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Female marketers are preferred because men tend to give attention and listen to what female marketers have to sell.

Please, anyone should help me with INEC voters registration center in either Ifako ijaiye or Agege LGA in Lagos? I want to register.

Most online businesses are overrated. A lot of people invest their money into online businesses but very few people make profit out of it.

The major reason for the failure of e-commerce businesses are their business model are not profitable. And any business that can not break even, it's a matter of time it will shut down.

Most online start-up business are over hyped.

I attended Obafemi Awolowo University for my first degree. And I will support my children if they wish to attend the school. It is a reputable university in Nigeria.

What mockery of marriage did you have? Even if you were 21 years old when you got married, didn't you have elders in your family that will ensure all the right process of marriage was done? After three years of cohabiting, you are now wondering whether you are married to him or not. This is the reason why extended family is important in traditional marriage in Africa.

HiredGames:
stupid
ˈstjuːpɪd/Submit
adjective
1.
having or showing a great lack of intelligence or common sense.

Stupid is an adjective that describes someone showing a great lack of intelligence. We see people that exhibit what the above definition describes but it's seemingly rude and unacceptable to call them that.

Since we are throwing bants, I can go ahead and call you stupid for inappropriately using that word, as the child the OP is carrying isn't one until he/she is born.

If your lineage is lucky to have my level of intelligence, your family won't have perished in stupidity.

cococandy:
idiot

I’m sorry I just can’t find it in myself to be polite to people like you. My bad

I am not surprised by your abusive word. We shall know them by their abusive comments. We do not necessarily have to share the same viewpoint about life. The OP might have made a mistake of getting pregnant out of wedlock but other single sisters could learn from her experience. Adulthood comes with responsibility and the OP should resolve her maternal issue herself. As far as I am concerned, She should acknowledge her mistake, say the truth and damn whatever people say about her. With time, people will forget her issue and move on to the next gossip.

3html:
Why that? Someone is in a problem and needs advice on way forward as to save the child and you talk like a child?
Please you reason below human



Op ignore that deranged fellow he his a kid who has not faced life the other way .
Try to know the fathers genotype if you are AS but if you are not an AS don't worry about that.
Secondly get the support of your mum, women are compassionate in such and she will understand, try and meet the school owner where you teach and inform him.
Please once it has passed 3 months don't take any drugs.

Life has many faces , this difficult time will surely pass with time

Who is a kid? If you are not blind to read you will notice I replied the OP that my statement about a bastard child is general without referring to her unborn child. There is high number of babies born out of wedlock in this generation and we are setting a bad precedent for the next generation who will think it is right. Some women are even celebrated to be a babymama by society. Thereby, denying the child the priviledge of growing up in a proper family.

Audu Ogbeh is an old fool. He is a political jobber who has nothing to offer.

tolusan:
Sad. With respect, you lack basic social etiquette. I would wager a bet that you, or someone very dear to you was born out of wedlock. So before you come out here to call an innocent child a bastard, deal with the ones around you! Your idiocy us suffocating me. I'm outta here.

You are a fool. There is no bastard in my family because we are old-fashioned. If you have it in your family, you shouldn't assume it's normal to every families. We follow scriptural principles rather than worldly principles. Whether you like it or not, the truth shall prevail. A child born out of wedlock is a bastard. If you don't like it, it's none of my business.

Ishilove:
The person who said those calling the lady's child a bastard are 'stupid' is suffering from the effects of sub zero intellect. When you call a spade by what it truly is, these 21st century village idiots with access to internet technology get defensive and start typing the first gibberish that plays through their hydrocephalic heads.

Thank you for your comment. This generation don't want to hear the truth. When you say the truth, you are seen as old-fashioned.

BaBysmaMa:
I'd really appreciate if you don't refer to my child as a bastard. I find that word offensive. The proprietress is a very nice woman but it's my pupils I'm worried about. They're very observant. There's this colleague that likes me. One day they were like, Miss.... we'll get you a wedding dress so you and Mr... can get married. I don't want to show them that it's okay to have a child when you're not married. If I was working somewhere else I wouldn't even bother asking this question.

I was not referring to your unborn child as a bastard. My statement was general.

Beremx:
don't quit your job except you are sacked. It would be wicked for your employer to sack you because you got pregnant out of wedlock. The lord is your strength.

