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durentdbiitch:
what do u knw is d meanin of CGPA? LOL. If you're truly a graduate then this country's educational system is at stake.

cuumulative grade point average. you assumed i will say GP ? hahaahhaahahaha . what a fellow

postmann:
Bros take it easy. Show some mercy!

i avoid talking to him because he is a homosexual and thus pity him knowing the suffering his lovers put his body through , as well as the anal cancer he is courting via his behaviour. thus i wonder why he feels it necessary to mention me . this is a kid in the university who has no CGPA. i prefer to discuss issues though and would not respond to him anymore lest he takes my response to be interest in his homosexual self.

durentdbiitch:
When i see people like this, i thank my parents who sent me to school.
Valeriansteel pls shun dis dude, he's as dumb as his thread.

we also thank them,. when you graduate , then you contribute to the thread. go and get a CGPA first. oya scram away from here

durentdbiitch:
Ohh pls shutup.

ValerianSteel is a smart dude.

Frm his use of words, any sane person can tell he's 10X better dan u.
Valerian made a simple comment and you started listing ur "Life Achievements"


You don't sound educated, quit nairaland nd go back to school and do more readings.

for a kid who believes the anus of another man is a possy, i am not surprised you judge intelligence via the grammar spoken nor the manner the grammar was presented. my life acheievments you would never reach cos of your orientation. this is you who havent gotten enough money to survive in the university where you are studying fishery . kiddo don't make me go all kanye on you. leave this thread as this isnt a dicussion on romance and someone asimilar to buhari whose only certificate is his nepa bill should not comment. no scram

darkenedrebel:
The discussion was pointless because you've strongly chosen to dwell in ignorance - like vehemently holding to the falsity that Homosexuality is a western practice(that's very risible) - I'm usually given the impetus to argue when I'm 100% sure that the second party is well-versed and knowledgeable on the subject matter(as it appears, you are not, judging from the subjectivity of your writeup and some other bogus comments)...when I see that whom I'm debating with is not too lettered on the topic, and worse, obtusely close-minded , I walk away in order to conserve my breath and time...



The reason I commented on this thread in the first place was not to ascertain whether homosexuality should be accepted or not - instead it was to correct the wrong assertion you made about Homosexuality being the White man's newfangled invention shoved down our throats - I repudiated that by providing you with instances in history that suggest otherwise and instead of you to read more on the topic, you chose to remain unyielding...
hit your history books or use your search engines and stop being lazy.



Because I remonstrated your faux pax claim doesn't mean the White Man is my mental idol - it only means I'm well grounded in history and you are not....this is why I prefer bantering on Quora....

and I quoted Valëriansteel not you...

you are more grounded in history and yet you cannot understand the same history you gobble down with respect to its context. it hurts me when i see people talk about ignorance to their betters . how many books have you read or written. i can give you my name and you can google it to see my contribution to humanity intellectuallly on diverse research interests. even a fool can study history. i have been there and done that but unfortunately you can even understand that wikipedia history you keep peddling about.

you raise names of historical african figures that we reported to be gay and yet you do not see the folly in your examples , how could the activities of one or two persons suddenly reflect the entire african culture.

if you were truly of very sound mind you would have brought facts of gay mariages in african culture, you should have brought evidences of openly gay sexual practices in african cultures, please facts and figures of the yoruba culture which is well reported in history and their gay practices , do that with other tribes in africa. tell us the marital rights followed, how exactly they accommodated gay behaviour.

i will tell you on some tribes to school you but only after you have proved that you are worth any salt asides speaking incoherent grammar.

plus if i truly open a thread of my area of expertise , i will speak and speak till the tenth page and you wont be able to contribute a "was" to the thread , so watch your mouth while you call your better ignorant .

ValerianSteel:
First off am not african.Secondly,I stand by my convictions towards people like yourself.There's a cloud of ignorance hovering over every element of thought,reasoning and logic you possess.

