₦airaland Forum

Casalindal:
I have always had this insecurity about my lips, my hips feel everything is not all in place. I need an hourglass body and I don’t feel I’m asking for too much..... after everything I have been through I think my man should pay I have this procedure it not too much to ask

You are not asking for too much

You are asking someone to waste his money on you because of ya insecurities.

You know your problem (insecurity) but you're choosing to let it stay with you.

If you're looking for a psychologist to help with your insecurities, then it's a win for the both of u....but spending money for surgery

Brytesp:
A lady bought a land before marriage and the husband asked her to change the name on the paper work after marriage to his.. what's your take help me out

I have never been married,, but I see no sense in the man's action...maybe experience has taught him a thing or two.

For the woman, if she has no future plan to leave the marriage then let her do it

nlPoster:
All this after redpill and the likes?

Jesus come quickly.

Some of them dey claim Redpill but they dont practice it

Lekside230:
Good morning Nairalanders...I just think I have to post this stuff here cuz it’s getting too much....it’s all about my relationship...please don’t mind my English...so yesterday my girlfriend was with me...and I was really sick which she knows herself...so she went to the market to get what we gonna eat...,so when she came back..she then ask me to go fetch water...and I was thinking in my mind..if this girl doesn’t know I’m sick even with my appearance...I sat down looking at her...she then talk in a rude way that I shouldn’t fetch the water then...that I should leave it..that she isn’t gonna cook it...I then struggled to go fetch that water and came in...she then ask If have done that I said yes...all I could hear is...can’t I talk!!!or maybe I’m having a mouth pain...that words hit me...,she was then talking to me in a bad way...that I’m been proud cuz I helped her with her school fees...cuz I helped her with her school fees on Friday..due to some financial problems she has...she then sent back the money to me immediately cuz she haven’t paid it yet,so I just have to go out and drink..cuz I refuse to eat what she cooked,so that same evening her mum texted me and greeted me...so I explained everything that’s going on....she then said she would call her...when i go through their chats..all she could tell her mum is...if I can’t settle it myself that she isn’t gonna settle anything...that it’s not her first time talking to me anyhow...Nairalanders please I need your candid advice...what can I do about this case?cuz it’s getting too much everytime...if she isn’t gonna talk to me rudely....she’d get angry on an unnecessary issue...all I need is just your advice..no insults please...thanks to you all in advance.

Bros, your relationship has already ended.

She is with you not cause of love but because you had been helpful.

Dating you is her doing you a favour.

NextD18:
She has told you what she want, if you can't meet up, find you way in peace and allow her wait for a professor that will marry.

I just dont understand why he is trying to worse the issue.

If this girl doesn't fancy him, he should move on....more better options are coming.

larica69:
I live with 3 other brothers in a 3 bedroom family house. I stay in the master bedroom. Anytime my girlfriend come visiting she likes to walk around with no bra and mostly revealing outfits. Each time I complain she says it means nothing and does it repeatedly. Im being tempted to end the relationship because I hate nudism and she seem perfectly fine with it.

She desires her attention. She wants your bro to notice her....she ain't doing purposely, it's just her nature

deewhydoski:
I can't even advice my younger sister to settle down with a broke guy with prospect or without prospect.

It's best you advise her to get to know the person first.

A friend of mine with masters had been jobless for 3yrs after his masters. Then one day (last month), he called that he has two offers from two oil companies.

If this guy had been the one asking ya sister out, what would she say to u when she finds out that he has arrived?

Brokenness is not the final state of a man, it is only a phase. The Bible says time and chance happens to all men.

favoryte33:
The question is self explanatory. Would you exercise enough patience to drink garri with him while he dusts his 'impressive' C.V for his usual job hunt.painting another scenerio,can u date a guy with a prospective future project but no 'shi shi' for hand?

I was chatting with a girl that got my number from her firm (I guess, dont really know where). She asked me where I worked, i told her that i have prospect, I'm gonna build my own tech company. That was the last time she chatted with me.

Girls r so predictable when they r financially desperate

Dear OP, you have done well. Fantabulous write-up. I'm Red-pilled not MGTOW but I'd like to address some of your points.

1. In MRS is MR etc... The woman no longer sees herself as part of a man, and would runaway at the slightest opportunity when things are no longer favourable to her. So would you run after someone that will trade you for someone or something else?

2. The natural harmony between mother and child....this is laughable. A father has just 5h left, he gave 2h to his son that was about leaving for school, gave the mother 2h and held on to the last 1h. The mother called the boy to her inner room where she keeps her money and brought out 5h from her bundle of cash and gave it to the boy.
Between the mom and the dad, who sacrificed more for the child? I didn't understood the sacrifices my dad made until I became a man. Dear OP, go find out the sacrifices your dad made that he didn't preached about.

3. Adam couldn't go his own way, same with other great men that fell at the hands of women. Why not mention men that had no woman in their lives that fell? Oh! There's none... look at the Bible, Paul, one of the greatest apostles had no woman, John the Baptist, the greatest man to have ever lived, had no woman. Can a man truly go his own way? It is possible and It will take the grace of God.

4. Yes, men love children and they wanna have their own families but as it seems....at the detriment of their own lives. We have more married men dying due to high BP and other depression related illnesses.

