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Cutehector:
Hahahahha. Those evil minions in dat section can be just annoying. Dey willl just derail the thread..

that's why I have ran away for good.

Cutehector:
I must write on d good man!

ok do so. Post it in the romance section as that has more readership, unlike here. I have stopped posting topics on romance that's why I posted it here. Cheers

To be a woman is alot tougher than being man. The situation is worse when you have to be an African woman, where no laws help you when victimised and all laws come down harder on you when you are the aggressor.

I love my mama and I no go lie, I love my sisters and female cousins and I no go lie, I love my woman and female friends and I no go lie. PS... THEY ARE ALL AFRICAN WOMEN.

The good wife is a crown on her husband's kingly head. She is the general on the home front who fights physical, emotional and most especially spiritual battles to keep the family steady.

The good wife is a good mother to her children, a good mother to her husband, a welcoming presence to children in general and above everything a great grandma in due course.

The good wife is a shining star to her in laws, she accommodates and mentors. She isn't covetous of the family wealth from lending a helping hand once in awhile to relatives in penury. How can you cloth strangers when your family members roam naked.

The good wife is a crazy adaptable lover, you knows her husband's buttons. She drive him nuts in the bedroom, that the mention of adultery make him flee lest he loses his jewel.

The good wife is neighbourly. She is not a public fighter, she is not a gossip, she is not a snitch, she is not a adulterer, she is not a prostitute, she is not ungrateful

Lastly, the good wife is a human being, who could sometimes make mistakes, fall short, be moody, be tired, be sad and even cry. Should this make her all of a sudden a bad wife? Should she not express herself once a while in non conformity to standards? Can she not be understood as much as she is expected to understand everybody else?

There is a good wife in every woman, nature and nurture of most women make this trait difficult to find, past experiences and heart breaks makes this trait difficult to find, societal and peer pressure also does same. Nevertheless they are humans and deserve to be loved and respected as we all want to be loved and respected.

The perfect wife for a man, is that woman who his presence in her life makes the good wife. Goodluck to you all as you search for her.

NB: someone should write on the good man and father ( if nobody does, I will when I can). Cheerio

vooyour:
so I saw this post about how sleeping with fat girls is not good. child please! I'm a fat girl with big boobs. I never had a problem with getting a man. I definitely never had a problem in the bedroom. why do people insist on making this an issue? I know I'm beautiful regardless of my weight. I mean really, why is this a problem? I know we have our preferences, but you don't have to bash us!

if only you knew that there are billions of men Like urs truly. Who would prefer a blind and cripple fat version of you dear than any skinny bitch. If only you knew. You would have laughed off the ignoramus knowing he is a Jonathan. Absolutely clueless

Blade21:
hehehe at 13 years lol good night bros

sleep well

Blade21:
so your sisters are included right you may have met crazy girls but there are lot of good girls out there but guys don't like them de see them as too simple and naive so meaning guys dunno what the want abegi joor

Who is this 13 year old on my mention. Please go and read ur books. Leave romance for the romancers

MarieSucre:
Some other people would form caucus for her? Are you for real? When I was in school I was not close to any lecturer. Except in my final year when I became close to my supervisor coz we see everyday. So if this had happen to me, who would form caucus for me?

Let them mark her script. But don't forget that is not the only issue. What of the beating? And the harassment? And the victimization?

ur supervisor would know who u are, if he believes you to be the victim, he will get others to fight for you. If she was beaten it's another issue cos no lecturer had the right to beat a student

I blame the mod that brought this nonsense to front page. What are you trying to achieve in the dissemination of the rants of a mad black woman. Am Catholic but still I find such repugnant and unnecessary to a man of God.

After all this epistle, a mumu stud will be sleeping with you, while you friendzone the good man in a no sex till marriage agreement.

Women never know Wat they want in life and whenever one sees a woman who says she does. One has just seen the most clueless of the lot

Jung:
the term "little child" is not condescending enough?? I see.... this world is becoming something else. anyways, thank you very much for the advice. it was received with thanks

ur welcome

MarieSucre:
Did she say "all lecturers" or "the dean held a meeting with SOME lecturers". And pls let's not pretend that lecturers don't form cults around each other to protect themselves.

They form caucuses for sure, thus it implies that other caucuses will support the girl to ensure the lecturer is punished. How come none did that, yet they all conived to fail her like she claimed in her post. The solution is to order a remark of scripts she felt, they victimised her in. If she scores less or the same as the lecturers gave her. Then her certificate should be withdrawn and she would be made persona non grata. The Dean holds meetings with the involved lecturer, the hod and any other lecturer who declares a stake in the matter. This normally would involve all caucus.

Jung:
im done reading books, your lordship! I have a certificate that has "summa cum laude" on it to prove it. books are my daily bread and broth.



p.s I also have a job too

then stop disgracing ur education by using curse words on strangers for airing an opinion different from urs.

Jung:
what is this one saying i am very sure you are a lecturer yourself or you have family members who are.... pls dont condone rubbish. there is a term called "injustice": google it up and understand the conditions under which it happens..... mofo

u better go read ur books little child.

