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Headmistress:
You want me to marry you too....

still deciding, building up my interest by Wat am reading. Have heard she great in bed, I saw nice fingers with a colour I like (hate red) . So am waiting to read she is a great cook etc before I call my ummunna

JayEntaur:
"When you all hear the truth of what transpired, this girl will run away in ." Just outta curiosity, where you there man? Isn't it fair to give her the benefit of doubt 'til the Lecturer gives a rebuttal? Just saying.

that statement was for those who took her side. Due to the prejudice against lecturers. It's just like someone having a case with the police. Because we have a stereotype image of the police, we will take sides with the reporter without waiting for a rebuttal. Same applies here. If she has a case then she should push on. But my experience tells me to be patient to judge. I know how the university system works, thus I could see through her lies fast. She is not aware that she just slandered the man through unofficial channels despite the case being in relevant authorities. The school could have her certificate withdrawn till the case is settled or just as punishment.

Headmistress:
lmfao,, good in bed ke, am a badass in bed, no run oooh..Do you even know why am called headmistress

reading with great interest

fairheven:
certificateless, yes! jobless...how? is it only people with certificate that have job?

of course not. But this is a country where people with first class degrees struggle to be something, imagine what it would be for someone without a certificate. Plus what job does a person without a certificate get, asides factory work and causal. Entrepreneurship is the only option. So bros she lost

Singleness is very sweet till mid life crisis come knocking. It's then you will realise, you didn't die at 60, thus you likely to live a lonely life till death at 85, then you realise you have no much money to even hire olosho, then you realise even if olosho offers the puna for free, you don't have the strength to complete a round, then you realise ur mates are attending the wedding and graduation if their children and grand children while they keep inviting you to rub it in, then you realise that being married transcends sex and romance but allows you to live with someone who really knows you when ur legs become weaker, penis flaccid, eyes dimmer and muscle withered.

Singleness had its time and marriage has its time, never confuse one for the other or forget to take that necessary step when required. Lest you build sand houses at old age.

OBAGADAFFI:
Mr Lecturer dis matta do reach Supreme Court.

If they bring out things she never knew about, they will need to prove them in court.

If she can afford Chief Wole Olanipekun, SAN . The school will be pleading for out of court settlement.

They have am entire faculty of woles and his teachers sef. Oga she go see case she go run. By the way while the case is at supreme Court, she will be certificate less, jobless and ageing. After she loses, she would be at least 50 years old when the case is decided, thus even if the school choose to abandon the case then and let her win. She lost in the grand scheme. Learn from nnamdi kanu. You can never defeat a system, no matter how shabby the system might be. Talk less of a system of academia.

OBAGADAFFI:
The lecturers supporting her is not the issue here.

There is a case the NHRC against the school, a good would have properly looked into that case instead of threatening the student.

The school's right to withdraw her certificate is not absolute.

Let them go ahead to withdraw her certificate, then they will have bigger courts on the necks .

Oga court no enter that one. The school will withdraw her certificate and claim she wasn't found worthy in character and learning. They will bring out things she never knew about and even the court I heaven can't help her. The university is a system. Well oiled in its practise despite bad practices. She better pipe low and walk away lest she remains certificateless for decades with pending court cases.

OBAGADAFFI:
You are commenting as if all Nigerian university lecturers are better humans.

Didn't you read that the case was taking to the NHRC.

She can easily bring up that case again and the lecturer will disciplined.

listen no department has all lecturers in the same caucus. How come nobody supported her. It's not about being good or bad as a lecturer. If she loses the case the school reserves the right to withdraw her certificate. Hope you are aware of that

stanisbaratheon:
shut the F**k up and stop casting aspersions already

see them. Little boys have arrived to display lack of home training. Won't give you the satisfaction. Begone satan

firstking01:
you discard it into recycle bin?,,,i bet you dnt have such a heart, i know you dnt trust me.

I do oh. The heart strong oh. You see, you know how to handle them here cos of ur temperament. Me I don't. I have tried na. E remain to hunt down somborry here and suckered punch him. Before it gets to such low, that's why I ran away from threads. The ridicule is less with posting alone.

Sunnynwa:
I believe strongly, she held the lecturer by the collar.

am telling you. No way would everybody support him no matter the caucus he belongs. Students are good at the victim card. You would catch one with micro chips and afterwards hear the same student telling everybody you victimised him or her by sending them out of the hall.
Well it's a federal university, if she fails in the case, the university senate reserves the right to withdraw her certificate as she wasn't found worthy in character and learning

When you all hear the truth of what transpired, this girl will run away in shame. If nobody supported you then, not even one person in the entire university. Then my dear you were the problem. I have been in the University system. We know what students can do and most often if a case is between a male and a female, it's treated seriously. No caucus could result in a total support of the said lecturer against you.

