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30k cash. And we have a deal.

ilovemylife4me:
I lost the job I was managing last year Nov. since then things has not been easy with us.
it's not been easy doing all these by myself.
please I need a job in Abuja or anywhere, if not my little boy will not be able to continue his education after Easter break.

he's just in nursery class and I need to work hard.


I have a degree and I can work anywhere pls.

And you think job is easy to get just like that without stating your qualification, school, course, grade and working experience. You think we will buy into the pity party of being a single mother. Who send you?

El rufai is a devil reincarnated. He is a power drunk leader. That was how he behaved when he was FCT minister.

Your boyfriend is a Mummy's boy. How old is he? If he can not solely take important decision such as who to marry at his mature age, then he is not man enough.

It is his responsibility to choose the girl he wants to marry while he convinces his parents to trust his choice.

Even the Bible and Quran emphasize male child as superior to female child.

Why are people calling the OP's younger brother as lazy? How do you expect a 21 years old undergraduate to hustle when there are millions of jobless graduates in Nigeria? Where is the job in Nigeria? People will just make comments as if things are rosy in Nigeria?

As regards the OP, I will advise you and your elder sisters to assist your younger brother if you have the means. If you don't have, you should visit your parents and explain the financial situation of your family to them. So, they won't put hope on you and your husband as regards training your younger brother in school.

Peace corps is not needed. It's a paramilitary founded by jobless persons. Enough of duplication of duty. We have police, DSS, civil defence, NIA, EFCC, Army, etc. Rather state police is more needed in Nigeria than Peace corps.

Nigeria don't need peace corps. Enough of duplication of duty. We have enough security and paramilitary outfits like police, civil defence, DSS, EFCC, NIA, Army, Air force, Navy, Immigration, custom etc. State police bill will also soon been passed.

Female marketers are preferred because men tend to give attention and listen to what female marketers have to sell.

Please, anyone should help me with INEC voters registration center in either Ifako ijaiye or Agege LGA in Lagos? I want to register.

Most online businesses are overrated. A lot of people invest their money into online businesses but very few people make profit out of it.

The major reason for the failure of e-commerce businesses are their business model are not profitable. And any business that can not break even, it's a matter of time it will shut down.

Most online start-up business are over hyped.

I attended Obafemi Awolowo University for my first degree. And I will support my children if they wish to attend the school. It is a reputable university in Nigeria.

What mockery of marriage did you have? Even if you were 21 years old when you got married, didn't you have elders in your family that will ensure all the right process of marriage was done? After three years of cohabiting, you are now wondering whether you are married to him or not. This is the reason why extended family is important in traditional marriage in Africa.

HiredGames:
stupid
ˈstjuːpɪd/Submit
adjective
1.
having or showing a great lack of intelligence or common sense.

Stupid is an adjective that describes someone showing a great lack of intelligence. We see people that exhibit what the above definition describes but it's seemingly rude and unacceptable to call them that.

Since we are throwing bants, I can go ahead and call you stupid for inappropriately using that word, as the child the OP is carrying isn't one until he/she is born.

If your lineage is lucky to have my level of intelligence, your family won't have perished in stupidity.

cococandy:
idiot

I’m sorry I just can’t find it in myself to be polite to people like you. My bad

I am not surprised by your abusive word. We shall know them by their abusive comments. We do not necessarily have to share the same viewpoint about life. The OP might have made a mistake of getting pregnant out of wedlock but other single sisters could learn from her experience. Adulthood comes with responsibility and the OP should resolve her maternal issue herself. As far as I am concerned, She should acknowledge her mistake, say the truth and damn whatever people say about her. With time, people will forget her issue and move on to the next gossip.

3html:
Why that? Someone is in a problem and needs advice on way forward as to save the child and you talk like a child?
Please you reason below human



Op ignore that deranged fellow he his a kid who has not faced life the other way .
Try to know the fathers genotype if you are AS but if you are not an AS don't worry about that.
Secondly get the support of your mum, women are compassionate in such and she will understand, try and meet the school owner where you teach and inform him.
Please once it has passed 3 months don't take any drugs.