Like someone here said earlier,you have a lot of reading to do first.You need to be informed,that way you'll take proper calculations before coming up with the rubbish you post here.

being that i am more educated than you and can prove that if we need to, i will gladly thrash you publicly in any test we decide to pick you as an example. so please before you accuse your betters of not reading, i was reading, publishing papers, attending international conferences, designing systems before you learnt the full 26 alphabets.

that you are gay does not bring this discourse to a study of your sexuality. you need to read the topic again and educate urself before commenting. but i put it to you publicly that am more educated and posses far more academic achievements than you do. so watch your mouth before you write checks you cant cash.

Lezzlie:
Bro, I never really love the West, they are just the lesser evils between China and Russia. At least they pretend to abide by their rules sometimes.

Britain rigged the first election and census count in Nigeria!!!

France has pitched Francophone West Africa against Anglophone West Africa, targeting Nigeria.


America played the hypocritical card during the heat of the boko haram menace.

Check all the troubled spots in the world, Lybia, middle East, China sea, North Korea, Syria etc, the West have found a way to be the causative agent.

In Africa , the make sure IMF and the world bank streamline and determine our economic outlook and policies.

Such a shame the African cannot even have cultural and social independence and autonomy after losing political and economic powers to the West.

i have always been pro west till this recent trend of homosexuality and feminism. what annoys me now is to read to the next page and see where people who have refused to think for themselves and question foreign ideals believe they are liberal minded and advanced. while we who prefer to question it are ignorant and bush people.

truly sad indeed that african children towed the slave ways of their fathers in this jet age.

joseph1832:
In Nigeria, we have the law, no matter how slack or even one sided it is, it is still the law.

Homosexuality is against the law in Nigeria, anybody who can't deal with it, can either park their bags, and relocate to countries where it isn't against the law, or keep quiet and move on with their personal lives.

I advice all those advocating for homosexuality to stop using social media as a guide to foster their aim. It shows cowardice. Come out and let's see you protest against it in real life. LOL.

they will never do that in this life.

darkenedrebel:
Ignorance is the key word...

i gave you room to argue out your position and yet you ran away . you have to prove your positions in sound arguments or admit that you are incapable of proving urself. i am well educated to know and understand the need to question ideas and modify them. i refuse to believe that anybody could think for me like you have accepted the white to think for you in apparent acceptance of their mental colonization. thus defend your views and please not with verbose grammar. there are others who wanna listen and verbose grammar isnt good argument . rather make sense. waiting to read.

ValerianSteel:
The mind of 'some' africans never seem to amaze me,especially the ones that regard themselves as true patriots of africans morals or values.What I mostly see in the likes of the OP is stu!pidity,hypocrisy,ignorance and pure delusions.

oh ye wise man. please tell us ur views and make sure we cant link it to the western propaganda. else i will repay you with ur curse words i kind. this is an example of the brain washed african peddling western ideals without reasoning or second guessing. please speak up in defence of ur position or forever keep silent and listen to your betters

ijaya1:
i m approaching 30 and still not married (thanks to job hunting) .. now i cant expect a 21 years who would be my wife to so naturally fit in my age range itself .. and i heard my neighbor say that those who marry at later age don't get good relationship with wife ... is late marriage such a curse, please provide opinion based on your experience.



Lalasticlala, Eddygourdo,Tallesty1, momoftheyear16, 4C2215131, cholls, Qualer, halfricanadian
tosyne2much
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hahahahaha havent you heard that wine is better with age ? oga you are at a right age bro. it take a mature man to handle the issues women bring to the marriage table and thus its no surprise at the high rate of divorce since children and immature peeps started getting married instead of dating.

that being said, please not having a job is not a reason not to have a lady you wanna settle down with. its better you get one now who sees you and loves you for you in hope that your job situation abates , rather that the gold digger who loves the working class man on suit. do not believe the tale that all women love money men and wont date a struggling man, you aren't looking for all women , but your wife , and thus she must be an exception to the rule that affects all women.

please find someone fast pending when a great job comes. dont mind what these nairaland girls say , they sound differently and more reasonably in person. happy sunday.

Lezzlie:
Aye! From the moment Africans decided not to standardise their indigenous languages into formal ones was the era they consented to become quasi-slaves!!!


Most of them do not really know that homosexualism is still a minority opinion in the West, contrary to what CNN and BBC will have them believe!

