Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Spotted With Lai Mohammed In An Aeroplane by eemjay(f): 4:32pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Jayie Oluwakemi Kuti: "I Have Lost Count Of Men Who Wants Me" by eemjay(f): 11:48pm On May 24, 2017 |
adedayoa2: O.P which one is 'you know Yoruba ladies now'? I wonder ooo. A derogatory remark. |
Family › Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by eemjay(f): 1:49am On May 01, 2017 |
Dhayor001: 1. Never yell.
2. Don't call names or use insults
3 Never make statements that you cant back up sooner or later
Obviously you have made a big mistake here. And until you have undeniable proof, I suggest you call your wife and apologise sincerely.
What she said about a Mouth Action and the stylish hanging up may be ploys to get you worked up and raise the money for her, or they may be true that she's cheating. As you have no proof of either, you have to be the man and eat the humble pie.
As for her not wanting orgasms, bros na your wife o. However hard she might act, there are moves you make that (you know) drives her mad. Do them unexpectedly, not too much, just enough to get her excited and see if she will not give herself to you fully.
If she says she wants to leave, bro, the answer is no. Our generation should not be the one that throws things away because it is broken, we ought to mend them and make them work. Our parents did it, we can too. No be say na by force but divorce never makes things easy. Me and that woman will lock ourselves in a room for a week and work things out.
If she has cheated on you (and she confesses) and you are willing to forgive, good. If not, however, let that be the basis of you guys separating and not just cause of some money issues or emotional trauma.
If you must part ways, please the less the noise made and dust raised, the better.
Above all, be calm and meditate. Pray, it works!
Cheers. Good one! |
Family › Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by eemjay(f): 1:44am On May 01, 2017 |
adam500hr: Was not blind, met within 3 wks, got pregnant, told my parents i cant marry her cos i dont know her well, sbut they said in order to avoid shame for her family cos her pops was a pastor and that i woudnt want the same fate to become of my own daughter, that i'll just have to marry her. Thats where the story of my life began. Here, you sound like you never loved her, & didn't try to all this time you've been married. |
Culture › Re: Oba Of Lagos Should Learn This From Alaafin Of Oyo(photo). by eemjay(f): 3:12pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
olapluto: What is 'Oba' Akiolu? He is an ordinary Baale in Yoruba monarchial ranking. Something like a colonel, while Oba Adewusi is like Commander in chief. Akiolu too small for what he did. This thing that every Baale is becoming king is a cause for disrespect. Alaafin, Ataoja, Alake, even Olubadan are all higher ranked kings than Eleko of Eko land. Including soun of ogbomoso. Lol |
Events › Re: Nigerian Bride Poses With Old Bicycle On Her Traditional Wedding Day by eemjay(f): 6:04pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
Beautiful bride. God bless your home. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Tom Samson And His Hummer Limousine Spotted In Lagos by eemjay(f): 4:09pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
Why the foot mat abi carpet? Won't he step on the ground? |
Food › Re: How To Make Coconut Fufu With Desiccated Coconut (chaff) by eemjay(f): 4:06pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
Interesting! Looks nice though. Pls share procedure for cold pressed coconut oil. Thanks |
Celebrities › Re: Debie-Rise Profile: 8 Interesting Facts About The BBNaija Housemate by eemjay(f): 1:05am On Apr 05, 2017 |
Thank you op. Queen Debie-Rise for the N25M. Keep the votes coming people. God bless you. #RisersNation |
Celebrities › Re: BBNaija: Bassey Celebrates His 28th Birthday Today (Photos) by eemjay(f): 12:27am On Apr 03, 2017 |
Happy birthday Bassey. But when will you start campaigning for Debie-Rise? |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Bally Evicted From Big Brother Naija by eemjay(f): 12:24am On Apr 03, 2017 |
2kass: This is bloody Ojoro.... No one can tell me that there ain't corruption in this show.
Deloitte should be probed.
Ebuka should be summoned by the Senate!!!
We will not take this.
#Teamdebbierise
BB Naija Na Tboss fan
Nonsense #RisersNation. Abeg na single b in Debie-Rise. |
TV/Movies › Re: Efe Was Drunk: Will It Make Him Not To Win BBNaija? by eemjay(f): 1:36pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Katier00: then let's give it to the woman who deserves it. Debbie rise So there are many lovers of Debie-Rise here. Wow! |
TV/Movies › Re: Efe Was Drunk: Will It Make Him Not To Win BBNaija? by eemjay(f): 1:35pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
nnamdiokere45: dis one cant mke him lose na,its still part of the entertainment but debie rise all the way Yes ooo! Debie-Rise all the way. |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: Tboss, Debbie-rise, Bally And Marvis Nominated For Eviction by eemjay(f): 12:34am On Mar 28, 2017 |
Pls help keep Debie-Rise in the game. Let's keep the votes coming. Thank you. |
Celebrities › Re: Sexiest Nollywood Actors In 2017 (Photos) by eemjay(f): 11:32pm On Mar 17, 2017 |
Some hot dudes. So loving no8, 5 & 1. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNAIJA Housemate Debie-Rise's Music Video Titled 'Winner' by eemjay(f): 1:57am On Mar 17, 2017 |
DBlackCeazer: E no sweet! Bad belle spotted! Good people pls keep the votes coming. |
Celebrities › Re: Peter Okoye Signs DJ Switch To His Record Label by eemjay(f): 11:53pm On Mar 13, 2017 |
Correct! She's dope. |
Investment › Re: Get Help Worldwide Is In Its Last Days. Beware!!! by eemjay(f): 4:18pm On Mar 01, 2017 |
Op let people do whatever they like with their money. Besides it's people like you that create panic which eventually leads to the collapse of such system. |
Family › Re: Pls Help, My Mum Is Suffering From Megalomania And Am Begining To Hate Her. by eemjay(f): 1:03am On Feb 21, 2017 |
Enjoy all the time you still have with her. I'll give anything to have my Mum back. I miss her everyday it hurts. Try within your means to please her. If it's the android fone she wants, get her one. And stop using the word hate. Regards to her. |
Celebrities › Re: "I Have Never Wanted To Be Married" - Funmi Iyanda Says. Nigerians React by eemjay(f): 1:06am On Jan 19, 2017 |
Ask4Info: NOW LET ME EDUCATE YOU ALL THAT WANT TO INSULT HER AND ALSO REALITY ABOUT MARRIAGE.