The school proprietor could be right to sack her for getting pregnant out of wedlock. A teacher is expected to be a role model to pupils. I can not allow my children to be taught by a teacher that got pregnant out of wedlock because it is a bad example of morality. A child born out of wedlock is a bastard.

Northern Nigeria is a problem to this country. You can't even differentiate Hausas, Chadians and Malians in appearance and way of life. They are all same.

Doesn't the university has sitting Senate to scrutinize the appointment of Vice Chancellor of the university? This can only happen in a mushroom university.

What do you expect? Owerri is dominated by hotels and bars. IMSU and Nekede polytechnic students are majorly run girls.

This deal is a sign of new dawn in merger and acquisition of two indigenous companies in Nigeria. It should serve as an example to young entrepreneurs that partnership is better than sole ownership .

BaBysmaMa:
I'm unmarried and I recently discovered that I'm pregnant. I've always been careful but I guess contraceptives aren't always 100%. The thing is, I am embarrassed. I work with little children. What kind of example am I setting for them? I was thinking of quitting my job when I begin to show. I've got some money saved. I'll go back to work in a different school after the child is born. The child's father is out of the question. You get to know people's character when you're faced with a challenge. I need advice. Should I quit my job or not?

P.S. No insults please... I just need advice.

Have you discussed with the man responsible for your pregnancy with regards quitting your job? So that he can take care of you till you deliver the baby and start work again. You need to carry him along in your plans because raising a child singlehandedly is not easy or else you may be overwhelmed. I don't wish you become a single mother. It's a lonely and cold life.

Buhari is a coded thief. He will secretly loot the $1 billion dollars to finance his reelection. Can you imagine what $1 billion dollars can do if invested into infrastructure? Nigeria is definitely a joke.

Tunks2017:
Are you living in jupiter or isn't it this same Nigeria you live in ..........
So all the unemployed graduates in Nig should go and buy firewood & start frying akara for a living

You are still being fed by your parents. When you stand alone and have bills to pay, you will understand. But for now, continue eating your mama's food in the kitchen. Lazy bone.

Shame on unemployed graduates who can't use their brain to think out of the box and create a job for themselves. Nigerian graduates prefer to get a white collar job that will treat them as a slave and earn just 30,000-40,000 Naira.

orisa37:
A friend can be a friend forever. You can block your line but not yourself. From now, just tell him you don't have money to give him.

I was too close with him when we were friends as neighbours in Lagos and we usually discussed our plans then. He knows my plans are being actualized and working well for me. So whenever I tell him I have no money, he doubts me.

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To say the truth, this thread was an enlightenment about Russia as a country and their way of life. Many Nigerians don't really know much about Eastern Europe unlike UK and US. Good job Tochiphotos.

Tysonkidd:
well That doesn't have nothing to do with me being being and broke.. I'm not a scammer please, I'm only begging here just to fee my stomach

You will soon die for scamming hardworking persons of their hard earned money on nairaland. Your generations shall perish in penury and become permanent beggars. For every persons on this forum you have received their money on deceit, you shall also pay it back on suffering and sickness. Fool

Good response from FCMB. Mature and simple.

mommaJ:
I am neither a wailer nor do i need a pity party. Just some1 or anybody to show kindness on a good man. He s been out of a job for far too long. A man whose utmost priority is his family and cant even provide them the bare necessities anymore and to watch that man die inside daily with just hope to keep him going. That is why i stand 4 him by doing this today.if this can get him(us)that job,i would b glad a good man finally gets his miracle. Not saying he's more deserving than the thousands of job seekers. Every1 deserves a break. No 1 deserves to go thru this situation.i believe miracles still happens. Be my Hubby's miracle. Nairalanders you owe me nothing but i plead with all,tag anyone you know who needs to see this. QUALIFICATION: MECHANICAL&PRODUCTION ENG(B.eng).
Work Experience - Worked with Egtl project (Escravos) as an insulator for a period of 2yrs And with a Marine company as a Site Engineer also did maintenance, coupling of Dredger for a 3yr period. Presently in Delta State(ready to relocate if it warrants it). Would greatly appreciate it if this makes front page.

Wasn't your husband well paid when he was working as an insulator? Why didn't he save money?

richG:
Good evening Nairalanders. This is coming from a friend and I decided to post it here for more insight.

