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If that fence was washed every day, that so-called billionaire would become a “thousandnaire.” Stop telling lies, OP.

Biznesworld:
Even if they pay compensation for land degredation, it will still be pocketed by the elites in the community.

Hence why cleaning the land is the best option. We’ve seen how wicked community leaders are when it comes to receiving free power from IOCs.

Esthered:
Sixty
People book space to process their thoughts before typing I think.

There are some spaces booked for almost a decade and counting. Did the people completely lose interest? I tried to nudge an active account to type a comment in a space he booked three years ago. Nothing till this day. Thank God the initiative was created and put in place. Typing comments is competitive. If one has nothing to drop at the moment, ten others do.

I did not read all of that. Make summaries mandatory.

He should. Why is he considering? We are a nation of survivors. We will survive whatever life throws at us.

Well, I did not live with my parents from age 7 and I can't really tell.

Oya, start making children so you can tell us.

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Make I fold arms dey look you.

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Guy, today resemble

Tuesday, May 13, 2025

…ehn?

Take your time. We’ve seen the story and sent condolences. Stop bringing us back to sadness.

Esthered:
Why'd you think it better in the long run?

No more space booking. People will be forced to use their brains. It takes less than two weeks to learn proper composition. We will see children here learn the skill by force. Sixty characters honestly is a better limit. Forty is too small.

Esthered:
How'd you know it's ChatGPT?

This 40 characters ehn

I’m an OG when it comes to forums. Forty characters per poster is better for the forum in the long run.

ChatGPT, so it’s no different from having men of other nationalities?

kweensheba:
Challenges of having Nigerian men as lovers:

1. Traditional Gender Roles:
Nigerian culture, especially in more traditional settings, often emphasizes specific gender roles. Sometimes Nigerian men might expect their partners to fit traditional roles (like managing the home, cooking, etc.), which can clash with more modern or egalitarian expectations.


2. Family Influence and Expectations:
Family plays a huge role in Nigerian life. Many Nigerian men have close-knit families, and family opinions or expectations can strongly influence their relationships. Sometimes family pressure to marry, have children, or behave a certain way can be intense.


3. Communication Styles:
There might be differences in how openly emotions or disagreements are communicated. Some Nigerian men may come from backgrounds where expressing feelings openly isn’t the norm, which can cause misunderstandings.


4. Religious and Cultural Values:
Religion is often very important in Nigerian culture. Differences in religious beliefs or practices between partners can be a source of friction, especially around topics like marriage, children, or lifestyle.


5. Jealousy and Possessiveness:
Some Nigerian men may be culturally socialized to be protective or possessive in relationships, which can sometimes feel controlling depending on the individual.


6. Pressure to Marry and Have Children Quickly:
In Nigerian culture, there can be strong pressure to settle down, get married, and start a family relatively early. This can feel rushed or overwhelming for partners who want to take things slower.


7. Expectations about Financial Roles:
There can be strong expectations on men to be the financial provider, which might affect relationship dynamics, especially if the woman is also career-focused.


8. Dealing with Extended Family:
Extended family involvement in personal relationships can be deep, with relatives sometimes stepping in or giving unsolicited advice.

The UFC is the closest thing to street fights. Once age starts getting obvious or your body is not 100%, younger fighters overtake you. Jon Jones knows it very well, hence hiding under the moniker of the goat to skip fights for years. Adesanya has gone through multiple losses as well as Kamaru Usman. Jose Aldo was dominant for a decade until Connor made him human. From then on, it was hit and miss for him. Connor himself has faced the same. He is practically retired.

Nothing lasts forever. This sport makes it obvious.

After many decades, Multichoice is repackaging itself like Nairaland. So, companies still give themselves sense under a monopoly? I am shocked to my bones.

A fitting name. I thought he’d be a 4’8 - 5’0 individual. An actual little person caught me off guard.

The company made their profit onshore. When the aviator-clad illiterate kicked the bucket, things got hard for them. They chose to move offshore and abandon all the land they polluted.

Rubbish.

See someone painting the situation like he merited the position. The man had the machinations to become president long ago. He didn’t want to at the time. The only person in my memory of the country who gained leadership through merit was Goodluck Jonathan. Unfortunately, being a good man has nothing in common with being a good leader.