Life has many faces , this difficult time will surely pass with time

Who is a kid? If you are not blind to read you will notice I replied the OP that my statement about a bastard child is general without referring to her unborn child. There is high number of babies born out of wedlock in this generation and we are setting a bad precedent for the next generation who will think it is right. Some women are even celebrated to be a babymama by society. Thereby, denying the child the priviledge of growing up in a proper family.

Audu Ogbeh is an old fool. He is a political jobber who has nothing to offer.

tolusan:
Sad. With respect, you lack basic social etiquette. I would wager a bet that you, or someone very dear to you was born out of wedlock. So before you come out here to call an innocent child a bastard, deal with the ones around you! Your idiocy us suffocating me. I'm outta here.

You are a fool. There is no bastard in my family because we are old-fashioned. If you have it in your family, you shouldn't assume it's normal to every families. We follow scriptural principles rather than worldly principles. Whether you like it or not, the truth shall prevail. A child born out of wedlock is a bastard. If you don't like it, it's none of my business.

Ishilove:
The person who said those calling the lady's child a bastard are 'stupid' is suffering from the effects of sub zero intellect. When you call a spade by what it truly is, these 21st century village idiots with access to internet technology get defensive and start typing the first gibberish that plays through their hydrocephalic heads.

Thank you for your comment. This generation don't want to hear the truth. When you say the truth, you are seen as old-fashioned.

BaBysmaMa:
I'd really appreciate if you don't refer to my child as a bastard. I find that word offensive. The proprietress is a very nice woman but it's my pupils I'm worried about. They're very observant. There's this colleague that likes me. One day they were like, Miss.... we'll get you a wedding dress so you and Mr... can get married. I don't want to show them that it's okay to have a child when you're not married. If I was working somewhere else I wouldn't even bother asking this question.

I was not referring to your unborn child as a bastard. My statement was general.

Beremx:
don't quit your job except you are sacked. It would be wicked for your employer to sack you because you got pregnant out of wedlock. The lord is your strength.

The school proprietor could be right to sack her for getting pregnant out of wedlock. A teacher is expected to be a role model to pupils. I can not allow my children to be taught by a teacher that got pregnant out of wedlock because it is a bad example of morality. A child born out of wedlock is a bastard.

Northern Nigeria is a problem to this country. You can't even differentiate Hausas, Chadians and Malians in appearance and way of life. They are all same.

Doesn't the university has sitting Senate to scrutinize the appointment of Vice Chancellor of the university? This can only happen in a mushroom university.

What do you expect? Owerri is dominated by hotels and bars. IMSU and Nekede polytechnic students are majorly run girls.

This deal is a sign of new dawn in merger and acquisition of two indigenous companies in Nigeria. It should serve as an example to young entrepreneurs that partnership is better than sole ownership .

BaBysmaMa:
I'm unmarried and I recently discovered that I'm pregnant. I've always been careful but I guess contraceptives aren't always 100%. The thing is, I am embarrassed. I work with little children. What kind of example am I setting for them? I was thinking of quitting my job when I begin to show. I've got some money saved. I'll go back to work in a different school after the child is born. The child's father is out of the question. You get to know people's character when you're faced with a challenge. I need advice. Should I quit my job or not?

P.S. No insults please... I just need advice.

Have you discussed with the man responsible for your pregnancy with regards quitting your job? So that he can take care of you till you deliver the baby and start work again. You need to carry him along in your plans because raising a child singlehandedly is not easy or else you may be overwhelmed. I don't wish you become a single mother. It's a lonely and cold life.

Buhari is a coded thief. He will secretly loot the $1 billion dollars to finance his reelection. Can you imagine what $1 billion dollars can do if invested into infrastructure? Nigeria is definitely a joke.