Pls I need u people's candid advice on a situation.The story is long pls endure n read.I met a very young,beautiful and hardworking young girl in my former place of work.she used to be the office Assistant and she assisted us in running some errands then in the office.Because of her peculiar family background I took interest in her and continually encouraged her to be focused and d illigent so that with God's help she can further her education having only Waec.Even when I left that office I was in touch with her.I give her money,clothes aside countless advice.I encouraged her to always show me whoever she is dating.

Back then she was dating one Ibo boy who rides Keke. I knew that one and when they separated she told me.After I lefty dat office I heard she was dating one lawyer I called her and also advised her that the lawyer whom I know as a colleague is only interested in sleeping with her.After a while they went their separate ways. Umunnem when I gave birth this girl was there for me,she cleaned the whole house before I came back from d hospital, she comes regularly to go to mkt for me,wash clothes,dishes ...plenty things.she took me as a big sister and I took her as my younger sis.Then I asked who she was dating she said one guy n shoved it away.I practically knelt down for her n begged her to keep herself n be careful who she goes out with to avoid pregnancy.

Few months ago I stop seeing her in my house even though she now works with domino pizza.I called her severally her number was always off.Two Sundays ago I had a strange feeling concerning her. I went in search of her n lo n behold at her work place I saw her with big pregnancy.I was shocked. I invited her over to my house she came n told Me she is expecting twins two boys.she is now living with d boy who is responsible. She is eight months pregnant n has not bought any baby thing.the guy is supposedly a fashion designer but has no shop....so no money and she has no savings as she is d one catering for her aged father n bro.This girl is 21years. Her mother left her father to go n live with her man friend (a police officer)who has two wives.Now the police officer is retired n has packed to d village n asked the woman to leave.Her father lost his job n moved to d village with the girl's brother.The guy maintained the one room her parents lived in and brought her brother back to lagos and even one of her uncle's is living in that one room with them but is this girl that provides food,house rent,all bills etc. I did not shout at her but I cried knowing she has signed into suffering with the two boys in her womb.

Am still in traffic now she called me n told me the stupid boy threw her things out last night over a minor disagreement he had with his mother that she innocently put her mouth inside. She is crying and I have been begging her to stop cos of her B.p.she is asking me what she should do.she has called d boy's mum who came n d guy refused to open d door for her talk more listen to her.i have told her to go to the boy's MOTHER 's house n at least relax as she is emotionally traumatized while i think of what to do for her. pls advise me.....I want to be careful as she can give birth any moment and looking at situation of things on ground.

How come the girl was eight months pregnant and still working at Domino pizza when you visit her at workplace? You can't blame the girl with the poor decisions she is taking. She is uneducated and can't think beyond her cognitive ability.

The girl has made decisions that will continue the vicious circle of poverty in her family. And the only way to break a vicious circle of poverty is through education. As education will improve how she should think and take good decisions. Hence, she must go back to school after childbirth. Or else she will be in penury as her husband is no future ambition man and irresponsible.

hotmas911:
@ Yak, we can always learn from eachother.

An example of worthy investment is cashew
plantation. Check what
4.5million will yield in 16 years on a rental
property compared to
cashew plantation in the same period
A) Building a 3-bedroom apartment in a low-
cost area
Building cost--Approx. 4.5million naira
Average yield per year---250,000naira
Time of cost recovery----16years
Returns in 16 years----1 old apartment and
4million naira
B) Investment in Cashew
Land + cultivation------Approx. 181,000 naira per
acre
i.e. 4.5million will guarantee minimum 24 acres of cashew plantation.

***Starting from the first 4months, returns will start coming in through intercropping with short term crops like grains, vegetables or some selected tuber.***

cashew itself starts fruiting in 3years
1 acre of cashew will yield average of 600kg per
acre annually i.e.
14,400kg in 24 acres
Therefore in 16 years, it will yield 14,400kg * 13
which is 187,200kg
(approx. 187tons)
At the average price of 240,000naira per ton-----
187tons in 16 years means 44,880,000naira
So tell me a rental property of 4.5million that will
yield over
44million in 16 years i.e. over 2.8million annually
as returns.

Note: This yield is aside from the short term crops of the first two years.

Nice analysis. Keep it up. You have enlightened me.