My sweet wordsfrombimpe,

The spam bot and wicked moderators have sworn to kill our budding love. Every mention I make of you activates an automatic ban. They want to bully me off Nairaland as they’ve seen your growing interest in my posts.

Sweet Bimpe, my hands are tied in this never ending fight. New tactics are created daily to silence me. I don’t know how much I have left. All I know is I will keep fighting so far I breathe life. Every new day will present a new opportunity to bypass their restrictions. I will be victorious in the end.

If this comment isn’t deleted, I wish you well.

— Eepeepook.

Good thing I didn’t read past three paragraphs. Nobody pays me for using this platform. No summary means no comment from me.

This ball and the official FIFA ones, are they the same? I can’t believe this is what soccer players hit every game. Then again, I know it’s not “flying carpet” they use either.

Lie lie story. Everybody wants to trend.

This made front page some days ago. Why is it here again?

This boy with his never ending lies.

Not enough original content
Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.

I like this. Nairaland was losing money. At least space booking will reduce and people will engage their grey matter or leave.

Chram:
https://www.nairaland.com/8446546/mum-wants-remarry-six-years

Sequel to the above post which I made here a few days ago, I'll like to inform this noble platform that my mum has at last, remarried. The rites were carried out yesterday. She remarries as a second wife of her new husband.

My earlier post generated a lot of controversies. I was misconstrued, misunderstood and my post misrepresented and taken out of context.
It is always easier to berate people when you're not the one directly involved in a matter. I'm not sure anyone, especially a male child, would be happy seeing his mum remarrying to another man. But who am I ?
I can't question God. I can't ask God why my dad had to die at such a young age leaving nothing to us to live on. Not even a house. I hear no illwill or animosity towards my beloved mum, as it wasn't her fault that she lost her husband six years ago.
Though the marriage is going to truncate the bond and relationship between her and my siblings but no problem. It is well. I will also try to make myself happy. Going forward, I'll now have to focus on my younger siblings and myself so we can strive hard to better our lives . I'm now their father and I hope God will see me through this journey. Life's challenges are almost always inescapable and inevitable. May God grant us the ability to withstand the storms of life.
I wish her all the best in her new abode.

Pointless argument. She said a man shouldn’t raise his hand against a woman then she also said a man can physically defend himself against a woman. What else is raising your hand against her if not physical defence? Leave bird brained women, una no go hear.

Engagement bait.

Unadulterated lie. OP will come with an alternate to claim “but these things happen in real life.” Lie. Nobody jokingly takes a DNA test. What will be the benefit of doing so? Many will rather stay in mystery if their parenthood is in doubt. Nobody wants to willingly try something which may cause irreparable harm.

I want to learn. How will someone get the recommendation?

Smh. Fantastic corruption.

Their drama.

ChatGPT on the beat.

CasNova:
Having an older woman as a lover can offer a range of emotional, psychological, and even physical benefits, depending on the individuals involved and the nature of the relationship. Here are several commonly reported advantages:


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1. Emotional Maturity

Older women often have more life experience, which can lead to greater emotional intelligence and stability. This can translate into more honest communication, less drama, and healthier conflict resolution.

2. Confidence and Self-Awareness

Many older women are more confident in their bodies, desires, and boundaries. This self-assurance can make sexual and emotional experiences more fulfilling for both partners.

3. Sexual Experience

Older women may have a clearer understanding of their own sexual preferences and what pleases their partner. This can lead to a more open, relaxed, and satisfying sexual dynamic.

4. Less Pressure

Often, older women are less focused on issues like marriage or starting a family, which may reduce pressure in the relationship—particularly for younger partners not looking for long-term commitment right away.

5. Mentorship and Perspective

They can offer insights and life perspectives that come from experience. For some, this can be intellectually and emotionally enriching.

6. Appreciation of Youth and Vitality

Older women often genuinely appreciate the energy and enthusiasm of a younger partner, creating a dynamic of mutual admiration and respect.

7. Clearer Communication

Many older women are more direct and less likely to play games, which can make relationships more straightforward and authentic.