₦airaland Forum

cherrybrown:
Nobody is perfect in this world the best way forward is wisdom and understanding

you are only saying that cos u have something in that space between ur ears, majority of people have empty spaces or even water there , All na brain. Anyway we are all bad depending on how its looked at, just that it shpuld not be compounded by a holier than though attitude by any of the sexes. Scroll through the other thread and u will get my position

misspicy:
I don't have a tribe am a Nigerian

APC , you belong to everybody and nobody. Ok oh. Good for u

cherrybrown:
What about guys or is it only girls

there is a thread on the guys, guys are bad , girls are terrible , yet girls complain always that men are bad, you see the reason for the constant attack on our dear women

Woman matter na for shoulder dem dey carry am, woman love na for surface value, woman trust na for lips e dey and woman fidelity na for your dream she faithful, these people are bad , doesnt mean men are angels oh , cos as a man i am bad, woman own dey more painful cos they accuse men always , very hypocritical. Same with feminists

misspicy:
Well the only Igbo guy I experienced is same,I believe her but I won't generalise




BTW Igbo guys are still learners

#yorubademons are way worse




quote me with trash and see the bad side of spicy

which tribe are you

Three days ago , i went to one of these polytechnics to transact a little business, i ran into a pretty lady at the mtn centre and we got talking, with decorum we exchanged contact with intention to meet up for a drink later, for days on end this girl kept flashing me, though i smelt trouble i decided to call her back. She ibquired about the date, despite being slightly ill , i started the ill fated journey to her hostel, as i was parking i noticed she came out all dressed up with another lady all dressed up too. In my mind i was like shey una dey see karishika, any
Way being a common behaviour of babes nowadays, i kept my cool , they both entered and as i made to drive off, she told me to please wait for her friends, i was shocked , i was still in my state of shock when five other ladies appeared and started shuffling themselves into my back seat, infact being a sedan, two lapped themselves, the idiotic girl touched my hand and while blinking her eyelid asked if i minded, i sudddenly wished it was day time so that whatever slap i landed at that moment will land properly to reset her.

I kept quiet, i was fuming inside, since the friends are stupid and think am dangote, forgetting that even dangote like every other man ,carries a wallet and his billions no dey inside dat wallet, i proceded to take them to a joint i have never gone to before, i intended to have thrm order to their fill while i order for a bottle of water i secretly paid earlier for, once i realise they have consumed half way, i wont dare sneak out , i will physically get up and pick race as though an enemy is chasing me, being naija babes they likely to join me in thr running with the barman and bar woman joining too, the only good thing is that the barman knows who drank his beer and the barlady knows who ate her pepper soup and banga.

I was still strategising this, when the koko hit me, what exactly did this girl tell hrr friends for up to six girls to come join her , something similar to I MET A FOOLISH MAN OH, MAKE UNA COME MAKE WE SLAUGHTER AM , i finally realised i was already a foolish man to these people, then i decided to prove them right , i swerved the car to the side of the road, opened my boot and picked my wheel spanner , at the top of my lungs , i ordered sverybody out of my car, i was shouting , behaving craxy , the moment thr last one got out, i zoomed off and headed back home to report to my dear online family.

Abeg for christsake has this behaviour gotten this bad ? Six girls to only me , excluding the stupid girl who ibvited them, didnt they feel ashamed lapping ? She kept saying i didnt try as i was behaving beserk and i now wonder the type of ladies we are grooming in our obodo nigeria. Tufiakwa unu

No biggie, it tore while she was in the store. I was there

MzPecs:
Seriously, i've thought of that before.
...and I always feel bad about it buh it keeps repeating itself even when I try to tolerate those little things 4rm my loved ones.

By God's grace i'll change.

amen dear

poshestmina:
Strangers know their boundaries and don't overstep it most times too unlike Family members who feel 'they know you finish

for example dear, if you stayed with a visiting family friend and ur younger sister , then you realised a new gown you have never worn was worn by both ur sister and this family friend and left unwashed for you to deal with, who would you be more pissed off with. Your sister or the family friend

ipledge10:
You are right Op its easier for me to get mad my sis,my crush,my best friend than anybody else...I think because it pains me more if I get the unexpected from them

guess the issue could be explained by our dissapointment when the people we have more trust in not to hurt our feeling eventually do so,. But for a stranger we have no such expectations so we easily forgive them. Hmmmmmm.