* Marriage isn't for everyone. Yes! you read right. Not everyone is meant to marry. So many people want to be FREE, So many people have low level of tolerance, so many people are damn scared and impatient to be tied down by a partner or child. Not everyone want to be responsible for someone else. So many people prefer to be as FREE as birds in the sky.
* Not everyone who desires marriage will have the opportunity to get married. Don't get confused i will explain what i mean. There are approximately 7.4billion people now on Earth. In the real sense of people between age 1- age 40, we now have a ratio of 7 women to 1 man. Meaning for every single guy of that age range there are 7 women to a guy. Now aside Islam that ssupports polygamy, the almost other 4,300 religions on Earth are against it. Also polygamy is going extinct from most Africa traditions. The question now is, if a man marries one lady, who will marry the remaining 6?
* The Economy today all over the world Favours the females. As an HR Consultant, for every guy that gets a job, we allocate same job to 3 or more females (onces the job of work is not gender sensitive). You all know why? Quote me if you want to know the reason and i will tell you. Look at all the Telecoms company, Banks, Insurance, and other top companies you will see females dorminate them. Men only handle technical and heavy duty workload. Now when a woman gets and retains a job over 5years or more, and a guy can barely have or even retain a job for 2years, who financially now becomes more ready for marriage?
The society has painted a wrong notion into the minds of many that once you aren't married either being a man or a woman you are a failure. Whereas most married couples today are more miserable than single folks and regret every day they made that decision to get married.
Thank you! |
Food › Re: A Nairalander Catches Snake Fish In Niger Delta - Pics by eemjay(f): 2:36am On Jan 12, 2017 |
Known as EEL |
Romance › Re: Map Reading! Lost Couple Look For Way Out In Lovely Pre-wedding Photos by eemjay(f): 2:33am On Jan 12, 2017 |
Awww! So lovely. God bless their marriage. |
Celebrities › Re: Pretty Mike Chains 2 Girls, Steps Out With Them (pics/vid) by eemjay(f): 10:31pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
This is so wrong on so many levels. But seriously, can't he be arrested for subjecting these ladies to such? |
Family › Re: Nigerian Woman Who Many Called Barren Gives Birth At 40 Years Old (photos) by eemjay(f): 11:16pm On Jan 06, 2017 |
sheedy407: May all those who thinks we wont succeed this year read our success story AMEN |
Travel › Re: Nairalanders Visit Araromi Seaside In Ondo, The Largest Coastline In West Africa by eemjay(f): 3:19pm On Jan 01, 2017 |
Wow! Beautiful & very neat. So there's something fantastic like this just nearby & I was busy thinking of going to Zanzibar. I'm storming Ondo State soon. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Merry Christmas to everybody in Nigeria. by eemjay(f): 12:18am On Dec 25, 2016 |
MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE! |
Politics › Re: Fayose, Aregbesola And Atiku Spotted In Abuja by eemjay(f): 12:32am On Nov 11, 2016 |
modath: OP, God is watching you!!! 
See headline, like they were found in a dark spot in a corner alley chanting... can't people run into one another & be cordial &warm to each other?
More than 50% of this country's problem is a direct consequence of how events (innocuous or deliberate) are "reported.. So true. |
Sports › Re: 8 Highest Paid Nigerian Footballers by eemjay(f): 12:29am On Nov 11, 2016 |
veekid:
Obafemi Martins earns [size=17pt] 125000 US dollars = 39343750.0000 Nigerian nairas[/size] and someone somewhere was telling me football aint legal, official money ritual N39million in a week? Omg! |
Celebrities › Re: Davido's Daughter Imade Rides Her Little Wrangler Jeep Inside Their Mansion(pic) by eemjay(f): 4:28pm On Nov 09, 2016 |
drnairalov: na wetin I dey think so...doesn't look like the daughter Yeah, that's not her. OP is confused. Lol |
Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin Opens Restaurant For Lilian Esoro, His Wife (Photos) by eemjay(f): 3:49pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Wow! Really nice. |
Romance › Re: Two Nairalanders Set To Wed! See Their Pre-wedding Pix. by eemjay(f): 11:35pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
fanacy: Today is my birthday guys... Show me some love  My son's 1st birthday too. May God bless & keep all celebrating today. Happy birthday. God bless your new age. Happy birthday to my booboo. Mummy loves you loads. Thanks for coming into my world. You're blessed in Jesus name. Cute couple alert. Lovely! |
Family › Re: Do You Think Married Women Should Tender Their Salaries To Their Husbands? by eemjay(f): 11:42pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
HungerBAD: Interesting.
It is important to note that every family is different,and so one can not authoritatively say this is how it should be.
There are husbands that beat their wives up,others don't. There are husbands that cook at home,and others will not go near the kitchen,and there are husbands that will demand to know how much their wives earn and others won't.
The truth is,if a man is doing well in life,he will be less concerned with what the woman makes,even if she is the President of a Nation. Well said! |