How do you tell an African that Obama who has been preaching gay all over the world has not really solved the wide divivde of gay marriage in America?

How can an African understand that the West has legally recognised a woman to marry another woman and call themselves husband and wife but will jail another man who married a second wife?

How would you begin to explain that behind every grant and aid from the West is a file load of borrowed laws and enactment from the West?

Brother, when you have a thought-provoking thread like this, try the Family section, bringing it to romance is a guarantee for still-birth or illogical and pretentious fustian!

oh really didnt know the family section could generate mature discourse. anyway i hope the eyes of our people could open to the machinations of the so called developed white lords with their deceptive media and propagandist agenda.

imagine that these same overlords jail polygamists but approve homosexuals and pretend there is a moral justification in that. what hurts most is that some africans now believe the propaganda their media spew and attribute their acceptance of such views as being liberal and higher thinkers as opposed the rest of we bush men and women who have rather chosen to question the morality or justification of the white mans suggestions and opinions.

guess slavery still exists but africans do not realise that yet, we still beclouded with smaller crimes such as racism and segregation. while being mentally oppressed and colonized to the beliefs that " America will Know", thus why should we think or question their views.

i have really started hating on the west as its clear they arent the victims they portray themselves to be in the general scheme of things

Lezzlie:
[b]@ OP,

I see a lot of facts in your posts. It is saddening the penchant for endorsing almost all Western values by Africans without much scrunity.

Being perceived as more Western than an American or Briton is the shortest route to the path of social sophistication, emotional maturity and moral aloofness.

Africans, the butt of the world's joke!!!

True, homosexuality has been with us as old as the sand of time!!! But we recognised it for what it is; a deviant of nature. A quirk in the natural process of preferences and gender orientation disorder.

And the West sought to institutionalise it and re-define the term "marriage" to include couple of same gender!!! What an affront to sane sensibilities!!!

But perhaps African governments wouldn't have become so hostile to the notion of homosexuality if Obama and David Cameron had not made it their unholy foreign policy to bully African government into legalising the act and sponsoring NGOs to spark controversies.

Ghana and Uganda were told in no uncertain terms to endorse and legalise anal invasion or have all aids and grants revoked and suspended.

Nigeria was threatened with HIV and Tuberculosis health grants. That was the social pre-emption that necessitated the legal frameworks to stall further Western affront on our social and cultural fronts!

And as the BBC rightly opined, Africans do not really care for homosexualism, they are at best indifferent, that's until Barrack Obozo Obama came with intimidation and a direct attack on the sovereignty of African countries!!


The West brought Christianity and an overwhelming number of Africans jettisoned our traditional beliefs for the new faith from across the other side of the Atlantic.

And in the dawn of another century, they are selling us atheism!!! Alot of Nigerians are already buying, and yes, it's still another short-circuit to intellectual sophistication and broad-mindedness.

But we have seen juju at work, live. So many Africans have felt the hand of oppression in their sleep, that choking, asphyxiating and smothering experience where you scream but the words never came out, you kick out and hit out but your hands and legs seem held down with the weight of a ton.......

And atheism tells us it's a flash of our own imagination, something about science. Lolz.

The white man has said it.....it must be right.
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am truly impressed at your reasoning. its truly unfortunate that this thread is lost in the annals of nairaland history. would have been good for people to be aware of this invasion of our mental choices by western propaganda via media and bullying.

a white man is simply a man just as a black man, what gives them the right to determine for us in this century. this is why i am always suspicious of western aid and influence. THEY NEVER MEAN WELL FOR THE AFRICAN. they would prefer we remain impoverished so that they can always use us aas test subjects and minions to be bullied whenever they need to test out a slave technique. truly unfortunate that africans cant see the hypocrisy in the white mans ways

kenonze:
Yes.
In addition most men cheats because opportunity presents

that is the only reason as far as i am concerned. many do it and run home to the bossom of their wives and will look at the woman they did it with in scorn if she suggests he divorces his wife and marry them. yet he slept with them.

the man who doesn't cheat is the type who avoids all occasions that can warrant it. because if in the right place and time with the right hoe where wifey may not know. i doubt he wont cheat because then , the thinking power of reasoning shifts from the brain in his skull to the brain in his balls.

darkenedrebel:
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I don't even know whether to chalk up this logodaedaly to solecism or whatnot hehe...Pedophobe according to urban dico is the irrational fear of children - not the pathological fear of paedophiles...