Those people who smell..... Mba I shall pass

Hadez:
Dt doesn't mean he will nt repeat it again tonight

Well you should speak with him. Hopefully he would change. But criticize the act. That's my opinion

Hadez:
Wow what made u change



Vizkiz is used to d act of always insulting women. I dnt like dt. I was happy demigoddess dealt with him how is dt a sexist point of view? N vizkiz is d immature 1

women should not insult men, men should not insult women. That's what u should be preaching. Whether he is immature is irrelevant. He made his opinion and that should not warrant insults. So criticize the act. Not the sexist angle

Hadez:
I hd it in mind to create this thread before bcus I noticed it here. Dey r quick to call ladies hoes and bitch. Why? Dnt u ppl hv sisters n mothers at home?
I was on a thread where vizkiz was insulting demigoddess n I felt disgusted. Thank God she gave him so much dose dt kept him quiet. I think we ladies shuld stop dis kind of childish and silly acts by these immature boys

and you just praised her for insulting him., yet you hope females aren't insulted here. This level of high handedness is unbecoming. I saw that thread and they both behaved immaturely. Criticize the actions and not add a sexist point of view to it

You should have raped him, so we could tell you that when a man says no, he means no. At least it's a season of equality.

Anyway don't mind him, he is acting film you didn't show the gifts you brought. Next time show cleavage, show ikebe and please update us on how the bedmatics was

Headmistress:
not publicly..

oh BBM 52ca10af
If you on that.

You would let a human die for a petty romance squabble. Bro I know you wanna help. If the lord wants you to, do so willingly a d not cos the LovePeddler asked you to. She aint worth ur sputum nor ur wickedness to her dying sibling. I pray you help.

Headmistress:
..Lmao...see gbege...oya ndo...i go tell you true....come back jjjor...i had a very bad day...you just lit up my face..oya am sorry.

oh better. I understand the bad day thing. With this heat, this economy, the poor light situation. If a bobo pissed you off join. Then I can imagine a rough day then. You wanna share so we get ur back ni?

Headmistress:
..Lmao...see gbege...oya ndo...i go tell you true....come back jjjor...i had a very bad day...you just lit up my face..oya am sorry.

oh better. I understand the bad day thing. With this heat, thus economy, the poor light situation. If a bobo pissed you off join. Then I can imagine a rough day then. You wanna share to the house so we get ur back ni?

Headmistress:
am a saint.

ok. Get back to ur other love intrest, you seem more truthful to him than you are with me.

Headmistress:
Nna see as you dey downgrade your integrity bcus of toto..So you be pervertkai

which toto. For nairaland? Cmon. Yes oh everybody be pervert so far you aren't a queer. Are you a queer or a saint

Adaure4ever:
CaptainEcole, what did I do to you?
Are you high on viju milk?

he is probably crushing on you, don't go all Kanye yet. Wat he wrote about you is even complimentary. Be patient he would soon say his mind

uckennety:
Dts is y i'll hire a surrogate mum to bear my kids!and finally v a contract wife wEn I need it

Hmmmm it's a good arrangement. You need to make a whole lot of money for that though. Wish you good speed

Headmistress:
Lmao, are we no more in gender equality regime If a man can marry two wives, a woman can marry two husbands, so i can gladly marry you and moneypassGod.

let me brief u. I am a pervert am sure moneypassGod is also a pervert. How would you handle us both. Cos with me alone you would need ice block to cool ur machinery, when you add the dude. My dear, we might not have whom to love again since you would escape in the morning after first half. Biko you must choose one and when you do. You decide who is the main bobo and who is the side bobo.

brilliant5:
I personally don't believe in waiting for things to happen by chance. Refering to karma dat u said...Yes he has smth to achieve and get out BT wat if he gets so abused b4 he achieves wat he wants and commit sucide...
Who could tell him cld b anybody, op inclusive...
I know who Eva does stands the chance of being his enemy wc nobody wants...
BT at tyms we cld just do d stuff and dam d consequences BT it must b constructively done.

Well in this economy with limited chances, one can't afford to do things in hope of damning the consequences. One also must understand life isn't generally fair, thus suicide is a coward way out which should never be considered. He has to preserve though not easy to do. But he must look at the big picture and be like Christ when he got wind of his crucifixion, he prayed God to take it away from him. But do his will nevertheless

lanrywatt:
It depends on the where u are coming from.. Marriage is never bondage even if most people see it dat way, it is a perfect will of God... No one is born into marriage Dis days

yeah, people use wife to do gf and vice versa. Instead of having a gf one would get a wife. When he realises he didn't make the best choice frustrations start setting in. This is a major reason I advocate dating properly and not a fan of the virgin nonsense unless it's a decision based on higher calling

Headmistress:
Nna look no more...You have just found your missing rib oooh

hahahahahaha, GOD waited for me and that other man to sleep abi before creating you with all our ribs. Biko which part of you did my rib form. Or you want me to take the entire package with other people's ribs?

fairheven:
she can as well create her own job.

of course she can. But if it was that easy, she wouldn't need to go the university in the first place. Entrepreneurship isn't for everyone u know

lanrywatt:
Nice one, there isn't any confusion here, there is a milestone for singleness which should not over lap that of marriage but everyone is single at some point before u finally tie the knot.. That the period we are talking abt.

oh of course, if only the single period is considered. Yes it is very delicious. Those who get married during the single phase are in bondage