MzPecs:
The fact that I get angry at slightest thing my loved ones does, doesn't mean hatred! No..

it doesnt mean hatred. Just abit of intolerance. Guess its a flaw most of us have, lack of tolerance for our loved ones yet we tolerate other people we dont give a shit about. I do that too. By Gods grace i will change

sickstars:
We cares so cos of wat u wrote i shd worship d write ups abeg

No love in d hood


Done showing love m goin to make my offline attitude same with my online m at no loss by d way i woke up happy the storm is over for me

we thank God whatever storm you were facing is over. Cheers

iceberylin:
When u give less fu ck about people they hardly hurt you...

true, its really strange though that the people u give a damn about hurts you most, though the things they did to hurt you , you tolerated same behaviour by soneone u dont care about

MzPecs:
You right about that OP.
Many times, I get angry at any slightest thing my older sis does buh a stranger will do the same thing to and i'll just smile and ignore. Very strange

Truth is when we get used to that stranger, story will definitely change.

true with familiarity but fact is that its very wrong, i have never seen a person weep profusely at the burial of a stranger but they do that even to their most hated family member

sickstars:
Bed time Story for the gods
summary of wat u wrote is wat will call
Medicine after death

this man could be a lovable person in reality, but because we are an online family to be nice dey hard am

mikolo80:
yep
churches could build industrial Parks while cooperatives could farm with tractors

exactly, the churches have a major role to play here, by the way they have ten percent of most peoples salaries. Rather than building more schools and creating more unemployed graduates, why not build industries to employ many on skilled and semi skilled platforms, there is no restaurant that will serve one food simply by presenting ur certificates to it. I have had this idea about churches for a long time but kept it to myself lest am branded to be attacked the " anointed ones"

Many a time i encounter a beast of a family member, a lover or a spouse. They are quarrelsome at home with their loved ones, the pick offence at things their loved ones do to them but if they were in a public place such as their place of work, you see thrm tolerating the same offences from strangers. I wonder why the human mind operates in this way, technically upside down, this mode of reasoning is the same the e fighters here exhibit, most of them are cowards in person or even loveable people, yet they are violent to their online family.
I have a female cousin who terrorises her family, she keeps malice often, quick to pick a fight eith anybody at slightest provocation, the period i visited her at her place of work, my jaw dropped at thr angel i met there, she was so nice and i didnt see her fight as usual (though she fights regulary with her coworkers in the shared office space since the arrangement mimics a family gathering), i therefore surmise the idiocy in humans when they behave like that.
I am an idiot too based on my premise, very recently i realised i find it easier to forgive the transgressions of my female friends who mean nothing to me, but the moment bae does the exact same thing all hell will let loose, i will be screaming and panting like a wrestler without realising this woman means the world to me. This behaviour of mine is why marriages and relationships of today never last, we find it easier to cut people who mean nothing to us some slack but find it difficult to tolerate same in the person we love.
I was a terror as a child to my family and a meek watered down mouse outside my home, one day i changed . Today i am a meek watered down mouse in my home with my family and rather could be a terror outside to other people. I believe this is the order our preferences should be. The decorum we show outside in places rhat demand such behaviour , cant we maintain such decorum in our homes with loved ones, cant we be equally patient , trusting , excusing and forgiving ?
I REALLY PRAY HUMANS GET THEIR PRIORTY OF LOVE RIGHT AND STOP EMPHASIS ON THE WHEN THE GOING IS GOOD ROMANTIC LOVE.

humanbeing4th:
abeg which street 4 oshogbo u get dem olosho and how much is a nigth stand? abeg Help a brother

try go opposite osho grammar school, there is a joint there from 7. Plus if you are early all night is about 4k or 5k. But if u come late in the night , you could carry all night at 3k.

Since i parked into our family house in 1998, the road leading to a particular junction has been an eye sore, its so shameful that driving past that road in rainy season will leave one in tears and confusion as to whether u rather purchased a canoe. I visited this xmas and to my surprise i met a tarred road , done prpperly with interlocking coal tar bricks. I was marvelled. Upon inquiry i found it the road was tarred by local collaboration of residents within that locale
Do you know the number of presidents , governors and local govt chairmen who had existed between 1998 till today ? Or the fact i already met the road that way in 1998.
Look around at the typical nigerian, we build our houses for shelter, we dig our boreholes and wells for water, we generate our own electricity by generators, we provide our own security by employing community night watchmen because the police are untrustworthy.
A typical nigerian is a gpvernment to himself and constantly our elected officials keep failing in delivering the dividends od democracy to us.

