₦airaland Forum

To some people , I come off as a misogynist and to others as a gentleman. Attempts to educate via observation and feedback is often misconstrued as an attack by me.

Men tell lies , women are repressive, women can cheat for africa, men cheated their way to existence. If adam and eve existed today, they would have accused each other of cheating with the serpent. This has brought about offensive threads like a lot of mine, many others and most recently the one on front page , by the likely lesbians hate2u and naughtynaughty.

Anyway nobody is an island of knowlegde and as a gender group. We all are open to learning and improving to be better mates to our partners.

Men say they want real ladies as partners and denigrate every lady that falls short, women say they want gentlemen and denigrate men who fall short of the standard.

As our faces differ, so does our perception and definition of our very own lady and gentleman.

What defines your own perfect lady and ur own perfect gentleman.

I already have my perfect lady , though she fails sometimes, but she gives me the primary thing I desire in life. "She gives me peace of mind". we knows am the head and she is the neck. I say wat happens and she uses her womaness to change all I have said to suit her . I used to think my word was yes and amen , till I realised the fraud. She never fights, bellitles , challanges me to get her way just as the neck never has to turn the head violently to get its way.

Above everything my perfect lady and I both realise we are human and have decided before hand to forgive all transgressions that will occasion from our occasional deviation from perfection.

I forgave her last week for the excessive onion in my food and she forgave my bad sexual prowess I put up in the night as vengeance for not eating well.

Do share your own perculiar gentleman and lady traits that works for ur personality

Doubleagent008:
I get you man. But I think it is more than Nigerian vs foreign. A lot of things come into play e.g environment among others jst like u said in the post. I don't bother a women. I just need one of them it shouldn't be that hard. U feel me?

hahahahahah badtt guy. I feel u bro

Doubleagent008:
The guy just expressed his opinion people shouldn't emotional over these things. Some of the words use aren't really polite aside that, he's got a point (not in the entirety of the write up).
well I'm definitely team Nigerian girls. They can't be all 'daft' and 'mentally repressed'. Come to think of it, if (God forbid) MAJORITY of the are, I wonder what that makes the rest of us and whose fault will that be?

of course there are exceptions. They just don't make any concious effort to be mentally chalengeing. Do something. Chat up any foriegn lady and do same with a nigerian girl. Tell me the one who waits for u to say hello before they say hi, who replies with k? Who wonders about whether north korea is in america. Plus why isn't messi standing in the goal post and catching with his hands. I love our ladies bbut they should improve in that aspect

edetty:
Don't mind her jare,funny thing is we are both from the same tribe,and unlike u, I can't marry ladies from my tribe except they are born and bred outside akwa ibom/cross river state, I left the West to SCH dere for 5yrs and trust me dey don't impress me one bit socially and intellectually in a robust form,she often attacks the person rather than the topic,so am waiting for her replies,as for u,I enjoyed ur topic, I also got something similar that I opened,feel free to check my threads!

nice . Will sure check ur threads. With what you said expect all hell to breeak looose with that girl on u. According to her " how dare you say u won't marry from ur tribe" as though its her business ur marital choices.

lemolise:
Understood. Hope you had a good day. Pfft! Who killed the good man?

hahahahahahahah. Yeah bro my day was good jare. Hope urs was swell. The good man is alive and kicking. Don't mind my show of shame in times of weakness. Afterall we all human

lemolise:
You've got a point but the bolded ain't necessary. It created room for the bashing and the unnecessary arguments

couldn't come up with a subtler word. So I said thaat contextually not literally

DragonReborn:
Nigeria has poor reading culture. If we all form the habit of reading literature outside of inspirational/holy books and newspapers, it would boost our mental capacity. Not all foreign girls read, its just that most developed countries have good reading cultures, so on average they're more widely read than we are. Attitudes/behaviors are formed from upbringing, interaction, societal views and peer pressure. So I don't really blame our ladies for their characters, its a societal problem, not a gender issue.

well you may be right . But the gender refrence is that. The males are trying small. Hopefully on average only 50percent of males are clueless compared to the telemundo watching 85 percent females. Have you ever tried to engage a lady in intelligent discourse ? Did she not run away or tag u boring to her friends