Like you said, data are intelligence not automatons - what differentiates organic entities from inanimate ones? - it is the fact that the former are intelligent species that can choose for themselves what they feel would guarantee satiety of the normal and sometimes kafkesque and debauched recesses inside them - (i.e) emotional voids, spiritual voids, intellectual voids and sëxual voids...

Do you know how I relieve myself of emotional tension that have welled up overtime either due to stress or other variable factors? - Answer is simple - I tend to find myself brooding for minutes in the shower whilst using a technique known as the Mind palace to create a sort of utopic-esque alternate universe which has proven to be a fail-proof method in bringing me some adequate level of respite(you can label this partial-bovarism)

Now, if I am deprived of this - let's say, I was issued a court order that prohibits me from practicing this somewhat peculiar exercise, do you think that verdict would still carry an insignia of reason?

Adolph Hitler was a sick bastard that örgasmed from dümping scats on his lovers(he was coprolagnic)...did this sybaritic obsession affect either you or I directly or indirectly? answer is no - and I'm as sure as dollars to donuts that he never coerced his lovers to be partakers in his fetishistic circle of fückery...

Same applies to the sexuality/emotional facet - if a man is only able to calm his troubled waters while cuddled up in the arms of another man, so long as their actions are not baneful nor carry either immediate or fringe consequences, then I see no reason why we shouldn't give vent to their supplications...



Here you are inferring sub rosa that abortion can be justified...smh...in no way can the unlawful murder of another - be it an infant or adult be justifiable within the perimeters of the law...Your parameters are begin to appear shady...

I think the so-called ''inerrant'' church shouldn't even be a determinant when matters that blovver on the points of morality are capitulated - if we could all take a lapse from being fettered in the tentacles of moral scuttles and begin to view and analyse the world through a panoramic prism, we'd discover that many of the things we thought were unspeakable and ethically reproachable are in fact not based on truism...



What of the those that are hermaphrodites at nascence and underwent no gender transition? What do you make of them? They should be casted into the river Danube because they are freaks of nature? Nature has been giving us contextual clues that nothing is an aberration - we have albinos, dwarfs, giants, men suffering from gynecomastia, hermaphrodism et alia...is Mother Nature's carelessness to be blamed for these mutations? Or is she trying to tell us that normalcy sücks and that trying to fit a square peg of abnormalities in a round circle of normality is the new sëxy?



Okay...I think I get where you are driving at - First things first, great strides should be taken especially in education of locals - a lot of people ignorantly hold falsely to the belief that homosexuality begat AIDS...

I think a reorientation and an unlearning and relearning process is grist to the mill of a healthier and homophobic-free Nigeria...otherwise the highlight of our quotidian newspapers would interminably read stuffs like "Mob in Bayelsa cudgels a suspected homosexual to death".

am sure you totally understand my reference to the pedophobe. lets not get carried away. let me point out certain things to you and how you are doing the same thing you are criticizing.

you say no right thinking person should accept pedophilia and yet you say no right thinking person if properly educated should denigrate a homosexual. you say the denigration of the class must simply be because of a need of reorientation and a askew of facts that depict historical existence of homosexuals and how its rampant.

so i ask two questions to you this bright chap. who and what gives you or anybody the moral justification to denigrate the pedophile. or to accept the homosexual.
secondly are we to agree that your apparent hatred for a pedophile whose actions with a possible consenting child eg the real truth about the adam johnsons case and not the media version or court version. is a simple case of ignorant choice because you need reorientation about what their love truly means?

the pedophile would argue in all the same argumentative lines as the homosexual and yet he is called wrong which you gladly accept , yet nobody is criticizing you for that non acceptance.

yet when the heterosexuals refuse to accept whatever arguments the homosexual throw they are accused of having a fear of acceptance of difference.