We await to see the end of ur drama

firstking01:
nope, wnt support you on that one...if you have something that can the human race why not share it here by creating a thread, esp if has to do with romance?...if you keep any inspiration to yourself it wnt help you in anyway, and i knw you have concience

you can't tempt me. I refuse to be tempted. Mba bros. When inspiration comes I discard it into recycle bin sharp sharp. Believe you me, it's fun to post rather than open threads that invite the good, bad and ugly.

brilliant5:
Totally agree wit u BT I feel Dis guys pain in DAT he goes home daily feeling worthless... Some of d abuses just cont to ring in ur head.. Lol.
continuous verbal assault can break one ,depression sets in, u loose ur self esteem and worth and d ripples go on... Ending in suicidal attempt...
DAT man needs to b told though I don't kW how o! BT smbdy needs to tell him. Should b well thought out since he's d boss.

you have answered a question you asked. The man is a douchebag, but who go tell am so? I doubt op will wanna do that whether as an employee or a fellow employer aa they could have business together. You see, some people came to this life and became bosses with family money, thus they find it Easy to be idiots to some of us who are struggling in life. That's why I say everybody has a mission and vision. The job is only a means to actualising a vision and mission and must never be the vision itself nor the mission. Thus he should take the rubbish knowing the person saying it is a bunkum, one day the laws of karma will pay him and vindicate the op

vislabraye:
That is you oh. Even if you do that does not mean there are other ladies who don't do such. A young rich and good looking man is a great catch.

sure the hustle is real.. Nobody come lagos to Jones. Anyway there are billions of ladies ready to implement the OP suggestions. Once a man has money, he would stop xhyking women cos they all chyke him now.... .. Money and power is dope

firstking01:
and you are still hovering around, this is one think with romance section, you cnt just do without it on nairaland....btw, i'm expecting you to creat a thread

thread ke. Mbanu it will never happen again. Posts are OK. It reduces the amount of insult one gets unlike threads that could open one to ridicule... The wierd and funny stories are on romance. The family section is abit boring..... When I need all out war, I go to politics and shout biafra

So you don't sleep with men for money? So you really sleep with them with ur clear eyes? As in normal and not drunk or money enticed. Hmmmmm. Anyway to ur issue. You might need to borrow from someone cos I doubt any lie can force ur parents in this economy to fork out more cash to you

Unless you are a feminine man, no man with propee testosterone levels forgives a cheating woman no matter her excuses. Your love for her could simply be because of this other man. She is now a price to be won, thus the new found attraction. You lost interest earlier for no just cause. Oga that lady irrespective of her cheating ways deserves happiness. She has found it with that other man and ur making things Complicatedfor her.

History is always a factor in choosing our partners but don't let it be clouded your judgement. You likely won't be OK with the cheating when the dust settles. Don't waste the young girls time. Opposed to Wat she is telling you. She loves that other guy let her move on while you do same. Be matured

Love your narrative, but I disagree with you on something. Everybody works for somebody, the entrepreneurs also work for their customers and stakeholders. If you feel entrepreneurship is the solution cos he was a beast to you, then you simply are wishing to leave there so you could be a beast to others. Life isn't fair, but humans should be fair.

Your boss is a dweeb, that is his personality and would remain so whether rich or poor. He is the type whom if he was an employee would be the office snitch, bully, amebo, juju man and what not.

Perseverance is key though, don't forget you are working as a means to an end and not an end in itself. Use the opportunity you have there to determine your end. Cheers

Re-edit ur post, it's not very clear. When you do so we will consider ur matter and advice appropriately

Only the most high can forgive who noticed that pigeon hole and publicised the picture, but if that foolish boy was aware of the nostrils on his bae yansh and decided to post it to Fb. The gods and demons are waiting for him..

Mrjo:
U suppose be pmb pa / advicer

hahahahahaha abi

Jadekitana:
Hahahaha omg that's killing. He may die I don't wanna commit murder, I heard that area is very sensitive when it comes to things like that I don't wanna kill someone's bf o

dats why I was insistent on the plastic hand fan. Cos he will cry for Africa. On a serious note though. He could be a nudist who likes to display. You should be grateful he wore pant sef..... Soon he would graduate to swinging the pendulum openly. .....

Jadekitana:
Habaaaaaaaaa I wouldn't do such, especially when I know he's desperately trying to seduce one of us. He's doing it on purpose

stop deflecting the victim with the "us" . He is trying to seduce you. OK why not buy Cameroon pepper, rub it all over ur hand, invite the pervert with a wink and whisper u wanna feel his akpa amu. Rub ur hand all over it, make sure the pepper enters all crevices. Then give him a plastic hand fan to ensure he doesn't die when the effects starts. It's all palliative measures

Jadekitana be truthful and set the devil free, if suddenly the world froze and we all looked away for a second, if you see that obvious ashew0 man in his peteri, tell us truthfully if you won't rip him to shreds including the draws he wore. He is trying to entice you shikena. Decide fast while offer lasts

Bae did none of those things, am the one thinking of doing them sef, when a woman is a jewel who knows her worth, she would make hay always while the sun shines. She dances when the ovation is loudest and before it quiet down, she has three kids.

Our youths are frustrated, their thoughts are now misaligned due to hunger. Oga I know you are a xtian, I also know this thing you are saying is borne out of frustration, you were once a believer. Don't forget that hard times never last but hard people do. Hopefully the pains ur going through will pass away and your lips which curse God will praise him then. Thread carefully. May God forgive you.

Lol. Why she no go run when attempted murder using okra soup can't be yet ruled out as a motive.

If he is truly an artist, we all know them. No artist died or got lost recently. He will come through just keep trying him. Our country isn't so bad that robbers shoot or misplace artists. Chillax sexy oyibo nina

exotiqueify:
Sincerely, I DO NOT KNOW U, BUT believe me, show this guy the mature person in u both... frankly, u need not reply this person, out of all it's worth, this person isn't worth it....

ok I will act appropriately. Thanks

Jadekitana:
In synzu's voice OVOKO omo you have a degree in this matter o, lemme mark your moniker and run away from you you are a professional

na so even me see am. Run oh dear