ThuGnificenX:
lol... Oni iranu

so u are yoruba , and yet you don't understand omoluabi . Keep quaarelling with ur elders

edetty:
Even though u are from my tribe,buh on several threads I notice u have an issue with COMPREHENSION, he wld not date,marry,woo,or sex any oda girl not from his tribe simply means him stating his preference and opinion without insulting anyone,so I don't know wat the name calling is all abt,u make his point of naija girls very valid at DAT instance, he even broke it down to the point of clarifying that not all naija girls are so buh d majority of them, wch is very true, so wat's ur annoyance abt or are u among the majority, he said and I quote,,"our girls are very beautiful with Street smartness, if majority of them can up their reasoning and conversational skills den,to hell with foreign girls and their campaigners",,to me 98% of our girls are not just ideal for 1st world discussions and topics or interactions, they are so low,imagine a girl asking me why I watch news abt United States and Russia so much more than ours,wen in the last 6months both counties have had several cases of near war ignition scenarios and God forbid that from happening, cos it wld spell the end of the world,, all she watches is zeeworld and telemundo...

the only person here who read the post and understood it , saw through my intentions that I intended no foul , but stated the obvious which everybody kknows . Yet male asslickers are attacking me and unruly female. Thanks for ur bigger brain. Too bad that foolish lady you quoted is likely going to come kill u here simply cos u stated an unbiased opinion. Run away cos u appear smarter than engaging her in abuses like I shamefully did earlier

Nigerians exist and behave in duality . We are corrupt , wicked , tribal and down right nasty but...
We rock . Hilarious

dajoaneke:
"Dont flaunt her if you wont marry her. She could be another man's future wife"
What am I saying sef?
(Grabs vaseline & tissue)
Oya!!! Smack it for me!
Smack! Smack!!

hahahahahaha . You need delioverance

firstking01:
Devils work ke?,,,,and you want me to believe you??

lmao

firstking01:
You cnt marry or have a relationship with a girl that is not your tribe huh,,,,only the igbos sound this way....well, if not that you are my ver good friend here eh...btw, you vowed never to create thread on romance section again,,,,dnt wanna believe you mistakenly created this one huh??

It was devils work. Wanted to create it in the general section.

ThuGnificenX:
lol... I wasn't even fighting with u in the first place... U can trace it to my taunting replies...
My primary objective here was to derail ur thread

And I can proudly say

MISSION ACCOMPLISHED

go and collect ur price. Mtcheew. Shhildren ewvrywia

ThuGnificenX:
I said am sending u money to solve a problem not to buy more vaseline and nkwobi

My doctors will contact u

ur not serious.
We are men, we fight for a short time. This has lasted enough.

Have a good day

ThuGnificenX:
Eddy u are in so much trouble...
PZ will be sending in their lawyers.

They said u self-service so much your hand should be sued for domestic violence..
Oh well....

shey una see say this man wants to defraud me and renege on making me rich.

Shey una dey see. Was it because I said one million. Oya how much can u afford since its an admission u aren't bill gates

ThuGnificenX:
but pZ said u bought the last stock... U can self-service for Africa o ... Weldone.
I neva see ur account number yet!

I just sent it. Check ur mail. Expecting alert.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#8A2BE2]°•°Pfft!
°•°Don't try an make sense of how you an #team foreign reason.
...°•°it will never validate yer unecessary threads an senseless bashing of yer female counterparts. [/color]

you see the idea you have is the idea I dislike about feminists. Every issue is made a sexist one. I for one do not prefer foreign girls which my post clearly highlighted. I made a comparative analysis of both and came to a conclusion on the weaknesses of a majority of nigerian ladies.

Why should that be taken as an attack instead of areas to improve. Most foreiegn women won't stand the overbloated ego of nigerian men.

To agree to that must that be an implication of attacks ?

ThuGnificenX:
Hahaha! Vaseline expensive na. Av been looking for where to borrow from. And pZ is out of stock. Pls help a brother

brother ? Even in the sea. Fishes have class. how can I a little mackerel give a shark cum whale . My vaseline for him to have a rump with his gf who happens to double as a hand.

Listen oga . I have ordered for nkwobi and ohmpa. Do the needful and send the MONEY.

Now we talking money, don't talk nonesense.

Today shall be good, today shall be great, today is the day that this man made my day #singing loudly

Today shall be good,..........

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#8A2BE2]°•°I want the culprits ta speak fer themselves. [/color]

are nigerian men perfect by your own asessment

PureWays:
Yo! I quoted you to hint you some reasons why most guys in here keep bashing Nigerian ladies..

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahah

ThuGnificenX:
I can't agree less... You're right with ur observations.

Do remember to send a mail. I'll need some of ur vaseline also, mine finished and I can't afford to get another

ha. Bill gates , warren himself. Common vaseline ? Can't give his royal highness any of mine. Not after my poor fingers have entered it. Cmon just call PZ directly and they will send u enough .

No need for a mail. pick any random person here specifically I pick , searching4love. Send him one million . E go reach me.

With all ur sea faring. To be a gay can't be beyond you. And unlike the sea faring. That's not imaginary

ThuGnificenX:
Oh well...
Do have a great day! And try to ease up on the hate on Nigerian women.

oh shut up. Asslicker.