homosexuals cant be the new sexy, its not regenerative , thus nature can never choose it. nature could choose asexuality but never homosexuality. there are animals who have male and female parts and thus obey the basic necessity of nature towards procreation.

the idea behind homophobia is to denigrate people perceived to have a aversion to accepting the differences in the local population. thus i will gladly point out to you the emboldened " DIFFERENCES"

this comes down to my earlier post on the thread. you cannot point out the reason for accepting certain deviants like homosexuals and rejecting other deviants who hold same arguments. you only accept this because that is what the white people tell you to accept and their media propagate. they have this sudden need to seek acceptance because many of them became politicians and thus could sponsor such ideas.

i can tell you that even in the so called developed world. there is your homophobia. thus it is independent of education but beliefs .
we have lost our culture and accepted the norms of a culture less people. the Americans are all immigrants to America and in becoming free became culture less.

other developed countries with strong ties to cultural values have a lot of homophobes and they do not shove homosexual propaganda down the throats of their people. are they all uneducated backward Africans too ?

durentdbiitch:
what is dis baboon saying
Damn, am done replying u, u don't know nothing.
BTW, am no defect neither am a deviant, am perfectly normal.

I need no General acceptance, keep yo acceptance to yoself

to the general population you are a defect in nature and thats a fact you have to live with and be ok with to be a happy homosexual.

its not a bad thing, its just wrong when you tell us that you are the normal product. then we will disagree and you will call it homophobia. but in truth we are expressing ourselves just as you are doing by ur homosexuality

darkenedrebel:
Your metaphor would have been flawless save for the fact that Nigeria and Pakistan are reported to be voracious consumers of gay pörno(the highest in the world) - so, can't you see that majority of the data in this particular scenario are not in rhythm with that of the model? When apothegms that have been erroneously instituted by society as aberrations becomes too much of an aberration, they after a while tend to shed some their absurdness and transcend into a dictum that's recognized by all and sundry...I'm very sure that 10,000 years from now, the plot would have taken a different and more palatable form...



It doesn't apply to them because they are humans not data...Humans have feelings, brains - data do not possess such....



Pedophilia is a different kettle of fish - likewise transvestism...the former being a noxious weed that needs to be completely uprooted...

Here you are heaping a big bag of scorn on sadomasochism - If we go by your syllogisms which evinces that "Deviations and sexuality exploration should not be accorded elbow room in the society" then unconventional sex positions like "69, doggy-style, cow-girl et alia" needs to be banned as well - after all the standard is the "missionary position", so any thing short of it, no matter how innocuous is an abomination - going by your logic...


No they were not.....



Stop prevaricating - the spine of discourse is homosexuality not paedophilia ...



What of couples who use prophylactics, women who guzzle birth control pills, men who ejāculate on the surface and not in the vaginā or those ladies that have inserted IUD in their uterusēs? Are their actions geared towards procreativity? So how is the actions of the aforementioned heterosexuals remotely different from that of the homosexuals?



I don't think it'd be fair to blackball some members of our society just because of their sexuality preferences(which is another form of racism) where is the espirit de corps that binds us together as higher animals? - it is just too retrogressive and inconsequential to the bigger picture which is gestation of our backlashed economy and government in the whole nine yards...We all try to be clever by half and still seem not too enlightened judging from the quality of our philosophies and in most cases, misguided and antiquated ideologies...

I think religion is to be ladled with 70% of the blame(i.e for homophobia) but still, there should be a cap on the quantum of hocus-pocus we should allow to permeate into our minds...

data are intelligence which analysis tends to enunciate. really you are against pedophilia and want it removed from existence. am sure pedophiles will disagree and call you a pedophobe if that's a word. listen i get your point of view and can understand exactly why the church for example refuses to change its stand on issues like birth control and abortion even though instances could be proved to justify their use. they don't want it open to interpretations just as homosexuality has opened the human sexuality to interpretations. i was wrong about the sadomasochism but stand my ground on pedophiles and trans as they hold the same arguments as the homosexuals yet we denigrate them and see it as nothing. listen you seem a very bright chap. so i will love to have a discourse with you on why do we have gays in modern society. we had them of course in the dark and middle ages as the bible itself has proofs of that. but tell me why we have that in modern society. where people born wit it or was it a societal factor. i want to prove to you that its a deviant behavior . i stand against the persecution of gays mind you. but in stand against the concept of homosexuality becoming mainstream . to be accepted as the norm is unfair to he people who will come after us. waiting to read.

durentdbiitch:
Beautiful rubbish.! Do wat we do in d confine of our bedroom? why not do urs only in d confine of ur bedroom too? Lets all pretend to be Asexuals in d public and on internet!.