I really have become a proponent of local collaboration to drive development in nigeria. Rather than pay taxes to any state , i rather pay it in a community development initiative ,whoch will directly affect me in my community.
What do you think

Jisos this is meant for the sexuality section. Oh my God. Am so embarrased, biko help move it before people come accross it oh good samaritan

I remember the first time i did that, it was a mistake, but the moment i made the error ,she grabbed my head and pushed it deeper inside , making sure most of my tongue entered deep into her behind, i remember crying after she left, i took ampiclox, i took red ketrax, i drank andrews liver salt, i wrote my will indicating clearly my bag must be burnt unsearched since na there all my condom and mojo full. I really thought i wont escape aids, anyway i didnt die as it turned out , whenever she visited , ass eating became a part of the fore play, she cums from it, i got used to it and became a proffesional. Its been awhile i indulged in that evil, especially now i think its a shameful act. I was surprised later in life to realise many a lady will gladly spread those ass cheeks for tongue action. Heard guys recieve too(,very gay in my opinion). Who am i to judge. To each our own wierdness. Peace

omoluka:
7E22F88B add up guys, male and females are welcome.
Location:Ife ,Osun state

are you a student of oau or oui

It's with great sadness that I announce the death of my family friend's son (rip to somto), the cause of his death was mentioned in hushed tones and hidden from me because I had a premonition of such happening, my experiences has made me hate single schools despite not attending one, somto died of a rotted insides as a result of constant gay molestation by some boys in his school, the senior boys passed him around and slept with him on a daily basis, I remember when his family maintained their I'll advised high handedness to send him to that secondary school, I fought against it because I have come to realise that the children of this age are more knowledgeable and IT oriented, that unlike my age who never knew that it was possible for a man to desire another man, they have phones with Web content and like everyone could have stumbled on gay sex online.
There is an age in children, where they wanna explore and are curious of new feelings resulting from the build up of hormones for puberty, this results in sexual feelings and a constantly erect penis incase of teenage boys, in my time, all we desired then was girls where only our lack of guts to talk to one stop us from having sex, we never contemplated easing our urges on our fellow raging boys, because such knowledge was taboo and not normal. I am someone who doesn't buy the idea of gays telling me they were born that way, every gay person suffered some form of molestation which was physical or emotional. They refuse to accept it, but most ladies who attended single schools and practised lesbianism only to stop the act once they left such environment and encountered boys is a testament of emotional molestation by her environment and other students therein. There is nothing like a gay is born with it, the society creates them through its actions or in actions. This is why I don't castigate a gay person anymore because the damage has been done. And it's very difficult to undo.

Parents are moulders of our children, what are your actions and in actions that could create the next gay or lesbian. Why the interest in single schools which hamper the development of our children, isn't it better my daughter slept with a fellow make student in a mixed school than her fellow girl in a single school? Dont parents feel they ought to be more involved in the confusing hormonal periods in their children's lives so as to guide them rather than leaving such responsibility to others in a school which might not be properly run with advisers and role models. Do we blame the gays of today who were victims of molestation at one point or another or do we keep mourning the likes of somto who was slept with, without his consent simply because he was a junior boy who couldn't refuse the orders of his seniors, we are suing the school authorities and attempting to gather more information on those boys, but what do you do to a 14 or 15 year old lad with raging hormones who practised sex on a hapless young boy in jss 1. I will throw more light on this in a few minutes

Suigeneris93:
Na God save u oh!








Btw are u gay?

gay ke. God forbid, why do you ask such oh

To those who know me, eddygourdo is a man with rotten morals with regards to women and sex, but I have always had a moral standing on Adultery, I have never done it albeit yet, and since I practice avoidance of temptation as opposed to resisting temptations (I don't trust myself 100%) I don't allow myself in the vicinity of married women except this particular lady. We both have a little history, I have written about her in the sexuality section once, Anyhooo we haven't seen each other since she got married to a man I introduced hee once to as my gf, she and the fucker went behind my back and had a thing which resulted in marriage, well I got back at him though, I ensured I slept with her many many times through all her orfices before the day of her traditional and white wedding, to avoid a future repeat of our evil, she told me then she had a medical complication that meant she couldn't do anal sex anymore, knowing that was my dojo, it ultimately ended any possibility of an affair, I was grateful in my heart because I didn't want to commit adultery, till she called me around June last year.

Apparently she confessed to lying about the anal thing, she knew that will get me running to lagos to meet her, but when she mentioned a favour I must do to get back to our ways, I reclined. SHE WANTED MY BABY, apparently since the four years they wedded, to get an issue was a problem and tongues were beginning to wag, the husband was losing patience as age isn't on his side much etc, she assured me then that it was an agreed decision between her and the husband, long story short I refused because am not a vagina person to a lady I don't love and secondly am too fatherly to leave my child with another person, I can never abandon my child, I declined but offered to hook her up to a former colleague who is a renowned handsome male LovePeddler like urs truly, anyway I did the connect and they started something on the side, though we both kept it a secret from the seed guy.

