrong dating at the same time. So yeah we had that in common.

Skipping ahead again to three years ago when I graduated from grad school. We met up a handful of times more, and things were awesome. She was outgoing with me, giggling over almost nothing and general silliness. We never did anything sexual, but we were intimate enough and honestly seeing her gave me goosebumps, so it wasn't on my mind. On one visit to Nigeria, she brought up the topic of marriage in a joking manner, something about how our mom's always planned it. I jokingly replied that I would be happy to marry her, then she got all serious and asked if I was for real. I said yes and, well, the rest is history.

The problem:

We had our wedding in Nigeria and, after the papers got sorted, she moved to the US to live with me. The first few months were interesting. She knows English pretty well and she majored in her native language, so she looked for translation jobs. She never got replies from employers, so I was getting a little suspicious, especially since she was an honors student at a pretty high ranking international university. I found out that she wasn't actually sending the applications out. I bring this up gently with her, and she starts tearing a bit telling me she wants to be a stay at home wife and that she didn't think I would be proud of her if she didn't get a real job. She says she was going to tell me soon, which I believe because I found a recent word document in our computer that was basically a draft of the speech she was going to give me. I don't mind her staying at home as I bring in enough money for the both of us and she is a really good cook.

This prompted me to sit down with her and figure out where our communication is breaking down. After a bunch of long discussions about this, I felt we were on the same page. She was still growing more timid around me and didn't start conversations easily with me, but she always seemed happy. I stepped up my displays of affection, showering her with compliments, hugs, and kisses. I would often catch her staring at me (usually while we ate), to which she would get red-faced and look away quickly. It’s been 3 years now and still does the smiling stare, except now she doesn’t look away when I catch her. The conversation starting has gotten a bit better, but nowhere near pre-marriage. While she always had this quiet peacefulness to her, I noticed she is intentionally not doing things that might get me worked up. Examples being: discussing politics (we have the same views), discussing my work problems, discussing anything philosophical in nature, etc. She will respond if I start, but she doesn’t take the initiative like before. I really miss that.

The sex is...interesting? As I said before, I didn't have any prior experience so I can't judge her, but she just lays on the bed and doesn’t move until I suggest to. She never initiates but never declines. I try to make it about her more often than not, but if I’m looking for feedback she quietly agrees with whatever I'm doing. After we finish, she lays in the same position looking at me, sometimes smiling, sometimes teary-eyed. I take it she likes it, but then again she never likes to talk about sex. From what I gather in our pre-marriage talks, she doesn't have any negative views on it and it wasn't shunned by her parents, it's just that she is shy. She doesn't like me seeing her naked even though I do (ha ha...:/ ). She is…shy very well proportioned…and I tell her how it is so she shouldn’t feel self-conscious. But she still covers up outside of sex.

Another issue is fitness: I work out constantly at home or in the park (calisthenics) and I invite her to join but she politely declines. She runs almost every morning so I thought maybe she gets enough from that. But I have noticed that my weight backpack at home is sometimes at a different weight than when I left it. I have also noticed She has made some serious butt/thigh gains which really stand out on her thin frame. When I ask if she is doing anything differently, she says “maybe it’s the running” then changes the subject. I don’t understand why she is working out in secret. This is most likely my fault though since I used to try and tease her into working out with me; I made a silly remark about how squatting/ham-raises will put more meat on her legs.

Conclusion:

Guys and gals, I need help. I love my wife dearly. She is funnier than any comedian, more disciplined than any soldier, and more beautiful than any celebrity. But she is making me feel weird by trying to secretly improve herself based on my preferences. Her shyness around me is awkward and I want a return to the easy-going pre-marriage . Has anyone had experience with this?

Also: she has made many friends here and still is in contact with a few back home. However she doesn't seem excited to be around them as much as when I offer to go out with her. She's always offers to cancel plans to stay in with me or go for a walk. I thought she might be depressed, but she is super cheerful even when she doesn't know I'm around.

If this is what you call a problem, 90% of Nigerian men will gladly exchange their wives with yours.

Bros, enjoy your woman. She's good in deed

Sheuns:
Nigeria is just cursed with bad people and leaders. This man came into the country on 25th from a region that is currently under the outbreak, our immigration officials should have known best to quarantine these people for at least 14 days, but no, they let them pass, cos they’re oyinbo and are first-class citizens in our own country.

Just imagine the man didn’t check into the hospital when he started feeling sick. And think of the possibility of some other persons that may have come in without proper checks. Now they’re saying they’ll fight it. Lagos is extremely dirty and stuffy. How do they plan to reach everyone this man had contact with both directly and indirectly.

A friend of mine went to pick up an item from an Italy returnee that was probably on the same flight as this man on 26th and now the man is said to be in Benin, what if that man was exposed? It means I may be exposed too cos I met my said friend yesterday and we discussed this issue on this virus getting in here, and how it’ll be managed, not knowing it’s been here already.

We really need to get serious in this country. Our government and leaders are just too bad and heartless.

Just imagine.... and them dey form rapid response.

Please notify the proper authorities ASAP

ExAngel007:
I like the rapid responds been taken

you mean the rapid press conference

ok

Francita:
A breathe of relief from all the bad stories people have to talk about in their marriages making others say marrriage is obsolete and have outlived it importance


Getting married to the right person for the right reasons will bring more Joy and stability to you. But sadly nowadays people get married for the wrong reasons and

They then cry foul and try to undermine the institution of marriage calling it useless.

I asked God for a beautiful testimony about marriage yesterday... I was so tired of all the broken marriage stories i kept seeing here

Kennedyiheme02:
i once had a fling with a chick like that.. i never saw her real face.. anytime she comes around she potrayed herself like always perfect.. like when you wake up in the morning and see yourself.. she was always shining and pretty.. the day i saw her real face.. kai it was a big turn off..