As for d feminism, they deserve same right as men, beats me when someone like dis foolish op says women are not equal to men.



Durh!

because you are a deviant. in a production line you are a defect. thus we cant model the standard product or set rules based on how a defect appears. so far you are gay . you are deviant. thus you cant be generally accepted. should we accept the look of a person with downs syndrome as how a normal person should look? the same applies to your kind, kiddo.

to someone like you who is deviant you are asexual because you can always have a dual sexual role. thus you dont understand the need for permanent dominance, permanent submission ans occasional role reversal between two humans who can function independently but choose not to. man and woman.

so keep ur ignorance to yourself or keep commenting here let me cure ur deviant nature

darkenedrebel:
What you should be doing is getting to grips with the contents of your history books, not using your spurious benchmarks to hoodwink the subconsciousness of those who may not be too knowledgeable on the subject matter.

It still beats my imagination as to why Africans ignorantly bombast that Homosexuality is one of the Frankenstein inventions of the white man - especially when it has been proven to be a recurrent theme song in our annals...

In ancient Yoruba Kingdom they are called adofuro
In precolonial Hausa/Fulani, they were known as Yan daudu

In old Buganda Kingdom(part of modern day Uganda) King Mwanga II was an open gay along with many others that ranked below his helm.

The Dagaabaa people of Burkina Faso held the jessies in high esteem...no wonder they had some sort of unspoken monopoly in theophany.

Have you heard of Nyankh-Khnum and Khnum-hotep? or the Siwa Oasis in Egypt?

I think Africans should do away with the wont of playing the blame games and come to terms with the fact that some things were innate in our culture since time began and not some miasmic poison roofied in our drink by the White Man...

The sooner we do that, the likelier our progression essays to the forefront...

I'd prefer not to waste my time nor breath in discussing African feminism on the internet...

have you every worked with a large data set for analysis on a model of any kind. thus if your model is true , if you apply your data set on the model we could have conformity and outliers. the outliers are always deviations in any data set. thus we must have data that would not obey the model despite that most obey the actual model.

this applies to the homosexuals. they are deviations in the large populations. they aren't alone. there are many others such as pedophiles , transsexuals , sadomasochism etc. those people you mentioned were deviations in the general African population and as in any study. do you use outliers to determine a model ? the answer is no. thus we cannot accept deviants because we can justify it on love.even the pedophile could justify his on love. we have had more pedophiles in history. why are they jailed and castigated eve if the children consent. the society simply agrees they don't confine to the model of decency, and thus they are jailed.

how come homosexuality which doesn't conform to the model of continuity of life in earth is being allowed or argued to thrive. is that fair to othe deviant classes ?.

should homosexuals be prosecuted ? i don't agree, Should deviants invade the common space that we assume it to be the norm and affect the models in the world. i say no. in the typical African culture please provide evidence of cultures that accepted homosexual marriages in the mainstream. don't mention isolated deviants.

Drefan:
I get your point. But in order for us to effectively carry out that change, we must make use of the whïteman's tool - education.

And that doesn't mean that we must nod our heads unreasonably to any notion introduced to us.

We are to use our wisdom to access & judge what is right and wrong, or what's supposed to be there or not.