Fast forward to November, she called me to inform me she missed her period and there is hope, we waited and in early December she confirmed she was pregnant, she was so happy and wanted to see me, I promised to visit once I arrived lagos, though on strict advise she must dump that seed guy, I deliberately didn't go see her because I doubted I won't wanna sleep with her especially as she confessed she still likes anal sex, which I chase about in women (weirdo muah), I posted her and didn't return her calls, only for the husband to call me yester night, in fact late morning, threatening to kill me etc. I was shocked and called the wife, you won't imagine that this stupid lady was caught with the seed guy in her matrimonial home last night, apparently the husband travelled for Xmas and new year, instead of returning today, he decided to return yesterday without informing his wife, he walked in on her and the guy, I was shocked, apparently she Confessed the whole arrangement to her husband once he returned from chasing the seed guy with a hammer he met on the dining table, the man is now accusing me of trying to destroy his marriage, of corrupting his wife, blah blah blah. I doubt she told him the real truth of how things happened. This is a man who snatched her from me in the first place after I introduced them. Anyway am waiting for him at home. He seems to have forgotten me or what am capable of, that's why he throwing unwise threats about. Anyway abeg my people I know am slightly wrong, but was I the culprit here? Clearly the man is impotent, shouldn't he be grateful to me and his wife? Did she lie when she earlier told me that the arrangement was a consenting one? Hmmmmm. Am flabagasted.

rexbuton:
@eddygourdo a proper traditional wedding was done with dowry PAID..

the family isn't even interested in burial rites, they are just singing that they want death certificate.. the woman is scared that if she doesnt hand over the docs they may make her undergo those mourning rites like shaving her hair and sitting on the floor etc

NB the FAM is really wicked

really unfair by such a family, well legally she has the upper hand since the deceased listed her as his next of kin. Though I fear that traditionally she is bleeped as the family will wanna be cruel to her during this period. Anyway it's a chess game, let her give them the certificate, the earlier they play their hand the sooner she knows how deep in poo she really is and plan her coynterattack

Really tough, the woman is legally the custodian of the late husband estate, the children aren't wise, by the way the woman if wedded properly traditionally and legally, they have zero case against her

I have lived and worked in all geopolitical areas of our great country, My interactions with other tribes have been educative albeit harrowing, yet I realise the need for self education through diversity. I listened to the responses of our president yesterday in particular his defence of Igbo marginalisation claims where he listed out positions in his government which the Igbos occupy to disprove any marginalisation claim, as he did so I was filled with shame and confusion as he clearly depicted an ignorance I felt was limited to the yoruba people. Who are the Igbos, who are the now forgotten middle betters, who are the south south people, who are the edo people, are these also the Igbos or is this a case of deliberate idiocy and misrepresentation.

To a typical yoruba man, if your name isn't dele or Adamu you must be an omo Igbo, to a typical northerner if your name isn't dele or Muhammed you must be a nyammirri. This same misconception allowed goodluck Jonathan to append a fictitious "azikwe" to his name during his presidential campaign of fresh air, a name that disappeared from mention throughout his regime. I don't blame him for that, but rather I look at the Nigerian sphere and I see a conundrum of people whose idealogy of existence is still based on the reasons and philosophy of 1930, where the history stupidly says the nation comprises of majorly three ethnic groups, igbo, yoruba and hausa and unfortunately the hausa and yoruba have become so block headed to learn that every region and tribe must be understood and given due respect of recognition despite being in the minority, all of a sudden the edo man has no direct political representation, the benue, kogi and Abuja man has no political representation, if you have lived in the north you will realise that states like kaduna, adamawa are owned by an indigenous tribe who aren't hausa or fulani.
We can't say we are one in the same country when my neighbours do not know me nor care to educate themselves about me, to cover their ignorance they lump tribes together and call us Igbos.
Mr president buhari, Godwin emefielie would tell you he isn't an igbo man, same applies to ibe kachikwu. They represent the amiable people of the south south region, not the south East true igbo people the question thrown to you sir was hoping to address

martinluth2:
Mr man, the difference was jonathan refused to publicize them unlike buhari, pls u are igbo, dont be dumb, because i knw u re young, and u dnt knw wat igbos are passing through. Please dont be an efulefu

hahahahahaha, ok daddy the oldest man in nairaland. I have heard you. Continue playing the victim card like women and just like women it will get you no where t

Mtcheew silly Nigerian student. Very typical. Waste of investment

jamjo:
My bro look now i can understand that you are worried what will be the outcome likewise I. Look bro, the little problem i had with what you wrote was you come out criticizing and using words like coward and failure if you had ask questions or constructive criticism I'll not have faulted you in anyway because i want igbo's to ask serious questions i can never support what i don't understand.

ok Bro, I always maintain decorum, the period that thread was active, we had violent ipob members on nairaland who would attack without provocation. So no hard feelings