Despite all ur respect for women, we who are common poor street urchins whom ur enormous wealth can feed. Scoree more ladies while your dating ur right hand and vaseline.

You better go and learn to read, lest u sink and drown in ur imaginary boat on ur sea faring escapades.

Hahahahahahahahaha

MrCork:
...am in london, you not...i have moiney, u dont...i drive a nice range, You, Okada...I have a job, u dont......pls stop sayn NADA abot foreign girls u never spoken to in yor life..plis STOP...and by the way, i dont mean to boooooost about my £28,000(cash) range rover spot!!!(no ofeinse)

hahaahhahahah. Hahahahahahashaahahaha. You need an award. Mr ibu has nothing on u. If u take that as a compliment , then ur problems are bigger than I thought

ThuGnificenX:
lol.. I can't be dragged into a show of wealth on a public forum.. Send a pm and email me ur account number... I can help solve a very serious problem in ur life Bro...

Am a Seafarer and I get to visit many countries... It comes with the job.

sea farer indeed. I know you. Stop pretending. You must be warren buffet. So wealth in gold andd dollars. My kindred has nothing on ur great wealth. Oh stupid chest beater.
Use the money to buy some books and broaden ur mind so when next u see a post you can read and undertand.

Bill gates. Hahahahahahahah

joey150:
Why you have to be a prick..why you have to disgust me bro? You are a fucking prick and clearly a very pathetic person.

Well i pray you make it to Europe someday and see for yourself.
Try to be polite and nice..and maybe good things will come your way.
I have no interest in exchanging words with you..as you have given me the impression that you are a tout at best. I would love to be wrong about that. Your English is even pathetic and below average at best.
Spend time learning how to construct good sentences than abusing and lashing out of people, maybe then i will take you serious.

I wish you luck. Find another prick to Bleep with please.

hahahahaah e pain am. Yes I am a thug . I am based at oshogbo. You are european. Come and collect ur winners medal oh. Johnny the traveller

ireneony:
put it into mind that Nigerian men also have their fare share in the way Nigerian women behaves. The average Nigerian man likes showing off, even foreign women can attest to this..
So u see, the problems are mostly from the men and high rate of poverty inclusive.

ofcourse the foreign women dislike us for our over bloated ego. The idea of men being the cause or at fault . I don't get that. Ofcourse poverty is also a factor. But there are poor nigerian girls who are mentally very sound. Guess that nullifies poverty as a probbable favtor

ThuGnificenX:
I got pissed half way reading... Why will u even call a woman daft in the first place? #pause >>>>>> Continue


I have been to few countries and interacted with women from different parts of the world and I can tell u that your post lacks credibility and as such also an insult to an average Nigerian woman.

Secondly, you are biased by tribalising your post as well.

So I won't argue with ur senseless post, it's just another thread added to the list of useless threads opened daily on this forum.

come and collect you award. Johnny the traveller . You come a public forum where many of ur betters dwell. Yet you blow a poverty stricken trumpet.

Well the reason you can't relate is that , yyou can't talk to a nigerian girl talk more of foreign ones. How could you then discuss on wat u know nothing about

MrCork:
..see yor potato head like Dragon fly.....have u been to London?..have u been outside Nigeria? ..U sound like a typical Nigeria idol reject...of cousre foreign girls and 10times better than Nigerian girls & if u dont belif me..how comes NIgerian girls are all ways Gold digger and how comes they all ways prefer we Londoners any day.....berrra than u home base people?(no oofeinse)

you must be at a yabaleft replica in london. Go take ur pills and lie down young man. No oofeinse

ThuGnificenX:
I got pissed half way reading... Why will u even call a woman daft in the first place? #pause

read it in context not literally. The daftness was explained

joey150:
this is how i spot olodo's.

Where in that post did i mention that i have been to Ghana?

And thanks for asking i have been to Europe before.. And they dont "freak" me... I'll still pick a naija girl over them.

And please learn to read and understand..highly important. I would have explained in oshogbo..but sadly i dont know how.
Have a nice day!

go and read my post oh ye asslicker . And you will understand and cower in shame.
Instaed of u to read before you commented , u decided to comment before understanding
Is there a price to be won ?
You have been to europe. Oya come and collect the belt you won.
Olodo oshi

joey150:
What shall it profit a guy in ebonyi or oshogbo or jigawa to screm team foregin girls!

Most of you saying that crap have never even been to Ghana..

Wake up from your delusions please

since you have been to ghana. Please what was your experience with their ladies in comparison with their nigerian counterparts.

Do educate us in oshogbo