Nice thread all thesame.

exactly my point. we must discern for ourselves amongst all the rubbish thrown our way. thanks

lodscott:
ok o, but op my problem isn't with the make up, itd that they most become poop without it. hypocrites also clean the outside of the cup and leave the inside dirty-bible
the Bentley that was painted first has been modelled to perfection, it serves its purpose and provides comfort to the user, hence the comfy chairs,the ac etc. the paint is just the last bit. how would you feel if I gave you a well decorated cake but rottened inside? what is the use of a painted car that has no mechanism to drive? most girls hide their foulness behind the make up, instead of tackeling their insecurities and having a soul worth remembering they apply makeup

oh ok i get you now. very true though. lol at rotten insides

firstking01:
Hehehehehe....so you later go agains your vow, you later creat thread

i am shameless apparently

lodscott:
that damn body odour mehn

please dont harp on that, lest we will be killed here today with attacks for pointing out the obvious

Drefan:
I didn't entirely read your post to the last word, but from the little I read, I'm outrightly stating that some ancient Nigerian cultures are doing us more harm than good.

isnt that for we africans to realise and change ? must it be the white man 's opinions. tell me these things and i will tell you why we did it and how we could have changed it while maintaining our africanness.

i have never seen anybody who thinks its OK to eat raw rice with no stew, or raw white rice with stew and no meat, or raw white rice with stew, beef and no salad etc the list of attempted improvement goes on and on. yet the main thing is na rice you dey chop.

i read a lot and see many people so quisk to castigate women because of the make up thing, we call them ugly and only attribute their beauty to the make up they wear. yet we do not see the hypocrisy in our behavior. if a Bentley is not painted and polished i doubt it would cost as much despite being a Bentley. every thing needs a little polishing to look its best . men do the same by wearing starched shirts, polished shoes, shaved beards , cologne etc and when a woman does the same to bring out her best she is criticized and called ugly for doing so.

imagine if we were all naked, p-square danced naked on the stage, obasanjo appeared naked as a president , bubu traveled naked to his usual places. imagine the ugliness that will permeate the place. then wen our women wear nice cloths , paint their faces and lips and actually look good we castigate and criticize.

everything is almost ugly until it is polished and made beautiful and the same applies to women on make up. we all enjoy the fake eye lashes, the fake hair , the foundation etc . we admire them when they wear it yet criticize them for doing so. its unfair and hypocritical.

maybe we prefer the natural deeper life women with their body odor (no offense please). please babes wear whatever makes you feel good about yourselves and ignore the hatters. we like it .

NB: it is criminal to do any these because its fraudulent ( wearing Butt Pads, putting socks under your iron push up bra, bleaching in whatever manner and lastly promising a man you are on you way to his house after receiving his transport fare bank alert and yet you are in your bedroom.)

bob marley once said in a lyric " Emancipate Yourself from Mental Slavery, none but ourselves can free our minds" and yet Africa remains in slavery after slavery has been abolished. we wonder why we are so backward when we allow humans like us to tell us right from wrong, simply because they are white. they told us that the river Niger was discovered by mungo park, and we believed and never for once bothered to inquire from them if mr mungo park never met people fishing in the river or children playing or fetching water when he got there. we never bothered to inquire what the river was called by the locals before mungo park rechristened it.

they tell us what to wear for formal meetings irrespective of our hot climate, they tell us that men ought to marry men and women marry women, they tell us now that women are equal to men and any man with a different opinion other than that is a misogynist. yet we never question their right to tell us what is right from wrong. we see Africans celebrating Halloween in Nigeria while neglecting the masquerade festivals because it is backward behavior. yet we do these things and wonder why we are backward. they called us developing and we accepted and they never called empty snow covered lands like alaska or majority of Europe developing.

now they noticed they have failed in the homosexual propaganda. they now trying the feminism nonsense. gender equality. lets leave God out of things for now and look at matters historically. its been proved that the cave man and woman were pretty equal in looks , physicality , mental capacity and roles. but like every other animal on earth, adaptation to environmental constraints resulted in the changes we now observe in the modern man. the cave man was a gatherer and hunters the women also hunted and most time led tribes. the emergence of communal living as a better survival means as opposed to solitude, saw the growth of children and elderly pooled in a confined space. being natural care givers because they gave birth . the women were saddled with organizing the home and thus hunted less frequently with the men. thus the sterotype started . the men evolved to match skills necessary for his task in the community and this involved (strength, speed, bigger frontal brains for tactful thinking during the hunt etc) and women evolved to match skills needed in the home environment ( lesser strength but greater emotional stability and endurance, empathic nature, better management of affairs and resources). this role was not to punish a specific gender or make anybody feel small. the current trend has remained on the same model except that women are now in businesses , the work place and politics. yet the women are not satisfied as some will have us believe.