5. Dont get MGTOW and Red pilled men mixed up. MGTOW wants nothing to do with women. Red pilled men believe they've finally understood women. To have a better understanding of both, visit Sandman channel (MGTOW) and Coach red pill channel on YouTube.


Call them crooked or whatever you want....but they are free from your enslavement

Offpoint:

Hahahaha

That's epic

Olamsoh:
I asked a girl out sometimes ago and she said No, I moved on quickly. 3 months later she started hitting me up on whatsapp with some amorous texts. So I asked her "What's this about? When did I become your baby"? Please address me as Jide, I'm not your baby. She replied.. Haa?

Are we fighting? Cos I don't understand why you're being hostile towards me. I was like.. Shoo, Arabinrin, how does that translates to hostility? She said well, baby is a term used for someone you're emotionally involved with..hehehe! At that minute, I started having goosebumps.

Me: Wait, you're emotionally involved with me?
Labake: Yes Jide, I was shocked... Shush.. I cut in "how can you be emotionally involved with me without my knowledge? Then she continued.. I was shocked you didn't press further after I said" No" when you asked me out.

So, she threw the question to me : Why didn't you hang around?
Why didn't you try harder? "I had three guys asking me out then and you were my favorite but you just didn't show me you really wanted me".
Lmao, Aradugbo egba mio .. What is wrong with women?

For me I think women who do stuff like this are the ones who see themselves as a kind of prize to be won & honestly that's objectification as far as I'm concerned. Such a woman has a low self esteem and believes that healthy relationships can be built on lying& manipulation.

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Offpoint:
It's a season Nairalanders are searching for love, so I'll place my Ad here:

I'm searching for a Lady with this spec:
Orange boob
Flat or average ass
Tall or average height
I'll decide weather you're intelligent OR not.
Must be naughty and Crazy
Low cut hairstyle is my preference, but that's not a problem.
Tribe doesn't matter.
Must have hustlings spirits...
Age range: 20-25

About me:
I'm not handsome ( at least my mirror is sincere, blunt and doesn't give a fûck about my feelings)

I got anger issues ( I've stabbed 7 people so far in the past 3 years, it used to be higher than that... I'm improving)
I got mood swings issues (one moment I'm parrot, the other I'm grave yard)
I'm 6/5ft tall and my third leg is 6inches long
I have apettide issues, only eat once in a day...
I speak 3 major Nigeria languages and other extra 7 languages

Education: I don't like school since I was 4, but don't worry I have knowledge of almost everything.

I'm well traveled, but can't stay in any of those countries... reasons being, they took life too serious. Imagine fining me for taking a link in a manhole, I was enjoying the heat emitting and hitting my Johnny in winter... and popo from nowhere..... naa, I love Nigeria

Professions:
Graphic designer
Motion graphics designer
Wordpress site builder
Computer software/hardware technician.
3D Modeller (MAYA/Blender)
Video Editor (AP/AE/CS)
Electrician
Songwriter
Visionist
Carpenter
impregnator solutionist
Councillor
Comedian
Electronics technician
Tailor
AWOL Army officer [ I can't kill myself ]


Interested suitors should pm...

Don't bother if you love Zee world or Telemund...

History
CNN
NatGeo
Discovery
BBC
Al Jazeera
are my channels of interest.


Lastly, currently I'm broke... thanks to Forex trading and binary option.

YOU ARE OFFPOINT

sorry

biztalkenya:
Just post on the website and you will get contacts. There is a whatsapp group apparently for sugar mommies. Check comments on the website.

Thanks but u got d wrong dude

Let's do business.. I can help you grow

Jeweltz:
Why

You love lies and ya very gullible

Adiliebube25:
My daughters best friend’s dad molested my daughter when she was 6. We took her to the hospital, they did tests and she ended up needing stitches. But, the police said they didn't have enough evidence for an arrest. So, I got my gun and went to his house. I made his wife and daughter go upstairs so they didn't have to hear what was said. I immediately pulled out my 45. Now, this man was 6′4″ and 275. I'm 5′9″ and 160 so I wasn’t going unarmed. I asked him if he’d raped my daughter. He said it wasn’t rape and that she asked for it. I instantly shot him in the head. I did 13 years straight over it and it didn’t bother me one bit. They later searched his house and found tapes of 11 little girls and him. I'm proud I got revenge for all our little girls and their fathers. I ended up getting letters from most of them.

Hmmm

njideoby:
Men you see your lives. Who’s now the weaker sex.
Haven’t you observe what happens when fathers are sick compared to when mothers are sick?
The same malaria but father will look like he will die the next minute.

Madam! Weaker immune system na dem talk ooooo not weaker sex.

Girls always be looking for a way to feel ahead

amiibaby:
Men are the weaker sex wow

Madam! Na weaker immune system dem talk not weaker sex.

ikh777:
I just saw this thread, I hope its not late to make a request. I wish I was your friend but I want to make a request


Can you get me a REAL CLEAN RICH SUGAR MUMMY FROM KENYA. I am ready to pay 1000ksh.

or any girl that will not frustrate me but needs a sexy man that can always make her wet and Hot and happy?

pls am waiting

You are doing well