most of these deluded individuals like the one on the front page , are single little girls who have barely kept a long term relationship , talk less of a marriage. they are one of those who have take then the white mans ideology and refused to ask questions as to the justification of discarding our methods because some white people said its backward.

why make violence as sexist issue, why make politics a sexist issue, why make the job sector a sexist issue. do you assume the successful women begged men for their positions or success or they achieved it ? . women have been known to run for elections and win out rightly . was that down to men allowing them to win or that they won as individuals. why the plea or law that gives unfair advantage to women to emasculate their men as the so called developed nations have done. it is virtually OK there to slap a man , to kick a man and if he does same in retaliation or aggression he should be hung by the balls.

enough of these mental slavery to the ideology of the white man while ignoring our cultural beliefs. the homosexual who feels the need to express himself or herself should do so in the confines of their bedrooms and we wont even know talk less of hating on them. the feminist and gender equality should please try and grow and develop as a woman and enough of your need to emasculate men. you will find it difficult dominating a fellow female gathering yet you wanna dominate a male filled one simply because you are a woman. and then you say we are equal.

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE EQUAL, SOME ARE GREATER THAN OTHERS, NOT ALL MEN ARE EQUAL , SOME ARE GREATER THAN OTHERS. NO MAN IS EQUAL TO A WOMAN. NEITHER IS ANY WOMAN EQUAL TO A MAN

the equality and non equality is dependent on the yardstick of measurement. there are a thousand and one things women are better than men at doing. and a thousand and one things men are better than women at . Serena Williams sould be able to beat up at least 2billion out of all the men in the world in tennis. that doesn't make her equal to men. it makes her better as an individual in tennis to 2billion other individuals who happen to be men.

problems should be addressed without as sexist view. that's my two cents.

idupaul:
Nothing takes me to anybodys village for marriage. .most marriages I attend are in towns

oh OK. Ur friends are truly a special class. All thier marriages held in towns. Anyway I get ur point sha. But no be Road cause am. Na man inhumanity to man cause am.

idupaul:
This why I make a conscious effort not to travel by road in this country ..If your city doesn't have an airport sorry I can't come for ur marriage..to many wicked people in Nigeria for one to drive for hours through thier villages and hideouts ..too risky

does ur aircraft land in their village square?

When a boy wanna marry a little girl. That's ur case. Women never learn anything. You claim to wanna be with man A, but still want the attentions of man B, still want man C to ask you out, so you can tell man A all about them and also repeat process of telling B and C about the boyfriend I love man A.

Please my dear, call off the wedding till you are tired of men or they are tired of you. Then when you are in a relationship with a man heading to marriage. You will face that squarely rather than courting the attention of other men and justifying it with I told him about it.

The day you and neighbour will sleep with each other, please will you also tell him?

Damn dullards everywhere

What could warrant this to someone's mother. Wow

(1) the people with ability to resist and desist from temptation.: being able to show restraint to anger, to temptation, to committing acts of infidelity to spouse and most importantly the temptation to join the corrupt band of Co workers who are helping themselves to government funds and thus far richer than you.

(2) the people with ability to pick themselves up after being shot down : being able to move on after a break up, being able to let go th
e loss of a loved one, being able to forgive men and date again after a rape or molestation experience, being able to love and marry again after being left at the alter.

(3) the people with the ability to be deviant in an unaccepting society : this covers the gays and Lesbians, the bisexual and transgender. The feminists and misogynist. The physically challenged and lastly the atheist.

(4) the stupid political class : this covers the wailing wailers, the ipobians, the apc Zombies, celebrities and lastly the end time people

Add more if needed. But it's not easy being different, holding different beliefs from the general population and yet sticking to it.

This who here has life the toughest for sticking to their beliefs and point of view

Post the numbers of ur boss and colleagues. Nairaland has enough ashew0 boys to keep them occupied and off your scent